Pimp-sicle said:
And don't make the mistake of labeling her as a good girl just because she gets good grades and goes to church.
Absolutely. You should be using the first few dates to find out if she is the type of girl you would like to spend more time with.
Why go into a first date with a preconceived notion about what type of person she is?
Listen to her words then watch her actions to try to find out if she would possibly fit into your life.
You will rarely hear this advice applied properly, but just be yourself. Do not attempt to impress her.
You want to keep her interest high. The fact that she gave you her phone number, she answered the phone immediately or she called back promptly after you left one brief message, she agreed enthusiastically with your date plan (and you would never call a girl for a date without one of those) and did not attempt to negotiate a different date, and showed up on time where you told her to be for the date shows you that her interest at this time is high.
Her interest will be high when you meet her for the date. So your task is not to raise her interest level. It is to not do anything to LOWER her interest. Then you end the date before she is ready to go home. Don't hang around after everything is over, chatting. When the last activity is completed, end the date. If you do your job properly, her interest level at the end of the date will be as high or higher than it was at the start of the date (remember the high interest level she proved through her actions!).
Don't chat with her in the time between the first date and the second date.
Call her on the phone to make the second date. You plan the date before you make the call. She answers the phone right away. If not, you leave one brief message consisting of who you are and that she is to call you. You wait for her to call back. Do not call again after you leave the message.
When she's on the phone, tell her the when and where for date #2. She shows up again, her interest is high again, rinse and repeat. Before long she will be all over you and from there let nature take its course.
If at any point during this progression of events she flakes, she is nexted and you start over with a different chick. And of course you can do this with multiple women. Really that makes it easier because if you call Girl A and she tries to change the date or doesn't agree right away, you hang up and call Girl B who jumps at the chance and you shake your head because you can't believe Girl A passed up the chance at a date with you.
