Taking Girl From Boyfriend

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I'd take BrotherAP's advice if i were you cookie.

Im in the process of this right now with a girl, however signs of success is always pointing in my direction and i have nothing to be jealous/insecure about. Although i know theyre still seeing each other, i know whats going on and how she feels cause she informs me of it. However if certain things dont go my way, then its my responsibility to handle it like a man and not lose my cool and let time take its course or be able to walk away and not look back.

But you should always stay aware that humans are not naturally monogamous by nature. And stay on the lookout so your emotions dont get stepped on, if karma decides to come around in your direction. However in the end, girls think with emotion, thus they can never logically determine what major decisions they truly must make in order to maintain happiness....which just confuses their feelings more.

In the end these life experiences will be our ultimate teacher down the road.

But IMO, in any event of a LTR, the best thing any guy can do is be all he can be. The lover, the teacher, the friend, the arbitrator, and mr. playful. It separates the successors from the failures of men in relationships
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
I am not condoning stealing the gf, Iam just saying that if you don't continualy show yourself to the girl as the best guy for her, anyone can take her away from you.
a-men, or let her believe she cant do better than you.
 

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be careful when stealin AFCs girls, they dont have the rite mind set and can act unpredictable.

you can never steal some ones girlfriend anyway, she makes a concious choice to be with him or to be with you. you are not forcing her to do anything. if your game is tight, then she will get with you.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Are you delusional?

What makes you so much better than that 'indecisive dork' that you so graciously rescued her from? Trust me, if you're sitting around pining for her and scheming to take her from her boyfriend, than you are no more of a catch than he is.
Come on man, don't make me crack a smile.. Nobody is waiting around scheming on how to steal a girl. I'm saying if I get a girls number who has a boyfriend, I would take her off his hands gladly.


Originally posted by BrotherAP
As for "If she cheated on him, she'll do it to you" that's the most sensical thing you'll hear because it's true. I've seen it a hundred times, experienced it a couple myself - you can trust a person to do what they've always done. The only remedy to this is to really not care about her, and be ready to drop her in an instant for not living up to your standards of behavior. That's kind of hard to do when you've taken her after she cheated on another man, because what you're really showing her is that you accept cheating behavior.

You're no different than he is, if you really believe that she'd cheat on him but not you. Every other idiot who's girl fvcks around on him behind his back thought that she wouldn't do it to him - oh no he's way too special, it couldn't happen.
I've cheated on girls. But if I found a quality girl, I wouldn't. If you are in a relationship and you are getting everything you need then there's no reason to cheat.

I understand why you're standing up for this fictional character(the "indecisive dork"). Because you've been this guy, and somebody with better skills has scooped your gf. I'm not accepting cheating behavior... I'm just talking about taking someone's gf, like a hand-off in football. There is no cheating taking place.
 

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I answered this shyt what seems like 10 days ago, the rest is dribble.

To the clueless ones: A girl w/ a BF that REALLY wants you will make it so abundantly clear that she does, you'd have to be headless to miss it.

But I've doubted it, when I was clueless. Way back, that is boys, now it's so easy to see it's boring.

As I said search the un Pook or crowes22, the answers are there, I assure you, but you must put forth effort, I'm not going to do it for you.
 

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I'm not necessarily calling you a loser, but my assumptions definitely ARE supported.

Another assumption im going to make, is that youre so good at playing to other peoples insecurities, because you are very insecure yourself. SO of course you know what it is.




The fact is that this girl means nothing. In other words, you are infatuated with nothing. So youre going to try to hurt this guy you claim to be a "fag" just because he plays water polo.

You know what, maybe you are a loser.

I say go for it. Try to steal her from him. You'll either get outright rejected or dumped in the end. Then you'll come crying back here trying to figure out what happened.


Lets here it for honor, 80% of you support this chump. This place is full of insecure idiots.
 

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Originally posted by Jester
I'm not necessarily calling you a loser, but my assumptions definitely ARE supported.

Another assumption im going to make, is that youre so good at playing to other peoples insecurities, because you are very insecure yourself. SO of course you know what it is.

The fact is that this girl means nothing. In other words, you are infatuated with nothing. So youre going to try to hurt this guy you claim to be a "fag" just because he plays water polo.

You know what, maybe you are a loser.

I say go for it. Try to steal her from him. You'll either get outright rejected or dumped in the end. Then you'll come crying back here trying to figure out what happened.


Lets here it for honor, 80% of you support this chump. This place is full of insecure idiots.
well you may assume I am loser all you want but no one is going to listen to you becuase you dont know how to read. First off, we are all insecure, you are just as insecure as the other guy, so go play in the freeway. As far as the waterpolo fag thing, I was just restating what she said, she said she was a fag becuase he likes to swim with other boys in little shorts. I never said he was a fag, I respect the sport and never even met him so unlike you I am not going to make baseless accusations.

You may not support me but hey who cares, you are just one idiot, and why are you here, if you claim to be better than us, what are you going to start a revlution?
 

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Insecure this, insecure that.

The question is, Why do you need to make an elaborate plot to steal someone's girlfriend?

answer that question and you wont have a problem anymore.
 

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Originally posted by iLoveCookies
Fellow DJs,

I am curious on what the best way is to take a girl from her BF, any suggestions or pointers
Ok, this is an area where I've played before, so here are some thoughts.

1. Be ready for a physical confrontation, and be ready to fight. You are moving in on someone's territory for the most precious commodity of all. *****.

2. That being that, let her know, in no uncertain terms that you WANT her. It doesnt matter at this point. Being her "friend" or "bro" is ok, but she knows your real motive. Why beat around the bush or play games.

3. Find out if she is the "cheating" type. Try to get her, one on one with you, without him, where alcohol is served. Be the driver. Get as many shots/****tails in her as possible. (Have a place to take her afterwards, be it a hotel, your place, a friend's place, or even just a secluded spot in the car. Car sex can be hot, and passionate, if a bit uncomfortable.)

4. While she gets intoxicated, now KINO the $hit out of her, lots of heavy flirting, eye contact, and if you can, kissing. Hold her hand, look into her eyes, joke with her, make her laugh, and have fun.

5. IF she is interested, and the cheating type, there is a good chance of you f**king her. When you do, IF there is hopefully enough time, lets say you have a 4 hour window, at your place. It is 10pm, she needs to be home at say 2am, and you have her in the bedroom. Dont just "slam bam" it. Take advantage of all of the 4 hours. Heavy making out, to some SADE, slowly undressing each other, little BS games, like strip poker, kiss and tongue EVERY inch of her body, slow and sensual, dry hump her, and whisper naughty sexual things in her ears. LOTS of oral sex on her, make sure she is wet, and begging for you to enter her, then SLOWLY put on the condom, and then, tease her by stroking her vagina with the tip of your penis, make her beg, and use her hands to force you in and and right before you do enter her, even more ***** licking, and then, enter her about a 1/2 inch and make her beg even more, before a DEEP thrust, and then slow, sensual strokes, look into her eyes and make out with her as you slowly f**k her, take advantage of this time to speed up the tempo and slow it down. Position her legs different, for deeper thrusting, ankles behind her head, elbows hooked around her knees, one leg up, let her moans and motion guide you, try to grind her hips with yours as much as possible,

Then switch positions, enter her from behind, grab her hair, slap her ass, and finger her anus if possible, and at this point, she should respond to that, and then, finally, grab her hips, speed it up, and *** inside her (In the condom of course) let out a gutteral moan of triumph. Collapse on top of her, hold her, tell her how amazing shew was, and hold her close, in an afterglow. For about 12 minutes.

Then, dispose of the condom, cigarettes, and some deep conversation about anything, while Mr. Happy recovers. Repeat 5 as many times as possible until her curfew is up, and she needs to get dressed and go home. If she stays, more power to you.

6. Now the important part. Be a bit callous/indifferent. Unless she is a total slut, she may actually develop feelings for you. LET HER CALL YOU. She should want to see you again.
 

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Re: Re: Taking Girl From Boyfriend

Originally posted by JackPrescott
Ok, this is an area where I've played before, so here are some thoughts.

1. Be ready for a physical confrontation, and be ready to fight. You are moving in on someone's territory for the most precious commodity of all. *****.

2. That being that, let her know, in no uncertain terms that you WANT her. It doesnt matter at this point. Being her "friend" or "bro" is ok, but she knows your real motive. Why beat around the bush or play games.

3. Find out if she is the "cheating" type. Try to get her, one on one with you, without him, where alcohol is served. Be the driver. Get as many shots/****tails in her as possible. (Have a place to take her afterwards, be it a hotel, your place, a friend's place, or even just a secluded spot in the car. Car sex can be hot, and passionate, if a bit uncomfortable.)

4. While she gets intoxicated, now KINO the $hit out of her, lots of heavy flirting, eye contact, and if you can, kissing. Hold her hand, look into her eyes, joke with her, make her laugh, and have fun.

5. IF she is interested, and the cheating type, there is a good chance of you f**king her. When you do, IF there is hopefully enough time, lets say you have a 4 hour window, at your place. It is 10pm, she needs to be home at say 2am, and you have her in the bedroom. Dont just "slam bam" it. Take advantage of all of the 4 hours. Heavy making out, to some SADE, slowly undressing each other, little BS games, like strip poker, kiss and tongue EVERY inch of her body, slow and sensual, dry hump her, and whisper naughty sexual things in her ears. LOTS of oral sex on her, make sure she is wet, and begging for you to enter her, then SLOWLY put on the condom, and then, tease her by stroking her vagina with the tip of your penis, make her beg, and use her hands to force you in and and right before you do enter her, even more ***** licking, and then, enter her about a 1/2 inch and make her beg even more, before a DEEP thrust, and then slow, sensual strokes, look into her eyes and make out with her as you slowly f**k her, take advantage of this time to speed up the tempo and slow it down. Position her legs different, for deeper thrusting, ankles behind her head, elbows hooked around her knees, one leg up, let her moans and motion guide you, try to grind her hips with yours as much as possible,

Then switch positions, enter her from behind, grab her hair, slap her ass, and finger her anus if possible, and at this point, she should respond to that, and then, finally, grab her hips, speed it up, and *** inside her (In the condom of course) let out a gutteral moan of triumph. Collapse on top of her, hold her, tell her how amazing shew was, and hold her close, in an afterglow. For about 12 minutes.

Then, dispose of the condom, cigarettes, and some deep conversation about anything, while Mr. Happy recovers. Repeat 5 as many times as possible until her curfew is up, and she needs to get dressed and go home. If she stays, more power to you.

6. Now the important part. Be a bit callous/indifferent. Unless she is a total slut, she may actually develop feelings for you. LET HER CALL YOU. She should want to see you again.
That's the funniest shit I've read all week. Kudos!
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Love the satire, isn't that about the way it goes though? It's a dirty job, but someone's got to do it .. lol.
 

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Originally posted by Jester
Insecure this, insecure that.

The question is, Why do you need to make an elaborate plot to steal someone's girlfriend?

answer that question and you wont have a problem anymore.
BUMP.

I think cookies should answer this.
 

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Re: Re: Taking Girl From Boyfriend

Originally posted by JackPrescott
Ok, this is an area where I've played before, so here are some thoughts.

1. Be ready for a physical confrontation, and be ready to fight. You are moving in on someone's territory for the most precious commodity of all. *****.

2. That being that, let her know, in no uncertain terms that you WANT her. It doesnt matter at this point. Being her "friend" or "bro" is ok, but she knows your real motive. Why beat around the bush or play games.

3. Find out if she is the "cheating" type. Try to get her, one on one with you, without him, where alcohol is served. Be the driver. Get as many shots/****tails in her as possible. (Have a place to take her afterwards, be it a hotel, your place, a friend's place, or even just a secluded spot in the car. Car sex can be hot, and passionate, if a bit uncomfortable.)

4. While she gets intoxicated, now KINO the $hit out of her, lots of heavy flirting, eye contact, and if you can, kissing. Hold her hand, look into her eyes, joke with her, make her laugh, and have fun.

5. IF she is interested, and the cheating type, there is a good chance of you f**king her. When you do, IF there is hopefully enough time, lets say you have a 4 hour window, at your place. It is 10pm, she needs to be home at say 2am, and you have her in the bedroom. Dont just "slam bam" it. Take advantage of all of the 4 hours. Heavy making out, to some SADE, slowly undressing each other, little BS games, like strip poker, kiss and tongue EVERY inch of her body, slow and sensual, dry hump her, and whisper naughty sexual things in her ears. LOTS of oral sex on her, make sure she is wet, and begging for you to enter her, then SLOWLY put on the condom, and then, tease her by stroking her vagina with the tip of your penis, make her beg, and use her hands to force you in and and right before you do enter her, even more ***** licking, and then, enter her about a 1/2 inch and make her beg even more, before a DEEP thrust, and then slow, sensual strokes, look into her eyes and make out with her as you slowly f**k her, take advantage of this time to speed up the tempo and slow it down. Position her legs different, for deeper thrusting, ankles behind her head, elbows hooked around her knees, one leg up, let her moans and motion guide you, try to grind her hips with yours as much as possible,

Then switch positions, enter her from behind, grab her hair, slap her ass, and finger her anus if possible, and at this point, she should respond to that, and then, finally, grab her hips, speed it up, and *** inside her (In the condom of course) let out a gutteral moan of triumph. Collapse on top of her, hold her, tell her how amazing shew was, and hold her close, in an afterglow. For about 12 minutes.

Then, dispose of the condom, cigarettes, and some deep conversation about anything, while Mr. Happy recovers. Repeat 5 as many times as possible until her curfew is up, and she needs to get dressed and go home. If she stays, more power to you.

6. Now the important part. Be a bit callous/indifferent. Unless she is a total slut, she may actually develop feelings for you. LET HER CALL YOU. She should want to see you again.
Part 5 was pretty graphic..lol. But good advice non the less.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Taking Girl From Boyfriend

Originally posted by BlackJackal
Part 5 was pretty graphic..lol. But good advice non the less.
I have already made all the statement I felt I needed to make, if they are not satisfactory....read again. It may be unethical but what is these days.

on a side note I am not making a plot , I wanted some tips. I really really like this girl unfortunately she has a boyfriend. I feel that he takes everything she has to offer for granted and I think I can do everything he cant and then some, but that's just my opinion. Who knows maybe I wont even follow through with it and stay friends. I mean c'mon the sea is full of fish
 

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You can't take her because she dosen't want you. Let her decide if he's good for her or not.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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JC Jerkson is right, all you have to do is ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend, and if your game is tight enough, she should too.

Also, alcohol helps.

I've cheated with 2 girls and well, the last boyfriend came to my job all insane looking and confronted me (later he said he wanted to kill me, but that sounds like talk without walk) but nonetheless, be careful, most broads aren't worth it.

For really amazing girls, just be excellent in her presence, and wait for them to break up (and continue to see other girls)
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
If You want just take. Rememeber its gonna cause problem with a guy.
to be honest with you I am not really worried about it
 

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I'm not worried about that either. If he initiates the fight, then I can sue him for all he's worth. And if it gets out of hand, I have the right to defend myself with the second amendment.
 

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Originally posted by MVP
I'm not worried about that either. If he initiates the fight, then I can sue him for all he's worth. And if it gets out of hand, I have the right to defend myself with the second amendment.
My thoughts exactly. I know to let him swing first, and I am sure I will break his face if it came down to it, and then take all of his college money :)
 
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