Spinning Plates is overrated and should NOT be advised!

[FlexpertHamilton]

You blindly accepted advice without even thinking if it applied to your personal life at your stage. Don’t expect strangers on the internet to know your circumstances.

This should be on the front of every page in SS. It's yet another reason I've grown tired of these communities - too much dogma, and everyone devalues the individual's experience. Assuming you're not a simp, there are unique circumstances to every situation.

 

[Stuffnu]

Spinning plates is just another term that is used by today’s society to attach labels.
Women are obsessed with men that are empowered with multiple options (or fear of), yet easily get bored if they are the only focus of your attention.

It looks like your battling morality. The bigger regret is not tapping tons of tail during your youth. Believe me, you’ll have plenty of time later in life within a stagnant LTR, thinking “what ifs”.…

 

[Gamisch]

spinning plates isn't for everybody. It's manipulative and narcissistic, but extremely powerful in giving men an abundance mindset, confidence, experience, and benefits. On the other hand and to OP's point, it can be extremely draining, time consuming, and messy (drama).

A guy who spins plates that aren't aware of the other plates is called a liar/manipulator or a "****boi". A TRUE PLAYER or MACK is a guy who's women know that he has other sex options and he can care less whether they adhere to the program or not...

There's ethical ways to womanizing, but to each his own.

OP this post is giving crazy BLUE PILL vibes... you're young and inexperienced but you will learn one day that trusting any female, especially just one, is a recipe for disaster.

EVen if you don't want to have multiple plates you should always have at least one or two backups if things go south with your main chick !

This, it's simple. You are either in that LTR state of mind and loyal to one woman, or you spin plates. Third option is the wasteland we call "taking a break from women" aka the dreaded dryspell.That's about it.

A man can have multiple women and be judged and condemned by society, but who cares? You just do what best for you, period.

All these points are valid, but the bigger issue with spinning plates is that it's often a cope to avoid dealing with your insecurities. Men spin plates so they can distract themselves from their real issues (and by extension, the nature of the relationships they get into)

I would say that superficial short-term relationships don't really teach you a damn thing, and while it does require a certain skillset to maintain rotation(s), the most deep game knowledge/skillsets come from long term relationships, most of which is learning how to read her actions and control the frame.

You do have a point here . However , we know now that this deeper connection type of LTR is not something that's easily obtained by most men. Especially when a man relies on OLD he will be hard pressed to find a woman who will give him the time to go deeper . That just facts. I would say to this man , at least put in the effort to have some women around you as often as possible. While you improve and play the number games you increase the chance one good woman will stick around.

Knowing how women work on a superficial level , and benefiting from this is underrated imo. It's sometimes the simplicity that works best when women dealing with women . Spinning plates or dating multiple women or whatever you wanna call it ,at least allows a man to take samples . It does much more, it also keeps a man sharp and sharpens his hunting skills. The more you know about and dealt with women, the bigger your chances to keep them around. You can only learn so much reading forums and watching videos. Real life interactions is where you'll learn the most.

So you are right that a more intense and deeper connection will teach you much more about women. I am just seeing more and more men dont even get the opportunity to do this anymore and reach that deeper level of being with a woman.

 

[manfrombelow]

well as man you should have a rotation whether you're in a LTR or not. At least that's what's working for me.

 

[DreamAgain]

I found this site sophomore year of college and honestly it was more damaging than helpful..

The idea of “spinning plates” influenced me to take some actions that would result in me losing a girlfriend. This mindset is harmful because not only was I NOT being productive but I realized the demographics were not in my favor (and I’m sure not in most men's favor either).

I realized “spinning plates” is ONLY BENEFICIAL depending on where you're at in life. You see...I have friends (19-25 years old) who don't attend college and mate with women who don't attend school either. For them dating is different. They are not worried about exams or advancing themselves (as seriously as others). They are more focused on meeting new people, partying, and their job. If you have don't many responsibilities OR are already in a position of stability (comfort) in your life, THEN you can make the choice of deciding whether or not you want to try to bang as many women.

BUT! If you are NOT in a position of stability and you have responsibilities, it's not smart to plate women. You are less likely to manipulate yourself/the environment in your favor to succeed. Plus, if the woman is in the same situation and has responsibilities such as school, she's may want to study instead of hanging out with this guy.

I can say for certain, the idea of “spinning plates” needs to be analyzed if you do plan on doing it. Ask yourself what’re your goals/expectations. People like Rollo say dating is skewered to stuff like height and high value (LOL) maybe it's due to people prioritizing education or being in the wrong demographics. I saw a study that due to higher education people mate less. Of course, social media plays a part but cmon...It's not a major factor.

People who say "just spin plates bro" don't recognize everyone's situation is different and that actually going for a LTR may be more beneficial than banging as many women as possible. Overall, spinning plates is overrated and should not be advised for everyone. Just my opinion!

OP you are right, but there are a lot of low IQ people with low levels of education who will try to persuade you otherwise. They could never dream to be doctors, obtain a PhD, be a technical lead at a top company, use their brains strenuously, and realize how much time and effort this takes, that wasting time with stupid broads would just detract from.

 

[HaleyBaron]

OP you are right, but there are a lot of low IQ people with low levels of education who will try to persuade you otherwise. They could never dream to be doctors, obtain a PhD, be a technical lead at a top company, use their brains strenuously, and realize how much time and effort this takes, that wasting time with stupid broads would just detract from.

Doctors have just as many affairs, if not more, cause they travel a lot. High status people spin plates more than normal people. Even airplane stewardess screw around a lot cause of the nature of their job. Not exactly a phd job, but showing that a career only increases the likelihood of multiple partners. That's why career women these days are being more slutty, cause even they do not have time for a committed relationship.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

OP you are right, but there are a lot of low IQ people with low levels of education who will try to persuade you otherwise. They could never dream to be doctors, obtain a PhD, be a technical lead at a top company, use their brains strenuously, and realize how much time and effort this takes, that wasting time with stupid broads would just detract from.

Speak for yourself bruh. Typical beta **** using your "intelligence" and career success as an excuse for sucking with women SMH

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

If you tell them you're not ready for a relationship when they ask, how is that manipulative and narcissistic?

Because you could have told them that before you hit

 

[The Duke]

OP- Girlfriends are a lot more demanding of your time than plates. Not doing something right.
Regardless, I'd focus on my studies.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Because you could have told them that before you hit

Women don't know their own feelings. Many times when we both knew and said explicitly it's just a fling, the girl always started catching feelings. And even she admitted that she did not expect that to happen. It's natural for women to be more emotional, so it makes sense this happens.

The point is that to never care what a woman says or thinks. Just do you. You can never be as manipulative as a woman. In fact, I respect any man that manages to keep a woman beneath his thumb.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Women don't know their own feelings. Many times when we both knew and said explicitly it's just a fling, the girl always started catching feelings. And even she admitted that she did not expect that to happen. It's natural for women to be more emotional, so it makes sense this happens.

The point is that to never care what a woman says or thinks. Just do you. You can never be as manipulative as a woman. In fact, I respect any man that manages to keep a woman beneath his thumb.

I don't disagree with you. You save a lot of time and drama if you backdoor the emotions and keep it 100 with them from the jump. Manipulation begets manipulation, so when spinning plates dishonestly, you open the door to get played yourself. HEnce why being indirect in any way can potentially lead to you losing an ego match.

I respect men MORE who don't have to manipulate to keep them in a trance. If you truly didn't care what the women thinks, then it shouldn't be an issue.

We should both agree that there is a very gray area here in terms of how you communicate your expectations to your partners.

To each his own, I've practiced both so i'm objective and open to both sides.

 

[Dr.Suave]

@TheManMasenko Nothing wrong if you only want to spin one girl at this time in your life. Just make sure to always have abundance mentality, dont get One-itis.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Why? I only tell them if they bring it up, so no probl what thy think before or after.



You're assuming men want your respect, who are you that men have to earn your respect again?

No doubt. I wrote in the last post how it saves you time and energy. Actually, it opens the door for threesomes since the women know you have other partners or submissives (B D S M).

You prolly not familiar with B D S M but why would I put u on game if you just gonna get defensive.

Now you throwing jabs. I never criticized your approach, I just said that it's not my fav. I admitted to doing the same thing at times. But since you want to take it there, I am a guy who does tell women I **** other women, and they still come back. I have submissives. That's a true player.

This is something YOU don't do, therefore you should RESPECT me for putting you on to game that there is indeed levels to womanizing.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

For me. SP was a great short-term experience. Did it for about 2 years just before Covid. I don’t think it’s sustainable LT. At least for me.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

I agree with OP ... spending time with plates aka mediocre/low quality women is detrimental to one's development as a man and human being.

One mans plates are not the same as another mans plates. Speak for yourself. There's men who have plates you would prolly put on a pedistal. Which is exactly the point... one man is spinning her while another is fawning over her. Who do you think has the upper hand? You thinking all plates are "mediocre low quality women" exposes you as a blue pilled madonna w h o r e complex cat. WAKE UP

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Nah just poking at you man. I have tell them when they ask not in a place right now to have a relationship, maybe in the future or when we are starting to date, I say if I find the right one Im open to that, and that's the actual truth in the early stages.

Word and I know exactly what you mean, that's deff a potent way to keep em around fasho.

 

[pipeman84]

One mans plates are not the same as another mans plates. Speak for yourself. There's men who have plates you would prolly put on a pedistal. Which is exactly the point... one man is spinning her while another is fawning over her. Who do you think has the upper hand? You thinking all plates are "mediocre low quality women" exposes you as a blue pilled madonna w h o r e complex cat. WAKE UP

Man, that's a fact ... a woman who gives her pvssy outside of a committed relationship is by definition a mediocre to low quality woman ... YOU wake up and stop buying the feminist agenda trying to brainwash people into believing that horing is actually sexual exploration and female empowerment.

Just because a man is so beta that he fawns over a hoe doesn't make her a high quality woman ... as to to the guy who spins her, as I said, it's not beneficial to his development as a man and human being. Add up all the hours of engagement (texting, dating and so on) for what in the end is just glorified masturbation and you realize how expensive that is.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Man, that's a fact ... a woman who gives her pvssy outside of a committed relationship is by definition a mediocre to low quality woman ... YOU wake up and stop buying the feminist agenda trying to brainwash people into believing that horing is actually sexual exploration and female empowerment.

Just because a man is so beta that he fawns over a hoe doesn't make her a high quality woman ... as to to the guy who spins her, as I said, it's not beneficial to his development as a man and human being. Add up all the hours of engagement (texting, dating and so on) for what in the end is just glorified masturbation and you realize how expensive that is.

But if your a dude who is lying to her or giving her the impression that ya'll are in a committed relationship (which happens all the time) then is she still mediocre?

What percentage of modern women are actually mediocre in your eyes @pipeman84

It's not expensive if they are cooking FOR YOU, buying gifts FOR YOU, and obedient FOR YOU. Speak for yourself, respectfully

 

[pipeman84]

But if your a dude who is lying to her or giving her the impression that ya'll are in a committed relationship (which happens all the time) then is she still mediocre?

Well, if you're lying then you're mediocre to low quality and like attracts like, so no surprise there. If she's high quality she's able to weed out the 'players' either on sight or by the fact that she doesn't put out quickly so the 'player' quits himself (he follows the 3date or NEXT rule).

What percentage of modern women are actually mediocre in your eyes @pipeman84

I don't know, I assess on a case by case basis.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I don't know, I assess on a case by case basis.

I like this. “Only a Sith deals in absolutes.”