Starting To Hate Women

[Flying Dutchman]

Tenacity yes it is largely gone, not because woman want it but are trained into it. As society has made us too equal. A woman not necessarily sees a man anymore but just a human, just like she sees another woman.

The man can't utilise his strengths anymore because they have been strapped and limited big time. This is annoying.
It is wrong though to generalise all women but you are lucky to find a woman who is intelligent and does not abuse any of her natural attributes

 

[sambwoy]

I may be totally out of my depth here, but just my thoughts.

I used to post some somewhat pathetic woe-is-me threads, which over time I figured was a result of a combination of being outcome dependent on women and bad experiences, either thinking I was ugly/unattractive or they (girls in college) were isolating me (these was my college years).

I was angry at the system and the media in the way women could get away with certain things. I was under the impression looks were all they cared about, and then being met with the irony that people would comment on my moods, self-deprecating and showing disinterest in general life, because it was preoccupation.

 

[logicallefty]

I'm approaching 200+, and yes it "grows" old, sometimes even boring. Perhaps, reevaluate your goal.

D@mn dude. I thought I was a man h0.

You talking 200+ lays, or 200 women you have dated?

 

[Zarky]

Hey OP, just take a break. I've done it many times, sometimes for years.

In 2013 I banged 13 new chicks. In 2014 I banged 0 new chicks. Yes I still have my three LTR plates but I'm getting pretty bored with them and I'm constantly thinking up excuses not to hang out with them.

So I feel ya. Move on to something else that interests you. Women will still be around when you get back.

 

[LiveFreeX]

or move to the Philippines, we've already discussed this though Tenacity.

 

[Kailex]

This is cyclical.

I've gone through this as well. To the point where you have those weeks/months that you hate them because you KNOW everything, to weeks/months where you just keep them around for the entertainment and "companionship".

My advice? Take a break. Fill up that off-work time with other things to do. Make plans to travel somewhere on your own. Read a book. Hit the gym more. Whatever it is. Just do something else for a while and take your focus off of it.

I found that I wouldn't enjoy things in life, if I had too much of it. Everything in moderation isn't that bad for you, but if you are approaching women to the degree where you can't even stand them because of what you know, then it's time to take some time for yourself and solely yourself.

 

[Tenacity]

Thanks guys. Yes, I'm taking a "break" but it's not really a break, because while I can separate myself from women all day long the biggest problem is the shyt going on in my head.

It's just that I didn't sign up for this shyt. I was expecting MORE. I didn't know shyt about gynocentrism or feminism, none of this shyt. I kept getting weird interactions with women and I just knew that something wasn't RIGHT, but I said maybe that's just my insecurities talking and that I need to just "think positive".

But when you realize that everything is fvcking bullshyt, it's all a fvcking illusion, I mean I don't know what to do. I can't just sit up here and tell you guys that it's easy to just ACCEPT this Red Pill shyt, I didn't sign up for this shyt! I signed up for the entire fvcking marketing pitch of you bust your a.ss, you improve yourself, improve your looks, personality, money, sex game, etc. and you are going to walk into this FVCKING PRINCESS that you can live happily ever after with or at least somewhat happily ever after with.

All that fvcking shyt was a lie, all of it. Every last fvcking word of it. And I'm sitting here STUCK. I wasn't dating just to date, I wasn't spinning plates just to spin plates.....all of it was because there was this light at the end of the tunnel and I looked at it all as training or development.

Now when you realize, there's no fvcking light at the end of the tunnel, and ALL YOU HAVE are random fvcking dates and chicks who could give a rat's fvcking a.ss about you.......it's like what the fvck is this shyt??

Man I'm angry, I'm just sooo fvcking angry. The reason I want to get away from women is not because I need a break, it's because I want to just fvcking SNAPPP.

 

[Tictac]

Life has no more meaning than you give it and put into it.

That goes for all of it, women included.

 

[guru1000]

Tenacity, you remind me a lot of myself when I was younger. You need to form a mature perspective. Most importantly, keep calm. Think of Al Pacino in the Godfather: calm and ostensibly emotionless in the face of extraordinary adversity, including the murder of his brother.

Hey, life happens, and as you get older, you understand people's motives are grounded in themselves. There is no rainbow and no unicorn woman. There is only the best potential candidate, and even then, no guarantees. Use this knowledge to better/protect yourself and to your advantage; not to your detriment as anger will only fuel your downfall. It's great to prepare other men, but keep your mouth shut about your intent/red pill knowledge to women.

This stage in your life will pass.

 

[Tenacity]

I'm honestly scared it will be my downfall. The issue is that there's just so much shyt compiled on top of it.

- I have a broken family

- I was homeless before and nobody helped

- Every fvcking friend I have had stabbed me in the back in some way

- I'm not allowed to be Black and Smart, if you are Black you have to be Thugged out or else every damn Black person sees you as a sell-out

Then you THROW on top of this shyt all of the bullshyt dealing with American Women, man I can't take this shyt. I'm going to SNAP one day and I know it, it's too much man.

And I have spoken to Counselors about this, nobody understands what the hell I'm even talking about. It's like they want me to read these silly books about "being positive" WTF is that going to do to change my fvcking situation? How the fvck does being positive change the fvck my fvcking family HATES ME because I left the Ghetto and made something of my life, rather than sell fvcking drugs? WTF is being positive going to do to change the fvcking fact that every SINGLE GIRL I date is on bullshyt, so much bullshyt, all you can do is fvck this bytch and leave you can't make a kid with her or do SHYT with her.

I don't even know what the next step after this shyt is? Is there a light at the end of the tunnel? Or is that a fvcking train? I mean what could the light possibly be? I'm 31, I've never had this much money in my life, I never looked this good in my life, I never had THIS many dates in my life, I never spent this many plates before.....and despite all this shyt:

- NONE of these fvcking chicks in my phone give a rat's a.ss about me. If I died tomorrow nobody cares.

- My fvcking Family doesn't associate with me AT ALL because I'm "Acting White"

- Every fvcking new Friend I make, is just trying to get money or a come up in some type of way

I mean it's bullshyt man. All the fvcking way around, there's no escaping this fvcking shyt.

 

[Starwolf]

edit: Dude..

going to give you 3 tips.

1. Family doesn't mean sh!t. You did not choose them so forget about it.
2. Women are for stress relief and bearing children. Nothing else
3. Invest your time in a few good male friendships. doesn't need to be a lot just a few buddies to chill with.

Thats all man.

 

[guru1000]

You need to form a mature perspective. Learning to deal with adversity is a great gift. How you psychologically deal with this adversity—and the meaning you derive from it--will determine how your future unfolds. Like I previously said, this is a stage in your life that will pass.

I regret no past events (nor would I take them back) or people in my life, nor do I hold anger. These ostensibly negative events created the man I am today; I could not have evolved in specific advantageous ways had they not occurred.

Transcend your adversity and brush it off your shoulder like negligible dust: You are BIGGER than these ostensible “problems.” As you evolve, you will see they were never problems, but instead catalysts to incite great change; to create a great man. You are on the right track; feel the emotions as they are your "fuel"; let them move through you and propel you forward. Be "red-pill" aware in all aspects, but stay cool minded and collected.

 

[Malcontent]

I think part of what Tenacity is feeling is the cognitive dissonance between reality and all the BS that's he's been told to believe his whole life. When a person's eyes get opened, one tends to get angry, especially when he feels like he got long-conned, which seems to be the case with a lot of us. Yes, we do have to move past this and let the anger go at some point, because we have to accept (or at least learn to deal with) the bitter truth eventually.

 

[ZTIME]

Hello Gentlemen,

It’s been a little while since I’ve posted anything here. I needed to leave SS for a bit to get myself back on the right track. As I refuse to watch the news because of the negativity, I also needed a break from absorbing some of the negativity found in some of these posts. By no means is this a knock on the content posted to these pages. It was more of a need for me to cleanse my soul and stay away from the “dark places”.

However, I’m back and I’m reading some of these new threads. I love the idea of a forum dedicated to help guys get the advice they need. Hell, I even saw a thread dedicated to buying new shoes! And based on some of the responses…. Some of you really do need help on shoe shopping! (wow!!)

This particular thread really has caught my attention. When I joined here many of you were very kind with your advice. And my “angry forum friend” gave me a lot of advice on becoming a stronger version of my old self. So in an attempt to show my understanding of your situation, I’ll share a little about my past.

At the age of 3 I was taken away by the state and put into an orphanage. Turns out my mother, whom was addicted to heroin accidentally burnt my face with frosting from a toaster oven. She couldn’t get me to stop crying so she threw me through a second story window. (thank god for balcony guard rails). Still have the scar from the glass going through my chin to the roof of my mouth.

At 6, I finally got to leave the orphanage. My grandmother decided she would raise me.

At 15 my grandmother became ill. I’ve been on my own since then.
I’ve been dead broke, homeless, and have done more illegal things then I would care to admit.

I never went to college because I could never afford it back then.
I worked my way through high school just to get a diploma because I thought it mattered.

I can’t be black………..but you get the point.

I look fondly at my past, as it has been what has helped me to excel in everything I do. I don’t use my past as a crutch or an excuse. I use it as fuel, and I succeed every day.

I don’t have a close relationship with my family, and many of them hate my success and revel in any of my failures. I love this part of my life. My decisions are all for me with no real or implied baggage.

I believe in the light at the end of the tunnel. I believe in success, and I believe in being happy with or without a women.

I’ve recently hit the dating scene and completely agree that there are very few quality women out there.

They’ll fu*c you, ask you for money, dish out all of their problems in hopes of getting a helping hand, or just having someone listen to them babble about nothing.

Most of them come with baggage, and a sense of entitlement unlike anything I’ve ever seen before.

But you know what? I don’t even care. It doesn’t affect me in the least bit. Let them be who they are as long as I can be who I am. I get laid with no commitment, and when I’m done with them I’ll stop seeing or calling them.

Maybe someday I’ll find the “right” one, but I won’t quit fishing because I haven’t caught the “master trout”.

My past made me so that I don’t need anyone in my life to make me happy. I make myself happy and enjoy the company of friends and companions as I walk my path.

So that’s about it for today. I’m glad to be back and reading some of these threads. They cheer me up!

One of his students asked Buddha, "Are you the messiah?"
"No", answered Buddha.
"Then are you a healer?"
"No", Buddha replied.
"Then are you a teacher?" the student persisted.
"No, I am not a teacher."
"Then what are you?" asked the student, exasperated.
"I am awake", Buddha replied.

 

[Kailex]

Now when you realize, there's no fvcking light at the end of the tunnel, and ALL YOU HAVE are random fvcking dates and chicks who could give a rat's fvcking a.ss about you.......it's like what the fvck is this shyt??

Problem is, you are looking at the wrong "light at the end of the tunnel". It's not the princess. That's just something that happens along the way, whether it's one woman or many. There is no end-game here where you get to say, "I'm done. I did it." You are always moving towards something, but it's just that that something isn't a woman. That's not what life is really about.

 

[sodbuster]

Since I assume you are driven and determined. I know the feeling, you keep forcing your way forward towards a GOAL... only you find out that the goal wasn't all that special when you get there... I did it with the house,wife, kids, brown privacy fence {ok, I missed the white picket fence}. EVERY thing on that list took time and money out of my life {kids are the only good thing}. The house needs work, the yard needs work, come home from work to shovel snow,divorced the wife.... the REALITY of it all bites.

If you want the kids, pick your wife like a brood mare, breed for intelligence, height, etc. BUT NEVER think she is your "soulmate" they are RARE in today's world. Maybe when the pendulum swings back they won't be so slutty or crazy.......

 

[donking]

Bro, maybe find a virgin haha, someone untainted.

 

[evan12]

@Tenacity: why I feel your bitterness level is coming from some one who is not going to any date at all. I dont think some one who is dating that much and ****ing different women will be that better

 

[LiveFreeX]

Don't do an Elliot Rodger... you don't have to. I'm happily married... I told you that long ago. Women are not your problem its the quality of broads at your current location. If you live in a dumpster, all you will ever get is trash.

 

[Tenacity]

The problem is I can't accept reality. I can't. I have been trying to accept reality for a couple of years now and I go from "ok" to "RAGE" in minutes.

I called my mother again last night for another fvcking ATTEMPT to talk to this bytch, once again she slams the phone down in my face. I call again this morning, she slams the phone down.

I'm trying to move on but I don't know what the fvck to move on to. I have mistrust and distain for every fvcking woman due to the bullshyt I have been through and I'm just fvcking at the end of my rope.

I have tried to seek out fvcking help, nobody helps. I have talked to Counselors about the shyt, they just sit there and say "think positive". I can't fvcking think positive about the fact that:

- Every single fvcking woman in my life for 31 years has been full of shyt

Every single one of them. What in the fvck am I thinking positive about? Huh? I'm starting to break down and if this thread is a call for fvcking help I guess that's what it is. I have been trying to find somebody to help me deal with this shyt and there's nobody there.

I'm trying NOT to blow shyt up, I'm trying NOT TO....but god damn when your Mother is doing the same fvcking shyt man it's too much man. It's too fvcking muchh. My fvcking sisters PIMP my Mother out of money, they use her for money, she knows everythign about their fvcking lives. I don't ask this bytch for SHYT, and I:

- Never hear from her. I have been moved out for almost 10 years and she has never visited me, never asked what my address was.

- I graduated college four fvcking times and this bytch didn't care.

- When I call her and she DOES TALK, all this bytch talks about is how my Sisters aren't shyt, yet she continues to give them money and bail them the fvck out.

I call my fvcking Father, this motherfvcker NEVER calls me. I have had 31 fvcking birthdays and this piece of shyt has only been to 3 of them and called me to wish me Happy Birthday on 3 of them.

I have no fvcking family structure. I'm alone in this world and the only thing going for me is the Career I have which I had to FVCKING CREATE. I have to go out and sell, sell, sell or I don't make anything.

I'm in this fvcking world by myself, and I'm sorry if I'm supposed to be stronger than that, but I'm sorry I'm fvcking broken and I'm on the burge of BLOWING SHYT UP. I need fvckign help.