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I need for some experienced DJs to decode this message and give me some advice on what to do.
Please refer to this thread ---> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143346
to get an idea who this chick is and how I met her.
Anyway, she finally sent me an email back... and this is a summary of the email.
The girls says she's not interested in starting a relationship, but would like to meet me soon. She apologized for not getting back to me. She's sending me mixed signals.
How should I proceed? For the men that heard this kind of reply before, does it sound like if I keep in contact and show her what I offer, could something develop? Since she sent me this email today, should I wait three days to reply... and when I do reply, I should definitely call, right?
Basically, I would like to see her again. I would like to show her I'm someone she should definitely keep around, and I want to show her (eventually) that I want to tap that a$$ and not just be a friend.
Help!
Please refer to this thread ---> http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=143346
to get an idea who this chick is and how I met her.
Anyway, she finally sent me an email back... and this is a summary of the email.
I know this probably sounds amateurish to the more experienced guys of SS. I'm really not interested in doing cold approaches, or dating four or five chicks. I do like to build my confidence and learn the art of not being needy.* She said 'don't think I'm giving you the cold shoulder, work has been crazy (and went into some details about what's been happening at work)
* Her phone was shut off for two days
* She's not ready to start any sort of relationship, especially because I'm so far away (I'm 60 miles away, I live in big city and she lives in smaller town)
* She'd like it very much if we kept in touch
* She mentioned hanging out at the amusement park since we both love rollercoasters
* She wants to plan to meet up soon
* She apologizes again for not getting back with me, and she tells a quick story how she didn't call her best friend for a month and her friend thought she died
* She ended with "talk soon"
The girls says she's not interested in starting a relationship, but would like to meet me soon. She apologized for not getting back to me. She's sending me mixed signals.
How should I proceed? For the men that heard this kind of reply before, does it sound like if I keep in contact and show her what I offer, could something develop? Since she sent me this email today, should I wait three days to reply... and when I do reply, I should definitely call, right?
Basically, I would like to see her again. I would like to show her I'm someone she should definitely keep around, and I want to show her (eventually) that I want to tap that a$$ and not just be a friend.
Help!