welcome to the site....
faq's:
1. this is actually a men's website. it was a man's idea to make a website set up for men to go to and post their best tips to help other men be successful with women. that man owns the site. he currently has men moderators running the site.
2. 99.9% of the people that post on this board are male.
3. however you are not the only female to find this site. some females post really great threads and articles and have wonderful conversations that lead to lots of thought and debate.... then there are other females who find this site and come in for attention and then get all pissed off and leave.
which one will you become?
4. most of the things written are very personal. if a newbie attacks or baits a long time member, you will get eaten alive in this forum. please keep that in mind.
5. most of the things written are generalizations coming from another individual who is fed up and needs a place to vent. do not take it as an insult to yourself, as the person that posted something doesn't personally know you. do not internalize it to the point where we need to turn on that old hit "you're so vain - you probally think this song is about you."
6. when you are a newbie, you don't know the other members yet. you must read their posts for a while or reply back and forth to get to know them. you will learn the difference between when someone is being honest, when someone is making a joke and when someone is venting it all or when someone is angry. please do not assume every single thing is serious here.
7.you have to take all advice given here with a grain of salt. no one knows what it is like to be you. you also do not know each member yet- so you don't know if you are taking advice from someone with any experience or knowledge OR if you are taking advice from a 14 year old.
8. there is a section at the bottom called the bible and on the front page there is a section of hall of fame. the really good stuff gets to go in there.
even for females.
9. there is a search button at the top of the screen that you can find just about everything. that is a great feature on this site.
10. give the site a chance and you may find that you can learn a lot from the other members here. sometimes you find out ways to improve yourself.