The “Men’s Rights Movement” should be called the “Beta Power Movement”

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Did Rollo do something to Zarky?


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October 29, 2014 by Flumpy

The “Men’s Rights Movement” should be called the “Beta Power Movement”
Because they’re all weak betas and can’t change with the changing sexual landscape.

Here’s a few recent quotes from The Rational Male blog:

“I remembered then an older man I had done some peer counseling with while in college and how this man had essentially striven his entire life to please and content his ex-wife and his now second wife of more than 30 years.”

That’s ****in’ sad.

“This is why I say men are the True Romantics, because the overwhelming majority will devote a lifetime to the effort of actualizing a belief in a male-idealized love to find fulfillment in a woman and for that woman.”

That’s really ****in’ sad.

“As soon as I would ‘fall in love’ I would slowly drop those activities, I’d focus on being a good bf, I would focus on providing and ‘being what she wanted’ what I thought she wanted, better said.”

That’s beyond ****in’ sad.

“Is this what Rollo means when he says our response to women is a conditioning, and that the sadness we get from Red Pill truth is the result of behaving and believing something that is not really our nature, but the result of having someone else’s behaviors and beliefs installed into us?”

No, here’s why you feel so “sad” when you realize that chicks dig jerks: You realize that you’re a big ****in’ pansy and you always will be. You’re a momma’s boy and you’ve just realized there ain’t no more mommas for you. That’s what’s making you “sad,” bud. You’ve realized that your boring beta self ain’t gonna cut it, and at the same time you’ve realized that you are incapable of being anything else.

Hey, nothing wrong with that. But just go. Don’t ***** about it. Don’t whine about it. Just… go.

People think I dislike men or that I’m against male empowerment. I’m not. There’s a “Dad’s Legal Center” or whatever it’s called not far from my office and I presume it’s a law firm which fights legal battles for men. That’s great and I fully support that. I think the world needs more of those, in fact. What I like about it is that those guys are actually doing something to effect change and help other guys out.

Not so, the MRA dorks. What I can’t stand are pathetic little whiners who go on and on about how “women these days just can’t understand” what wonderful and sweet dudes they are. Because chicks don’t find them desirable, therefore chicks (and society, and politics, and the media, etc) are all BAD. It’s not the dude himself, no. Of course not. It’s the rest of the world.

Admittedly, these loons would have had a better time getting laid in 1950 and before. Then, women had to look past ****ty, boring, whiner personalities and go for the money — ie, the provider males. As long as these dudes could earn a buck, they could be as annoying as they naturally are and they’d still get at least a bit of action.

Look, it’s fine to wake up one day and realize you’re a weak-ass chump. Lots of guys do it. The key difference is that you should start effecting change at a rather rapid pace once that realization has ****-slapped you across the face. If you’re still a bitter beta a year later, or heaven forbid 2, 3, 5, 10 years later… you ain’t ever gonna change. You are a permanent beta chump living in a world that no longer has any respect or need for beta chumps.

If that’s the case, quit blogging. Quit whining. Accept yourself and move to Alaska to be alone and enjoy the beautiful scenery there. I’m waiting for the day when MGTOW truly and permanently GTOW rather than just threatening to.
 

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At some point I think most if not all of us were at the "beta chump phase" at some point in life. I didn't even realize how badly I was until I came here and learned this sh*t. But it's not that which defines you, it's how you react to it and how you grow and evolve and learn from your past mistakes. Very rarely is a guy such a natural DJ that he had it all down pat from the get go. Usually it takes a combination of experience, knowledge, and insight. You NEED to make mistakes so you can learn from them. Of course it would be nice to just read a book or an article, or listen to a podcast and think it's all peaches and cream. But it's more complicated than that. You're gonna mess up along the way, and that's alright. It's cool to make a mistake, just don't make the same mistake twice, or god forbid three times or more. Learn from it and move on and it will be a positive learning experience that is a foundation to your newly acquired success. Don't change or learn from it and you will be stuck in the same repeating pattern of "coincidental" unfortunate circumstances until you decide enough is enough.This site can help a lot, but ultimately you still have to learn from your own experience and constantly be making improvements.
 

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Zarky just write things like this in her blog because it threatens her chances of having her cake and eating it to.
 

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Wait Zarky is a women? That explains the tone in her writing. No way this was written by a male. I think deep down men know that to get anywhere in life they have to work hard at it. Rarely do men just get what they want by holding out there hand and poof there it is. The problem is that most men and women of this modern day generation is that they are under the impression that they are entitled to anything they want.

Mostly women but men are too and it makes people lazy and depressed that they aren't getting what they were told they would have as a kid growing up watching all those Disney movies. The thing is that women can hold their hand out and get what they want but rarely does it ever satisfy them. When men get the same treatment it's far worse for them. Because life doesn't work that way. You get what you deserve. You reap what you sow.

A man who doesn't approach women will continue to have no women in his life. A man who doesn't work hard at his job without pushing for promotion or other better jobs will be stuck where he is. A women who settles for the guy who does anything she wants is stuck with a man who she doesn't respect. Same with the guy who does nothing to get his own self respect back.

This isn't a game guys. It's not a competition. It's a choice you've been given since the day you were able to understand the world. That you are only as good as the amount of time and awareness you put out into the world. Sure some people are smarter, bigger, faster than others. But you can still outwork them and learn as much as the next guy. It may be at different rates but you can only go at your rate. If that doesn't stop then you get where you want to go. When your supposes to. Life isn't fair but it's not supposed to be. We are here to be challenged and to evolve past those challenges. It's our choice whether we evolve past them or don't.
 

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Well Zarky says she's a man, but she's a woman.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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My biggest gripe with women is that they are not attracted to, at least in their prime, successful characteristics.


I remember I went on a date a while back when I was single and the woman was put off that I didn't want to talk about sex. I'm like ***** I'm grown lol I'm sorry if I read books and have hobbies and **** lol. I like to talk about **** other than "so you like to have sex, i like to have sex, are you a freak, i'm a freak, i like freaks, etc".

The problem I have is, women, not all of them but way too many of them, ar e like this.


My probelm is that a man should not have to chose.. be successful in life or be successful with women. In 2014, you really can't have both, becuase if youa re going to be really really successful with women, you're going to blow money and be overly materialistic and waste too much time and hae to have all the newest toys and gadgets and ****.



It's not that men don't understand women. It's that men understand that a woman's interest isn't even in HER best interest


It's why I could never date a womam under 30 again. I could. I'm not going to go out and buy a new sports car and hang out at clubs and get drun every other just to get laid.
 

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Such huge problem out of a shemale. Just let her be and do his own thing. It should not bother you. If she is happy doing the same mistakes a million times again and again and over again, let him be - at least he is happy.

And he must be happy. Because who would repeat the same stuff that doesn't make one happy? It is impossible. And if doing something does not make you happy then it must be the opposite. There is a opposite to everything.

Now he seems to enjoy being the "chump" he is. Let him be. You seem to have more problems about him than he has about himself. In fact, he doesn't seem to have whatsoever-problem. He is enjoying himself, you are not. He wins.
 

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i said nothing about MRA lol. my post has nothing to do with the MRA. if anything I'm saying the MRA people have a valid point.
 

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i never was anti mra. men need ****ing rights. i've always been anti let's ***** and moan about feminism however. not **** you can do about it.

but the above are real concerns
 

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Zarky's been pissing and moaning and trolling over the "evil manosphere" for years under various names and many many different sites. A lot of females post as men for the simple fact they know if they post as females they generally are laughed off the boards. That's not to say there aren't any chicks who can post decent stuff, there are quite a few red pill lite chicks (who post as chicks)
Zarky however is a different ball of wax. Her hatred toward men "looking under the hood" as Rollo puts it and men in general goes beyond the odd blow in chick who's pissed off about some home truth's, spews some blue pill feeelz crap and then fvcks off again. Zarky is commited, she's been doing this for years and she can fool quite a few of the noobs when she's in her " I'm just a dandy playa who sleeps on couches" mode. She always drops her guard though and shows her hand when the feeelz are too much. Basically it boils down to everything your average blue state dyke is angry/passionate about so is zarky. This is some of the stuff I've called her out on over the years:

* hates traditional gender roles

*concerned about the plight of LGBT community (she's eased back on this one thank fvck)

*hates the fictitious "patriarchy"

* hates traditional marriage

* loves tall women with short hair(and comfy shoes if you get my meaning)

* hates men who play video games

* hates "rednecks" (I guess "rednecks" are a symbol of the patweearchy)

* hates Christians (another symbol of the patweearchy)

* hates fox news (another you guessed it)

* drones on about polygamy laws

* a devout sh1tlib

* hates the manosphere

* hates the MRM/MGTOW's with a passion
 
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Zarky is Wildfire and her many incarnations. They come to the site every so often.

I would like to know, who is Jaylan?
 

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LiveFreeX said:
Zarky is Wildfire and her many incarnations. They come to the site every so often.
Wildfire was a bit of a fruit loop and often spouted loveshack nonsense but I don't think she hated the manosphere and is/was committed enough to sustain an alter ego for this long. I also suspect she knew places like this sprouting up everywhere was bound to happen and partially accepted it. Where as the actual existence of the manosphere obviously drives zarky nuts. I could be wrong but I don't believe it's the same person.

Wildfire did not like me much though :eek: heh. I think she was just another alpha widow and used this place to talk about her convict husband or whoever he was. I did like the one where he just got out of prison, pulled her tampon out and flung it across the room before ravishing her.
 

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Danger said:
Ah okay....I always thought you were anti-MRA for some reason. Apologies if I was wrong.
Lol, looks like BB started the ignition to the MRA-mobile. Re-reading his post, I don't even understand or can comprehend how his post is MRA to the point you easily got offended for him being anti-MRA. Well unless you already have assumptions about posters that are veterans here and just label them under a different category. It's fine, that's what average men do. They use past references of men to conclude everything about them. You can also apply that concept with women and make an argument that 50's women aren't who they are anymore. It's cool, but you need to realize times change and people change.

BB is right in a sense that men need to stop b!tching about feminism and overcome it. You have to realize that men are already doing it instead of moping around what's fair and unfair. Men are out there getting laid....and these men aren't writing novels about men's rights and why our system is unfair. They are doing something about it and creating the life they want. You can dedicate your life trying to make women be 1950's style, or you can cancel you AOL subscription.
 

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backbreaker said:
My probelm is that a man should not have to chose.. be successful in life or be successful with women. In 2014, you really can't have both, becuase if youa re going to be really really successful with women
Depends on what you mean by being successful with women. If that means you have to be spinning 7 plates or whatever, then yeah, you're probably right.

backbreaker said:
It's why I could never date a womam under 30 again. I could. I'm not going to go out and buy a new sports car and hang out at clubs and get drun every other just to get laid.
This stands out to me because there's another thread right now where everyone is saying "Don't date women over 30 because they're damaged goods". But I tend to agree with you more. Especially at my age, I appreciate the added maturity. The girls who are 21 may have perkier boobs, but too ditzy for my taste.
 

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If i were ever single i would take a good 2-3 grand and fuvk a few 21 yo hot escorts id go on a date with one particular girl at my gym who is 23 and i lnow loojs at me get it out my system and find a nice level headed 29 yo

23 yo hb8s are a zero sum game. And o dont.have time fot the silliness om a busy important dude. I love that my wife is not high maintenance
 

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If i were ever single i would take a good 2-3 grand and fuvk a few 21 yo hot escorts id go on a date with one particular girl at my gym who is 23 and i lnow loojs at me get it out my system and find a nice level headed 29 yo

23 yo hb8s are a zero sum game. And o dont.have time fot the silliness om a busy important dude. I love that my wife is not high maintenance
 

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MRM is basically the same as feminists on the other side, both share extreme views holding a lot of anger and resentment towards the opposite sex.
 

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Danger said:
Divorce court proceedings
Why are you terrified of divorce court proceedings if your boundaries work so great?

Wouldn't your phony boundary give you the power you need for your life long exclusivity with no worries of a divorce?

Wouldn't your boundary filter her out?

Wouldn't it prevent her from cavorting with other men?

What do you have to be terrified of with your boundary?

Put your boundary to the test. See how well it really works.

Put a ring on her finger and marry her.
 

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Soolaimon said:
Why are you terrified of divorce court proceedings if your boundaries work so great?

Wouldn't your phony boundary give you the power you need for your life long exclusivity with no worries of a divorce?

Wouldn't your boundary filter her out?

Wouldn't it prevent her from cavorting with other men?

What do you have to be terrified of with your boundary?

Put your boundary to the test. See how well it really works.

Put a ring on her finger and marry her.

What's hilarious is Sooliman can't seem to move past his own self-imposed boundary of going in circles talking about boundaries. :crackup:
 

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Soolaimon said:
Why are you terrified of divorce court proceedings if your boundaries work so great?

Wouldn't your phony boundary give you the power you need for your life long exclusivity with no worries of a divorce?

Wouldn't your boundary filter her out?

What do you have to be terrified of with your boundary?

Put your boundary to the test. See how well it really works.
Yo dawg, we heard you like boundaries so we put a boundary in your boundary so you can boundary with your boundaries.

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