Do you think it will work?
My girlfriend broke up with me over the phone on fathers day because of my insecurity. (Jealousy towards another guy she liked..) Although she never told me this directly, I pretty much figured it out myself. My mistake yes, I know. I have learned my lesson and I am paying deeply for it.
Anyway.. I was expecting the break up for awhile so I came up with this plan.
Basically when she breaks up with me try act like you don't care, and maybe even exhibit some sort of happy mood. So that is exactly what I did. The convo went like this.
*Phone rings*
Her: Hello?
Me: Hey, I can't talk right now.
Her: Wait, I just want to tell you something.
Me: Okay.
Her: I don't think that is working out between us.
Me: Okay, that's cool.
Her: Are you sure?
Me: Yeah. Well, I have to go. Talk to you later.
*hang up*
Mind you I said this in a completely normal tone, maybe even a bit more than normal. Like I kind of wanted it.
Basically my strategy was to act like I don't care to get her curiosity going. It takes a lot of her control. It's going to make her think, hmmm.. why isnt he all sad and depressed right now? Basically, why am I not being her little *****. Ahaha. It's kind of like reversing the situation.. she may even start to wonder what SHE did wrong to make me not to care you know?
I even though in the "talk to you later" because I still want the options of friends available, which I'm hoping I can turn into friends with benefits later. Maybe.
But yeah.. it's been day 2 now.. what do you. I think after about 4 days and she doesn't call me, then I guess my plan failed.. I think she might though.. I honestly think her curiousity might get the better of her.
What do you think my chances of this working are? Would you had done the same thing?
Peace.
My girlfriend broke up with me over the phone on fathers day because of my insecurity. (Jealousy towards another guy she liked..) Although she never told me this directly, I pretty much figured it out myself. My mistake yes, I know. I have learned my lesson and I am paying deeply for it.
Anyway.. I was expecting the break up for awhile so I came up with this plan.
Basically when she breaks up with me try act like you don't care, and maybe even exhibit some sort of happy mood. So that is exactly what I did. The convo went like this.
*Phone rings*
Her: Hello?
Me: Hey, I can't talk right now.
Her: Wait, I just want to tell you something.
Me: Okay.
Her: I don't think that is working out between us.
Me: Okay, that's cool.
Her: Are you sure?
Me: Yeah. Well, I have to go. Talk to you later.
*hang up*
Mind you I said this in a completely normal tone, maybe even a bit more than normal. Like I kind of wanted it.
Basically my strategy was to act like I don't care to get her curiosity going. It takes a lot of her control. It's going to make her think, hmmm.. why isnt he all sad and depressed right now? Basically, why am I not being her little *****. Ahaha. It's kind of like reversing the situation.. she may even start to wonder what SHE did wrong to make me not to care you know?
I even though in the "talk to you later" because I still want the options of friends available, which I'm hoping I can turn into friends with benefits later. Maybe.
But yeah.. it's been day 2 now.. what do you. I think after about 4 days and she doesn't call me, then I guess my plan failed.. I think she might though.. I honestly think her curiousity might get the better of her.
What do you think my chances of this working are? Would you had done the same thing?
Peace.