Bro, I probably look better than the majority of posters on this forum lol. Many of your severely underestimate how picky many women are and how difficult navigating the dating market is today. I've experienced this myself but I've observed so much over the last several years in the real world. In addition to this, we are seeing tons of channels on youtube dedicated to men's issues in the dating market and it's even been spilling over into the mainstream media lately, as I had alluded to on my original post.
Your local dating market is definitely something to consider. I remember some post I read years ago on another forum talking about the dating market in Anchorage, Alaska lol and how he said even fatties had attitude. I think he mentioned something about being in the military and temporarily stationed there lol. You could be in some place like say Miami or LA or Scottsdale and being a guy that is 6'+ and fit may be seen as "average" to where you might actually have a hard time standing out. In a market like this, it actually might be a requirement to "flash cash" as
@SW15 mentioned, where you drive a high(er) end car, dress up, wear a rolex, etc. I live in AZ and I actually have seen this for myself and it appears to be a big part of the dating scene in Phoenix, though I don't live in that metro.
Some other stuff to consider is how you fit into the dating market of your area. A tall and fit white man may still struggle in a place where such men are not seen as dating material. I've personally heard the phrase "I don't date white men" several times in my area. It's all about recognizing what you are, what you bring to the table, etc. and then how you fit into the dating market of your area. From there, you can decide if you need to make some adjustments or if you are in a playing field that you really can't navigate all that well.
This is deviating from the topic of this thread.