Lost Savior
Don Juan
I know girls at strip clubs are pretty much being paid to flirt with guys. Well... more like we're paying them to flirt with us. But is it even possible to be a DJ to a stripper?
At first, I thought it would be practically impossible. I am fully aware that the girs who danced perhaps get hit on every damn day by hundreds of guys, so how could me, a person many consider to be shy, would stand any kind of a chance? Oddly, being myself and destroying that "shy" persona may have done something.
Well, it started last night. It was my bro's bachelor party, and I had no intention of meeting anyone. I just wanted to watch some girls, get drunk, and have fun. So there were 2 strippers who sat on both sides of the bachelor (my bro) and I found myself sitting next to one of them. Might I add, both were extremely attractive. There were guys who came along to the part who were visiting from the mainland, and they were having their fun, acting quite obnoxious, really. Anyway, one of the girls had to go back to work, and the bachrlor went off to get more dances. So I found myself chatting with the stripper who was sitting next to me. She was quite nice, and we started chatting. Being the somewhat shy person I am, I wasn't trying to hit on her, and she made it clear that she wanted to get me messed up. And so I bought her 2 drinks, and bought myself a couple of drinks as well. We were goin on about how mixed drinks and beer were weak and the strong stuff .
After 2 drinks, she wanted another, but I told her that I had no money left (well, I had 20, but it was sure as hell not enough to get me an her drinks). Then one of the most amazing things happened, she offered to buy ME a drink. I was shocked, I thought about it for a few secs than accepted. She was telling me how she likes me cause i'm not like other guys who can't hold their liquor and don't try to come on to her. We were talking a bit, how she goes to school and stuff, and then she decalred that I was her new drinking partner. I was surprised myself that I was actually able to hold on to myself, cosidering what I drank that night.
Unfortunately, she had to leave cause she was busted for not dancing at the table like she was supposed to at the time, so she had to go. As I was leaving, I stopped by her table and said to promise her that i'll come back to visit her. Now.. old me would just say "sure! i'd love to!" and walk off, but not only did I say that, but I told her that maybe we should hang out sometime, outside of the club. She said yes, and when I asked for her number, she told me she had already given it to my soon-to-be-brother-in-law a while ago, when him and some of his friends were giving her attention. I told her that i'd call her, and she was like "you better promise me that you'd call!" And me, never to turn down an atteactive girl, I promised her and meant it. She then gave me a few kisses on the cheek and I left.
She was a girl that I didn't even think about being shy around. However, I do feel like i'm heading into the "nice guy zone" with her, and I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or not. But I did get her name.
Now, you'd figure that at this moment, i'd be calling her, but nooooo. My brother in law refuses to give me her number. The bastard seems to want to keep the number for himself and his friends, even though, he's already married and has a kid. I was pestering him the whole day, and no. He says "sure, sure, i'll give it to you." But nope. Now i'm getting really pissed. I don't want to break a promise I made, and I feel like there's something special about her (beside her looks) that attracts me to her. I didn't get much time to talk with her about her interests, but I did find out that we are both going to school and pursuing the same degree (Liberal Arts), though at different colleges. So that's one common ground.
Is it wrong of me to be hopeful that this girl really has a genuine interest in me?
At first, I thought it would be practically impossible. I am fully aware that the girs who danced perhaps get hit on every damn day by hundreds of guys, so how could me, a person many consider to be shy, would stand any kind of a chance? Oddly, being myself and destroying that "shy" persona may have done something.
Well, it started last night. It was my bro's bachelor party, and I had no intention of meeting anyone. I just wanted to watch some girls, get drunk, and have fun. So there were 2 strippers who sat on both sides of the bachelor (my bro) and I found myself sitting next to one of them. Might I add, both were extremely attractive. There were guys who came along to the part who were visiting from the mainland, and they were having their fun, acting quite obnoxious, really. Anyway, one of the girls had to go back to work, and the bachrlor went off to get more dances. So I found myself chatting with the stripper who was sitting next to me. She was quite nice, and we started chatting. Being the somewhat shy person I am, I wasn't trying to hit on her, and she made it clear that she wanted to get me messed up. And so I bought her 2 drinks, and bought myself a couple of drinks as well. We were goin on about how mixed drinks and beer were weak and the strong stuff .
After 2 drinks, she wanted another, but I told her that I had no money left (well, I had 20, but it was sure as hell not enough to get me an her drinks). Then one of the most amazing things happened, she offered to buy ME a drink. I was shocked, I thought about it for a few secs than accepted. She was telling me how she likes me cause i'm not like other guys who can't hold their liquor and don't try to come on to her. We were talking a bit, how she goes to school and stuff, and then she decalred that I was her new drinking partner. I was surprised myself that I was actually able to hold on to myself, cosidering what I drank that night.
Unfortunately, she had to leave cause she was busted for not dancing at the table like she was supposed to at the time, so she had to go. As I was leaving, I stopped by her table and said to promise her that i'll come back to visit her. Now.. old me would just say "sure! i'd love to!" and walk off, but not only did I say that, but I told her that maybe we should hang out sometime, outside of the club. She said yes, and when I asked for her number, she told me she had already given it to my soon-to-be-brother-in-law a while ago, when him and some of his friends were giving her attention. I told her that i'd call her, and she was like "you better promise me that you'd call!" And me, never to turn down an atteactive girl, I promised her and meant it. She then gave me a few kisses on the cheek and I left.
She was a girl that I didn't even think about being shy around. However, I do feel like i'm heading into the "nice guy zone" with her, and I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or not. But I did get her name.
Now, you'd figure that at this moment, i'd be calling her, but nooooo. My brother in law refuses to give me her number. The bastard seems to want to keep the number for himself and his friends, even though, he's already married and has a kid. I was pestering him the whole day, and no. He says "sure, sure, i'll give it to you." But nope. Now i'm getting really pissed. I don't want to break a promise I made, and I feel like there's something special about her (beside her looks) that attracts me to her. I didn't get much time to talk with her about her interests, but I did find out that we are both going to school and pursuing the same degree (Liberal Arts), though at different colleges. So that's one common ground.
Is it wrong of me to be hopeful that this girl really has a genuine interest in me?
