The problem isn't him or the way he thinks, it's your inability to deal with the stuff you don't like.
The problem is him personally attacking anyone who disagrees with him and an inability to tolerate a difference in opinion. It's ironic that you're accusing the forum of exactly what this guy was actually doing.
Basically this is a big deal and I've come to the conclusion that the hive mind especially amongst men is very weak pathetic and beta for society and for men.
There are a nunber of points I agree with a majority on, after thoroughly and critically thinking through it, just reaching the same conclusion after that careful independent consideration. The moment I express it, some jackass who for some reason came to another conclusion just ignorantly reduce it all to me following the hive mind. Most often their alternative viewpoint was already a part of my consideration the first time before weighing it all up to reach a conclusion. I can present every piece of my thought process, including an understanding of their point of view and why I didn't reach the same conclusion. Do I get anything resembling a rational answer with good arguments in return? Sometimes, but many times I get none of that and is instead called a sheep because I'm not a unique little snowflake.
Needing a unique answer for uniqueness sake and perhaps to avoid being called a sheep is fvcking retarded. No need to reinvent the wheel...
Ultimately I quickly just ignore these idiots, they're going to reject anything I say, no matter how solid the argument. I'm a sheep, a follower of the hive mind, their mind is set on that and there's
nothing I can say to convince them otherwise apart from becoming
their follower, against my own independent judgement. The irony of these guys is unreal, I stop being a follower by becoming an unquestioning follower of their opinions? Yeah, no thanks, I know what's real.
For the record, I don't give a fvck about social approval and belonging if it goes against what I know and believe in.