Something I've noticed

[jprjrjr]

Lately, when it comes to women, I've had a pretty bad attitude. It's been my experience that the nicer you treat some women, the less respect you get.

Case in point: This one girl I've been friends with for a while is a real brat sometimes. I usually let her **** slide, but one day she said something that really pissed me off. I told her to take a fvcking hike and stay out of my life.

The next day, I get a phone call from her apologizing profusely.

This has happened on a few other occassions as well. I'll act like an ass towards a woman, and she seems to respect that?

My philosophy is, DON'T TOLERATE ANY BULL****. Kindness is a good thing, but only to people that deserve it. Don't take any "bratty" behavior from women...in the long run, they'll respect you for it...

I understand this subject has probably been brought up a million times, but I think it warrants re-stating. Apologize to women????? ehhh I'm not so sure anymore..

 

[frivolousz21]

I think you need to relax and have fun.

if you cant bring urself to saying sorry to a women because your afraid it will make u less of a man or look needy you have issues right there.


when you are wrong..apologize.

how hard is that?


maybe if people would do this more often...we wouldnt have sensless violence in the world today..then agian thats diff than women.


if I said something that hurt my girl...and it was mean and wrong..id say sorry.

 

[darthsidious]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
I think you need to relax and have fun.

if you cant bring urself to saying sorry to a women because your afraid it will make u less of a man or look needy you have issues right there.


when you are wrong..apologize.

how hard is that?


maybe if people would do this more often...we wouldnt have sensless violence in the world today..then agian thats diff than women.


if I said something that hurt my girl...and it was mean and wrong..id say sorry.

Your post absolutely had nothing to do with what jpjrjr was saying, and i also think your advice is pathetic and downright homo.

I agree with your assertion jpjrjr - if you can't take a stand up against a woman or question her - she can do whatever she wants on a whim.

 

[Ebach]

right on! you're the man

 

[HeartlessBtch]

here's where you see the difference between an adult and kids.... case closed

 

[ketostix]

Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
here's where you see the difference between an adult and kids.... case closed

In which the guy is being an adult by standing up to the girl's childish BS...

 

[Ebach]

heartless*****, give me five! now if you only liked big ****s i could offer you one

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by HeartlessBtch
here's where you see the difference between an adult and kids.... case closed

Here's where you see women getting concerned that men are finally figuring out their bullshyt.

Notice how they'll call you "childish" for asserting your manhood. They don't seem to think this of themselves however.

Remember....women are EXPERTS at using rhetoric and hyperbole to get men to comply. They'll try to make you feel like there's something wrong with you if you don't conform to their teachings.

Be a man..no woman ever felt sorry for a guy who she kicked to the curb for no good reason.

A woman never felt bad for accusing a man of abuse, simply to get the upper hand in a divorce.

Women hold men in absolute contempt when they're through with them, and utterly convince themselves their barbaric behavior is justified.

Not all women are bad, but North America has more than its share.

As far as the wimp saying we should apologize..I agreed in part to what he said..If you were a COMPLETE ******* for no reason..MAYBE apologize..but even then I'm not sure...He's just a Cap N Save a Ho who'll be left in the dust by the next woman who dumps his ass.

 

[frivolousz21]

you know what jprjrjr you are an idiot.

wow your the cool guy who is 6 5 with 20 inch arms??


roid rage?

wow im a wimp because I dont want to be a jerk to the girl im with!

OH NO now im cap save a hoe..because my gf is a virgin.....wow my girlfriend loves me to death...but she is a hoe right?

gonna kick me to the curb right?

well maybe if you would stop dating tramps you might not have to be such a hard ass.

maybe if you guys could take your blinders off and realize what being a man is then you might have a shot at actually having something worth while in your life.


but no I suggest you keep on going as you are with a bad attitude..I suggest you keep pretending your so cool with talking about how you need to punk a bytch.


lets recap...oh wait ive never had a women break up with me, oh wait ive never been cheated on as far as I know, oh wait ive had 3 or 4 women love me.



oh wait im a gentleman..get a clue!

If you were a COMPLETE ******* for no reason..MAYBE apologize..

have you lost ur flippin mind????

why dont u go tell your girl she is a fycking lying slut for no reason and not apologize BIG MAN!

 

[TTom]

Originally posted by frivolousz21


have you lost ur flippin mind????

why dont u go tell your girl she is a fycking lying slut for no reason and not apologize BIG MAN!

It's a shame this forum involves using common sense. Also, use a spellcheck because your spelling makes me want to gouge out my eyes.

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
you know what jprjrjr you are an idiot.

wow your the cool guy who is 6 5 with 20 inch arms??


roid rage?

wow im a wimp because I dont want to be a jerk to the girl im with!

OH NO now im cap save a hoe..because my gf is a virgin.....wow my girlfriend loves me to death...but she is a hoe right?

gonna kick me to the curb right?

well maybe if you would stop dating tramps you might not have to be such a hard ass.

maybe if you guys could take your blinders off and realize what being a man is then you might have a shot at actually having something worth while in your life.


but no I suggest you keep on going as you are with a bad attitude..I suggest you keep pretending your so cool with talking about how you need to punk a bytch.


lets recap...oh wait ive never had a women break up with me, oh wait ive never been cheated on as far as I know, oh wait ive had 3 or 4 women love me.



oh wait im a gentleman..get a clue!

have you lost ur flippin mind????

why dont u go tell your girl she is a fycking lying slut for no reason and not apologize BIG MAN!

Does my physical size intimidate you wimp? I think it does..

You're the kind of guy who sits around the house listening to "emo" music, writing love songs to your "virgin" girlfriend.
she's probably having sex with everybody but you..LOL

You are a sav a ho...you bought into the feminine ideal of what a man should be...you're a fvcking disgrace, and I hope she shows your WIMPY ass to the door.

Passive agressive wimps make me laugh..:crackup:

I think the "violent fem" is going to throw his lipstick at me...

P.S. I always love the "roid" rage comments by guys like this. They don't have enough testosterone to build a decent body, so any guy who has muscles is a "roid head" to them. I built my body natural....perhaps if you had a little more testosterone you'd know how to stand up to women better you fvcking wimp.

 

[Ebach]

you figured it out all by yourself didn't you? oh and please stop paying for *****....

 

[frivolousz21]

http://www.myspace.com/frivolousz21


yea man im 5 6..come beat my ass....maybe then dont apologize since ur a nice guy

 

[Ebach]

i don't care if you're 5 1... if you give me a reason to beat you up i will trust me

 

[Morphiex]

U should put a bit'h down if she talkin smak to ya, thats what they want... but dont be talking smak back if they aint got their bitc'h mode on that`l just lead to more trouble....

and the hole flaming thing going on between jpjrjr and tton ....

Jpjrjr says that if a girl talks smak right to your face and u get offended , then u should put that bitc'h down, now tton u got to agree on that, if u really meen ur being a gentleman by accepting such behaviour from a girl , then ur actually becoming her beat up musky old emotinal tampong... theres a difference being a gentleMAN and a emotinal tampong....

(ps. sorry for my bad grammer, i come from a diff country)

 

[snintel]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
Lately, when it comes to women, I've had a pretty bad attitude. It's been my experience that the nicer you treat some women, the less respect you get.

Case in point: This one girl I've been friends with for a while is a real brat sometimes. I usually let her **** slide, but one day she said something that really pissed me off. I told her to take a fvcking hike and stay out of my life.

The next day, I get a phone call from her apologizing profusely.

This has happened on a few other occassions as well. I'll act like an ass towards a woman, and she seems to respect that?

My philosophy is, DON'T TOLERATE ANY BULL****. Kindness is a good thing, but only to people that deserve it. Don't take any "bratty" behavior from women...in the long run, they'll respect you for it...

I understand this subject has probably been brought up a million times, but I think it warrants re-stating. Apologize to women????? ehhh I'm not so sure anymore..

You have 417 posts and just figured this out?

 

[al77]

Originally posted by jprjrjr


My philosophy is, DON'T TOLERATE ANY BULL****. Kindness is a good thing, but only to people that deserve it. Don't take any "bratty" behavior from women...in the long run, they'll respect you for it...

I understand this subject has probably been brought up a million times, but I think it warrants re-stating. Apologize to women????? ehhh I'm not so sure anymore..

I have noticed that women are simple more irresposible.
They want somehting.. they say it ("oh feels so good!") and they don't care if they stand you up.

Example: when I set up a meeting with women, they usually up to 15 min late. Why? They don't provide any excuses.

Now I got smarterL I simple tell her ".. and be on time!". Results? Now they come like 15 minutes earlier and they actually tell me about it "Oh I came 20 min earlier bla blah"...

Conclusion? They just dont have that developed responsibility as men do.
What to do? Treat them as little kids sort of: treat them as if they are adults with respect - but keep in mind they are actually very limited in their ability to be resposible: remind them what they have to do, give them directions.. i.e. teach them. Most of them like it since they are not capable to do it themselves...

 

[jprjrjr]

Re: Re: Something I've noticed

Originally posted by snintel
You have 417 posts and just figured this out?

I'm not sure what the quantity of my posts has to do with my DJ knowledge?

I didn't just figure it out. I've pretty much always known it. This recent example just made it more apparent.

 

[jprjrjr]

Re: Re: Re: Something I've noticed

Originally posted by jprjrjr
I'm not sure what the quantity of my posts has to do with my DJ knowledge?

I didn't just figure it out. I've pretty much always known it. This recent example just made it more apparent.

Just to clarify something. I said you shouldn't tolerate disrespect from a woman ie bratty behavior.

I never said anything about "putting a ***** in her place" like some have misquoted. I think you can be a gentleman, and still put your foot down.

As far as you're concerned frivolous...I don't beat people up unless they're attacking me or someone I love, and only in self defense. I'm well educated, and revert to physical force only when necessary.

Your constant dialouge about my size makes me think you're quite insecure..But then again..you're an AFC, of course you're insecure.

 

[arutha]

Well I think there is a difference between apologizing for something you have done wrong and being a wuss... I wouldn't hesitate to apologize if I ****ed up, but I wouldn't go on about it. Just simple words then move on to other things.