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Does anyone have any good advice on how often to text after getting a number? (NOTE: I live in Europe where everyone sends SMSs instead of calling [By the way, if any of you have any anti-sms/pro-calling arguments, I'd love to hear them])
Anyway... my day-2 ratio is good. over 1/2 of the girls whose numbers I get end up meeting me a second time. Still there is that 1/2 that I don't know how to handle.
I'll meet a girl, have a great interaction with her, get the digits and bail. Then I'll wait 24 hours before texting her not to seem needy. Then I'll text her and often not get a response. I might wait a few hours and call her then instead of text messaging - I'll get the answering machine (translation: she sees it's me and doesn't want to pick up) ... then I might text her again a couple days later, towards the end of the week and say something like ... "hey there is a great party tonight at such and such, etc. etc.) in which case I'll get either no response or else a wishy-washy "hey, I meant to respond earlier but I've been busy... as for the the party, I'm not sure..." etc. etc.
...I'm sure this just means the girl either is weird, has a boyfriend, or isn't interested in me for some reason, but maybe someone has an idea of why my timing and technique isn't perfect. Does anyone for example, get a girl's number and not call it before 7 days have passed...?
Anyway... my day-2 ratio is good. over 1/2 of the girls whose numbers I get end up meeting me a second time. Still there is that 1/2 that I don't know how to handle.
I'll meet a girl, have a great interaction with her, get the digits and bail. Then I'll wait 24 hours before texting her not to seem needy. Then I'll text her and often not get a response. I might wait a few hours and call her then instead of text messaging - I'll get the answering machine (translation: she sees it's me and doesn't want to pick up) ... then I might text her again a couple days later, towards the end of the week and say something like ... "hey there is a great party tonight at such and such, etc. etc.) in which case I'll get either no response or else a wishy-washy "hey, I meant to respond earlier but I've been busy... as for the the party, I'm not sure..." etc. etc.
...I'm sure this just means the girl either is weird, has a boyfriend, or isn't interested in me for some reason, but maybe someone has an idea of why my timing and technique isn't perfect. Does anyone for example, get a girl's number and not call it before 7 days have passed...?