So many damaged women out there

[Spaz]

Many chicks are nuts because they have been sold a lie by a feminist narrative that goes against biology. They have been told they can have it all, that they are just as smart, and strong, and capable as men which is compete bvllsh!t on all counts. Most of these women were not raised in traditional families and many did not grow up with a positive influence with a strong man. They never fvcking learn the difference between a GOOD strong man, which is what they want, and a BAD strong man.

So they spend their youth, when they have the highest SMV) trying to compete with men and they get beat out, because men are more driven. You show me a successful CEO of a company and I will show you a person that works 80 hour weeks. Sure there are women that will do this, I know a couple that are great CEOs, but I know 100 men like this. A vast majority of chicks just can not compete, this has a serious determental effect on them. And since chicks have lost the ability to effectively filter out men that are bad for them, they find themselves in relationships that screw up their heads.

I am raising my girls to understand reality, I am teaching them drinking a doing drugs does nothing but screw up their lives, and to stay away from people like this. I am also teaching them to focus on careers that make them happy and try not to force them into anything, BUT I make sure they understand the ramifications of their choices. I also teach them that they should be looking for a good strong man and teach them what one looks like. Absent college, I have told them I do not expect them to live on their own until they are married. Women NEED a man in their lives, either a father or husband, and when they do not have this, their emotions pull them in self-destructive directions.

Your girls will grow up just fine.

When a girl is feminine she is at her most happiest. And she will need a strong masculine man to feel complete just as much as he does.

I envy you having daughters.

It's a great honour and certainly an amusing time in a man's life cycle.

 

[devilkingx2]

I am raising my girls to understand reality, I am teaching them drinking a doing drugs does nothing but screw up their lives, and to stay away from people like this. I am also teaching them to focus on careers that make them happy and try not to force them into anything, BUT I make sure they understand the ramifications of their choices. I also teach them that they should be looking for a good strong man and teach them what one looks like. Absent college, I have told them I do not expect them to live on their own until they are married. Women NEED a man in their lives, either a father or husband, and when they do not have this, their emotions pull them in self-destructive directions.

Be wary not to teach them to be 30 while they're 15 though. Being a good housewife is a longterm goal but it's not gonna lead to a fun youth.

Like how being a beta provider sort of works out when you're 30+ and get a trophy wife with your money (sort of like the king of queens), but makes for a very ****ty 14-29

 

[hockeyfreak79]

This thread could also be titled:

So many damaged people out there.

 

[Urbanyst]

Why does it seem to be so many damaged women or women with so many issues out there? Any of the good women are taken what's left is the bottom of the barrel. Makes a guy want to stay single I really don't need to be with a woman with issues been there done that, was enough to make me not do it again.

Yeah, tell me about it. Haven't met a woman without a few screws loose in years.

I think the social media and smart phones bring things to a new level of dysfunction. Then you have them brainwashed with blue pill trash growing up. Real life can never live up to the blue pill horse sh*t.

Wouldn't you be a little nuts if growing up you were told the world revolves around you and you will get everything you want out of life? Then you grow up and have life sh*ts on you? You mean the HOT rich guy isn't going to marry me and give me all his MONEY? You mean the HOT muscular guy at the gym was just using me for sex and is shagging other women? You mean I'm not more sexy because of my masters degree? Wait.. I'm not actually entitled to stuff just for having two X chromosomes? Wait... I can't always get my way? Wait.. I'm not always right? Wait.. you can't shame men into finding obesity attractive? Wait.. I'm damaged goods after age 25? Wait..

Lol.

 

[Urbanyst]

We isn't the guys here for the most part. We are the terrible fathers and then the ruthless players that made women jaded well before they left high school.

Everything is the fault of men. Of course.

Well.. girls in high school choose the jocks who act like douche bags over the shy nerds. Then they want to complain.

No sympathy.

 

[051AV]

I can't really describe what I mean but most these women have some kind of issue that affects them mentally or they have enough baggage to fill a U haul truck. One of the women I work with she's in her late 40s she would be a good fvck but that's about it she's a bit strange. I find a lot of today's women suffer from mental health issues treated and untreated, the younger generation especially the millennial generation of women. Millennial women just seem to be fvcked there is no two ways around it.

A buddy I used to work with always hounded me to get a thai or a philipino woman, they just don't turn my crank, they may be nice in all but they speak broken English..... Ya I've been with a BPD chick so my BS meter is set to high I can spot women with issues a mile away, I really don't want to relive that crap. There also seems to be a real prevalence of single moms out there, uh no I'm not going to be the father of some other guys children.

 

[ubercat]

Mare it might take a couple of years but you can definitely fix broken English most Asian girls are way smart and learn fast.

 

[marmel75]

Just as there are plenty of loser ass dudes out there.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Why does it seem to be so many damaged women or women with so many issues out there? Any of the good women are taken what's left is the bottom of the barrel. Makes a guy want to stay single I really don't need to be with a woman with issues been there done that, was enough to make me not do it again.

The abundance of cucks, men with low testosterone, and betas raised by single mom.

Society pedals skanks, single moms, cratered sexual market value, and some cuck on this forum will marry the woman who pissed her best years away as a boot call. Some cuck will raise her bastard children and play house, marry her, and swear away half their chit then go MGTOW after getting taken to the cleaners.

Women are being cheered off the cliff with this positivity nonsense, promo for sloot gonna sloot, for being fat, and the go girl victimhood pageant in society. If a woman cannot get the ring, just make up false rapey accusations or sexual harassment. Destroy his life and career. Even if you get proven as a liar, a fraud the way the women did in the Jion court case, parade out front like you won a medal.

Female narcissism knows no limits. Its said best in the Rational Male. Its a female solipsism. You are a utility and women will not love you the way society suggests but only as long as you are useful to her and as long as her hypergamy is kept at bay. Once it kicks off, good luck.



In 2018, the solution to every "girl problem" is NEXT ****ING SET! Every set is just practice. The hottest girl today is played out tomorrow because someone younger, thinner, hotter is turning ****ing 18 everyday. Women who wont give you the time a day are begging for it tomorrow, next week, next month or year. ZERO ****S GIVEN. Why? Because someone hotter is 18/19/20/21.

Hypergamy is a double edge sword as is feminism and this girl power promo; women can do no wrong. No accountability or sense of rational for one's actions. Society will just blame men. Single mom. Women are victims (not she should close her ****ing legs and find a good man) and men are dead beats. Women lie in the Jion court case and ruin his career as well as his life, you go girl.


The good news TS, many women are unplugging though, not near as many or as fast as we would all like. SET ****ING BOUNDARIES.

For instance, if a woman is not on the younger side of 20, Netflix and chill is the best she can hope for. SRS!

I don't date women with low libido, not in the mood, low sex drive etc.

I don't tolerate toxic moods. She doesn't have to go home just GTFOH!

I don't date women who are attention *****s, women who are friends with ex bf or only has guy friends.

Men need to screen harder. If she has mental health issues, you next her. don't **** crazy.


This is just scratching the surface son. Set your own boundaries and you next upon any sort of **** test/breach of said boundaries.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Just as there are plenty of loser ass dudes out there.

Not an argument. Not all things are equal. A woman can be a ****ty person and still acquire resources if aesthetic. She will still get laid. Said male who is a cuck will not outside a hooker lol

 

[MatureDJ]

Makes me glad I’m single. I may not have looks or status. But my life isn’t fvcked up at all. I have 0 emotional baggage from gf drama and I have an excellent career that I love. I haven’t had reached my peak yet.

It made me realize that my date was bottom of the barrel even though she was mega hot.

And you have no poontang. This is the one saving grace of being celibate.

 

[GoodOne123]

Obviously there is a lot of so called damaged women around in 2018. I can see 2 reasons:

One being the sexually liberated and culturally Marxist culture we live in today. It enourages sexual liberation and promiscuity. As a result, an average woman at 20 yr old in 2018 would have had 8 boyfriends, as opposed to the 1-2 boyfriends of the average 20 yr old woman in 1970. This means women on average have more baggage, and more chance of having a traumatic experience with relationships.

The second reason is that more women are moving into the workforce. Now you might think that's irrelevant but it's not. More women than you can imagine get abused in the workplace. This is usually by their boss or superiors. They sometimes may simply be offered for a secret sexual relationship by their boss, they may want to decline the offer, but in fear of losing their job they may accept the offer regardless. This is clearly damaging, and since more women are working, more of these events have occured.

One more thing to mention is to not get so obsessed on labelling or bashing damaged women. Last time i checked none of us are perfect either, and as you live through life you can become a little "damaged" yourself.

 

[soulforge]

You can give chicks all the advantages in the world and they will still never be able to compete with men. It's like socialism, socialism is great... until you run out of other people's money. Women will do well in business... as long as you can convince men that they should continue to make up for the chicks short coming. The reason we have this 'Me Too" movement in the US is happening is because the feminist society is looking for other reasons absent that men are just better in every objective measurable, except having babies, as the reason chicks can not keep up.

This whole wage gap myth is absolute and complete BS. I run companies... I will tell you that if chicks were really just as good as men, AND I can hire them for 70% of what I pay men... I would fvcking have a company of nothing but chicks. If it did not matter why in the FVCK would I pay someone more for the same work.

Anyway... sorry for the rant. But until women just accept reality they will continue to be pains int he @ss and emotional basket cases.

Feminist hate Nature, Evolution and Biology!

 

[soulforge]

I've noticed this too.. with the explosion of social media, kim kardashian-style wh0ring around, and support from their fellow slvt friends, the generally easy sex women are giving out these days is because:

WOMEN JUST DON'T GIVE A FVCK ANYMORE WHAT WE THINK.

They just want to have fun these days, which usually means having a drink or two then going out and banging some new c0ck, whether it be online, in the bar, or through the last dude they were banging.

Makes for lots of great, porn star level sex almost right away with hot chicks, problem is they're mentally damaged, possibly have a past history of STI infections, and have been pumped and dumped so many times that even they don't know how many c0cks they've welcomed inside them.

Just have fun, but every year the chances of finding a good woman worth marrying or even maintaining any semblance of an LTR with is decreasing drastically.

tl;dr:

The pros of slvts: they're slvts
the cons of slvts: they're slvts

Just get what you can, while you can. Then when you find a girl without too much emotional damage and sexual craziness, you can settle down.

And don't be fooled by the "i was drunk" excuses.. women use alcohol as an excuse to wh0re around and fvck new guys in party-scene type atmospheres. Women are very rarely extremely drunk when they fvck a new guy.. trust me, they always know EXACTLY what theyre doing. They're just playing dumb/pretending in order to fool us guys into thinking they're good and just made a mistake

I have made it a rule NEVER to have a relationship with woman who regular go to bars and pubs/clubs or drink alot...

These woman always spell bad news, and in the long run are a potential liability.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Controversial opinion from me here on sexual dynamics that I'm sure lots of lads will disagree with, but it's my opinion of this based on what I've seen.

I think a huge part of how damaged many girls are now is part of the new "liberated" sexual culture that we've brought about that's arguably more demeaning overall than it used to be, regardless of gender.

Decades ago men used to treat women like s*** often because there was casual social sexism on a big level (let's face it, women couldn't even vote - BS). But women were also perhaps more sensible about who they slept with due to intense social stigmas around promiscuity. So while a lot of d*ckhead guys treated women as something to be lied to, banged and discarded callously after getting them pregnant or whatever, most women were also arguably "harder to get" and so the effect of this douchery was limited.

This ****ish male element persists to this day with the guys who don't understand or care about fundamental consent - true sexual harassers and sexual predators.

To be clear I'm not talking about normal dating kino here or having casual sex with full consent. I'm not talking about men who treat women with respect while also staying "alpha". That's cool and healthy sexual dynamics.

I'm talking about the worryingly large numbers of sketchy, creepy f***ers who are always edging on r*pe if not outright committing it. Lots I've seen in the student population and lots of older creeps in positions of power too.

Anyway so then we had the "sexual equality" movement. It was a failure, it just hasn't been recognised yet. Instead of revolutionizing sex so we all respect each other and don't treat each other like s***, instead nothing really changed that much except women were encouraged to act the same. So we have a situation where the creepy sleazy male element are still treating women like s***, harassing them etc etc...except now it's "cool" and "edgy" for women to sleep around and treat men the same.

Buzzfeed literally puts out articles telling girls how to get guys into bed by lying and sweet talking, and then how to kick dudes out of their bed after f***ing them. And glorifying it, as if it's really neat and cool.

The irony is, I've met a ton of women who think they're "liberated" and "sexually liberal" and "empowering themselves" with this nu-wave "let's all treat each other like s***" mentality. They're almost universally very messed up mentally.

These girls don't seem to realise they are just sucking every c*ck around and getting used even worse than they were 50 years ago.

And despite going out and doing it every Friday because Buzzfeed or whatever tells them they're empowered, they're deeply, deeply mentally scarred because of it. Having sex with literally everything and everyone has now become the new cool, and it's not exactly doing people psychological favours.

We've gained the ability to get laid quicker than ever in the modern age...we've also lost a chunk of our dignity for it, and it's a real ripe ground for some seriously sketchy stuff that leaves a lot of women f***ed up.

 

[051AV]

Out at one of my local restaurants (not fast food joints) a woman in her 40s sitting at a table in front of me with 3 others, I'm watching her as her actions caught my eye, faak a possible BPD woman, you can tell the way she acted. Its hard to explain but my BPD meter was twitching, trust me once you've been with a BPD broad you get programed with a detection system. I was messing with her she would glance at me I would try hold eye contact with her she would quickly dart her eyes to the floor.

My previous job I interacted with a lot of women.... guys too, I worked for the gov't transportation services, you sure meet all kinds of women, some make you wonder wow she's whacked. Women were easier to deal with they would scream at you I've seen them go fvcking mental screaming at the top of their lungs, I didn't have any worries about them taking a swing at me. Guys on the other hand I got nervous at times, I'm a big guy for my 5'9" height I was a little more girthy, I had guys try take a swing at me. In the decade I worked the position I interacted with lots of people, the women ranged in ages from teens to senior citizens. Got to be in the thousands I interacted with, come across a lot of women with issues, the hippy chicks would be the ones that made me laugh they were the most flirtatious they would try offer a BJ instead of paying the fees etc. Summer time they are wearing the bare minimum clothes, rock hard nipples poking through their crop top. The good looking chicks they would try use their looks to get their way never worked, most of the ones I would put in the 7-10 range I found were truly insecure. I always got along well with the cougars they were the ones I could actually have a conversation with they had life experience.

I learned a lot about people working in that job as I've worked in construction all my life supervising and working with all men work crews, I never worked with the general public. I got my wrist slapped by management because I was so rough and gruff it didn't faze me to tell somebody to fvck off. Working in that job brought me out of my shell I wasn't a guy that would interact with people I've always kept to myself. I can read people fairly quickly I know if I can trust them or not in 30 seconds of interacting with them. I seen a lot of fvcked up women in the years working for the gov't.

 

[btownbuck2012]

The irony is, I've met a ton of women who think they're "liberated" and "sexually liberal" and "empowering themselves" with this nu-wave "let's all treat each other like s***" mentality. They're almost universally very messed up mentally.

These girls don't seem to realise they are just sucking every c*ck around and getting used even worse than they were 50 years ago.

And despite going out and doing it every Friday because Buzzfeed or whatever tells them they're empowered, they're deeply, deeply mentally scarred because of it. Having sex with literally everything and everyone has now become the new cool, and it's not exactly doing people psychological favours.

We've gained the ability to get laid quicker than ever in the modern age...we've also lost a chunk of our dignity for it, and it's a real ripe ground for some seriously sketchy stuff that leaves a lot of women f***ed up.

This.

 

[IKO69]

I agree that the good women are generally taken early (you won't see good girls single at like 28). So what is the cut off? I know the answer but I am curious to see the responses. Is a woman who is 32 and never been married, damaged? 35? 40? I suppose you can also mention at what age "the wall" typically hits women.

 

[RickTheToad]

I am coming to the same conclusion. Messed up in the head plus using 10+ year old pics. What I do now is get their number, Google it, find their full name, search on Facebook and check to see if the lady is who she says she is. Interesting thing with the pics. On Facebook, the pics are date stamped on when they were up loaded. Most all have been using pics from 5 - 10 years old. Compare those pics to current pics, looks nothing like them. Oh, I use a dummy Facebook account, not my real one. Tired of all the lies and deceptions. It's really tiresome and pathetic.

 

[RickTheToad]

I find woman who drinks a big turn off.

It's been my experience that those that do drink regularly r those damage ones. It's not even worth the effort to bang them.

It's been my policy 2 never date a girl who drinks and those that goes to club/bars.

Majority of woman don't drink, if they do then it's a social thingy like a wedding.

Plenty of girls in bookstores, nature clubs, shopping centers. Go get 1 there.

In Bridgeport, they all drink.