A lot of the things said on this post is quite unique. Everyone are entitled to have an opinion about things and have a "reason" for doing it. But it will wise to realize the way you think now will not be the way you think later for experience will kick in and "alter" it. At that time you will have a "choice" to go this way or that way.
For example" The fellas who state that feel like marriage isn't for them. This is o.k. for them to believe because they are entitled. Things later in life, for the most part, might alter their thinking later in life (such kids, disease, loneliness, etc).
What I think ulsterman was trying to say is this: It's o.k. for the fellas to feel like that but reality shows (along with statics) that when people form a bond that everyone develop more of a trust than the way things are like they are now.
Fellas you have to admit that the world, in the state that it is in.longing for bonding. Everyone selfish desires has torn a big whole into society develop of what we see today. No one trust anyone for those very reasons.
Religions were made to make people more "civilized" or you will be nonexistent due to "some" uncivilized behavior that goes against reality. Can you imagine a world where everyone was doing everybody, forming no type of bond, spreading diseases, kids born in wedlock, etc.
That only spell one word: Disaster
So fellas it's cool to go about doing your thing. I ain't madatcha. But realize that if your "opinion" goes against reality "you" will lose. Peace
