Its cool if u didnt bust that nut, as long as u had a good time it doesnt matter, dont put 2 much pressure on that nut just have a good time.
i dont got suggestions cause u seem to be doin ok yourself.
I will say though idk if she is clingy or not but if your gut feeling is that she is, then she most likely is. So you gotta ask yourself, is that the type of girl you want. btw no need to always ask us if we have any suggestions, you are doing just fine on your own, keep it up. Last thing u need is some keyboard jockey telling you to do something and it f ucks it all up.
good luck hope it works out for ya