The end of an era. Black_Italian AKA Ninja finally has a GF

[Ouzo]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
How much time would you suggest now?.

See that the thing that confuses me it been 4 months of increibly high intrest level seeing eachother 3-4 times a week. So if shes a GF now how does that change things?

Ninja out

I saw my girlfriend EVERY single day.

Interest levels went were high then in the last week shot to and all time low . Now were through.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
All I can say is that I feel sorry for you, and I feel bad for you that your relationship's in the past have turned out to be games etc, but I HAVE been in love, proper love, and I have had that experience, and all i can say, is that if you HAVE NOT experienced it, you will always think the way YOU think (that its a game etc etc.) ... Maybe one day you'll know what people like myself and frivolousz21 are talking about.


Laterz...

You HAD love. But then what happened? She probably broke up with you or vice versa because one of you outplayed the other. Your letting your one-itis take over.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
I can see why you are 16!

I can see why you suck a lot of ****s!

 

[frivolousz21]

You HAD love. But then what happened? She probably broke up with you or vice versa because one of you outplayed the other. Your letting your one-itis take over

hey kid, why dont you ask your parents or your friends parents why they are married?

see if pops will tell you he has one-I-tis

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by bluelemond
You HAD love. But then what happened? She probably broke up with you or vice versa because one of you outplayed the other. Your letting your one-itis take over.

No.. the relationship only died because she was too immature for love, and I got fed up with her childish behaviour and broke up with her. Till this day she still wants me back, and its been a while. Everyything was perfect, just the timing and her age was wrong. But what we had was perfect.


Laterz...

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by bluelemond
I can see why you suck a lot of ****s!

Whoa, hey. You should be banned. Mods?

 

[Climax]

tsk tsk tsk...

Originally posted by Hunchback
TO WHOEVER POSTED TO ME:

Man, **** that. So I cheat on my girlfriend...who gives a **** anyway?

Yes, I've felt true love....to be honest...that's WHY I am the way I am now.

Man, why the **** are you worrying if i'm cheating on my girlfriends or not neway? The only person i'm worried about laying girls is myself.

So ya think I'm kind of....an ******* right?: Well I'm past caring and also....I am a ****ing *******, worse than that, I'm a total evil womanising ******* so whatever. Pal.

All I have to say for you, is, shame.


Laterz...

 

[Black_Italian]

I dont agree with cheating why break someones trust?. If you had any balls you would'nt cheat. Think about it you're sneaking behinf a women's back like you're afraid of her. Where are your balls?

Hahahaha White_Italian whats the bet its Casino?

Ninja out

 

[J.R.G.G]

~ªêQµïTª$~ with all my respect, YOU MADE ME PUKE!!!, for god sake, youre only 19, you know, when i was 13 maybe 14 i used to think like you. ohh well, iam only gonna be 21, iam not an old guy, but this site is getting filled with TEENAGERS who think they have all figured out about life, who feel they have the responsiblity to TEACH us. ONE WORD, disgousting.


where i do agree is with b_italian about the cheating, ive cheated in the past, felt bad... never did it again, will i do it again? i dont know... but for sure i didnt and wouldnt tell the gf i had at that time, why hurt her? instead i never did again when i was with her. Anyway , i think that in a healthy relationship where the gf is not disrespecting you in anyway you should also give her that respect she deserves, never cheat if you care and respect you gf.

 

[Climax]

J.R.G.G: if you only knew how much sh!t I actually DO know about relationships, women, and love, you would think twice before insulting my intelligence. And I can guarantee you, that one day when you also mature abit, if you come back to this thread and read what I said, you will have a whole different opinion about what I wrote.

EDIT: J.R.G.G.... If you are so quick to disregard my post, then please, tell me what exactly you don’t agree with, with what I said... that is, if you think you got an arguement ... Just throwing insults at something someone wrote doesn’t help anyone... so please, go ahead and point out to me what I said that so "not true" in your opinion, I'll be happy to have a discussion about it with you
Laterz...

 

[Paintballguy]

If you commit to a relationship, you shouldnt cheat. Thats pretty ****ed up.... If you wanna bang lots of women, don't get a ****ing girlfriend. Its not that hard....

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
No.. the relationship only died because she was too immature for love, and I got fed up with her childish behaviour and broke up with her. Till this day she still wants me back, and its been a while. Everyything was perfect, just the timing and her age was wrong. But what we had was perfect.


Laterz...

I didnt even know you were 19 but know thinking about it it makes so much sense. I wont even waste any mor energy on your childish post. But know now so when it happens I told you:
LIFE IS NOT A DISNEY MOVIE!
All that idealistic Bs you have in your head only exist in your head. As you get older you will see. There are two type of people in this world nothing else: Weak and Strong! You are one of the other! YOu have to read a couple of post in here to easily tell.
YOu are a very weak boy whom Im sure if you have a woman she has you wrapped around her little finger. When she says jump I know you jump. Now if you want to keep thinking that that is what love is go ahead. But you will learn one way or the other!

 

[frivolousz21]

I didnt even know you were 19 but know thinking about it it makes so much sense. I wont even waste any mor energy on your childish post. But know now so when it happens I told you:
LIFE IS NOT A DISNEY MOVIE!
All that idealistic Bs you have in your head only exist in your head. As you get older you will see. There are two type of people in this world nothing else: Weak and Strong! You are one of the other! YOu have to read a couple of post in here to easily tell.
YOu are a very weak boy whom Im sure if you have a woman she has you wrapped around her little finger. When she says jump I know you jump. Now if you want to keep thinking that that is what love is go ahead. But you will learn one way or the other!







please tell me that you will never have a gf, never care for a women in anyway...you have to be strong...and not show that bytch anything!

 

[Black_Italian]

You talking to me?

Ninja out

 

[Climax]

Royal Elite: I am 19 years old, that gives women, AND men of 35 years old advice, yes.

And the way u described me to "jump when a girl tells me to" is really, REALLY off track. And I have MADE my love life LIKE THOSE DISNEY MOVIES. and yes, it IS possible, its people like YOU that will never have that. You know why? because you don’t believe its possible to start off with, so you will never TRY and make it into reality. My age has nothing to do with how mature I am. Everyone I know comes to me for advise on relationship and love etc, my friends that are 16, to parents of my friends, etc. And if you ever do get into a relationship and really love a girl, Royal Elite, then maybe you will see where people like me and frivolousz21 come from.

You can call me weak, u can call me a little kid, you can call me childish, you can say that I am delusional by thinking that love can be embraced the way it is in the movies, but at the end of the day, I'm have that love that you thought was not possible, and you'll end up putting limits to your love because u will think that anything beyond a certain point is... a disney movie? *sigh*


Laterz...

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Originally posted by bluelemond
I can see why you suck a lot of ****s!

You're an idiot--I too, vote for a ban here.

 

[griffon65]

Originally posted by Black_Italian

When I was fu*king this girl (she's a former fu*k buddy) I use to see her on average 4 times a week and I use to sleep over her place allot. Now that she’s my GF do you guys think I should still see her as often?

Ninja out

It really depends on her personality and morals. Most of the girls I have been with had a BF at the time so I've have experiance on how these women are thinking when they are in a relationship. Yes yes I know, its horrible but I never run into single girls, I gotta make due with what I get.

Anyway you have to give your GF attention proprotional to her needs. Meaning if she is a real needy girl (the type that says "we havent talked in a while," if you havent talked for only 1-2 days) then keep seeing her like you are doing. If shes not so needythen see her a bit less.

Too much attention will smother her but too little will make her seek comfort somewhere else. And that someone might have enough game to get her to cheat on you. So dont let that happen. Good luck with your girl.

 

[J.R.G.G]

~ªêQµïTª$~ stop being stubborn and understand that everyday youre gonna continue to learn, its part of life, you have the wrong attitude kid, you think you know it all by your age. Like i told you in other post, i used to think a bit like you when i was 14, 15...its not how you say that i need to be more mature and then come back to read your posts to learn from them, iam telling you, i already passed trough that phase where one is stubborn and thinks we have everything figured out.


and no, you dont amaze me at all with you giving advice to 35 year old people, you know why? Cause unfortionally there is alot stupidity in humans, you can be 50 and be stupid.

if youre in your 30s and asking a teenager like ~ªêQµïTª$~ for love advice then what kind of looser are you?

~ªêQµïTª$~ pm me sometime i invite to disagree.

 

[christz]

Originally posted by Paintballguy
If you commit to a relationship, you shouldnt cheat. Thats pretty ****ed up.... If you wanna bang lots of women, don't get a ****ing girlfriend. Its not that hard....

you would think that most people would think like this yet, for some reason they refuse to just sleep around they have to justify them banging person after person with the word "cheating" because then it doesn't seem so whorish

 

[quest]

Long thread now, i'm not reading it all.

Just answering your original question.

-got a girlfriend, what do i do now?

Keep coming to this site. It will keep your mind from corrupting TOO far into AFCism.

and NEVER EVER think to yourself, "we are different to these other couples, <issue> can happen and we'll still be cool"

-thats something i did when i had a girlfriend, and it never cost me her, but it cost me respect/dignity.

I won't let it happen again.