In his thread entitled ''Best way to handle this test? '' S.Pryor had a problem;
So I gave him this advice, here me out;
Now let me break this down;
If you want to learn to be witty then just read my reply and practice the principle behind the explanation I gave him about wittiness but if you want to learn about Indifference ,....wait i will explain more now.
INDIFFERENCE : AN ILLUSTRATION
When a baby is suddenly physically hurt and its mother looks at it, the mothers' reaction will determine whether the baby cries or not (most of the time and depending on the amount of pain). If the babys' mother has an expression on her face that looks worried , the baby will start crying. This is because as pook said, ''as you think so you shall become'', thats why previously in this thread i say that women can read mens' minds.They read your mind through your body language. Men can do this and DO! do this ; sometimes but we never pay as much attention to body language hence why women are seen as super beings that are hyper perceptive. All they are doing guys is reading your fukin bodylanguage!
Your mind is a videoplayer, your thoughts are the video footage/tape and your facial expressions , mannerisms and body language are the projection screen that display whats goin on inside you for the world to see. So when you say something to yourself in your head, it is expressed on your face and through your bodylanguage.
So if that mother in the story is thinking to herself '' Oh gosh my baby is hurt i hope she doesnt start crying'' even if the mother is sayin calm words to the baby, the baby will see concern and panic on the mothers face and start crying. If the mother instead says '' Oh no she is hurt but its not too bad , she will be fine i better not look too concerned so she doesnt cry'' the baby will see a calm face on the mother and won't cry if the pain isn't too much.
This basically applies to men and dealing with women, as well as being indifferent. When you are talking to a woman and feeding your mind the wrong messages like ''uh oh , i hope she likes me '' OR ''i hope i dont look scared'' it shows in your BL (BODY LANGUAGE). You need to feed yourself the right messages AND believe in them , INNER CONVERSATION msgs such as '' I would like to bang this chik but tough luck if I don't'' OR '' girls always want to bang me'' OR '' i am so used to girls and their bullsh1t and i can handle whatever you throw at me, but I am not so eager to get with you and if it does not happen, tough luck'' Inner conversation is basically, you , saying positive messages to yourself in your head as opposed to all the panick clutter dialogue you have in your head when interacting with people.
In terms of indifference, when a girl or someone says something that is meant to make you react just talk to yourself in a joking manner inside your head '' I know what you are tryin to do and it doesn't phase me'' and then proceed to be witty or assertive .This comes out in your facial expressions and BL.This is what pook meant by that phrase ,as you think you become. When you think of yourself as a king, you are treated as one and you become one. Just don't be an arrogant IDIOT!. When you crack a joke or say something that might make a girl react to test you, do not look for acceptance from the chiks face just say a relevant message in your head like the examples given above and carry on as you deem fit.
THE END
S. Pryor said:
So I gave him this advice, here me out;
YAboi said:
Now let me break this down;
If you want to learn to be witty then just read my reply and practice the principle behind the explanation I gave him about wittiness but if you want to learn about Indifference ,....wait i will explain more now.
INDIFFERENCE : AN ILLUSTRATION
When a baby is suddenly physically hurt and its mother looks at it, the mothers' reaction will determine whether the baby cries or not (most of the time and depending on the amount of pain). If the babys' mother has an expression on her face that looks worried , the baby will start crying. This is because as pook said, ''as you think so you shall become'', thats why previously in this thread i say that women can read mens' minds.They read your mind through your body language. Men can do this and DO! do this ; sometimes but we never pay as much attention to body language hence why women are seen as super beings that are hyper perceptive. All they are doing guys is reading your fukin bodylanguage!
Your mind is a videoplayer, your thoughts are the video footage/tape and your facial expressions , mannerisms and body language are the projection screen that display whats goin on inside you for the world to see. So when you say something to yourself in your head, it is expressed on your face and through your bodylanguage.
So if that mother in the story is thinking to herself '' Oh gosh my baby is hurt i hope she doesnt start crying'' even if the mother is sayin calm words to the baby, the baby will see concern and panic on the mothers face and start crying. If the mother instead says '' Oh no she is hurt but its not too bad , she will be fine i better not look too concerned so she doesnt cry'' the baby will see a calm face on the mother and won't cry if the pain isn't too much.
This basically applies to men and dealing with women, as well as being indifferent. When you are talking to a woman and feeding your mind the wrong messages like ''uh oh , i hope she likes me '' OR ''i hope i dont look scared'' it shows in your BL (BODY LANGUAGE). You need to feed yourself the right messages AND believe in them , INNER CONVERSATION msgs such as '' I would like to bang this chik but tough luck if I don't'' OR '' girls always want to bang me'' OR '' i am so used to girls and their bullsh1t and i can handle whatever you throw at me, but I am not so eager to get with you and if it does not happen, tough luck'' Inner conversation is basically, you , saying positive messages to yourself in your head as opposed to all the panick clutter dialogue you have in your head when interacting with people.
In terms of indifference, when a girl or someone says something that is meant to make you react just talk to yourself in a joking manner inside your head '' I know what you are tryin to do and it doesn't phase me'' and then proceed to be witty or assertive .This comes out in your facial expressions and BL.This is what pook meant by that phrase ,as you think you become. When you think of yourself as a king, you are treated as one and you become one. Just don't be an arrogant IDIOT!. When you crack a joke or say something that might make a girl react to test you, do not look for acceptance from the chiks face just say a relevant message in your head like the examples given above and carry on as you deem fit.
THE END
