Sum up the red pill in a paragraph.

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The red pill is just accepting reality for what it is. As opposed to what you want it to be. Beyond that you just have to educate yourself.

What's interesting is that reality seems to be different for different people - or at least they interpret it in different ways.
 

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I already said mine, but here’s a thought:
Redpill: accepting that women are sneaky, lying, unfaithful, self-centered, uncaring, and have too much “me too” attitude most of the time.
 

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The OP is asking because a friend is going through divorce. The female aspect of the red pill is what needs to be swallowed first. Isn't that why most people say to red pill someone when they're in the dumps about a female? When they see the nature of hypergamy, everything else falls in place.
also the self-evaluation and actions part. otherwise, it only leads to depression.
 

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Redpill is realizing women will never love you for who you are, they only love you for what you can do for them at that point in time. Enjoy your time with them for what they are and always understand that time may come to an end. Nothing to be ashamed of. I've enjoyed the time I spent with everyone of them, even the crazies and the ones that were hard to put behind.
 
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Redpill is realizing women will never love you for who you are, they only love you for what you can do for them at that point in time. Enjoy your time with them for what they are and always understand that time may come to an end. Nothing to be ashamed of. I've enjoyed the time I spent with everyone of them, even the crazies and the ones that were hard to put behind.
It always amazes me how fleeting their minds are and how short their memories/attention spans are. Like toddlers.
 

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Yea I guess at the heart of it women project the impermanence of life. You have to enjoy the journey, build a strong mind and have a well stocked bugout bag for when times get tough
 

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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
is it always one or the other? Or is it rare to get both the best genes and secure provider?
 

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is it always one or the other? Or is it rare to get both the best genes and secure provider?
I guess this is why females become alpha widowed. They think they found a male with the best genes, that will be their provider, until he splits. If 10 percent of men are alphas, I would think it happens 10 percent of the time.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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