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What was the point of this post? (Rhetorical question)
I GET that old men can be bitter. As I see it, that's a natural byproduct of disillusionment. Those OLD men, were once young men who had piss, vinegar, blood, hormones, and whole shytload of aggression ready to take out upon the world, and his woman (in a good way). However, they're being hurt caused them, perhaps, irreparable harm. I can't say it's bad. One must have compassion. Move on, date someone new. That's the beauty of a free market.
On the flip side, I always took it, that if some girl was supremely bytchy toward me, it could be me, or it might be her. Whatever it was, our lack of happiness and interest was a redflag we weren't right for 1 another. I don't think I could say ALL young girls are flaky or don't want young marriage. Sure, it might be foolish, given how opportunistic our society is, but that doesn't mean I can paint the whole lot of women under a certain age with the same broad stroke. What of SUPER Religious girls? What of girls with superior intellect? What of girls brought up in a healthy social and family environment?
All I'm saying is, PREFERENCES. Quite honestly, my uncle is now available. He's likely NOT to be negative, but he is a recovering alcoholic. So he MIGHT not be totally positive. On the flip side, he's rich, and has been seeking women from 28-35. He's over 40. Why? I'd say that's natural. Clearly he'd be going for physical attraction. However, he's only going to meet women on the last legs of desiring children. That said...it's really inexplainable, and seems only to stir the proverbial pot of shyt up.
Guys who choose what they choose, just do it. No rationale. If there were, guys would probably pick fatties over hot girls, because of how they'd treat a man, offer less drama, perhaps more interest in sex, etc. I'm painting VERY bad and broad strokes, but suffice it say, I've known alot of heavy hotties, and most are taken before 30. The supreme babes remain single until the LAST POSSIBLE second, and even then, probably keep their former lovers SOMEWHERE nearby.
My aunt has four kids, drop dead gorgeous, just over 40, had her kids. She's dating divorced men with kids, too. But she's just begun to tip toe into the water. Fact is, she's a catch, but until the kids are gone, her personal life will be a mess. My uncle, mentioned above, is still a prick in her life, and her current paycheck is alimony, which she whole-heartedly derserves, and I'd fought to get more. However, kids come first. And she's had to battle my uncle and balance 4 kids' lives, too. A man who'd get involved there would have to be very understanding, patient, and have his own things going on to sustain the whole lifestyle. This is my own, first intimate look into it, but I can see it being a problem, FOR SOME. If women don't have their X around, or fewer children, less drama, it's totally possible. So go for it.
A-Unit
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