al77
Master Don Juan
Man, this is such a BS! Why? look at Leil pic - she is a HB10. Tell me, what kind of advice a HB10 can give you? yeah, something nice and sweet.. what all AFC is using.Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
I'm reading an interesting book right now by Leil Lowndes. In it, she says that the first couple sentences out of your mouth are mostly irrelevant (as long as it isn't rude), since the person is mostly judging you on looks and body language at that point. I think this makes sense.
She goes further on to say that the more banal you are, the better.
Not sure if I'd take it that far, but I do agree that the words that come out of your mouth are probably the *least* important part of opening.
Yes, they judge by looks. But what you say is also important.
If you go "Come here often?" you may as well forget about her right away. "Hi! whatis your name?" is one of the word openers...
If you go for banal, you show you are a AFC, and you will be treated like they are used to ...
Read a book written by a man. Who knows what it likes to be a player. Don't believe HB10 sweet words!