Hey Diesel,
As an addendum to your busting the girlproblems.com nice guys' rosy innocence, mention:
WOMEN DO NOT CHANGE.
High school!: "Man, look at those hot cheerleaders! Why are they going for those stupid jocks!? Idiots! They will grow up and mature."
College!: "WTF!? These chicks are ALWAYS stuck with jerks! What is wrong with them!? The women will soon mature and then they will go for me!"
Post-College: "HUH? Why are these hot chicks going for the bosses or any guy who talks ****y and loudly? I don't understand! But soon they will mature and APPRECIATE who I am."
30s!: "Ahh! Finally! The chicks are now after me! Huh? They are all worn out! They are divorced! They have baggage! THEY ARE FAT!"
In my Nice Guy days, I thought women would mature and they would not act like the 'little girls' they were. But, alas, I did not know then that the 'little girl' was the HONEST woman. When they get older, yes they mature, but they are still woman. Young women are attracted to the same things older women are.
I do not just have young girls flirt with me (you should see the high school chicks, OMG. Guys there must be such dweebs, the HS chicks go NUTS over me), I have married women, pregenant women, middle aged women, and even old ladies cast their eye at the Pook! Of course, they show it all differently. Some older women just sigh and say, "Oh, if I only were fifteen years younger!" I hate it how they won't keep their hands off me.
But here is something interesting: During World War II, Russians did much of the fighting bringing down the German troops. I was not aware that there is a Russian soldier tradition of fvcking an old lady for luck in battle. Imagine Grandma's surprise when the Russians entered Berlin! A general says something like, "The old women were very... surprised... and flattered."
"Pook! This is gross!" But it is the truth. Woman remains woman. She does not change in time. Older age, fatness, and all influence her behaviors, yes. But she is still woman. It is not that Nice Guys get the 'mature woman' at the end, the woman merely settles for him.
The makers of Viagra were not stunned about recieving a flood of letters of thanks and adoration. What they were surprised about was that it all came from WOMEN. Women were overjoyed that their older husbands were sexual again, wanted them again.
Get all this crock out of your head about a woman maturing and seeing your 'wisdom' and 'maturity'. It will never happen. Women remain women. The prettier she is, the MORE blatant she will be woman and do all the things you hate that women do.
See those jerks? Yes, when she gets older she knows jerks are worthless just as guys know bimbos are worthless. Yet, she will lust.
Women will avoid the jerks later on not because of 'wisdom' or 'maturity', but because of self-survival. When you're young, the thrill is all. But you must survive. What can the jerk provide? Nothing. She moves on. Yet, she still may keep the jerk around when YOU, the Nice Guy, are out of town.
If you do not deal with women NOW as they are IN REALITY, you will never turn your fantasy into reality. You must deal with events and challenges not as they are in your thoughts and imaginations but as they exist in the real world and independent of our opinions.
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BTW, thanks for pointing out Plato's Synopsium. I didn't realize Plato thought that way about love. Very interesting aspects which I think he was getting close to something (but never could get a fixed handle on).
