https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEYtx7Fu8cg
Another topic by begood4000. Stop dating women with guy friends.
***IMO the presenter isn't talking about trying to control the chick you date, nor being a control freak and expect her to drop her male friends for you but you CAN control yourself in leaving a chick if she is more concerned with her male friends than developing a solid healthy realtionship with you. (Up front fine. You cannot expect someone to drop everyone for you or I, but if they keep them around constantly especially as time goes on it's time for you to move on without a word, argument or wasting your time with an explaination that leads to them denying it regardless.)
One commenter on the video made an interesting point:
"This is by far the best video on the net about this situation. I just recently broke up with my "girlfriend" because I saw a picture of her and her "friend" in which the captioning was referring to this guy as her "boyfriend". I for too long would overlook comments and things that I would see on facebook because I was convinced that I was being a "jealous guy". Well when I bring my feelings up, guess who this girl defends? No more disrespect for me, it hurts, but way less."
^^The bolded part of his comments is the most important. If you are going to be in a serious commited relationship with a chick and have been dating her for a while (not expecting her to just drop every male friend up front) and she would rather defend a male "friend" over the man (you) who she's in a supposed commited relationship with...it's time to just move on forever as you should know her words on "commitment and relationship" don't match yours.
The presenter (begood4000) had sound logical responses in the comments section:
"When a woman becomes commited to a man he needs to be the only man in her life. If a man is dating a woman with male friends that's called sharing, and no man should share his wife or girl friend with another man no matter how innocent it seems to be, and men need to learn this lesson and put a stop to being one of 20 men in a woman's life. Either he is the only man in her life or he is out the door. Many will try to convince their victim they are just being paranoid, it's all in their head, or the ever popular "you're just being jealous". This is only done to shame the victim back into submission to continue on with the relationship."
The below is the presenters best comment to a commenter and the bolded nails it.VVV
"There will always be a one in a million, but as a rule of thumb most people should not get envolved into such a situation, because most situations turn out for the worse. there may be exceptions for the rule, but even non loose women can become loose through having tons of male friends around and the temptation it brings. This is like saying one is above temptation. To say that is like saying you or I don't have the ability to do wrong, and that's a lie. We all do especially if we constantly put ourselves in harms way. The reality is this is a common trap men find themselves in and it needs to stop. Divorce and cheating are on the rise for a reason."
Another topic by begood4000. Stop dating women with guy friends.
***IMO the presenter isn't talking about trying to control the chick you date, nor being a control freak and expect her to drop her male friends for you but you CAN control yourself in leaving a chick if she is more concerned with her male friends than developing a solid healthy realtionship with you. (Up front fine. You cannot expect someone to drop everyone for you or I, but if they keep them around constantly especially as time goes on it's time for you to move on without a word, argument or wasting your time with an explaination that leads to them denying it regardless.)
One commenter on the video made an interesting point:
"This is by far the best video on the net about this situation. I just recently broke up with my "girlfriend" because I saw a picture of her and her "friend" in which the captioning was referring to this guy as her "boyfriend". I for too long would overlook comments and things that I would see on facebook because I was convinced that I was being a "jealous guy". Well when I bring my feelings up, guess who this girl defends? No more disrespect for me, it hurts, but way less."
^^The bolded part of his comments is the most important. If you are going to be in a serious commited relationship with a chick and have been dating her for a while (not expecting her to just drop every male friend up front) and she would rather defend a male "friend" over the man (you) who she's in a supposed commited relationship with...it's time to just move on forever as you should know her words on "commitment and relationship" don't match yours.
The presenter (begood4000) had sound logical responses in the comments section:
"When a woman becomes commited to a man he needs to be the only man in her life. If a man is dating a woman with male friends that's called sharing, and no man should share his wife or girl friend with another man no matter how innocent it seems to be, and men need to learn this lesson and put a stop to being one of 20 men in a woman's life. Either he is the only man in her life or he is out the door. Many will try to convince their victim they are just being paranoid, it's all in their head, or the ever popular "you're just being jealous". This is only done to shame the victim back into submission to continue on with the relationship."
The below is the presenters best comment to a commenter and the bolded nails it.VVV
"There will always be a one in a million, but as a rule of thumb most people should not get envolved into such a situation, because most situations turn out for the worse. there may be exceptions for the rule, but even non loose women can become loose through having tons of male friends around and the temptation it brings. This is like saying one is above temptation. To say that is like saying you or I don't have the ability to do wrong, and that's a lie. We all do especially if we constantly put ourselves in harms way. The reality is this is a common trap men find themselves in and it needs to stop. Divorce and cheating are on the rise for a reason."
