Now, I disagree with everything in this thread. This is wrong way to go about it, and is clearly the wrong way to think. I call this the weak and insecure man's thinking. Do you know why you call it that? Because a guy who thinks like this, is always worried and concerned about what a chick thinks about him, and is afraid to be a man, to take charge, and hold the power over a woman, instead he gives her all the power because he is afraid to be a man, and use every tool he has to his advantage. Instead he worries what she thinks, so he limits his abilities, and himself to his full capability, to appease the woman and her irrational mind. Why a guy would do this is beyond me.
The key to being successful with women is getting them to think about you. You want them to think about you all the time. You want them to think about you during the day, the night, when they are at school, or at work, you want them to want you. If you are good with women, you can be good with them on the phone, voicemail, and through text. All of those work to your advantage, and it seems silly to me why you wouldn't want to use them, and making excuses why you shouldn't text or leave a voicemail demonstrates a weak and insecure man, afraid of his own shadow.
Texting if you do it right, and know how to do it, is the PERFECT way to get a girl wanting you and thinking about you. You do know that when you get a girl's number that she has other guys talking to her, and if she is hot, you can bet she has at least a dozen guys or more in her phone.
You send her a great text or leave a great voicemail, she will be thinking about that text or voicemail for a long time. Maybe even all day if its great. Then if she goes out on a date, she will still be thinking of you, and if you send her a text during a week night when she's on that date, she will read it and be thinking about you instead of her date. Then she will excuse herself and go to the bathroom to text you back and she will be thinking "I wish I was out with him instead of this guy." And that is what you want to do....you want to stand out among the other guys, separate yourself from the pack, show youself to be the winner, the prize, the guy that she wants to have, and show the other guys to be below you. You do that by taking advantage of your tools and using them, not by limiting yourself and being afraid to text her.
Girls text like crazy today, and some barely even talk on the phone. a lot of them are busy with school, work, friends, working out, and with family and daily lives. So a great text is the fastest and easiest way to make contact and the best way to get her thinking of you during the day. Do you have long text daily convos? of course not, but if you do it right, and establish a great rapport with her, you can turn a fun date you planned quickly into a hook up, i've done that before and it works like magic.
Saturday night I met three girls, and got their numbers who were 20 and 21. All three of them said "text me" because those girls that age text and they like doing that. If you do it right, you will make them wanting you like crazy and will escalate things faster instead of being afraid and losing out altogether like the timid guys do.
A few months ago, I got a couple friend requests from girls that were out of state. Another tool some guys say don't use which will help you if you use it right. There was no way I could hang out with them anytime soon, so we talked on the phone but mostly texted. Those fun hang outs that were planned quickly turned into hook ups once I got there.
So if I was afraid to text, leave a voicemail, afraid to be a confident man, I wouldn't of hooked up with them because I would of gotten lost in the pack and would of been a timid man who was afraid to use useful resources that were given to me.
So, yes you should text, leave a great voicemail, get that girl thinking about you, wanting you, and quit being afraid, weak and insecure about what some chick may or may not think about you. Damn, if you're that insecure and worried about what she may think before you even know her, how are you going to be when you actually do get to know her? Even more afraid and timid I suppose, and she will see and sense that very quickly and she will then ignore you and have nothing to do with you. Not very good by any means so don't think that way.
TEXT and use it to your advantage my friends. Don't be afraid to take control, and be a man. And quit worrying about what some chick may or may not think about you. Insecure and weak man's thinking....don't be that way.
