The concept of showing masculine power

[Divorced w 3]

Sidebar: You keep mentioning your "JSOC friend." JSOC folks do not talk about JSOC; retired or former ones may, but not active operators.

Usually, it's the REMFs that talk a lot.

Jus'sayin'

He doesn’t talk about it ever (besides me and his close family). It’s open knowledge he’s SF

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

He doesn’t talk about it ever (besides me and his close family). It’s open knowledge he’s SF

Not to derail, but no one in active in Special Ops talks about their shyte - to ANYONE. But we can drop it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Not to derail, but no one in active in Special Ops talks about their shyte - to ANYONE. But we can drop it.

Really, bc JSOC has an entire family support network so, yeah not sure how else to answer that

 

[jhonny9546]

"What are "mature" things a man do in his daily life, alone, then with his friends, then with his women?"
What is your question?

I find symbolism fascinating. It's interesting how we are often judged based on our physical appearance and the image we portray in real life. Our phenotype, or physical characteristics, can categorize us into certain archetypes in the minds of others, whether they are young or old, male or female, or just a child.

While we can try to bend these perceptions through our outfit choices and storytelling, our phenotype still plays a significant role in how we are perceived.

The question then becomes:
How can a man convey both indirect and direct symbols of his maturity to a woman, and how would a woman pick up on these maturity symbols from him?

 

[BaronOfHair]

How can a man convey both indirect and direct symbols of his maturity to a woman, and how would a woman pick up on these maturity symbols from him?

With so many "men" today acting like girls in junior high, it's prudent to listen to this

And modify the way we think and behave accordingly

 

[TheGambino]

Have the biggest set of shoulders in the room and you already have the masculine power without opening your mouth and saying a word or doing anything.

All of that other stuff doesn't matter.

That's why you train like a beast.

@

true, it shows discipline and strength. People notice immediately without you even opening your mouth. You won half the race already.

 

[jhonny9546]

When I'm talking about maturity and masculinity, the things women think are mature/attractive in me are the martial arts principles I follow zanshin (situational awareness) and fudōshin (strong emotional self control), that guide my immediate actions or mushin (deliberate response), my competence and capabilities.

Did you learn those things by yourself or by practicing, which martial arts?

or they test me by taking a 'bratty' attitude.

And how do you reply to those tests, by keeping your mature men attitude? Or do you exit the frame?

 

[jhonny9546]

With so many "men" today acting like girls in junior high, it's prudent to listen to this

And modify the way we think and behave accordingly

Isn't this book for women? What do you learn from it?

 

[Carson02]

A strong masculine core generally comes naturally and women will instinctively pick up on it. From experience, it is apparent when the latter degrade their beta husbands or SO’s in your presence and turn to you in a supplicative manner. They want to be assured you will provide protective security for them and not be a doormat to their ever changing attitudes.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Isn't this book for women? What do you learn from it?

Entirely too many "men" are perpetrating the transgressions described there

 

[BaronOfHair]

REMFs

 

[jhonny9546]

fudōshin

where would you learn it? Favourite books or essays?
This reminds me of when i was reading "Vagabond" manga.

If you understand 'drama' you know it's purely emotional, there's often no rhyme or reason, except that brats want to see if you follow them into their hysterics or if you stay above it and lead them back to reasonable behaviour.

Well, like what happened with my sister at this point?!
I also saw on another LTR, the women going to mental theraphy and asking for his husband to come, and he refuses, and after they spoke, everything became normal again, and she stopped theraphy and now focused back on family.

It's like getting the train back on the binaries and give water the right container.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

You're a very strange person...

 

[BaronOfHair]

You're a very strange person...

You've no idea

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

You've no idea

 

[BaronOfHair]

What is really power here?

Goes to a discussion some of us were having here

Embarrassing huge adds plastered over the forum.

The adds are embarrassing. And way too big and too much. I get that the chimney needs to smoke, but I'm hiding my phone when using sosauve in public. " want a sex buddy "? " get your ex back"? How to get her wet"? Yeah, we are women addicted. And I assume the adds are " perfectly " targeting...

www.sosuave.net

Play the following words 14:10-14:40

The Business of Power | KQED

Michael Krasny talks with Stanford business professor Jeffrey Pfeffer. Pfeffer's latest book, "Power: Why Some People Have It -- and Others Don't" explores the dynamics of power and keys to success in the business world.

www.kqed.org

For any woman you're thinking of inviting into your life and into your bed, then ask "What are you're thoughts on this? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?" Gals who simply reply "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or the like are worthy investments. Those who retort in a fashion similar to what's heard at 28:36-30:15 of the above interview, are ones to cease all contact with immediately

A chick who clings desperately to the delusions she encountered in the humanities departments of Brandeis and Yale ("It's humanly possible to create a world where everyone always wields the exact same amount of power and influence, WITHOUT ever having to learn how those traits are acquired)isn't going to be someone you can have relatively rational conversations with long term, much less one who's going to be a loyal and reliable companion

 

[Clockwerk50]

In here, that means nothing.

I imagine he talks like this in real life lol

 

[BaronOfHair]

I imagine he talks like this in real life lol

More like

 

[jhonny9546]

Goes to a discussion some of us were having here

Embarrassing huge adds plastered over the forum.

The adds are embarrassing. And way too big and too much. I get that the chimney needs to smoke, but I'm hiding my phone when using sosauve in public. " want a sex buddy "? " get your ex back"? How to get her wet"? Yeah, we are women addicted. And I assume the adds are " perfectly " targeting...

www.sosuave.net

Play the following words 14:10-14:40

The Business of Power | KQED

Michael Krasny talks with Stanford business professor Jeffrey Pfeffer. Pfeffer's latest book, "Power: Why Some People Have It -- and Others Don't" explores the dynamics of power and keys to success in the business world.

www.kqed.org

For any woman you're thinking of inviting into your life and into your bed, then ask "What are you're thoughts on this? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?" Gals who simply reply "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or the like are worthy investments. Those who retort in a fashion similar to what's heard at 28:36-30:15 of the above interview, are ones to cease all contact with immediately

A chick who clings desperately to the delusions she encountered in the humanities departments of Brandeis and Yale ("It's humanly possible to create a world where everyone always wields the exact same amount of power and influence, WITHOUT ever having to learn how those traits are acquired)isn't going to be someone you can have relatively rational conversations with long term, much less one who's going to be a loyal and reliable companion

This is interesting! Could you articulate this?
Did you guys had any experience with this?

 

[BaronOfHair]

This is interesting! Could you articulate this?
Did you guys had any experience with this?

Before you bring a woman into your life, pull up that interview

https://www.kqed.org/forum/201011011000/the-business-of-power And play the words between 14:10-14:40 to her. Then ask her: "What are your thoughts on what Professor Pfeffer says there? Not your FEELINGS, but your thoughts?" If she replies "I couldn't agree more", "It's true", or any variation thereof, she's a keeper

If she bristles and scoffs at what Pfeffer says, proceede no further with her. It's that simple