The ERECTION PROBLEMS thread

The Irish Tongue

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I understand the whole idea of thinking about the sensations but that just puts the "i gotta get hard and i'm not yet, WTF is going on" idea in your head.
See, you're still equating being hard with feeling sensation. I tried to say that you don't need to be hard to enjoy the feeling of a mouth. Just concentrate on the subtle sensations of skin on skin.

The reason I suggested 69 is because it gives you something to stare at and play with (thus distracting you) while she is working on you. They key is to not think about geting or being hard and allow yourself to get turned on.

Maybe you need something extra to get the blood flowing. Some guys need to be put in diapers and spanked to get hard, some need to peed on. I doubt what you need is that crazy, but take a good look at what really turns you on.
 

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i suffered a similar problem as well. While pulling off no worries, but when its time to perform with a girl, ill get all nervous from not performing. I always had in my head, stay up, dont go down. Yes its a mental thing but sometimes also physical.

Try some horny goat weat, seems to help alot. Its like viagra :)
 

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The ultimate cure?

theres this lube that guarentees hardness and more in about 90 seconds. Has anyone tried this? It's called VigRX Oil and you can find it at

vigoil.com
 

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I know i was gonna say something....what was it. Oh...BUMP
 

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Sorry to bump this thread from so far back, but I have a similar problem. For the past week or so, during foreplay, I would get a raging boner, and then in mere seconds lose it. Then, after a few moments, I would get it again. For no apparent reason, too! Like, she was reading description from the lubricant bottle, and I got hard. Now, this erection problem IS new to me. As long as a month ago, I held my erection record of 7 hours straight. We didnt have sex, but we had a lot of foreplay. I even retained it when we took breaks for food or bathroom!

Well, I discussed my new problem with her, and she says it's all in the head. I foud that thinking about staying hard makes you go soft. I dont think its a matter of nervousness. The sex was very spontaneous. We didnt plan anything at all.

I didnt masturbate for 5 days prior to that, hoping that it would increase my erection time.

Now, I am on a holiday, so i don't work out as usual. Also, I started eating all kinds of junk food, since its Christmas/New year time. Could that be the problem? Also, I find I don't drink enough water. Can dehydration cause erectile disfynctions? (harsh term)

I just turned 17 yesterday. I try to eat healthy, but as I said, I deviated from it about a week ago, which is when all this started. Also, lack of exercise = lack of testosterone. That could have an effect. How bout dehydration?

What do you guys think? Any advices? Im feeling pretty bad about all this, so any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks!
 

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I was just having the same problems...
I've jerked off for like 3 years, almost everyday...
and now im dating this chick and i was almost on her "crouch"(dun know how to write that) with both hands and my d*ck slowly started to get hard, but just like 10% out of 100% possible...

i guess i should stop watching porn... and not to worry so much getting it hard ...

dudes, stop masturbating, thats the way
 
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G*D Damned MoFo'in erection problems have gotten me too. It's like the movie Tin Cup, "I got the shanks!"

Thanks for the comments DJ'ers, I think the problem is in my head!

I'm hooking up with a girlie tonight and my mission is not to think about my erection once. I don't give a damn what happens, I just am going to focus on the feeling, enjoy the moment and let nature take it's course.

I'll update you guys tomorrow and let you know if it worked, until then no thinking about getting hard!
 

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Think warm apple pie :D
 

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I did.....and it WORKED!

Thank God, just stopped thinking about it and focused on her and the feeling. Ended up knocking the hell outta her (and me too)! Wonderful advice DJ!!!
 

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Just one suggestion:

try lifting some heavy ass weights

-- AGGGGH!

and not having a **** for a while is educational
 

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I kinda have the opposite problem, where i can have sex for hours without ejaculating. Somtimes i just won't be able to ejaculate while I'm having sex, and I have to just stop because I'm tired or the girl is wondering what's going on. Im kinda getting annoyed about this and am wondering if anyone else has had this problem?
 

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^^ I have that 'problem' - if you can call it that :p ' after a couple of drinks.

don't know how to solve it though :(
 

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try starting slow, and concentrate on the sensation coming from your unit, and then gradually speed up
 

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Originally posted by teedo
I kinda have the opposite problem, where i can have sex for hours without ejaculating. Somtimes i just won't be able to ejaculate while I'm having sex, and I have to just stop because I'm tired or the girl is wondering what's going on. Im kinda getting annoyed about this and am wondering if anyone else has had this problem?
brother.. been through that.. and kinda still in it..

i'd had about 10 one night stands, and blown only once in a one night stand.
i had a girlfriend for 8 months. for about the first 3 months, i didn't blow once.
then suddenly.... BANG i blew. then we had sex like 20 mins later. BANG! i blew again! problem solved...... until she stopped putting out so often, and i started wanking more often... now i broke up with her, i've had 5 more one night stands, no where near blowing any of the time..

my sensitivity issue.. i have foreskin.. i love wanking.. 1-3 times a day is pretty normal for me.. when i sleep, i sleep nude and cause i'm hard while i sleep, the skin roles back and by knob is rubbing all over the sheets all night, losing sensitivity everyday. i can remember when i first had the skin pulled back, if i touched it it like, hurt, it was sooooo sensitive.. now i could rub ice on that ****er and it wouldn't know..

now we're not ****ed, don't wank for a 3 days, have sex with someone ur comfortable with, and it should happen.. just really slow the wanking down.. (I KNOW ITS HARD!)
 

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DONT DRINK befora anything. For me alcohol has the total opposite effect than viagra for some. When I was drung I couldn't get a hard on but even today when I just think about it I get a stiffy.
 
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I will add my vote to alcohol causing a case of the limpys. After about two hours of tequila shots and foreplay which involved me eating her out, fingering her, etc, she was ready to give me my due. She started going down on me like a champ, but in my drunken haze, my soldier absolutely would not salute. This was the first time this had ever happened to me, and it was extremely disturbing.

I had this girl practically begging for sex and I was unable to perform thanks to the wonderful condition known as WHISKEY D1CK. So DJs, if you know you're going to score, limit the alcohol intake to the point where you can still get hard!
 

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After a couple of J&Ds I'm worse than 20 duracell bunnies on viagra.
 
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