Sum up the red pill in a paragraph.

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A friend went through a divorce recently and he’s in a bad space because of it.

I told him it’s time he swallows the redpill and his response was “what does the red pill represent” and I could have gave him an essay response but I try to be concise as possible in all forms of communication ..

So I challenge everyone:
Sum up the red pill in a paragraph.
Go.
 

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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
 

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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
That's pretty good.
 

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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
You have obviously meditated on this. It's stated so matter of fact. And it conveys the gravity as well, the way it's stated. No words wasted.:up:
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Also, a component to understand male behavior. Male behavior both our own and others together with female behavior == red pill.
 

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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
holy crap didn't know that ... learn something new everyday
 
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Telling other people that you do not care about women, but spending 95% of your free time complaining about women. Thinking every single girl lives a back alley midnight life where they are sleeping with 5 different dudes in a week, juggling a 40 hour week job or school, other hobbies, hanging out with friends, and putting up a front for her spouse/bf simultaneously. Thinking you are above 99% of men because you talk **** about women on the internet.
 

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A friend went through a divorce recently and he’s in a bad space because of it.

I told him it’s time he swallows the redpill and his response was “what does the red pill represent” and I could have gave him an essay response but I try to be concise as possible in all forms of communication ..

So I challenge everyone:
Sum up the red pill in a paragraph.
Go.
The realization that almost everything you’ve been led to believe about women is a lie.That they will always consider what you are before they consider who you are,and how you react to and take this information will either break you or make you.
 

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You should elaborate on this.
I believe he is suggesting "not" being a patsy, a pawn, a mark, a simp, a weak yes man with woman transcends into everything in life. Master how not to be walked on by women, stand strong, don't be manipulated, and roll that into every day situations. I think..

Red pill= Not allowing women to wear the pants.
 
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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
Yes, this IS very good. I would just add to it: This means that women do not love unconditionally and that the meaning of love as you know it does not exist.

While the summary is great, the issue is that trying to extrapolate all this out into mindset shifts and actions is huge. Or at least, not something that can be summed up in a paragraph. Understanding how to be a high-value man, understanding positive masculinity, how to avoid pedestalizing and overvaluing women, ensuring you have completely cured yourself of neediness, insecurity, and any remaining delusions that women will bring you happiness or fulfillment..... that's all part of it.
 

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You should elaborate on this.
Most of what makes you "red pill" and good with women also make you good in life. You learn to use the system for your gain and not allowing yourself to be used to other's gain. If it isnt mutually beneficial, the relationship/deal/agreement will quickly come to an end. That is the mindset and process people need to learn. Call it red pill if you wish.

Being red pill means setting a high standard for yourself, how you allow people to treat you and who you allow in your life. Its a choice that all comes down to what you allow. Doing things that benefit you, doing things that you WANT to do vs feeling like you have to impress someone by doing things you dont want, being able to use the word "no", being able to walk away from people who are not mutually beneficial in your life. That goes for women, friends, family and business endeavors. An abundance mindset is not just limited to dating. Everyone would be in a better place in life if they set their life up to have options at everything they do.
 

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Yes, this IS very good. I would just add to it: This means that women do not love unconditionally and that the meaning of love as you know it does not exist.

While the summary is great, the issue is that trying to extrapolate all this out into mindset shifts and actions is huge. Or at least, not something that can be summed up in a paragraph. Understanding how to be a high-value man, understanding positive masculinity, how to avoid pedestalizing and overvaluing women, ensuring you have completely cured yourself of neediness, insecurity, and any remaining delusions that women will bring you happiness or fulfillment..... that's all part of it.
With women this rule is important=

RESPECT > LOVE
You lose respect in her eyes, which to a woman equals falling out of love. The man stopped being what he was in the beginning OR what she perceived him to be. Loss of respect, nothing else. Keep gaining respect and they will eat out of your hand.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Trying to define RP is a no-win situation. You won't even get everyone here to agree on it. Just recommend the Rational Male book series to him,...at least the first 2 of the 4. He isn't going to take it serious unless he reads it and learns it for himself anyway,...the Blue Pill conditioning has will be stronger than any argument you could make to him. He will just resist.
 

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Understanding that females want to sleep with the best genes possible, while having the most secure provider possible. While not ever stopping the thought process of "is this the best I can do". And the willingness to trade up men to meet these needs.
That is a description of Hypergamy. Not RP. RP goes far beyond just Hypergamy.
 

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You should elaborate on this.
Red Pill in short is just about everything you know is a lie. Women are a tiny fraction of being Red pilled. That's why I am very surprised how many are awake to that part but sleeping on the other 95%.
 

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The OP is asking because a friend is going through divorce. The female aspect of the red pill is what needs to be swallowed first. Isn't that why most people say to red pill someone when they're in the dumps about a female? When they see the nature of hypergamy, everything else falls in place.
 
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