SOsuave is NOTHING

sexy_kuta

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BluEyes said:
Yes, exactly! Until, on one fateful morning, they wake up and realize that they in fact don't need so suave. We are learning that everything we do and all the "advice" we glean from these forums are things that we can do on our own. But no one can teach us this. You coming in here fresh off an epiphany of your own won't change anything. People learn at their own speed. For all that people can teach on here, we cannot teach independance. Independance comes from first-hand learning. So all you're doing on here is venting, anger is it? , at people who are still learning.

The fat dude at McDonalds who wants a six-pack will one day learn ON HIS OWN, despite whatever people tell him, that to get a sixpack you have to eat cleanly. Only then will he change.

If you understand people as you said you do, you would know that we are creatures of curiosity. If somebody tells us "Don't eat McDonalds if you want a six-pack!!" guess what Mr.Curiosity will go do? He'll go to McDonalds, sure in his own mind that he will be able to prevail against all odds. Finally when he sees FOR HIMSELF that what he's doing is wrong, he'll change his ways.

My point in a nutsack: People mature at their own pace, telling a learner not to ask dumb questions and do dumb things is like telling a drowning man that the way to survive is to stop thrashing. THEY JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND YET.

So drop it.

edit: p.s.



Uhh .. How about in the first line of this thread, and your signature? "sosuave is done, its garbage."

that's a start.
this thread is my opinion. it dont matter if ppl take it to the heart or just laugh at it. honestly it makes no difference to me. of course my opnion doesnt effect you. but it might effect the next person who opens this thread.
and no i will not drop it. this is my opinion and i back my sh1t up and i stick to it.

if one guy can learn from this thread or even get motivated then im more than happy. i've done my job.

my opnion can be right OR wrong in your own eyes. but it can also make you rethink about your own opnion, and to some thats a relief.
 

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No-one is complaining about your opinion, I am and I dont know about the others am trying to discuss it with you.

All im trying to say from all the other things I mentioned to you is that your ignorance will catch up with you when your older, When I was 16/17 i was the ****! I was untouchable. 3 years later, I want to learn more, become even wiser. Learning more and more is great, you can never learn enough.
 

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haha ****.. am i doing something wrong? maybe i lack the skillz of putting my thoughts into words or that people cant read right.

im not untouchable. i still got problems. im still fat which im tryin to lose.. i got a heart the sleave problem which im working on... i got oneitis from a rebound situation that happend 9 months ago..
but im working on them and im showing progress...
i never said once that ive learned all of it.. i never once stated that i learned enough.. i did state that u cannot learn enough.. and i agree with you.

you learn somehting new everydaY!!!!!!!
you learn something when ur 12,15,17,19,22,35,37 years old even 100 years old! you cannot learn enough. my arugement isnt about that.

What im aruging and venting about is those PPL.. those certain type of ppl that expect us to give them wahts given.. they expect US to hold their hands! and i thought we already covered that topic? where did i state that im untouchable?
all i said is that i respect my own opnion and i back it up.

i never ONCe stated that U can learn enough.
 

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"sosuave is garbage, i dont need it, you need it" blah blah...

That says it all, read your 1st post it says it all. Now you changing your post, Im not going to waste my time.:whistle: :rolleyes:
 

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Ll Principe said:
"sosuave is garbage, i dont need it, you need it" blah blah...

That says it all, read your 1st post it says it all. Now you changing your post, Im not going to waste my time.:whistle: :rolleyes:
maybe i overexagerated my point of view in my first post but what about the other posts i've made? they all relate to my onpion so dont turn this sh1t around guy, you know what im trying to say. we both know you dont need it. no one needs it. sosuvae isnt a life saver which some ppl put it to be..
simple is that. now can we aruge back and forth

u stated ur opinion and i stated mine. simple is that. leave it at that.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yes indeed you obviously did.

To be honest.
Nobody should NEED anything in life, only WANT.
NEED= DESPERATE/AFC
WANT= DON/CONFIDENT

People WANT to learn more, people dont NEED to learn more. Its a choice they make in order to better their lives like with anything. People take supplements in order to get that "extra" little bit to help them at gym same thing with this, people come here to get that little "extra." Even though this place can be a place to change a life, like I said earlier, Ive seen it before.

And finally, Yes. I agree with your point about posting without reading/learning first. I said that already though.
 

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Ahh nothing like a teen with a test boost who doesn't know what to do with himself. Mostly everything has already been asked or stated, but I do wonder - shouldn't you be literate by this age?
 

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no offense to u dude cuz i know ur on to something but there are good reasons to go to sosuave. i helped myself before sosuave, but sosuave is a good support group of many guys striving for the same goal. the real reason i like sosuave is because its anonamous and it inspires me to be a better more proactive person, because when u dont constantly surround urself with positive ideas u will likely fall back into neggative patterns(and that **** is proven) so take a few minutes a day and check sosuave its good for ur mental health!
 

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Anyone know the cycle of these "fuk SoSuave" threads? I know we've broken the 'one created every two weeks' barrier but I'm not sure if its one every 12 days or is it down to 10?
 

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This forum - like most - is a time sink. There are some great things on here, and being one of the few places where men can have anonymous discussions with like minded men, it serves a function.

The main forum is typically pointless aside from entertainment. To many e-pimps and inexperienced "dons" who claim to know game just because they are part of an online community focused on game.

Kuta I'll give you the same advice I'd give anyone your age on these forums is walk away from them and dont look back. Take a few lessons and roll with them. Until your out of college and actually in the "real dating world" you really dont need much advice anyways. Pre-25 getting laid is as simple as having a good group (or groups) of friends, being entertaining, not being a female, and not saying the wrong things.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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16 year old sexy-kuta - you say, "I get it" but you are still likely going to get a hor pregnant and marry a hor or have a hor for a "girlfriend" - just like the rest of the young chumps around the world!

Anyone can get a hor -- it is a manhood with dignity that most don't achieve!!
 

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I agree with some of the things he said. Such as the 'No calling for 3 days' rule. That one sucks, if a girl freaks out over you calling before 3 days then there is something wrong with her. I've never had a bad experience from that.

I guess the point is to do what you want, do things your own way. If you're an AFC, who gives a ****. Find a girl who likes you for YOU, even if you have to date 1,000 women to find her.

What do all these 'guidelines' do anyway? These guidelines make you hold back in life. They tell you to hold back your emotions. So why would anybody want to do that?

Girls really aren't much different from guys, they can be nervous as well as you on a date. They can be nervous just talking to you.
 

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Sosuave.com...because there's no better way to kill time between weekends.:up:
 

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Kuta 16 is a wonderful age to have information like you SHOULD have.

What 95% of the guys don't understand about this site, is that information have been shared here previously, that will be useful as a MAN for years to come.

You have to do a search. Do I think you should LEAVE this site, NO. I think you should search this site and extract as much information on all the areas of life.

Read on Finances and how to Make Money and How to Keep Money. You are 16, you can get started now and by 25, have more money saved up then majority of men in America. If you are ambitious, have the fire, I will be glad to teach you. I got started in sales at 18, I'm 23, and could sit on my azz for the rest of my life watching the Days of Our Lives if I wanted to.

Why don't you pm me?

Don't LEAVE this site, but do STOP POSTING. No, I don't mean that in a bad way. The reason I say STOP POSTING, is because I NEED TO STOP POSTING. The guys on this forum today are clueless boneheads, who don't take this stuff seriously. They are bored, and they get up here and make useless posts. Or there are guys who are too lazy to read the DJ Bible and ask questions that have been answered 5 million times.

So yes, you should stop POSTING and talking to these guys, because they are a waste of time. You're 16? Let's get you financially free, so you can be like me, 20 years old and FREE, being able to do what you want to do.

You down? All you got to do is click on my name and send a pm.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Isn't it illegal to correspond with a 16 year old over the internet? We might end up on TV in one of those "Predator boogie-men on the internet" special reports!!!
 
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