Have sex with girl on first date and have amazing connection to complete disinterest in 2 days
Okay. I seriously do not understand what the hell happened here. I am sincerely at a loss for words. Keep in mind that I don't really care that this didn't pan out the way I expected. At this point I need your analysis on what the hell happened here for learning purposes because clearly i am sh1t at texting and want to be better for the future.
You were so damn tryhard in your texts. Better make some improvements to your text game, but at least you acknowledged it.
Also before you all tell me to go get other women and stop caring, read my 100 days 100 sets thread. I have a bunch of plates right now. So that advice is void.
It's never void. I'm just glad to see someone putting in the effort.
I want to get better with text. And clearly something I did in these texts made her go from wet to dry quick. Either that or its something completely different. This is what this analysis is for:
tell me if its my texts that caused this, or if it perhaps is something else.
There are infinite reasons why a girl loses interest and why you don't get a job. Ever heard of a game called The Legend of Zelda: The Wind Waker? I lost a Junior Prom date behind not having that game. Still never played it. Like I said before, she likely has her eyes on her ex or her personal trainer. At least you had sex already.
A little context:
- I met this girl 6 days ago
- I walked into a sporting store and approached her
- She was the cashier
- I told her she was adorable and that i wanted her number to take her out
- then I made fun of her sandwich
- I end up giving her my number
- She texts me back later saying something like "you were really cute and Im glad you came in today"
- We build some really good rapport over text and I set up the date for two days later
- the day comes and there is no sign of flaking
- I meet up with her and the date is amazing > we had a great connection
- So much so that at the end of the date we had really good s3x
- She does tell me that she broke up with her boyfriend about 3 weeks ago (this i think is the kicker)
You should also know that all women have ex boyfriends. They also always have a man in their life in some capacity. Read Desdinova's High Score Theory. You'll get much more insight. To add, second place is first loser. You need to come in first, and stay in first. You scored high enough to score, but not enough to keep.
So here are the texts from the day after our date and s3x.
Notice a couple things.
- she is initiating all of the conversations
- she is double and triple texting me
- she is sh1t testing me and then, when i don't reply for 20 mins she completely apologizes for her own sh1ttests or calls them jokes
- to me these are HUGE signs of interest.
They're signs of interest as long as you're meeting with her. Anything else is friendzone fluff.
I have no idea how this went astray. Analyze please.
Her ex is back in the picture, and he scored higher than you.
My hypothesis is that she got back with her boyfriend.
Unfortunately, this is the root cause of most cases like this.
Or perhaps that she was so emotionally interested in me that she got scared.
Stop deluding yourself. She didn't want to take it to that next level because there's someone she perceives as better than you. Do you think a woman would be scared if she got emotionally interested in Lebron James or Steph Curry? Hell no, you wouldn't be scared to get emotionally involved with Shakira or Gal Gadot. There you go.
I honestly don't fvcking know at this point. hahaha.
I fvcking know at this point. You were trying too much instead of making your intents known quickly. Fluff talking can get you friendzoned or dropped. It's part of why you fell out of first place, then out of the race hahaha.
