I'd take BrotherAP's advice if i were you cookie.
Im in the process of this right now with a girl, however signs of success is always pointing in my direction and i have nothing to be jealous/insecure about. Although i know theyre still seeing each other, i know whats going on and how she feels cause she informs me of it. However if certain things dont go my way, then its my responsibility to handle it like a man and not lose my cool and let time take its course or be able to walk away and not look back.
But you should always stay aware that humans are not naturally monogamous by nature. And stay on the lookout so your emotions dont get stepped on, if karma decides to come around in your direction. However in the end, girls think with emotion, thus they can never logically determine what major decisions they truly must make in order to maintain happiness....which just confuses their feelings more.
In the end these life experiences will be our ultimate teacher down the road.
But IMO, in any event of a LTR, the best thing any guy can do is be all he can be. The lover, the teacher, the friend, the arbitrator, and mr. playful. It separates the successors from the failures of men in relationships
Im in the process of this right now with a girl, however signs of success is always pointing in my direction and i have nothing to be jealous/insecure about. Although i know theyre still seeing each other, i know whats going on and how she feels cause she informs me of it. However if certain things dont go my way, then its my responsibility to handle it like a man and not lose my cool and let time take its course or be able to walk away and not look back.
But you should always stay aware that humans are not naturally monogamous by nature. And stay on the lookout so your emotions dont get stepped on, if karma decides to come around in your direction. However in the end, girls think with emotion, thus they can never logically determine what major decisions they truly must make in order to maintain happiness....which just confuses their feelings more.
In the end these life experiences will be our ultimate teacher down the road.
But IMO, in any event of a LTR, the best thing any guy can do is be all he can be. The lover, the teacher, the friend, the arbitrator, and mr. playful. It separates the successors from the failures of men in relationships