telling a woman she's beautiful

[flyinshark]

If you tell a woman that she is beautiful (or the most beautiful girl you ever met), her chances to fall for you are greatly increased.

I'm curious, is this a myth or a fact?

 

[ohuitelnaya]

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[ohuitelnaya]

Originally posted by flyinshark
If you tell a woman that she is beautiful (or the most beautiful girl you ever met), her chances to fall for you are greatly increased.

I'm curious, is this a myth or a fact?

Where did you hear this?

That one didn't work on me...

Of course, the times it was said to me I had a boyfriend or was in love with another guy...

 

[flyinshark]

I was watching this show "Sex, toys, and Chocolate" and this chick said that only one guy managed to completely seduce her in her past. One the things he did was telling her how beautiful she was, and she said "what woman would not fall for that?", so it surprised me and that's why i asked this.

 

[DumpaLumpagus]

What do you think would happen if you walked up in front of a hot babe walking down the street, and said right to her, "You are beautiful."?

 

[flyinshark]

Originally posted by DumpaLumpagus
What do you think would happen if you walked up in front of a hot babe walking down the street, and said right to her, "You are beautiful."?

That's really cheesy and i dont think it could ever work. I was talking about saying that a bit later on, after you approached and built some rapport.

Originally posted by 007~JC
Quick tip for you regarding girls man:

Everything you see on TV. Everything you read in magazines. Everthing in the media. Every "tip" a girl tells you.

It's mostly feminized bullshyt man. Check out the dj bible for a few tips.

I am aware of what you are saying. However, there is a lot of gray areas in the real world, and especially in the seduction area. Saying that everything in the media, tv, magazines, is feminized bullshyt is a big generalization. I agree most can be bullshyt, but some can be valuable.

This made me curious to know if any of you guys had success with this "line".

 

[HuuBinh]

-flyinshark-

From experience, it has worked for me many times. The guys that use direct game will understand this concept more than most djs in here because djs and puas come from an indirect mindset

You can say, "you're beautiful." and it could convey a host of things.

1) Supplicating etc...or it can convey
2) Honesty, sincerity, emotional, confidence, you are the prize.

All of 2) is conveyed nonverbally through your bodylanguage, eye contact, tonality etc...

1) and 2) will lead to a totally different REACTION from a woman.

 

[BackToTheMack]

Depends on the girl for some girls ****y & funny doesnt work and tellign her she is beutifull works. The girl that wants me now last night she said to me:

"I have very strong feelings for you and i want to hookup with you not just in a sexual way but in a luving way to"

She is a HB9 and when i first met her a while after i approched she said:

Her: So why did you come up to me out of the girls in this room?

Me: Because you are beutifull

(she was shocked but at that moment her IL shot through the roof)

Needless to say i got her numebr and she has decided to move an entire state so she can go out with me. Not only for that shes going to do uni here to but she could have done Uni anywhere.

So telling her she is beutifull is ok as long as you dont say it every time you are with her. Keep complimets to a minimum and make sure she earns them.

 

[tmpgstx]

It's really the way you say it. If you say it in a meek manner, you come across as timid. Something doesn't go well with a statement like that. Saying it with some substance (or drive behind it), then it works! Of course, she has to find you attractive too. If you're not attractive to her, won't mean much.

 

[Derek Flint]

Done right, a Direct approach can be very powerful, much more so than lame opinion openers.

 

[BackToTheMack]

I mean take a look at James Bond some of the **** he says acording to the DJ Bible is total AFC and he should be shot.

But can you honestly tell me that you think any woman watching it wouldnt get wet when sean connery says that ****?

 

[JonJack]

I totally agree that it depends on the context and manner in it being said.

If you try and understand words a little better, you would come to realize that how another person responds to your words does not depend on the words itself but on how they interpret those words. That's when all those other forms of communication (body language, tone, eye contact, rate and pitch) comes into play.

It's just like telling a joke and only your close friends laugh at it and understand it while all your other acquaintances are sitting there with a confused look in their faces. You've got to understand how the people you know interpret the way in which you say things to get the best response from them.

 

[ohuitelnaya]

Originally posted by BackToTheMack
I mean take a look at James Bond some of the **** he says acording to the DJ Bible is total AFC and he should be shot.

But can you honestly tell me that you think any woman watching it wouldnt get wet when sean connery says that ****?

Yes - It definitely couldn't hurt to be or look like Sean Connery...

 

[BackToTheMack]

Sean Connery was the best Bond ever. You want to know how to be an Alpha and how to be around woman. Watch Sean Connery as James Bond.

 

[Lost In the Seas]

i think it's kinda true, there's so many DJ wannabes learning openers these days a direct right on honest "you are beautiful" may prove to be more powerful and one of a kind, and we all know that girls love unique, special, rare

 

[the_great_gaia]

always tell a beautiful woman that she's SMART.. that's what she really wants to hear...

 

[MetalFortress]

The direct compliment like that is, I'm sure, something that would also work best for a very good looking guy who doesn't need to run game in order to be successful, or who would have a harder time running C+F/neghits because it would make him look arrogant easier. For example, someone who's 6'1, 200 lbs with 10 % bodyfat would have an easier time with it than someone who is 5'1, 200 lbs with 30% bodyfat.

 

[spider_007]

MYTH

you'll have a better chance if you tell her; "Why is it everytime I see you I get a boner" (it saiz the same thing, and makes her laugh at the same time.)

it's lot more flatering then the good old "your so beautifull" that's been used and abused by so many AFC

 

[Keeper]

Originally posted by spider_007
MYTH

you'll have a better chance if you tell her; "Why is it everytime I see you I get a boner" (it saiz the same thing, and makes her laugh at the same time.)

it's lot more flatering then the good old "your so beautifull" that's been used and abused by so many AFC

:crackup:

OMG! I LOVE IT! Gonna go think of my own 'along-those-lines' line now. :-D

 

[BackToTheMack]

Beutifull works if u can deliver it right.