Heres how I see it: Most budding Don Juans have a fear of rejection. Taking the advice of the higher DJs, I decided to begin setting myself a quota of girls. I had some friends who are seniors, they would motivate me to approach random girls. The only problem was: I knew some of those girls. I made many AFC mistakes, and would pass off my awkwardness by saying, "I'm doing it for a bet." At a certain point, I snapped. I decided to go after senior girls for practice.
The Advantages
Going after a senior girl seems logical. First, she won't see your ugly mug next year, a big plus if the approach turns sour. Second, she will be intriuged by the fact that you have the balls to go after them. She may play along and even go so far as to go on a date w. you.
Also, word will spread that you are going after women way out of your league. People will, after a length of time, begin to respect you. Your reputation in school will grow. And plus, after awhile you will be so relaxed that you will ooze confidence, since you no longer care so much.
The Disadvantages
The only bad things that I see as happening are:
1) You may approach a senior girl w/ an insecure bf. He may threaten to hurt you, break bones etc. Luckily for me the guy who threatened me was AFC+++, I called him on his game, coward never showed up.
2) People may think you desperate. That may ruin your game. Make sure to read up on body language, and try to make light of your situation.
Personal Experience
After I began reforming my AFC ways, and began using Kino, C & E, etc., I noticed that many girls began giving me these looks of interest. As scared as I was I began approaching random girls, talking w/ them for a minute, then asking for their number. Certainly I got shot down often, but I did manage to get a few numbers (not calling em, just did it for practice). One day my friends psyched me into going after three senior girls. Of course by that point I just stopped caring, and began blatantly hitting up on the two senior girls at the same time. They were outraged and surprised...Especially when the first girl, threw me a pen I asked to borrow, watched me throw her pen in the garbage can and say, "sorry I dont take that kinda crap from ppl." but I noticed in their eyes a sense of, "wow this guy is either crazy or has Big, Big balls." On that same day i went to a senior class, sat next to a girl my friends told me about, and said, "Now listen baby, I don't have time to dilly-dally with chit chat. Give me your number so we can go out this weekend." She was shocked, and said, "I'm seeing someone right now." I then calmly said, "well listen then, when you break up with this guy, give me a call." then I gave her a wink and left. Although it didn't really get me anywhere substantially, it gave me a heavy adrenaline rush and bumped up my confidence.
Now go out there and hit on some senior girls, dammit!:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
The Advantages
Going after a senior girl seems logical. First, she won't see your ugly mug next year, a big plus if the approach turns sour. Second, she will be intriuged by the fact that you have the balls to go after them. She may play along and even go so far as to go on a date w. you.
Also, word will spread that you are going after women way out of your league. People will, after a length of time, begin to respect you. Your reputation in school will grow. And plus, after awhile you will be so relaxed that you will ooze confidence, since you no longer care so much.
The Disadvantages
The only bad things that I see as happening are:
1) You may approach a senior girl w/ an insecure bf. He may threaten to hurt you, break bones etc. Luckily for me the guy who threatened me was AFC+++, I called him on his game, coward never showed up.
2) People may think you desperate. That may ruin your game. Make sure to read up on body language, and try to make light of your situation.
Personal Experience
After I began reforming my AFC ways, and began using Kino, C & E, etc., I noticed that many girls began giving me these looks of interest. As scared as I was I began approaching random girls, talking w/ them for a minute, then asking for their number. Certainly I got shot down often, but I did manage to get a few numbers (not calling em, just did it for practice). One day my friends psyched me into going after three senior girls. Of course by that point I just stopped caring, and began blatantly hitting up on the two senior girls at the same time. They were outraged and surprised...Especially when the first girl, threw me a pen I asked to borrow, watched me throw her pen in the garbage can and say, "sorry I dont take that kinda crap from ppl." but I noticed in their eyes a sense of, "wow this guy is either crazy or has Big, Big balls." On that same day i went to a senior class, sat next to a girl my friends told me about, and said, "Now listen baby, I don't have time to dilly-dally with chit chat. Give me your number so we can go out this weekend." She was shocked, and said, "I'm seeing someone right now." I then calmly said, "well listen then, when you break up with this guy, give me a call." then I gave her a wink and left. Although it didn't really get me anywhere substantially, it gave me a heavy adrenaline rush and bumped up my confidence.
Now go out there and hit on some senior girls, dammit!:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
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