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The current dating market and how I see this century playing out

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Man i went to an all boys school. I lost my virginity kinda late at 18. My parents had to find a prom date for me from church ( very embarrassing). I made up for it in college and post college.

Going to an all boys school skews your perception of women. I would not recommend. You look at women as angels but when you find out the truth in college (as opposed to HS) the RedPill rage is very severe.

These dayz if you go to an all boy HS you are finished. Girls are too hard to get these days and you make it worse with the same sex HS.
When I read this, it makes me feel like putting your son or daughter into such a school system would very likely stunt their social development.
All-male schools are not good for males. Both @MatureDJ and @Pandora had bad high school experiences in all-male environments. I have also known some others who had poor experiences with all-male schools. You're correct that these all-male schools stunted their developments.

The only males that I knew from my in-person interactions who came out relatively undamaged from all-male high schools were males that had a very strong social network from their K-8 years. If you go into 9th grade at an all-male school with a bad social network, you're finished. There's not enough interactions with the all-female schools to compensate for that.

It's probably worse now too. Most of the stories I know from all-male schools happened in the 1990s and early 2000s. @MatureDJ 's experience is even older as it was from the early 1980s. Supreme Court Justices Brett Kavanaugh and Neil Gorsuch went to the same all-male high school in Maryland (near Washington DC) in the early 1980s as well.
 

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I know you can put AI dating in the online category but personally, I think in the future it will have it's own category
Covid19 opened Pandora's box ain't no going back, Adapt or embrace your AI MI Ling Lmfao
There is considerable evidence that OLD is moribund. Yet bars don’t seem to have reemerged to fill the vacuum. I can only therefor conclude that social circle is all that’s left. Good luck with that if you’re over 27 (probably over 22).
 

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I know you can put AI dating in the online category but personally, I think in the future it will have it's own category
Covid19 opened Pandora's box ain't no going back, Adapt or embrace your AI MI Ling Lmfao
These are actual couples and not chad's harems? How do you reconcile those stats if 67% of guys are single and are not part of the couple category?
 

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When I read this, it makes me feel like putting your son or daughter into such a school system would very likely stunt their social development. With that said, I could totally see the consequences of this being far more severe for young boys that are developing into men. It's a place like you mentioned, where you have this romanticized idea of women because your exposure to them is limited to movies/media and also your female relatives who love you no matter what lol. However, you get into the real world and start treating women like they are a disney princess or some **** and you get used and abused by them or perhaps just not getting anywhere. Meanwhile, you see them getting drunk or high, or maybe having a train ran on them by a bunch of the niggas on the basketball court lmfao. You then internally respond to this by going severe red pill to the point where you actually may totally avoid women or border on legitimately misogny lol. I'm not saying it would necessarily play out this severely but I can totally imagine it rhyming to a beat like this lol.
The first time I found out a girl was sleeping with multiple guys in the dorm I was shocked. How can these angelic creatures do this?

I remember this smoking hot ( 9/10) half black chick red pilled me HARD. First girl I really had a massive crush on. This new feeling at 18 was intoxicating. This happened freshman year. She would come to my dorm...sit on my lap...tell me about other guys..and then leave. She would also flake on dates. Looking back these were obvious shyt tests. I had no experience with chicks so I failed them hard. I would get super depressed and listen to Eminem and Joe Budden in my dorm room.

My dormates would be worried about me. I just could not understand why women did this. I had them on a pedestal for 4 yrs of HS because I didnt know any. Then I decided to learn how to game women. I ordered David DeAngelos Double Your Dating Course circa 2003. My dormates found it. They laughed at me until they cried lol. Humiliation.

I read that thing religiously. I took me at least a year to properly calibrate the whole ****y and funny thing. I finally got it and it was off to the races.

Yeh long story short all boys schools are not good. They did studies and found that all boy school guys have a higher rate of divorce. This is because you over compensate later in life and become a misonystic womanizer like I was.
 
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All-male schools are not good for males. Both @MatureDJ and @Pandora had bad high school experiences in all-male environments. I have also known some others who had poor experiences with all-male schools. You're correct that these all-male schools stunted their developments.

The only males that I knew from my in-person interactions who came out relatively undamaged from all-male high schools were males that had a very strong social network from their K-8 years. If you go into 9th grade at an all-male school with a bad social network, you're finished. There's not enough interactions with the all-female schools to compensate for that.

It's probably worse now too. Most of the stories I know from all-male schools happened in the 1990s and early 2000s. @MatureDJ 's experience is even older as it was from the early 1980s. Supreme Court Justices Brett Kavanaugh and Neil Gorsuch went to the same all-male high school in Maryland (near Washington DC) in the early 1980s as well.
Yeh I went to an all boys school near DC in the early 2000s also. I know what school Kavanaugh went to. It is super fancy.

I never had an issue with the middle class public school kids in my neighborhood. It was a mostly black neighborhood and I was respected. All the kids would fight, play sports and be cool.

My fancy all boys school was a different story. I would get brutaly bullied. Those kids are mean because they overcompensate. It was a bunch of rich kids that wished they were ghetto. They acted more hood than the kids that actually lived in the hood. I didnt fight back because I was afraid to get kicked out.

When boys dont have any girls around they stay in a state of immaurity. They turn on each other much like prison. It was sort of like Lord of the Flies rich kid version. It was also fun too though.

When the rare young female ( teacher daughter or random girl )would walk through the cafeteria we would all start banging our lunch trays on the table and yelling " yeh hoe...yeh hoe..yeh hoe". It was insane.
 

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The first time I found out a girl was sleeping with multiple guys in the dorm I was shocked. How can these angelic creatures do this?

I remember this smoking hot ( 9/10) half black chick red pilled me HARD. First girl I really had a massive crush on. This new feeling at 18 was intoxicating. This happened freshman year. She would come to my dorm...sit on my lap...tell me about other guys..and then leave. She would also flake on dates. Looking back these were obvious shyt tests. I had no experience with chicks so I failed them hard. I would get super depressed and listen to Eminem and Joe Budden in my dorm room.

My dormates would be worried about me. I just could not understand why women did this. I had them on a pedestal for 4 yrs of HS because I didnt know any. Then I decided to learn how to game women. I ordered David DeAngelos Double Your Dating Course circa 2003. My dormates found it. They laughed at me until they cried lol. Humiliation.

I read that thing religiously. I took me at least a year to properly calibrate the whole ****y and funny thing. I finally got it and it was off to the races.

Yeh long story short all boys schools are not good. They did studies and found that all boy school guys have a higher rate of divorce. This is because you over compensate later in life and become a misonystic womanizer like I was.
women are the font of evil in the world: tl;dr
 

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lol ok kissass. Owned by another keyboard badass
If it’s not that then what is it? Use your big boy words, ‘splain it to us.

Seems like you’re jelly. WhyUsoMad brah?
 

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you literally bang menopausal single mothers and try to flex about it
I’m pretty sure the women I have sex with are hotter than anything you will ever be able to, but hey it doesn’t matter. Why are you so worried about the women I bed?

You seem bitter…:( what’s wrong Patty? How can we help? I’m worried about you grasshopper.
 

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I’m pretty sure the women I have sex with are hotter than anything you will ever be able to, but hey it doesn’t matter. Why are you so worried about the women I bed?

You seem bitter…:( what’s wrong Patty? How can we help? I’m worried about you grasshopper.
they aren’t. You’re a posturing clown like most of the rest of this place
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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He is a very negative person, it must reflects in his interactions with women, that's probably why his dating life svcks. That makes him even more bitter, vicious circle. He wouldn't be if he had decent/positive dating experiences, he claimed he gets hot girls, personally think he is an incel.
I never really claimed anything, but your projection is telling.
 

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The reality is that the dating market is very warped right now and female expectations are far loftier than ever in our society.
This is another good example of a woman's ridiculous expectations. A basic, middle of the bell curve 30 year old woman expects "Travis Kelce energy" in the men she dates. She refuses to date any mediocre man off of Hinge. She believes she's entitled to commitment from a 6'0"+ fit/muscular man with money.

 

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This chick is below average in looks dating an "AI Henry Cavil"
Notice how her aesthetic makes her look prettier
Not only that but she has a real life boyfriend on top of her "AI Husband of 3 years"
Most men will not have this option,she not only has a virtual-husband but a real life boyfriend

^^for those who wanna read the full article

I'm posting this to show that in certain fringe cases this is already happening, a loneliness epidemic with a mental health epidemic with volatile economic disability and you get a recipe for disaster. The Redpillers fantasy that women will suffer once AI robots come into fruition is just that a fantasy. Women will always have options the AI robot if anything will make women have more options. I'm not posting this as doom and gloom but to show the reality that a lot of men are delusional if they think women will not utilize AI and future tech for dating/mating as well.
 

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This chick is below average in looks dating an "AI Henry Cavil"
Notice how her aesthetic makes her look prettier
Not only that but she has a real life boyfriend on top of her "AI Husband of 3 years"
Most men will not have this option,she not only has a virtual-husband but a real life boyfriend

^^for those who wanna read the full article

I'm posting this to show that in certain fringe cases this is already happening, a loneliness epidemic with a mental health epidemic with volatile economic disability and you get a recipe for disaster. The Redpillers fantasy that women will suffer once AI robots come into fruition is just that a fantasy. Women will always have options the AI robot if anything will make women have more options. I'm not posting this as doom and gloom but to show the reality that a lot of men are delusional if they think women will not utilize AI and future tech for dating/mating as well.
I just read through that entire article and that is freaky AF lol. Funny how both the woman and her bf were engaging in it. Both genders will definitely use the technology but it will predominantly be men for sure.
 
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