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I was looking on my social media recently, and im noticing how many single moms constantly picture themselves in girl groups drinking within bars & pubs. Im sure women shared a meme a few years back about chad who messed them about. how he will still be drinking in the clubs at 45 with his bros like a clown.

These are grown ass 35 -45 year old women. It literally kills my attraction for them there and then.


Theyre not quite thot mommies in the club, but i still get E.D

One gets really involved when theres a local MMA event, on she likes to do the ring walk at 42.

god its cringe.
 

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You just have to play the hand that is in front of you

We are in a societal shift People are realising (maturity) is not as fun as it was supposed to be and thanks to social media you are going to have people right they way through their 30's , 40's and maybe 50's desperately clinging onto any fad , trend or lifestyle that supplicates their ego

The playground is now open to all ages

but if you overthink it you will end up ostracising yourself ....... i tend to initially humour most people i meet can usually tell within 15 mins if they are on my level or not

If they are not i just slowly phase myself out
 

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i think I do, I no longer drink alcohol, so i ghost 99.999999% of society
So what? For a long time I used to go and drink water at bars and still enjoyed myself and had fun. Used to tell them to order me the hardest water they got, which usually made them crack up laughing.

Went on many dates with women to bars where they drank and I had water. Do you know how many times that stopped me from getting laid? Exactly zero.

Stop creating problems and roadblocks for yourself that don't have to exist.

Your mindset is poison
 
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So what? For a long time I used to go and drink water at bars and still had enjoyed myself and had fun. Went on many dates with women to bars where they drank and I had water. Do you know how many times that stopped me from getting laid? Exactly zero.

Stop creating problems and roadblocks for yourself that don't have to exist.
Exactly this last part.

If you focus on the cess pool to the exclusion of everything else, that's where you'll end up in time.

If women are behaving in a way that is unacceptable pay them no mind and keep it moving.
 

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So what? For a long time I used to go and drink water at bars and still enjoyed myself and had fun. Used to tell them to order me the hardest water they got, which usually made them crack up laughing.
Im a total alcoholic, it not acceptable for me to be in bars or clubs and ive proved this ,many time before.

i will do nothing to jeapordise how far ive come mentally and financially.

Also as soon as women found out i wasnt drinking they totally ltd their drinking down to two drinks max. so i do not have the same observation as you. that they carry on getting drunk and pull their pants down

the world is colourful and sometimes your caveman advice doesnt go with it.
 

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Im a total alcoholic, it not acceptable for me to be in bars or clubs and ive proved this ,many time before.

i will do nothing to jeapordise how far ive come mentally and financially.

Also as soon as women found out i wasnt drinking they totally ltd their drinking down to two drinks max. so i do not have the same observation as you. that they carry on getting drunk and pull their pants down

the world is colourful and sometimes your caveman advice doesnt go with it.
Drink something that looks like a drink.
 

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Exactly this last part.

If you focus on the cess pool to the exclusion of everything else, that's where you'll end up in time.

If women are behaving in a way that is unacceptable pay them no mind and keep it moving.
if you live in a vastly populated/vibrant area of the USA, you cannot compare it to a dingy town in the UK.

"same old place, same old faces, same old town"

and you dont just leave, you need to earn an extra 40k a year to live somewhere quality
 

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Im a total alcoholic, it not acceptable for me to be in bars or clubs and ive proved this ,many time before.

i will do nothing to jeapordise how far ive come mentally and financially.

Also as soon as women found out i wasnt drinking they totally ltd their drinking down to two drinks max. so i do not have the same observation as you. that they carry on getting drunk and pull their pants down

the world is colourful and sometimes your caveman advice doesnt go with it.
Sorry to hear you have issues with that. Definitely a good thing that you avoid those places then.

Umm...who said they got sh!tfaced drunk? Sometimes they'd have one drink, sometimes two, sometimes they'd order a diet Pepsi since I wasn't drinking.

That's the thing...I never required then to fvck me that night. I have a lot of value to offer them. Far more than 95% of guys they will likely meet. That's not me bragging, that's just me being real and being confident with who I know I am and knowing what's out there. Most of these dudes they are meeting are fvcking losers.

I am not afraid they are going to run away if I don't bang them and they'll find someone else. I'm fun and exciting to be around, I am a great conversationalist and I know how to flirt with them. I do pretty well for myself. I have more than once been told how charming and confident I am and how much they like it both in date and after dates. Do I shy away from it? No...if it happens it happens. But I could care less whether it does or not or within any certain timeframe.

Only people who are afraid a woman will find out they have little of value to offer need to rush them into the bedroom to try and get laid. I'm cool letting them find out about me because I know I'm awesome and I know they will want to find out more. And once they get to the bedroom they won't want to leave because I have skills they didn't even know existed in there. Again...just me being honest. And it's not because I was born with them, it's because I worked hard to learn and develop them. It's the one area as a guy that you have almost zero competition in if you become good at it.

Granted it doesn't always work out but it works out plenty enough that I haven't gone more than 3 weeks without sex in over 5 years. And no fat chicks here. I can't do it.
 

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That's the thing...I never required then to fvck me that night. I have a lot of value to offer them. Far more than 95% of guys they will likely meet. That's not me bragging, that's just me being real and being confident with who I know I am and knowing what's out there. Most of these dudes they are meeting are fvcking losers.

I am not afraid they are going to run away if I don't bang them and they'll find someone else. I'm fun and exciting to be around, I am a great conversationalist and I know how to flirt with them. I do pretty well for myself. I have more than once been told how charming and confident I am and how much they like it both in date and after dates. Do I shy away from it? No...if it happens it happens. But I could care less whether it does or not or within any certain timeframe.

Only people who are afraid a woman will find out they have little of value to offer need to rush them into the bedroom to try and get laid.
I agree with you on all this, and its backfired on me trying to rush a chic into bed
 

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All those 30’s single moms at the bar you speak of, their endless memes and quotes about men on Facebook are sure fun to read.lol
 

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All those 30’s single moms at the bar you speak of, their endless memes and quotes about men on Facebook are sure fun to read.lol
its even funnier that they all spout the same nonsense and get away with it, as men are scared of losing their P supply
 

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its even funnier that they all spout the same nonsense and get away with it, as men are scared of losing their P supply
It’s mostly women “you go girl” back and forth, throw in the occasional beta “sorry for my gender!”. I honestly find it entertaining because I could easily solve all their problems but they wouldn’t take my advice. First bit of advice is get out of the bar, that’s how you became a single mom in the first place.
 

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I was looking on my social media recently, and im noticing how many single moms constantly picture themselves in girl groups drinking within bars & pubs. Im sure women shared a meme a few years back about chad who messed them about. how he will still be drinking in the clubs at 45 with his bros like a clown.

These are grown ass 35 -45 year old women. It literally kills my attraction for them there and then.


Theyre not quite thot mommies in the club, but i still get E.D

One gets really involved when theres a local MMA event, on she likes to do the ring walk at 42.

god its cringe.
Derby mate, enjoy the decline. Pillage what you can. Bust out your hammock and watch the world burn.

You can rp rage. You can YouTube rant hypergamy and shill rubbish programs or ebooks minus receipts by married dating coaches. You can watch Said content while mental masturbation or you could just pull and watch the world burn.


I can't be bothered to listen to married dating coaches or black pill content. The SMP is black pill. It's a absolute dumpster fire but listening to married boomers rant or guys that don't approach or anything else that impedes the pursuits I desire I leave on DISREGARD.

IT EITHER SERVES ME OR I DISREGARD.
 

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It’s mostly women “you go girl” back and forth, throw in the occasional beta “sorry for my gender!”. I honestly find it entertaining because I could easily solve all their problems but they wouldn’t take my advice. First bit of advice is get out of the bar, that’s how you became a single mom in the first place.
Kevin Samuels is like watching fresh and fit sped up a decade later post wall. It's Jerry Springer live. Its funny. It's entertainment but it's not Game nor does it improve game or add to my finite life.
 

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It is depressing as hell though. Pretty much if you are not a HENRY than you might as well buy a sex doll. I stopped listening to his show due to that. It's not reflective of reality. Plenty of non HENRY guys here are doing fine.
TFM is whack with dolls but point on with his grievances as are many other men. It's refreshing to here take on economics vs 4hr rants about hypergamy and zero approaches.

Don mate, I have spent OVER A DECADE doing cold approach pickup. While I don't disagree with most of the rp insights, these guys don't approach are mostly married and outside of Troy, none are actively I the game. But the got rubbish to shill like Tai Lopez here in my garage. Not shocking most guys SICK @ Game. Don't approach. Can't pull. Even after 10+ yrs I still take Ls. Girls still flake. Rotations erode. Wtf alternative is there? Give up? Marry a skank off the carousel and rant on YouTube about hypergamy? Start a black pill channel?

Pickup is flawed. It's work but I enjoy putting work in. I go put and I get girls. I haven't stopped in lock down. I see no end game. #nextset! I have ran a train on college girl and left with a buddy to get more girls. I have beat it rotten with done cute 20 something and approached on my walk back to the car. It does not stop. I got too much life running through my veins to be depressed. I find it funny more then anything how sheeple women are and how soy most men are today.

How old are you? I am early 30s. I spent pandemic scaling biz. I went super sayain via calisthenics and rings combined with IF. Fasting is money. The amount of approach invitations and choosing signals have been epic. I highly recommend a similar path.

Choose your destiny. It's hell. So embrace it. Go through the fire. Source more girls. A miniscule girls are worth my time. The best part has been getting in better shape then my 20s and pulling hotter younger girls then I ever have. Put work in NOW. With age your dating range expands. 18+ nothing beyond 20s.

Update me bro. Meditate too. Turn down the volume. I explore consciousness too. It turns Down the volume especially when my head gets too fat. Lulz
 

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That's the thing...I never required then to fvck me that night. I have a lot of value to offer them. Far more than 95% of guys they will likely meet. That's not me bragging, that's just me being real and being confident with who I know I am and knowing what's out there. Most of these dudes they are meeting are fvcking losers.

I am not afraid they are going to run away if I don't bang them and they'll find someone else. I'm fun and exciting to be around, I am a great conversationalist and I know how to flirt with them. I do pretty well for myself. I have more than once been told how charming and confident I am and how much they like it both in date and after dates. Do I shy away from it? No...if it happens it happens. But I could care less whether it does or not or within any certain timeframe.
Do you play that card or do you hide it?

I saw a old ty video. He spoke about showing resources. Essentially the perfect beta. Always got wrecked.

A few of my mates are high rollers or HENRY'S on track for wealth. When they flaunt it the girl gets crushed by the pool boy or the equivalent. It's not a card I ever played. I grew up in a rough area. I never had the nicest gear as a kid. I learned to throw hands fast. I've come up. I learned tact and game. Even as I've accumulated more wealth then I new as a kid, it's not something I will ever flaunt nor portray as an up sell.

I still do coffee dates and other inexpensive day 2s. I meet girls everywhere but mostly parks, dog parks or post workout. A girl asked me to take off my mask today before telling me I am hot. Def no Chad. Fairly attractive guy but it's more game then anything. Fortunately I wasn't born as froto or Shrek.

I don't disagree. Most are losers but real talk, those losers are getting her best years. The guy who won't give the ring and bend the knee.

Curious about your play? I don't dude bro. I don't flex with fine dining or luxury car. I may a bit at 40 just sparingly but... curious is curious.

What is your play before you let them know covertly you got it going on? One of my mates tells girls he's unemployed. He's loaded Lulz. Weeds out rubbish.
 

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It is depressing as hell though. Pretty much if you are not a HENRY than you might as well buy a sex doll. I stopped listening to his show due to that. It's not reflective of reality. Plenty of non HENRY guys here are doing fine.
Hes not doing it from that perspective, I think hes trolling women on what they think of normal men.
 
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