so how do the hbs 8's and 9's end up doing when they age?

[CostaDeSol]

how do you see the hbs (who you thought were 8's or 9's when they were YOUNG), doing now?

By that I mean, do you think they made the right choices when it came to men when they were young?


I'm only asking this because I'm 26 right now and I've been checking up on girls who i've met that are my age and i consider hb8's and 9's. A lot of them make pretty bad decisions when it comes to choosing boyfriends.

Some of them are really picky, but when they finally choose a dude to be in an ltr with, i feel like they can do better. Its almost as if they are selling themselves short.

So i guess I'm wondering, when they turn 35, 40, or 45, are they going to regret turning down the guys they turned down when they were younger? Are their bad decisions going to come back to haunt them in the long run?

and i'm posting about it here to see if you guys have seen this happen

 

[020204]

Very often they are left competing with younger less attractive women, who they are now roughly on a par too. For men it is a different story and many men maybe manipulated by what cougars are doing, don't be sucked in by this at all. In term of Hired Guns many move from working in bars to highend retail or into real estate depending on how well they maintain themselves.

 

[CostaDeSol]

another way to put it:

I feel like various hb 8's and 9's that i know, hold all the best cards when it comes to dating.

and what I'm wondering is "Are they playing their cards right?" and "Will they look back at their past when they are older and realize that they did not?"

 

[CostaDeSol]

Very often they are left competing with younger less attractive women, who they are now roughly on a par too.

I can see this happening. Their aging makes them weaker in the looks category.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Costa,
"I can see this happening. Their aging makes them weaker in the looks category"....Well that's pretty obvious.....The contra intuitive aspect to my own observations over a lengthy period is that a goodly number of the finest looking Girls stay single and relatively celibate.

 

[Boilermaker]

^

I have also observed the crème de la crème of the female population ending up single and celibate quite a few times; supporting Scara's counter-intuitive statement.

But why so? Is this reality or are we biased?

 

[Burroughs]

^

I have also observed the crème de la crème of the female population ending up single and celibate quite a few times; supporting Scara's counter-intuitive statement.

But why so? Is this reality or are we biased?

I can see this.

When you have great expectations its often easier to live internally inside your mind than take risks in the outside world...you might find out you're not as awesome as you think you are....

the very beautiful are often arrogant and in that arrogance comes inflexibility...the worst thing in life is to be inflexible....because ultimately life doesn't give a fvck :crackup:

Remember Ms Havisham from 'Great Expectations'....her prince charming betrayed her so she spent the rest of her life cruel, bitter, and alone with only her automaton orphan to which she bequeathed her cruelty and bitterness and her ancient memories and her rotting wedding feast to keep her company.

many beautiful women will travel this path...they just don't know it when they are 20

 

[Nutz]

how do you see the hbs (who you thought were 8's or 9's when they were YOUNG), doing now?

By that I mean, do you think they made the right choices when it came to men when they were young?


I'm only asking this because I'm 26 right now and I've been checking up on girls who i've met that are my age and i consider hb8's and 9's. A lot of them make pretty bad decisions when it comes to choosing boyfriends.

Some of them are really picky, but when they finally choose a dude to be in an ltr with, i feel like they can do better. Its almost as if they are selling themselves short.

So i guess I'm wondering, when they turn 35, 40, or 45, are they going to regret turning down the guys they turned down when they were younger? Are their bad decisions going to come back to haunt them in the long run?

and i'm posting about it here to see if you guys have seen this happen

From what I've seen, the true top notch hotties don't regret what they've done because they're simply oblivious to what they did, often having pissed away their 20s on the c0ck carousel. They don't even realize what's happened to them until it's too late. The catch though is that for most really hot chicks is that because of their looks hitting the wall is delayed a fair amount, probably into their late 30s or early to mid 40s. By then though they really get it because kids are off the table and live has passed them by.

 

[betheman]

got one of these on my FB1! she hits the big 40 next year, un married, no kids, she is desperate to have a kid. its funny, she has had 2 relationship the last year, both times, posted on FB, I looked at the calendar and wondered how long before the crash and burn, the last one was particularly funny, it was cranked up to the hilt....then radio silence, no FB relationship status anbd its as you were.
it does make me laugh but its sad in a way, its like a disability

 

[The Duke]

how do you see the hbs (who you thought were 8's or 9's when they were YOUNG), doing now?

By that I mean, do you think they made the right choices when it came to men when they were young?

I'm only asking this because I'm 26 right now and I've been checking up on girls who i've met that are my age and i consider hb8's and 9's. A lot of them make pretty bad decisions when it comes to choosing boyfriends.

Some of them are really picky, but when they finally choose a dude to be in an ltr with, i feel like they can do better. Its almost as if they are selling themselves short.

So i guess I'm wondering, when they turn 35, 40, or 45, are they going to regret turning down the guys they turned down when they were younger? Are their bad decisions going to come back to haunt them in the long run?

and i'm posting about it here to see if you guys have seen this happen

I've got two girls I dated a few years ago. One is 39 and the other is 37 now. One of them was a former Hawaiian Tropic model turned dental hygienist and the other a pharmaceutical sales rep. Both are still very attractive, smart, good hearted girls.

Due to their looks and choices in men who tolerated their bs, these girls were able to get away with their bad behavior. Now they are approaching the wall and are rethinking how they should treat a guy.

Now days they are both ready to get off the **** carosel and seeking ltr's but having difficulties finding someone. Funny how at one point they had a plethora of men.

I never tolerated their bs is why I didn't last with them. Even tho they didn't like that about me I think deep down they respected me for it and still do to this day which is why I hear from them every now and then.

I see the type of guy they date on their fakebook pages. One of them dates a tatt'd up ex-convict looking guy with a bunch of social issues. The other dates a guy with 2kids, an assault charge for beating up a former girlfriend, and a bunch of debt. They have both sold themselves short. I guarantee that these girls make more than they guys they date. And I have no doubt they regret letting go of the decent guys they did date.....like me.

Its really kind of sad. They both had great qualities but had such a desire for drama that they were not worthy of long term commitment. Now days I'd say both have changed their tune a bit but it looks like its too late.

I could go on and on about girls I dated that seemed to have it all at one time and are having to settle for less these days. Life has a way of humbling a person that gets too big for their britches! ;-)

 

[CostaDeSol]

The contra intuitive aspect to my own observations over a lengthy period is that a goodly number of the finest looking Girls stay single and relatively celibate.

^

I have also observed the crème de la crème of the female population ending up single and celibate quite a few times; supporting Scara's counter-intuitive statement.

But why so? Is this reality or are we biased?

I'm not going to say you guys are wrong, but I'm not sure if i can see this.


This FIRST thing so suave taught me was to never assume a girl isn't getting laid.

I thought i had to always assume that girls are spinning more plates then i am, and getting laid by a few of them.

But what i CAN agree with is that they remain single sometimes.

 

[betheman]

I'm not going to say you guys are wrong, but I'm not sure if i can see this.


This FIRST thing so suave taught me was to never assume a girl isn't getting laid.

I thought i had to always assume that girls are spinning more plates then i am, and getting laid by a few of them.

But what i CAN agree with is that they remain single sometimes.

women dont have as much secks as some guys on here have you believe, yeah they can get it at the drop of a hat, after a while though even for women it can get a bit boring as they get older

 

[CostaDeSol]

I see the type of guy they date on their fakebook pages. One of them dates a tatt'd up ex-convict looking guy with a bunch of social issues. The other dates a guy with 2kids, an assault charge for beating up a former girlfriend, and a bunch of debt. They have both sold themselves short. I guarantee that these girls make more than they guys they date. And I have no doubt they regret letting go of the decent guys they did date.....like me.

this is funny.

You would think that their looks should have won them the dating game...but look at who they are dating.

 

[CostaDeSol]

women dont have as much secks as some guys on here have you believe, yeah they can get it at the drop of a hat, after a while though even for women it can get a bit boring as they get older

aw, ok. well this is new to me.

 

[zekko]

Take a pool of 100 HB 9-10s ages 18-24. I'd bet that 10 of them, tops, maintain knockout looks past 30.

I'd agree with this. I remember the hot head cheerleader in high school, I saw her about seven years later, she was fat and dragging around a couple of kids. On the other hand, some girls who were considered ugly in high school turned out to be real hotties.

I know one girl who I considered an 8.7 who was in her younger 30s. I don't know what she looked like when she was younger, but even in her 30s, she was able to play guys for attention, and still riding the carousel. Even though she was married to a well off guy at the time. It wasn't long before she divorced him and I'm sure collected lots of cash and prizes. Last I heard she had a new boyfriend who had bought her a new car.

So I don't think there's one answer to the question, everybody has their own path.

 

[020204]

Saw an interesting documentary last night on London escorts. It seems that a lot of girls in college are doing it to fund there way through college. Also some of the women interviewed were high class and I wouldn't say super hot, although they did present well. Some were older and into there 30s and looked like they hit the gym. This is where I see the future of hot older women, when they finally wake up to the benefits of intense weight training in greater numbers.

 

[CostaDeSol]

What i have found to be surprising (to me at least) is that just because they are hb8's and 9's, it doesn't mean they will get with an "alpha" and live happily ever after.

You would think that since they have the looks they can get anyone they want but it seems like many of them end up blowing many good chances they get.

Its as if they have the looks, but DON'T KNOW what to do with them, and don't milk them for all that they are worth.

 

[Solomon]

What i have found to be surprising (to me at least) is that just because they are hb8's and 9's, it doesn't mean they will get with an "alpha" and live happily ever after.

You would think that since they have the looks they can get anyone they want but it seems like many of them end up blowing many good chances they get.

Its as if they have the looks, but DON'T KNOW what to do with them, and don't milk them for all that they are worth.

Just because a chick is hot doesn't mean she is smart

A lot of these chicks never had to work for anything, never had to struggle, a lot of these "hot" chicks were born with a silver spoon in their mouth.

give me a Mrs Ari-Gold-girl-next-door-type over a Jwow anyday and I'm happy

 

[020204]

I know someone who fits fairly well into this category, of what the subject on this thread is about. At least one, anyway. She is still fairly hot, is struggling to find a man, she is a nice person, I wouldn't be surprised if she has made some bad decisions in the romance department in the past. She is openly very flirtatious. I know what her niece was like and I would put money she was a young diva like her.

 

[backbreaker]

I ran into my old today. actually more of she ran into me.

she lives back in arkansas but her husband and her were on vacation and you know how like, you always tell epople "hey man if you ever come out give me a call" and you think in the back of your mind there is no way that they are actaully going to call you or come out there, well i get a call from her today in the morning, they have been out here a few days and are here for the week on vacation and she wanted to come see me and my son / wife etc. my wife actually knows her enough to where she is not threated by her and so i told them how to get to my house.



and when she got there.. i saw it. for the first time ever, she's 3 months younger than me so she's still 28, i can tell she' aging. i mean she is still very pretty but she is not HOT anymore. her face has too much wear and tear on it and she isn't a gym rat. she looks like a good looking 30 year old women, but she isn't 30 which is the problem.

she is starting to look more like her mom who is to be a 60 year old woman is quite attractive but still. i just thought that was interesting.

i bet 3 years from now she isn't going to look anything like she looks now. that girl has hated the gym her entire life, but could get away with it beucase she was that genetically blessed. that **** is about to catch u with her. and she no longer has the modelsque body she had either. she's still skinny but she's not as tone as she used to be.

I just thought that was interesting, i have seen the raise of her and now i have known her long enough to see the downward spiral