Wyldfire said:
There are always exceptions...but generally, no...women don't typically have the goal of having casual sex. Younger girls who have casual sex mistakenly believe that the quickest way to obtain love is to spread their legs.
Female players are very smart women. They are very easy for a man to want but very difficult for him to catch. They are elusive and evasive but extremely appealing and desirable. They don't cling or smother a guy...which tends to make him crave her more.
When she is with you she will make you feel amazing and you will associate those feelings with her, because she knows how to make you feel like no other woman has. She can make a man fall head over heels in love with her in short order...and you won't even notice that she is leading the relationship and you won't be able to follow any of the rules you learned here because they don't work on her because she is better at the game than you are.
IF you manage to win her love...she will make you happier than you could ever imagine being. If you don't win her love and do something to really turn her off she will be gone as quickly as she appeared without looking back.
Female players are fascinating to men...addictive, challenging and can bring the most talented of male players to his knees.
Right on. I think most of us have been had by one, it's rarely a good experience after the fact.
I try to avoid these girls. Unless you want a serious challenge, it's just not worth it. I simply never had enough game to compete with them and learned early on to avoid trying to chase them or whatever.
Sometimes these girls are actually pretty interesting to just hang around anyway. Good social approval, if you can get it to a "friends" level.
In my opinion, for whatever it's worth, the best way to get to them is to "lose"/supress sexual interest. Use the LJBF on her, or tell her that you think she is trouble so any sexual/romantic feelings gotta stay out of it. Realistically, unless there is something else connecting you two besides the game playing, it will just end right there.
Contrary to the belief, these girls do not sleep around and are very picky. They make sure the guy is damn worth it to them before they open their legs. Often they need to be in full control of the relationship so if you are the same way, the relationship will be filled with arguments & battles (been there). Now maybe that satisfies the woman's need for drama but imagine being the guy in that situation. Headaches upon headaches.
This one girl I remember from a few years ago, she had her BF chase her for 6 months. The guy did not date or sleep with another girl that whole time. He was in her social circle, so it would have gotten out if he had. And he was a party promoter who did quite well for himself, so it's not like there was shortage of hoochies throwing themselves at him.
I nexted her when I saw her trying to play me in the same way and get me to do the same and become the fall guy. I saw quickly that there was no winning for me, not under the circumstances.
As Wyldfire said, she was very smart(for a woman), fascinating, very desirable and very appealing. She was quality, no doubt about that, and I did have some real respect for her. I would actually have considered being just friends with her, but the game playing already went past that. Basically, I started to believe she was trouble and I try to avoid trouble.
