The ABC's of a True Don Juan

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This post took alot of time and effort to compose and is worth reading all of it, hop you enjoy

This post is also made to show everyone the other side of a DJ, a DJ is not only a woman seducer, he is also a successful and happy person, and this is his alphabet...


(A) VOID NEGATIVE SOURCES, PEOPLE, PLACES, THINGS, AND
HABITS:

Ever wonder why you just couldnt go talk to that one chick youve been dying to talk too, or why you didnt join that basketball team in school, or even why you didnt join a school club, aside from the obvious reasons, look at the people you hang out with, are they the type who just complain about everything and do nothing? if thats the case, you need new friends! a Don Juan hangs out with optimistic, happy people, not sad depressed fools!?!? if you make it a goal to hang out with people who are always cheerful and and are of action, youll soon find that all the negative things in your life diminish gradually. like the old saying, "you can never bring your friends up, but they can always bring you down"

so go out and meet people with similar goals and ambitions, be a happy person, somebody people love to be around, and trust me, girls will notice, like cheese to a mouse, so what are you waiting for?



(B) ELIEVE IN YOURSELF:

Because nobody else will! a Don Juan is a person who does not doubt him self, how can you believe in anything else in life if you cant even believe in yourself and your abilities?? nobody is perfect and that is a given, but give yourself enough respect to actually do something that you want, whether it be talking to that hot chick across the room, or getting a job, college, etc..., believing in yourself is tied in with your own self esteem, after all, you are your own worst critic! dont doubt yourself, commend yourself for having faith in your abilities to even make a move and try in whatever you do, after all, we are defined by our actions, and if you are full of self doubt, how will your inner Don Juan shine?

so next time you see an opportunity, believe in yourself, because if you dont, why would anybody else?



(C) ONFIDENCE:

Confidence is a necessity in anything you do. Confidence is the result of how you view yourself, you view your self low, your confidence will be low, you view yourself highly, your confidence will be high and shine, its a self fulfilling prophecy. How do you get Confidence, its not easy, but not impossible. Take a look at yourself, are you fat? go work out, are you afraid of talking to girls? go talk to some, are you afraid of social gatherings? go to a few parties and social events and make an effort to get rid of your fears because they are the anchor to your social life boat. Youve heard this over and over again, so whats stopping you from doing it? YOURSELF! so kick your inner wussy in the pvssy and be a man for christ sakes!



(D) ONT GIVE UP AND DONT GIVE IN:

No matter how bad things seem, giving up on yourself only worsens the situation! stop, take a look at whats going on, and analyze what is the problem in the situation? why would you consider giving up? your mind will flood with answers! instead of thinking "im such a loser, ima give up!" think,"how can i get out of this situation, what are my options beside giving up?" your mind will flood with millions of answers!

never give up or into anything you or believe in. dont be a flake, have some core values, beliefs, and morals, and live by them, dont be embarassed because you dont fit into some social stigma! giving into something that you dont believe in is the ultimate self disrespect! a true Don Juan doesnt take disrespect from anybody, why should he have to take it from himself?

if you find yourself failing, giving up might seem like common sense, but common sense is not so common people! instead of saying "ive failed a million times!" try "ive found a million ways that dont work!" youll feel much better because you narrowed the chances of failure next time you try! in school we are taught that mistakes are wrong and they make you look dumb! well from experience, mistakes are a gold mine, they teach you some of lifes golden lessons. you should feel even more motivated to do something after failing at it, you better the odds, heh, giving up isnt even in a true Don Juan's vocabulary!



(E) NJOY LIFE TODAY; YESTERDAY IS GONE AND TOMORROW MAY
NEVER COME:

Half the posts on these forums are about people complaining about how they failed and how they missed opportunities. well you know what, posting them here will not bring them back! what happened has happened and cannot be reversed! a true Don Juan doesnt complain and b!tch about yesterday, and doesnt put things off until tomorrow, no he lives in TODAY!

complaining about what happened yesterday will only waste your today and tomorrow will never come, because tomorrow never comes, there is only today! your mad you didnt talk to that HB9 yesterday, boo hoo, get over it and move on! that chick at school is looking sexy, but you dont feel like talking to her today, maybe tomorrow... yeah tomorrow for sure!!! (tomorrow) *repeat last sentence* so people, stop living in yesterday and dreaming of tomorrow, and please, do something today before it becomes yet another regrettable yesterday!



(F) AMILY AND FRIENDS ARE HIDDEN TREASURES; SEEK THEM AND
ENJOY THEIR RICHES:

A true Don Juan doesnt disrespect his mom or talk back to his dad, no he enjoys their presence and tries to learn from them. parents are like unexplored gold mines! they have been through everything you have and have a ton of knowledge and wisdom for the taking! yes they may not be up to date on current media and the like, but they are full of valuable information on life lessons!

a true Don Juan also has many friends, male and female! go out and meet new people, network, you never know how people might be able to benefit you until you need them! you see that nerd by himself eating lunch on the school steps.. go talk to him! you are no better then they are, and you never know, they might be CEO of a huge company in the future when you need a job! so go and make new friends, and have fun, talk to your parents, ask them how was it when they grew up, get to know them, you will appreciate them much more because they love you, and they are raising you to the best of their abilities, you werent born with instruction after all! so go and meet mom and dad in a whole new light! because there will come the day that they wont be with you anymore and you will regret not getting to know them!



(G) IVE MORE THEN YOU PLAN TO GIVE:

Do you feel bad? depressed? well try helping those who are less fortunate then you! after all, you have a roof over your head, food on the table and clothes on your back, and rich enough to have a computer with a decent internet! YOU ARE FORTUNATE! so go help those who arent as blessed as you are. you will feel great and its a place to meet people and interact with your community. a true Don Juan doesnt take his community for-granted and does his best to give back to his community.

So go out and volunteer at the shelter, the less fortunate dont only eat on thanksgiving and christmas:rolleyes:

If going down to shelters and helping isnt your thing, you can give back in many other ways! try tutoring down at the teen center or at your school, helping people is a rewarding experience and is a great place to meet new people...and girls wil notice when your at the mall and little tommy runs up to you and thanks you for helping him with his english homework:D like the key to their hearts....and other places;)



(H) ANG ON TO YOUR DREAMS:

What is a person who doesnt have dreams? ambitions? goals? a L-O-S-E-R!!! and women hate men who just go through life with nothing in mind!

your dreams are your future and if you dont hang on to your dreams, you will have no future! dream, and then take actions to make those dreams a reality, because dreams are basically a rough draft and actions make them a final draft! dreams are a plan to your life, if your failing to plan, your planning to fail! no successful person in the world has accomplished anything without dreaming! if people make fun of your dreams and your goals in life, dont worry, its just that their planning to work at taco bell the rest of their lives, and your dreams and personal goals are outside of their mental box! so dont worry, these people should never influence you! you should always be smart enough to dream, but stupid enough to cast aside peoples criticism. After all, what is a Don Juan without dreams??



(I) GNORE THOSE WHO TRY TO DISCOURAGE YOU:

Ever notice those people who are always saying, "you cant do this, thats impossible" "yeah right, youll never get her, shes too good for you!" or "dont even try that, its waaaaay to hard"
IGNORE THESE PEOPLE!! if you listen to them, you are fueling them, never listen to these gloomy Gus's, they are just saying how they feel about themselves and their abilities, but somehow portray it into you. A true Don Juan ignores people who discourage him, he laughs at people who tell him he cant do something, and uses it as motivation to do it

so next time somebody tries to discourage you, just walk away, leave, and go do it, do it, do it, do it, and dont think twice! you win, you win, you fail, at least you tried!
 

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(J) UST DO IT:

Ever wonder why nike is so successful, it is in part with their slogan, JUST DO IT!!! couldnt have summed sosuave in three better words then these!

if you want to do something that you might be afraid of, just do it, dont give yourself time to build self doubt, just go for it, theres nothing worse then the fear of regret, just imagine how you will feel like if you pass up this opportunity...thats enough motivation for me!!!

dont over analyze any situation!, just see it for how it is and go for it, that woman standing over there wont be there forever, so unless you grab your balls and talk to her, she wont be grabbing yours anytime soon! so lose the anxiety and self doubt, and do it!
shes hanging out with her friends? JUST DO IT!! shes sitting by herself? JUST DO IT!! shes with a group of guys chatting, JUST DO IT!! for christ sakes is it sooo hard?? after all, hesitation leads to masturbation, and unless you take a risks with women, its just you and good ol's miss right hand friday night!

This also applies to life and success, a harvard graduate degree wont just fall in your lap, you want to be successful, JUST DO IT, whatever it takes, no matter how hard or seemingly impossible, JUST DO IT!!!!! a true Don Juan doesnt take no for an answer!!



(K) EEP ON TRYING, NO MATTER HOW HARD IT SEEMS, IT WILL GET
EASIER:

Life is not easy, and nothing is free. so trying once and quitting will you get you nowhere! you will fail, its a fact, its a reality, ACCEPT IT. but dont let it discourage you from trying, because with each failure, comes a nugget of success!

How so? easy, when you fail, you realize what went wrong and will be better prepare next time around. that cant happen if you give up on yourself the first time around! and each time you try something, it will get easier, and easier until you finally succeed, and you will better much enjoy your success having failed a few times rather than get it right the first time, success is a poor teacher, failure is an excellent one!

Nothing is to hard to accomplish, you set your own limitations and your own boundaries, so next time you think "i cant", its because you talked yourself into thinking that, instead, try "how can i?" a true Don Juan doesnt give up on himself or his goals

you find it difficult to talk to girls? go to talk to just one... then two...then three... the power of momentum is awesome, when your on a roll, you just keep going and you break your own limitations, set no limitations, as your own limitation, youll be a much happier person!



(L) OVE YOURSELF FIRST AND MOST:

How can you love a girl and anybody else, if you dont love yourself? this is probably the most important letter of the alphabet, because if you dont love yourself, then nothing else will matter because you wont make an effort to try.

you are #1, dont let anybody talk you out of it, if you cant help and love yourself the most, how can you love another person? its amazing to me how many people have low self esteem and self worth then complain why they cant land a chick.. WELL DUUUUUUHHHHHH!!!!, how can you love another person if you dont love yourself first, a true Don Juan loves himself more then any woman he could find, because with self love, there will be no love to give!



(M) AKE IT HAPPEN:

How many of you people know people who just talk talk talk talk and do absolutely nothing??? i know i know a few, do you want to end up like that, i would hope not, so go out and MAKE IT HAPPEN!! a true Don Juan makes things happen in his life and just doesnt sit at home and say "wha..what happened?"

you want to be a doctor, go read medical books, you want to be a lawyer, go read law books, you want to be a businessman, go read some business books, MAKE IT HAPPEN people, and learning is the most vital step to accomplishing things in life and MAKING THINGS HAPPEN! know your goals, and MAKE THINGS HAPPEN to accomplish them, dont sit around and do nothing? whats the point?



(N) EVER LIE, CHEAT, OR STEAL:

A true Don Juan does not lie!, why would he, he is worthy of anybodys presence just because of who he is, he doesnt need to lie to impress people, if any man or woman has a problem with who he is, that is their problem not his! lying is a cowards way out of things! always remember, if you make a mistake, and lie about it, you have just made two!

a true Don Juan does not cheat or steal either? why would he want to? If Don Juan is dating a woman, he does not cheat on her, he is man enough to resist temptation, he doesnt give in to his temptations and is man enough to realize their there, but not worth grabbing. he is content with who he is with, or else wouldnt be with them in the first place!
A Don Juan also does not steal, he doesnt need to, whatever he has or possesses is good enough, if he wants more, he works his ass off to get it, not steals it, thats a stupid and cowards way of getting things, you want something, achieve it, dont steal it, youll appreciate it much more..

this also goes to stealing women from their boyfriends...none of this bull about them not being happy with them, they are happy enough to stay with them, that is their problem, their are a hundred single women for each taken one, so go find yours, before carma catches up to you!



(O) PEN YOUR EYES AND SEE THINGS AS THEY REALLY ARE:

Dont trick yourself into seeing whats not there. if you are going out with somebody, and there are signs that he/she is cheating on you, dont dismiss the, love is blind, so realize the truth, yes i know it may be hard, i know that she may be the 'one' and that you want to grow up with her, get a well paying job, then marry her, have two kids and live in your house on top of cherry hill where the pretty flowers grow and little cute furry bunnies scurry.......but thats most likely not going to happen if you start to get doubts and suspect. never assume anything thats not a fact and never under or overestimate anything in life, it will come back to haunt you, after all, a true Don Juan is never blind!



(P) RACTICE MAKES PERFECT:

Or as close as youll come. repitition is key, you fail once, try try again, each time you will reach perfection a little bit at a time.

nothing has ever been achieved without a little practice, im sure when you were 6, you didnt get on your bike and start to grind on a bench, no, PRACTICE helped you achieve that, a true Don Juan knows the value of practice and how it is necessary to do it to become successful, whether it be in life, women, or both!

If you dont want to practice at anything you want, your better off at home jacking off all day, im sure weve all had more then our fair share of practice in that field:rolleyes: so get out there and practice what you read here, or else, whats the point of reading it?



(Q) UITTERS NEVER WIN AND WINNERS NEVER QUIT

Ever notice how those guys who never have had a girlfriend never do...yet those who have one, might have more? thats because the ones who failed, just quit, and the winners, couldnt quit... why would they, its too easy to win so y quit? if only the quitters would only realize that if they made just a little bit more effort, that they might be the never quitters, but there too afraid of failing...o well, just remember, NEVER QUIT or youll never win
....simple as that!
 
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(R) EAD, STUDY, AND, LEARN ABOUT EVERYTHING IMPORTANT IN
YOUR LIFE:

Ever date on of those stereotypical blondes who had nothing to talk about and were a total bore.., the kind, if it werent for their looks, theyd be virtually unknown...? well would you like to be the make version of it?? i would think not!

So get out there and learn... learning is a lifelong process and doesnt end with a college degree!! learning makes you an interesting person to talk to and a great person to ask for advice.. and chicks dig guys with a big head.. no pun intended:D
being smart does not mean nerd, but means an interesting person to talk to, being very knowledgable and philosophical is a very rare thing nowadays, so go read, study, learn, and your life will expand to new horizons in life, and once closed doors, will be wide open.. knowledge is truly power!



(S) TOP PROCRASTINATING:

Get of your lazy azz and get out into the real world and socialize!! its amazing how people complain of being lonely when all they do all day is sit at home, watch T.V., eat lays, play video games, and use the computer and then expect carmen electra to knock on the door asking them out on a date! PLEASE people, dont procrastinate! why put off till tomorrow what you can do today!

so stop being lazy, get out of the house for a little bit each and everyday... talk a walk and go over your day and your accomplishments were, get a breather, but dont ever procrastinate, its easy to start but hard to break, so dont be lazy, go to the gym, join a sport, do anything but nothing, a true Don Juan has to many things to do to just sit around and waste his time!



(T) AKE CONTROL OF YOUR OWN DESTINY:

You control your life, you decide what you want, and you are the only one that can make it happen... sitting at home and doubting yourself unfortunately does not help the situation!

you only get one life, so make the best of it, take control of it, you dont want to grow up, be ninety years old, on your deathbed, and regretting all the things that you never did? what a way to go, just thinkin of that makes me want to do the SEEMINGLY impossible. a true Don Juan is in control of his destiny and is living his life according to his rules and no one elses!

so take control of your destiny, you are the only one in charge of your life and you decide how you live it! so if you waste it, its YOUR fault, nobody elses!



(U) NDERSTAND YOURSELF IN ORDER TO BETTER UNDERSTAND
OTHERS:

How can you figuire out girls or friends if you cant figuire yourself out first? get your priorities straight!, embrace your strengths, and work on making you weaknesses into strengths. know who you are, know your likes and dislikes, know every little detail of yourself before you even entertain the idea of figuiring anybody else out!

a true Don Juan knows himself and his attributes, and so should you!



(V) ISUALIZE IT:

When you see that hot chick at the soda line, standing there, and you think about walking up to her, talking to her, and getting her number then calling her up and going out with her...most of the time, IT WILL HAPPEN, the problem here is that too many people think the opposite, they think that they will get rejected and humiliated, so they either dont try or try and get rejected because that is how they envisioned it to be! again, its a self fulfilling prophecy.

a true Don Juan always envisions himself succeeding because thats all he ever keeps in mind, his successes, when he fails, he immediately tosses them out, they have no place in his mind, and should not take up a spot where a success should be!



(W) ANT IT MORE THAN ANYTHING:

A true Don Juan puts his successes in life above anything else, but do you want to succeed more then anything else??? the answer is pretty easy, but lets get into the gritty parts of achieving it and half of you will walk away on the spot! trhats because, although most of you will claim to want success above anything else, few of you are willing to put in the effort to achieve success... please prove me wrong!

you want to be successful, then go out and practice, in whatever you want to be successful in, and just keep doing it and you will be better off. what more in life could anybody want then to be a success in all areas of his life? nothing probably, but show me the ones who are dedicated to doing it and going the whole nine yards and ill show you a person of passion and will!



(X) CCELERATE YOUR EFFORTS:

You finally found a routine or a formula that works for you...bravo bravo, i commend you, good job, now find another one, one formula or way of doing something will not last you forever, so exccelerate your efforts to exceed your limmitations and to go above and beyond what you set and expected of yourself! nothing is more fulfilling then breaking your own personal records and achieving what you thought was impossible, I tell you, there is no greater joy in life....well maybe, but its not as satisfying:)

a true Don Juan knows how to up his efforts and find more ways of doing one thing, because when you find an uncommon way to do a common thing, you will command the attention of the world...if the feat is big enough of course!



(Y) OU ARE UNIQUE OF ALL GOD's CREATIONS; NOTHING CAN
REPLACE YOU

Now whether you believe in god or not, that is irrelevant, the point is that we are all born with a special gift, we are all unique in our own way, the most successful people took advantage of their gift and made millions off of it, why dont you?

a true Don Juan knows his worth and knows his uniqueness! stop trying to 'fit into the crowd' and start being the ones that the crowds follow!



(Z) ERO IN ON YOUR TARGET AND GO FOR IT:

Dont just stand there all day staring at some chick and end up masturbating at home to her? go talk to her, and maybe you wont have too!

a true Don Juan always does what he likes and is not afraid of rejection? a true Don Juan sees an opportunity and goes for it, because he does not want to regret it, a true Don Juan knows how to analyze situations and go for something when its at its prime, but at the same time, does not over analyze a situation and miss out on a chance.. so after all of this...are you a true Don Juan?


thanks for reading


latez...~!~
 

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DAMN MINA. This post prolly took you a day to write. Don't have time to read it now since I gotta go meet up with my girl Julie, but you can bet once I get back in tonight it's the first thing I'm doing.

And by the way, this post should be either in DJ Discussion, HS, or Tips...why Anything Else?
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks, any more comments?
 

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Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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a true Don Juan always envisions himself succeeding because thats all he ever keeps in mind, his successes, when he fails, he immediately tosses them out, they have no place in his mind, and should not take up a spot where a success should be!
This is the absolute key to ALL of the other points. I said to myself I'm going to start here first. It's gradually getting better. And that's the way it should be.

Q) UITTERS NEVER WIN AND WINNERS NEVER QUIT
...but those who never win AND never quit are idiots.:p


Furthermore, I'd say this topic should be archived. Really good job, man!
 

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thanks man, i actually wanted this to be in the tips section but i accidentally posted it here, if mods see this plz move it


latez...~!~
 

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DJ's do lie cheat and steal... thats the ****ing point.

Besides that, your post was brilliant.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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and thanks
 

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Originally posted by DJ IronGirevik
Umm, how the hell is lying, cheating and stealing the point of being a DJ?
dont worry, anthony doesnt have too much going up there...
or maybe he was just drunk..........
NAHHHHHHHHHHHHHh
 

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(N) EVER LIE, CHEAT, OR STEAL:


Besides the letter N, I'm down with the rest of the alphabet soup that you got going.

Lying is definitily bad and should be avoided always, because you don't need to lie to impress people or cover up for the mess that you make. Own up to it and be true to yourself.

Cheating..ehhh there's a lot of issues about that, it's not about resisting temptation and being content with who you're with...but when you find a new toy to play with, are you not going to play with it? It's only human nature...when you were little you played with a plastic Tonka truck, but when your parents got you the radio-controlled Tonka monster truck did you not stop playing with the plastic Tonka truck? I know I did, hell I took my radio controlled Tonka monster truck and ran over the plastic one. :D But that's besdies the point...swinging from branch to branch is normal.

"he is content with who he is with, or else wouldnt be with them in the first place!"

I can't agree with because you should never be satisfied, you always want to achieve the bigger and better things in life. Might not be materialistic things such as cars and houses, but lets say you want to become a more social person, then that might be bigger and better than what you are right now, so you want to achieve that.

"this also goes to stealing women from their boyfriends...none of this bull about them not being happy with them, they are happy enough to stay with them, that is their problem, their are a hundred single women for each taken one, so go find yours, before carma catches up to you!"

Goes back to the being satisfied thing, girls are just as bad as guys when it comes to being happy with who they are with. Now if I were to "steal" a girl frmo hsi man, you'd probably say "What goes around, comes around," yeah well that's wonderful, if it happens the DJ moves forward.

But anyways, enough dissecting your post, it is still one of the better/organized/thoughtful posts that I have read in recent weeks. Keep up the good work.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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