the female player, how to

[Wyldfire]

Wyldfire, while I agree with some of what you say and yes there are women players out there and some of them are very good, in my experience however, most are pretenders (just like most men).

As for players getting played easy, I'm going to have to disagree with this one. Of course, we may have a different definition of player. I've been called that many times and I won't hesitate one moment to walk away from a woman that I think is f***ing with me. Trust me, I don't get played easily. In fact, I was only played once and that was a long long time ago in my AFC days.

Fed

Why? Because I know I deserve better, and I would rather be alone than be with someone who won't respect me or plays games in any way.

You basically have three general types of female "players"...the ones that are out to use/play men for material or monetary gain, the ones who are playing to hook a husband and the ones who don't really set out to or attempt to "play" anyone and don't use their natural talents/skills to hurt anyone. I fall into the last category. Even though I realize that I could really crush a guy's confidence, ego and spirit...I don't take any pleasure in doing people that way. I use my abilities to weed out anyone attempting to play/use me (some guys who play aren't out to hurt anyone...and I can spot the various types quickly) and I use the abilities for the benefit of my relationships. I did have relationships with 2 different players and both of them fell for me hard...but I loved them both, too and never hurt them. They didn't hurt me either.

Female players are only bad news if they are only out to use you for material or financial gain. If it's a solid LTR you're looking for and you do want marriage...a female player playing for "keeps" is as loyal and devoted as they come...IF you can steal her heart. If you get her heart she will make you happy for the long haul...but you can't do her wrong...you have to be just as devoted and loyal. The ones like myself are much harder to get a commitment from...but we're essentially the same as the ones playing for a husband...we just would rather do without the husband part, lol.

The bad female players are easy to spot...they will not directly ask you for a gift or money...but they will spend a lot of time mentioning things they don't have but need or want while they've got you feeling great. It will seem like it's all your idea but they were really getting you all high on feeling happy and put ideas in your cloudy noggin. Those gals are evil and should be avoided at all costs.

 

[Wyldfire]

slap her b1tch ass wit yo ****. then knock them gamn games out of her wit yo strongest pimphand you ever gave a b1tch.
if you do it right that will bring her to her b1tch knees and force her to give u some sweetass head.

You're a troll who is posting the same exact thing on every thread.

Where's the bug spray, anyhow?

 

[Bigfatasspimp]

You're a troll who is posting the same exact thing on every thread.

Where's the bug spray, anyhow?

you a b1tch that dont know sh1t!

where's that hand anyhow?

oh, here it is...


*SLAP!!*

 

[rrrrr]

you a b1tch that dont know sh1t!

where's that hand anyhow?

oh, here it is...


*SLAP!!*

Either this is a comedy routine for you, or you are the biggest dumbass on this board.

 

[Wyldfire]

you a b1tch that dont know sh1t!

where's that hand anyhow?

oh, here it is...


*SLAP!!*

By the time you got your bony little troll hand out of your pants from feverishly masturbating at the sight of a female on this forum (probably the closest contact you've ever had)...I was already on another thread.

You missed...now wipe the jism of your pimply upper lip and go back to watching gay porn.

That is all...

 

[rrrrr]

bigassfatpimp, what are your views on sleeping and falling in love with your hos? Is it a good idea?

 

[Last Man Standing]

bigassfatpimp, what are your views on sleeping and falling in love with your hos? Is it a good idea?

you neither sleep nor fall in love with a hor -- you put your penis in them -- that is what hors want!!! Pimp hors - Love women!!!

 

[rrrrr]

Wyldfire, you forgot the female players who are after nothing but attention. Sometimes I think attention is like sex to a woman. I experienced this first hand at my work, a female player fooled me into thinking she was into me, everybody in our department thought she was into me, and we were some great couple, good match, looked together, etc. Only when she put no effort into anything or was not willing to actually see me outside of work did I realize this... with the help of this board. I never experienced girls who just liked attention before. To this day, she continues to try and manipulate me, "breaks up with me" etc. She'll try to manipulate to get me to spend time with her (at work), but I know what she's all about.

 

[Wyldfire]

Wyldfire, you forgot the female players who are after nothing but attention. Sometimes I think attention is like sex to a woman. I experienced this first hand at my work, a female player fooled me into thinking she was into me, everybody in our department thought she was into me, and we were some great couple, good match, looked together, etc. Only when she put no effort into anything or was not willing to actually see me outside of work did I realize this... with the help of this board. I never experienced girls who just liked attention before. To this day, she continues to try and manipulate me, "breaks up with me" etc. She'll try to manipulate to get me to spend time with her (at work), but I know what she's all about.

I left them out because most of them fall into the first category...plus you guys already talk about and warn each other of AWs, so it wasn't really necessary. But yes...some female players are only out for attention...but very few attention seekers are actually female players.

 

[Bigfatasspimp]

bigassfatpimp, what are your views on sleeping and falling in love with your hos? Is it a good idea?

You sleep wit yo hoes, but u dont fall in love wit them.
cuz once u feed them they dont go away.

 

[Wyldfire]

cuz once u feed them they dont go away.

The same could be said of trolls...

 

[wolf116]

Wildfire,
please give us a truthful example of when you acted like a player. Although I don't see why you would need to play if you are the hottest chick around.
If you were an ugly skank and got the football caption as you bf, then I'd say you had game. But hot chicks don't have game, they just have tits and a$$.

Not a story of how you turned down your so called player(AFC) please.

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

man don't sit their and think your playing cat and mouse with her. Most likely she is a few steps ahead of you. Cut that bish loosssse.

 

[Obsidian]

female player means a girl who teases men with her sexuality and plays guys for other goods, such as attention, expensive gifts, "friendship," etc

and I think i agree with wolf; being a female player isn't very complex

In my view, female players aren't actually very desirable at all. Once I realize that a girl is an attention-wh0re with every guy she comes across, I usually lose respect for her.

 

[BlackJackal]

female player means a girl who teases men with her sexuality and plays guys for other goods, such as attention, expensive gifts, "friendship," etc

and I think i agree with wolf; being a female player isn't very complex

In my view, female players aren't actually very desirable at all. Once I realize that a girl is an attention-wh0re with every guy she comes across, I usually lose respect for her.

In the end, it all comes down to recognizing game in the first place. Better yet, just assume everyone is playing the game from the jump. Whether they're doing it intentionally or not.

It's not hard to avoid a gold digger. I'm cheap anyway and I dont even date (or ever had to) to get ass so thats nothin. I say the AW is worse cause she can waste alot of your time if you let her. In the end it all comes down to you. A female player cant really do **** if you dont let'em. Women WILL tell you anything to hype you up. Wyldfire aint lyin.

Even the women in my family taught me that. So the problem is simple, stop trustin words.

 

[fedagent]

You aren't kidding about AW's.....

I have found them difficult to game because you feed right into them by even trying to do it. That doesn't mean they are better than the DJ, I just haven't learned the skillset yet to kill their game and create the attraction.

I truly wonder if anyone has ever had no trouble F-closing an AW.....

Fed

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

All a woman has to do to be a "player" is to be attractive.

 

[BlackJackal]

You aren't kidding about AW's.....

I have found them difficult to game because you feed right into them by even trying to do it. That doesn't mean they are better than the DJ, I just haven't learned the skillset yet to kill their game and create the attraction.

I truly wonder if anyone has ever had no trouble F-closing an AW.....

Fed

All women are AW to a certain degree. That just comes with the territory when dealin with a woman. I judge a woman by how much she gives back. If I feel that...no scratch that..if I KNOW I'm givin more than I'm gettin, then it's time to stop and move on. The worse thing any woman can do to me (or people in general for that matter) is waste my time.

I had a babe like that. All on my jock, but when I tried to get some "business" with us goin, she would bull****. So I dropped her like a bad habit. Then she had the nerve to call me months later, askin if I missed her. Shocked that I told her no. I asked her what am I missin out on? I told her staight up, the next time you call my house, you better be half naked at my front door ready to get ****ed, otherwise dont call. Believe me I said that as calm as I can say it..lol.

That was this past november. She never bothered me again. Thats how you close an AW.

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Female Players are easy.

Insult them, tell them they are unattractive, game another girl right in front of them, laugh when they try to talk to you, move away from them when they try to get close ... Rinse, repeat as necessary ...

... then after you sense an almost uncontrollable desperation to get in your face, you push them up against the wall and plant a long wet one on them. Then you walk away.

... Later she will come after you again with the same uncontrollable desperation and you relent and say "okay if you want me that badly, (pause) man you just don't stop do you, (look around the room) okay let's get out of here then." Go to HER place (not yours) and leave as soon as you can after the deal.

 

[BlackJackal]

What a hassle, dude. If that's what it takes to bang an AW, then I'd just as soon stick with the normal, well-adjusted women.

Exactly. Most I'd do with a woman like that is give her my number and tell her, call me when you ready to bone. It does not take all that to get some ass. Seriously.