"Snowplowman Decoded" 2009 Journal

[Snow Plowman]

Field Report...

My wing been proactively searching for a venue I can get into, he found one. We go there together and tear it up. It's amazing how whereever we go were the party and center of attention...

The night begins...I realize when I screen out chicks I'm basically done with them and want to move on, this is great as I no longer waste time with chicks who can't "KEEP UP"...

First chick that I'm willing to proceed with is a blondie who I open on the dancefloor, I love my vibe. This is amazing she keeps trying to grind but I keep it to a minimum because I ain't the guy who tries to GRIND all night...At one point "Smack That" comes on so of course I smack her ass. She bounces me to get a drink and we chat briefly. She wants to know what I'm doing later tonight, I #close, logistics wise I can't pull today. When she left she was with other guys but she wouldn't do much with them due to me being in her presence. She comes back and we talk some more before her crew leaves.

The interesting thing is that I SUB-COMMUNICATE "High Value" on extreme levels because somehow she thought I was unattainable, but I've been working on this and my comments now make chicks melt. She was saying "You won't call...Please call so we can hookup". This is very common and something I'm aware of now.

Why I Must Play My Game
I love tearing a place up and having fun, that's just how I am. But it turns out that it gives me ALOT of leverage to get the HOTTEST chicks in the venue. I enjoy hitting a venue and either chilling with the crew or just offering value to everyone. Generally I go around just chatting EVERYONE and having a blast and when I see my type I go in HARD.

I'm walking around an I randomly stop infront of this chick and start tapping her chest, posing and then walking off. She'd later start stroking my arm as she walks by. I did something similar to another girl which left her wondering "Who is that guy". This is examples of when I do that.

When I don't...I sometimes do ego-based approaches which always go bad. When opening the harder sets position wise I don't have the social energy to make it better for me. When I approach a 10set table I don't have the social energy to OWN IT.

Typical Distant Light
It's so insane how I've developed because I have two parts of my personality...A "Retarded Fun" vibe and "Unreactive Russian" vibe, which I now realized is a GREAT combination. My sexuality oozes differently as I mix around both ways of being. A great EXTREME example...

When I'm in my house listening to my youtube playlist doing the dumbest things I'm "Retarded". When I'm chilling on the train focused on my cell phone I'm hyperfocused and no one else exists.

So there I was tearing it up and this 2set was aware of me. The come within proximity, more like 1ft from me and of course I open and escalate. This chicks face isn't hot but when holding her waist I feel the outlining of a SEXY THONG, this makes me curious and escalate more, she has a nice ass. It's only after the fact I realized I'd actually have sex with her. She's part of the 1% of cute chicks that I'd actually have sex with. We reopen each other every so often, but she gives that LA fake interest BS sometimes.

Lprince and I are chilling and this girl walks by so I tap her and pull her in...It's all good, typical stuff but she then tells me she can't do this because she's with her BF. Right after this a HOTTIE walks by who I grab and pull into me. I went all UK style..."Hey your ****ing gorgeous I had to meet you" and I start screening from there. Her friend is trying to pull her away but Lprince is winging me, eventually the friend pulls me and my girl away. She was probably the hottest of the night.

Motivation Is BACK!!!
When I was at my peak I was always approaching the hardest sets and always trying to create some new chaos in my interactions. This is what made me love the game because I knew that it was unknown as to how the girl would react. All I would do is take action and let it unfold, watching it unfold was always the greatest thing. ZERO EXPECTATIONS

Well Lprince introduces me to a 3set, where one of the girls is shy but like Lprince. For some reason after being introduced I'm flirting with the 3rd girl hardcore. It gets to the point where everyone around us is watching and the way I'm dancing with her they don't know if I'm going to kiss her or not. For a good 5mins I'm doing this UNTIL FINALLY the 2nd girl who is the cutest in the group seperates us and signals with her finger "No No No"...I laugh and walk right up to her saying "You could've been getting all the love if I met you first" and I go in and bite her neck.

It's hilarious because she didn't like that I was all in her personal space but I'm 100% congruent with being very physical and all on a girl because that's how I am with my social circle. So it's almost wierd for me not to be doing all that. She accepts it and you can tell she wants me, but I thought lprince was going for her so I never pursued.

At one point I start building a conspiracy showing that it was 3rd girl and me teaming together against 2nd girl. At this point 3rd girl lifts her leg as I hold it and rub her thigh...hahaha...I'd later find out from lrpince that 3rd girl was married. An did I mention there were 2 guys in this set that just spectated...

The madness didn't end here, I had been telling Lprince to go into mixed sets because there were girls that were his type that were obviously with the BF but I wanted him to be 100% sure...So then I see a girl I LIKE with some guy and a girl...MY TURN, I go in and typical stuff, I'm on her were having a blast, the other girl is her sister. 5mins in she breaks it to me that the guy is her FIANCE...I eject after creating some secret frames and telling her that sucks. The guy was very chill and we even chatte for a bit.

The GRAND FINALE...was one Lprince saw his type giving some guy a lapdance, it was a mixed 4set of 2 guys and 2 girls. I tell him lets take what we deserve, I'll go in and bring the girls to him. From experience I play it smart and wait for a opening. The girls start walking away and I roll up on them going for the OTHER girl not Lprince's girl. I tell her I like her style and then start grabbing her and moving her around.

The funniest thing I realized was Lprince's girl would follow my girl...SO every guy who approached Lprince's girl I'd just move. I did this 4 times, and finally was like "Damn your amazing you must meet my friend" So I grab her but realize a guy is talking to Lprince's girl, so I stop and say "GO GET YOUR FRIEND!!!" and Poof were all going to Lprince, but my dumb self didn't realize the orignal guy was still there. So what ends up happening is the guy instantly engaging lprince's girl which he found out was her BF...

I continue with my girl, then she goes on the phone. Before I leave I tell her I'm going and she wants to know where I'm headed. But logistics is HORRIBLE, she lives in Long Island and I'm not going there. So I just kiss her goodbye and leave. Didn't bother #closing either because logistics will always suck.

Lesson Learned
I've stripped my game down to the simplest form because I realized the past six months I've been creating concepts off of other TRUE concepts causing alot of false truths and belief traps.

Also learned from the six months that my biggest problem was accepting a chick into my reality. The whole way that I am and accepting chicks, I can now do crazier **** than before. I'm back to playing around with other concepts to find out which stuff was truth and others were just BS stuff...

09 will be INSANE if i continue like this...

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Back On The Path... (Part One)

Finally back to my regular old self of LEARNING, EXPERIENCING, and PERSONAL GROWTH. I'm thinking about doing a 90 day challenge because the past six months I've only been going out 1-2 times a week. This is the least I've gone out EVER, but it was due to many internal problems which I've terminated for the most part.

NOW I'm learning again!!!! Things I've noticed...
1. When ALONE I tend to be WAY more focused because there is no one to hangout with so I always have this "Might as well pull" attitude.
2. I open HUGE sets and mixed sets WAY more than single or 2sets...
3. I can wing IF I've been called over by my wing, I now hover as my wing chats up the group and when he's ready he can call me over...Chicks RAS still focus on me but I come off a bit standoffish like this so I can just stay quiet if I realize there RAS is too focused on me
4. When it comes to closing I make poor decisions...
5. Wanting the hottest chicks isn't ego based at all...I really don't want to bother with decent looking chicks, I want only the HOTTIES. (I better start building a social circle filled with 9s and 10s that way I have more access)

Lets kick off the night...today my goal was to just see how well I hook chicks attentions, yep might sound noobish at my level but I've pulled back all the BS and I need to make sure just being me could HOOK attention. I also decided to lower my physical escalation because I rely on non-verbals and escalating so much that I thought I might have forgotten how to chat to people. So I decided I'd talk more...

Typical Interactions
The goal was pretty straightforward, go in and talk...
- Adonis is in a 2set of italian chicks, one looks VERY *****y so I'm happy to wing. But from past experiences I no longer go into anyone's sets because RAS starts focusing on me. Adonis calls me over and it looks like I don't even want to meet them, I start chatting the *****y looking one and she's so into me I'm a bit pissed that she wasn't "Unreactive Russian" like hahaha. Anyway first time in awhile I'm actually TALKING and moderating my escalation. Like all european chicks who love me she says "Your crazy". This chick is so into me as I say random self-amusing stuff...I realize I can go on for hours just talking nonsense. Both chicks RAS start focusing on me and they eventually eye code to leave.

- Adonis is in a 5set which I do the same thing of being standoffish. He calls me in and same **** with all the chicks looking at me as I throw a random cold read at each. None of the chicks are really my type even though one girl is tall. I start talking about virginia eventually I tell adonis I'm cold and want to leave...Later I see the tall one and speak in her ear, she's grinding on me, it's ON. But I tell her I'd see her later. I did and I reopen her and her friend, they were with some random guy and he was about to poof but I think he was community so I started chatting the other chick and just talking for 15mins.

(This is the first interaction in MANY months that I didn't really escalate at all and let me tell you the amount of resistance I would get if I tried to touch, hahaha. I have no problem escalating but I really wanted to see how long I can talk)

- I approached this one chick telling her I don't like her anymore and to cancel our facebook date, I never realized how sharp my verbal skills were because I never use it. But it feels like it's JUST as tight as my non-verbal/physical skills. I always thought I was compensating for my lack of verbal skills by being so physical and non-verbal (Opening with facial expressions and touch) but that was false...I manage to get this chick all worked up but it turns out she was married and just had a kid one month ago. Her friend came by wondering what was up because she was taking too long, which I then flipped everything on her saying how she wanted to parachute into my house and kidnap me.

Fun Interactions
There were many interactions that was just FUN. Something I realized I was missing and why I actually loved this whole social dynamics stuff was because of the personal growth and the fact that I'm the CREATOR, I give women the memorable experience that they'll never forget. I'm the party, the excitement, creator of all chaos...
- Adonis brings me into a 4set just like previous interactions, I'm winging real well as he is mini isolated and I'm chatting the 3 chicks to the point where they all want me, I was 100% sure I could have my pick with any of the 4. I keep saying random stuff about going to LA with one, going back to sweden with the other, but secretly ****ing the 3rd chick. I had to get a friend into the venue so I ejected but adonis told me how the chicks were looking for me and asking him who I was.

Verbally I was on point and it feels like I've been hiding this part of my personality. My way of socializing is to use FREE ASSOCIATION as an outline while actively listening. When I get a trigger word I either self-amuse or speak authentically about it. ALSO I just start creating my own random stuff just to cause an experience...YOU SHALL NEVER RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY!!!!!

- Mixed 4set bfs/gfs it was so obvious but I was already speaking and verbally sucked them in, NICE!!!! The guys obviously don't like this, there guido alphas trying to subtly tool me by calling me "Kid" and laughing when I said I'm from brooklyn. Little did they realize there gfs were getting attracted and sucked in more and more. After awhile I leave though...

The great thing about this was how unaffected I was by the guys, it didn't even register to me what they were doing. This is the "Unreactive Russian" part of me where I'm totally unfazed.

- I approach this mixed 6set of 5 girls and 1 guy...I forget what happens but the guy is high energy and I pump him up which causes the whole group to be hyped up. My girl is really into me but then all of a sudden I start talking too a bachlorette party of 6 girls...I go in and do my regular non-verbal stuff, this stuff always works and next thing I know I'm taking pictures and escalating on ALL the girls. I touched all there breast and I spent about 2mins with each girl as they spectate. This was hilarious. The whole time the other group was watching me and the girl in that group was kind of sad that I just left her like that, I honestly forgot all about her by time I approached these girls which is common.

Something I didn't mention I feel like Brett Michaels or Ray J in those dumb reality tv shows where they select the best women from the bunch. I have this attitude which I had noticed in those tv shows they show great examples...I got hooked on the show when I noticed similar behavior patterns.

- Got my friend inside and spoke to everyone on the elevator it was so money that when I spoke russian this small russian chick popped out of NO WHERE speaking russian and this other hottie was loving me, of course this was a mixed set...Later on I see the tall hottie and she gives me a rose telling me to take it. Now I don't want it because I now have unnecessary **** in my hand but then my mind flicks "My love I want you back, why are you leaving me" and she goes back "**** you I hate you and no longer want you" as she runs away and I chase her being SUPER CHODE. Basically we put on a whole scene as everyone see's me with this rose and screaming random chode stuff as she runs away...Finally I open a chick saying "I lost the love of my life" and tall hottie comes back telling me how much she hates me, the girl I opened looks shocked like "O dear I got myself in the middle of a breakup" me and tall hottie crack up, I tell her I'll see her in a bit and begin talking to the girl I opened, which also went VERY well.

This is what I talk about creating experiences/chaos...The whole thing was so much fun and when I **** the chick it's like "We met in an interesting way, he created this fascinating scenario which I will never forget, and it's always exciting being in his world". Sex isn't even a thought because I know its 100% guaranteed...to bad I forgot to look for her and she had already left by time I remembered her.

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Back On The Path... (Part Two)

Interesting Interactions
I'm always the type of go to look for the hardest sets or do things just to learn something that will help me grow, YES I'm a self-improvement *****...
- Start of the night I had seen a 4set, I didn't see the faces but I seen breast. One girl had left so I steal that seat and yell at one of the chicks telling her our facebook date isn't today it's tomorrow. This LAish looking chick is VERY *****Y and not even all that but is giving me tons of test, it's amazing how unfazed I am because she was hostile but in a questioning way, but I sort of treat her like she's a retarded and tell her I like her attitude. The whole time I don't know which of the 2 friend's I want because they both have big breast. Then the 4th one comes back and asks if a few guys I was just with are my friends, I say yes and she proceeds to blow me out because she didn't like my friends. Cool, she is blocked out of my reality and I leave but continue chatting the very *****y chick who is cool with me.

Something I want to point out I DO NOT GIVE RESPECT TO CHICKS WHO DISLIKE MY FRIENDS. No matter how hot she is, I'll cut her off. Also, ttere are 3 types I like...
1. Very tall, feminine/*****y looking chicks who's faces are gorgeous
2. A chick who has amazing breast or ass with a decent face
3. A plastic looking hottie who clearly looks fake

- Later on I spot one of the big breast chicks who turns out to be a milf from switzerland. "Unreactive Russian" type of chick, I ****nig love it and makes me flirt HARDCORE because I'm attracted to her. I look at her breast and I want to fish for her necklace which is between her WONDERFUL BREAST. I'm escalating hardcore as she qualifies herself to me. She tells me about chocolate which of course I tell her I dislike because desert isn't my thing but she is qualifying so hard on it that I'm actually willing to try some chocolate. She's like no there is a difference with belgium and swizz chocolate, one is "mm" and other is "mmmmmmm". So sexy sounding, her friends were trying to call her over but she was in a trance and finally she had to run off and find her friend because that is who she was looking for and sort of forgot for the past 10mins. I had already felt her breast, ass, and all the other physical stuff I always do. I was holding back on the makeout as I do that alot not. I wanted to give her some good ****...ah well.

Qualification is my strong point and I generally ALWAYS get chicks qualifying themselves hardcore the first few mins in. The verbals were also making it even easier. This interaction felt very similar to when I was all over Macedonian chick, Austrian chick and all the European *****y chicks that I've met. 9s and 10s are my strong point, now all I need is access to seeing alot.

- Winged with RoB for the first time ever, I was VERY hesistant to wing because I know how it always goes RAS on me. It happened again but RoB is very smart when it comes to this he motions to get his girl over to him, I pickup on it and shift her to RoB as I talk to the other girl. I'm chatting my girl and its on BUT co-worker shows up its a guy. RoB played it well and already isolated his chick, I noticed my girl was worried about RoB taking my girl but I hype up RoB and I just engage her to make her forget. I add the guy into the conversation and now RoB and his girl are forgotten. It's hilarious because my girl won't be physical with me infront of her co-worker. Which is good because now I get to flex my verbals and chat them both at the sametime, it went very well. Finally I find the point where I know I can eject and the chick won't even remember RoB and his girl so I eject to get myself a girl.

Although me and RoB have different styles I liked his hollywood kiss, it's very congruent with how he is. As he said he gives wide range of emotions and it was SO FUNNY seeing the girl's expression, you could tell she loved it. Also the fact that I was using lots of VERBALS I made the interaction so engaging that she literally forgot about RoB and her friend.

- I see a 2set of CUTE swedish chicks, she's tall and nice face so good enough. I'm all over her and she has a bit of that "Unreactive Russian" in her. Mixing verbals and Non-verbals caused her to qualify herself while I was escalating. Adonis wings me and isolates his girl, my girl is 100% cool with that and asks to go, but I tell her lets stay. Everything is going well I'm holding her hands I can basically makeout but I hold back and mess with her some more...All of a sudden friend comes back and still has this pissed face even though the friend loved me too, so my girl ejects to cheer up her friend and demands that we find each other later...I never reopened...ugh

It's amazing when chicks show ZERO evidence of being attracted, I LOVE it, like I don't look for reactions because I know sex is 100% guaranteed no matter what. The friend liked me but looked pissed the whole time. Also I know I can makeout with most chicks because usually a minute in I always end up being 1inch from a chicks lips, it's something I used to do so I don't mistakenly makeout with a chick that I'm not attracted too. Now I do it to create tension because I know I can kiss her.

- This is the point where I play my cards wrong, earlier in the night I seen adonis talking to a chick, turns out its a mixed 7set of 6 girls and 1 guy. I befriend the guy and the girls while chatting this one chick. Eventually I eject, but I later reopened and realized I kind of like adonis's chick. Adonis has left the venue so I hang with all of them and I have this rose which my main girl wants. I'm not giving it to her but I start this whole conspiracy and secret frames BS. I show LOTS of fake interest to the main girl and her sister and subtly I'm actually going for the girl adonis wanted. I'm grabbing her hair as I stroke main girls hand. They take pictures and I'm just hanging with them for about 30mins...My dumbass should've reopened the swedish chicks and try to pull but I let that chance go by...

This was VERY interesting how I was throwing so much fake interest, I now realize that I do that alot. A chick is surely NEVER validated when with me because she doesn't know what's coming next. This was like some unnecessary advanced **** that I was doing which seemed so simple on the surface but was actually complex...Overall fun

- Wasted time, only chicks I wanted to actually pull was swizz MILF, chick who gave me the rose and I seen this model looking chick in a mixed set that I never got to open...I'm alone, so I want to PULL...BUT I refuse to **** a mediocre chick just to have sex. Some drunk chick is into me but my mind is saying "WTF are you doing? You know you don't want that" The venue sucks so I try to pull off the street, first it was a 2set that I plowed but they walk off...Then I see a lone wolf and go UK Style telling her she's ****ing gorgeous...such lies on my part but from past experiences I know I had to lead hard so I jumped in her taxi. She was talking as she was getting in the taxi so I jumped in. Off to the train station...I kiss her a bit but my mind is saying "Are you serious? Your going to settle you clearly don't like her" which was sort of true. She didn't actually have much of a body, had american features, and a decent face. At the train station I just tell her I'm not feeling well which was true but I could still have sex.

Overall I realized that I seriously refuse to have sex with chicks that I don't really want. In my mind I'm the coolest person in the world and the most fascinating guy so I deserve the BEST women. This might explain why 90% of the time I have great interactions with the hottest chicks. Also my whole personality is built around having the hottest women. Many will think "Yo its sex you get a nut off" it ain't worth it in my opinion if I want to feel bliss I'll astral project. Sex is my way of offering value to a chick I enjoy giving the experience too. I don't feel any sort of state boost, validation or anything from getting physical or ****ing a chick. It doesn't change anything it is what it is.

It's great to be back out there actually LEARNING more to come...

P.S for the hell of it I had texted danish chick who wanted me to come over to her house and cuddle but I wasn't passing up a night just to have sex with her. She said she would end up falling asleep soon which she probably did.

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: My Big Adventure

What a weekend, just three days ago I was pissed that I hadn't been living my life for the past few months. Friday morning I revamped my life plan to remind me where I wanted to be heading and MAN O MAN did I start living my life again...

Friday's Midnight Madness
Outside with adonis just approaching chicks on the street because there were HOTTIES. Adonis was having his own problems which was kind of killing my experience... (Little did I know what would happen tomorrow...)

I'm tearing it up and having a blast on the street...Chat this one girl for 15mins attempt to kiss her THREE times for the hell of it...A small HOTTIE with an AMAZING ASS, tried bouncing her to the night venue I was going too but she had guys/girls waiting for her at a table elsewhere. When I go to #close my friend calls and this messed everything up...Meet this cutie who is going to meet her BF, I went for the kiss...After I spot a chick I want to attempt to kiss so I go in escalating rapidly and before it ended I kissed her.

The whole street approaching reminded me that I can do anything so longs I FULLY decide that I'm going to do it. I even approached a 7set screaming "Go Tiger", then met a mixed 5set of 3 guys and 2 girls where I could've #closed if my phone wasn't dead.

Friday's Highlight
This was a highlight because it was DIFFERENT from what I'm used too and generally I'd just leave but I knew there would be a lesson to be learned. When I got in the night venue I was approaching my 3rd set which was a mixed 3set of 2 girls and a guy...

I open with facial expression and move her outside, FIRST FLAG she had to tell her friend where she was going...We get outside just vibing while I escalate a bit and even go for the kiss but it's a NO GO...SECOND FLAG she was using the word slut/*****, etc and overall VERY JUDGMENTAL...THIRD FLAG she calls making out in a club tacky, when to me it's no big deal just having fun fooling around. BUT I continue interacting and actually move her again to go sitdown somewhere. I then meet natural dancer guy who I joke with him, then have him demonstrate some fundamentals of salsa. My girl is amazed, and natural dancer starts hyping me up about my dancefloor moves hahahaha. She see's a bit of it.

Now the whole time I was telling her how surprised I am that I'm still talking to her, I tell her how I generally am, and overall I tell her I have no clue what she's doing to me because I'm still here chatting with her. I'm also starting to ACCEPT HER INTO MY WORLD. (That was my sticking point) BUT it didn't matter because once again women think I'm SO HIGH VALUE, an I unconsciously rubbed it in her face later in the night...She tried #closing me an I first tell her my phone is dead, she quickly says "WHAT!?!? What does that mean you *******, I'll take your #." I then just tell her straight up that I tend to forget to call and my followups are very slow depending on how quick I remember. This didn't help the unattainablity, because now it was like all the "ACCEPTING HER INTO MY WORLD" stuff, was now canceled out. She tells my boy christian that I'm an *******, how I won't contact her so I don't even want to exchange numbers.

I had seed to bounce to go eat earlier, I still haven't kissed her (It's no big deal to me, nor am I needy for it, I just like to get the first kiss out of the way as quick as possible) With the help of christian we label the random guy creepy and I pull the girls into the elevator...Where I met Pythag, he played a key role by winging/driving us to the place. BUT my girl is so judgmental that she started labeling pythag as creepy and I'm screaming "Your SAFE, that's my boy Pythag". He told me he was setting up a pull himself and will get his girl to drive to the food place too. On the walk my girl was all over me, she finally #closes me and sends me a text right there saying "Your a piece of ****. And if I remember I'll ****ing text you again tomorrow". Her friend is drunk out of her mind, and then we make it to the food place... (Said sup to Kydd, Achilles, U5, and another guy

I'm with my 2 girls and pythag brings his 4 girls who didn't realize we had a table yet, so there at another table. This pisses drunk friend cause now she feels rejected hahaha. They start ranting and rambling, but my girl understands the logistics of the situation. BUT THEN they start continuing to ramble on about how cool I am, how cute I am, how much they like me, etc.

Overall I had an interaction which I personally didn't think was solid because of the UNATTAINABLITY factor. I did ACCEPT HER but my WAY OF BEING sort of canceled it out again when they sat there throwing compliment after compliment about how cool I am. Her friend was even sad earlier because she thought i didn't like her. I also imply that this isn't going to work out because her personality doesn't fit my criteria at all. She won't be able to handle my personality at all, and alot of my behaviors she'd consider wierd/creepy. BUT it is what it is, I wanted to learn somethings and I actually did...Although I texted her and got a response I know it's done...

She was calling Pythag creepy, so if she seen ME going about life she'd also label me creepy because how I am is wild/retarded.

Saturday's Drunken Madness
MAN!!!! I still feel horrible, Saturday was house party night...My plan was to invite danish chick so I can just chill, drink and have sex after. Didn't go this way, she had to say goodbye's to her friends leaving NY so I went alone to chill, drink and then MEET WOMEN...BAD IDEA!!!! There was a reason why I vowed to never drink and meet women always trying to stay sober or pace myself on ONE drink.

Tonight was different though, it was a house party an I drank. When I drink I don't know I'm drunk because I'm so chilled out, so I kept drinking not realizing I WAS ALREADY DRUNK. Worst of all summa says "P-lounge", an my dumbass is READY. We hop in haze's car an I'm going NUTS, if you've ever met me before think of HOW I AM SOBER but drunk...I'm not in STATE, I'm ****ED, all on my mind is PULLING, Ironic I tell you...I thought I already maxed out when sober, but holy **** was I wrong. The amount of stuff I was saying PULL related is incredible. Adonis and Summa record a bit of it...

Get out the car an I see a mixed set "HEY your gorgeous!! But I'm in the wrong state of mind to get you, if I wasn't this messed up I'd PULL you". As they told me, this went on for awhile. I was just going up to guy's GIRLFRIENDS approaching them...An from there feedback it was going well until they realize how MESSED UP I am. Other moments as summa said I was just being so over the top. (Wish I could see all that) I basically forgot almost everything, I just know certain bits and quotes that I made which were hilarious.

THE BIGGEST MISTAKE...going to p-lounge, I may have ****ed up my connections. I try to NOT act drunk when passing the bouncer, I get upstairs, I'm pretty sure I used the bathroom...But I remember following summa and all of a sudden I was walking BACKWARDS!!! Get outside, an some guy who recognizes me starts chatting me, then I'm silent...As I was told one of the bouncers who knows me asked if I was ok and I told him I was. Then I was told chicks were opening me but would realize I'm ****ed cause I stopped talking...THEN I EXPLODE!!!! (Behind the door, atleast I was classy and discreet)

That was summa's que to GET US OUT OF HERE...Then I almost fall onto this groups table, but luckily they help summa help me. We get out of there but I don't remember ANYTHING. (Was I approaching again who knows) But I'm in the car PISSED at all the dumb stuff I did.
- Possibly ****ed up my connections at one of the few night venues I can get into (I already had fixed other problems previously there)
- Pissed that I had to have OTHERs take care of me
- Pissed that they won't just leave me and let me go take the train home so I don't ruin there night
- Wanting somebody to roll up on me and shoot me the head

I go back to the house party to sleep, I'm SO GLAD!!!!

Reborn
Felt like I was sleeping for a billion years, I'm into lucid dreaming and astral projection so I have my share of NATURAL EXPERIENCES in other realities. An boy did it feel like my waking life was the dream. I woke up thinking everyone was gone and it was morning. HELL NO I slept for only 1-2 hours, the night technically JUST STARTED. I was already texting the few chicks left in my phone trying to hook up with them. I call adonis, realizing he's out in LES, meanwhile summa is still here. My mind goes "WHAT!!!! There is still partying"

I see summa, I see some chicks and then evenstar tells me there is another house party next door. DAMN!!!!! LETS GO **** SOME CHICKS!!!! The house party next door was just a DARK ROOM. I'm still ****ed an I open like that. There was a REALLY COOL black chick that I met, I really wished I was sober because I really liked her style and personality. But next thing I know there is some black chick grinding on me HARDCORE. For 5mins I just sit back as she GRINDS HARDCORE on me. It then occurs to me "WTF are you doing, I know your not attracted to her, YOU CAN'T EVEN GET IT UP RIGHT NOW, just leave".

I eventually leave the dark room, go back to the original house party where I was escalating on some chubby blond. Summa and adonis said she was into me and that I could've probably ****ed her if I was sober enough. MEANWHILE this other guy was begging her to have sex...Finally we leave to go eat food and they piece together the night for me.

OVERALL...If this DOESN'T **** up any of my connections and there was no consequences for me actions going to the night venue. THEN I'd consider this a great a experience. Gotta thank the crew once again for helping me out. I know next week the jokes will commence but atleast now there is some ammo for me to get joked on a ton.

 

[daygameguy]

You must have been drinking Red bulls instead of Alcohol. That's WAY too much energy for a 19 yr old.

 

[Snow Plowman]

You must have been drinking Red bulls instead of Alcohol. That's WAY too much energy for a 19 yr old.

Haha

Man when I'm sober I tend to be very HIGH ON LIFE, state isn't even a word in my vocab because I'm generally always in state. At times I get wild/retarded, an from past experiences of moderate drinking I become VERY CHILL. But when you add the belief that I will be pulling and being drunk, you have me being ME at an unstable rate.

Spoke to my boy briefly and he told me I was escalating how I always do, but they pulled me away because they had no clue what I'd do with the chick next, an the BFs would just stand there. When I'm sober it looks like I'm on drugs, if I'm chill, people usually think there is something wrong because I'm always doing something retarded.

 

[daygameguy]

Haha

Man when I'm sober I tend to be very HIGH ON LIFE, state isn't even a word in my vocab because I'm generally always in state. At times I get wild/retarded, an from past experiences of moderate drinking I become VERY CHILL. But when you add the belief that I will be pulling and being drunk, you have me being ME at an unstable rate.

Spoke to my boy briefly and he told me I was escalating how I always do, but they pulled me away because they had no clue what I'd do with the chick next, an the BFs would just stand there. When I'm sober it looks like I'm on drugs, if I'm chill, people usually think there is something wrong because I'm always doing something retarded.

lol I get retarded sometimes too and you know what, I feel free.. unlike yourself, I have a tendency to suddenly get out of state if things don't go well. So thinking of myself and whole the situation itself as retarded, makes me feel normal again, i.e. be back in state as if nothing really matters.

 

[Daydream Engineer]

I stated listening to Real social dynamics after Daddy the Pimp recommended it. im on the first disc, and im like wow! You, Solomon, and Daddy the Pimp have convinced me that "being, not doing" is not a saying, its a way of life!

 

[Snow Plowman]

I stated listening to Real social dynamics after Daddy the Pimp recommended it. im on the first disc, and im like wow! You, Solomon, and Daddy the Pimp have convinced me that "being, not doing" is not a saying, its a way of life!

hahaha yep it's true

It's incredible how my boy breaks down my drunkness, as I'll know fully when I meet him again. BUT basically it was exactly how I am minus certain logical brakes I put on myself...
- I don't usually scream that I ONLY want eastern european girls infront of everyone, because verbally telling everyone I only want the hottest eastern euro chicks isn't something I just blurt out.

- AMOGGING, I used to do alot of it because I wanted to go into the hardest sets and get social pressure. I consciously stopped that because I felt bad for the guys. (I used to do more mixed sets AMOGGING than actual single sets)

- My approaches was exactly how it usually is. My opener was "Hey I'm ****ed up but if I wasn't I'd pull you" an it opened sets. As my friends said I didn't get blownout intially, it was ONLY after they seen I was ****ED UP they would leave.

It was an interesting experience and great feedback by friends because it now shows me that I'm 95% authentic, only thing I hold back on is stuff that may affect people in a negative way. The memorable things my friends pointed out which is why I know when sober I'm always authentic...
- A hottie opened me, I was self-amusing and my friend said she was into me. This chick they considered an 8 and said it was my type of girl, tall and amazing body. (This is why you shouldn't drink)

- At that house party there was 2 chicks in this room, I was told that I grabbed one of the chicks saying "Your my wife for the night" and she replied saying "Yes! This is my husband". Apparently I sat and just stopped everything because I was ****ED UP still. Which this other guy then tries to escalate on her and begins begging her to have sex with him in the kitchen.

Overall great experience...BEING is the way to go, in the long run it helps out your overall life. WAY BEYOND just a single night of sex.

 

[Solomon]

awwww

Ayo Snow

Just wanted to say

I used one of your Button Pushers on friday (honestly I didn't think I just "did")
It was two cougars, Who were standing talking I came in and was liek

"sorry I'm late...thought you'd be on the dancefloor"

Then I just plob't (is that even a word?) myself on the wall, the chicks was all like

​

They totally ate that up, it was fun being in set, I then introduced them to my wings a few minutes later. One is 6'3 black man build like a bruiser and a scrawny asian kid, so we just going in, and I'm escalating sexually but acting like the asian dude is my boss and me and one of the cougars can't talk dirty("why they call you big daddy? I got a son your age hun!" lol). They ended up leaving but it was a fun set.

Probably one of the better sets for me on friday.....

 

[daygameguy]

Ayo Snow

Just wanted to say

I used one of your Button Pushers on friday (honestly I didn't think I just "did")
It was two cougars, Who were standing talking I came in and was liek

"sorry I'm late...thought you'd be on the dancefloor"

Then I just plob't (is that even a word?) myself on the wall, the chicks was all like

​

They totally ate that up, it was fun being in set, I then introduced them to my wings a few minutes later. One is 6'3 black man build like a bruiser and a scrawny asian kid, so we just going in, and I'm escalating sexually but acting like the asian dude is my boss and me and one of the cougars can't talk dirty("why they call you big daddy? I got a son your age hun!" lol). They ended up leaving but it was a fun set.

Probably one of the better sets for me on friday.....

That is so gold! I'm definitely gonna keep that one up my sleeve.

I practiced a lot of "locking in" on saturday, basically like -

1. "Hi I'm daygameguy"
2. "What is your favourite thing about this city"
*Lock in, as they speak, they all turn to me now, and the heat is on*
3. "What are your names" blah blah...


So this button push or whatever seems to be a sweet fit with a solid lock in.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Mega Update

I've finally got my life back together, after realizing that it was in shambles. I met up with my social circle, I've experienced things, I ate great food at the rate that I was before and overall I like where things are headed. Also for the first time in a long while I wrote down what I wanted to get out of this whole community stuff. An now I'm hyped to go on this journey...

Basically I realized I haven't really done much of anything, I wouldn't even say I'm in the trenches because I read an audio saying "How man sets did you open in the night?" an I can easily say COUNTLESS...BUT then it was said "How many sets did I open with the intention of making it work?" and the answer would be 0-2 sets a night. Attempts to the #close and pull is generally 0-1.

So there you have it...BUT what is very interesting is I realized I've come full circle. Two days ago I broke down a structure of how I'd do things and it turns out to be very similar to how I was back in Feb 08 when I had the "How To" down. NOW it's just a stronger reality and overall deep identity. If I had a structure from a long time ago it would've been super easy as I started to notice I started doing old stuff again as I will mention above.

The irony of this all is that I actually have chicks in rotation...
- 5 chicks who are solid followups
- 2 chicks who are inconsistent (I think it's done as I didn't really followup)

This only occurred to me yesterday but honestly I haven't really been out, I generally went out to hang 1-2 times a week for the past six months. I've really started planning out this again like I did WAY BACK. But I'll give an insight on what my last two days out were like.

Thursday...College Danceclub
Last thursday I was going to have a chick tag along as I go out to eat with my social circle. This goes downhill an I end up going to two different restaurants when I get a call from adonis telling me about a 18+ party. When I get there I had problems getting in because it was ONE college guest per student...SO I instantly meet a 6set and get in.

The girls weren't really my type but this was so much fun just having the music and being in this environment. It is my ideal type of night venue. I got so caught up that I was just fooling around with EVERYONE on the dancefloor. Guys would be grinding on chicks while there interacting with me. I'd be grabbing random chicks messing with them. An to make it even better, I was so in the moment that I mistakenly slap this chicks cell phone and right after that slap some guy in the face. But I was the party so much and so positive that it didn't matter...WIERD.

Overall adonis finally admits that he comes to talk to my girls that he likes because he knows I won't care. I had pointed this out a few weeks back when he tried talking to the hot russian causing me to switch chicks AGAIN only to realize I switched not only because the other one was hotter but also because my orignal girl had told my wing she had a BF. (She never brought it up but it was clear when trying to #close) Well this is what happened...
- I approach this 2set of russians, I had met them on the line earlier in the night. I bring over adonis, an then he starts going for the hotter one, not realizing that the other one REALLY LIKED HIM but was shy. Honestly both chicks were attracted to him but it basically blew me out because the shy one really wanted adonis. So it snubbed me out when he started going for the hotter one.

- Did some dancefloor stuff an pumped this chick up who I was going to move upstairs to fool around with. I introduce her to adonis and he starts escalating knowing I'd let him do it...

- Another chick who I had pumped up to bring upstairs and fool around with, just so happens the couches ALL THE WAY in the back has people an we start chatting them...I switch chicks hoping to #close the new girl and come back to this girl to fool around with her. Adonis comes in and tells me he #closed her...WTF

This will later bite him in his ass though, because there was like a 4set that I had met earlier because one of the chicks had a INSANE BODY and I didn't mind fooling around with her. Well I had approached them earlier in the night, blew out some creepy guy and started grinding with the INSANE body chick...Later on adonis asks me to wing him an tells me the chick in the black dress is his target...Realize it's the same 4set, he picked the ugliest chick so I got the model chick. I then find out the model chick is his target and he's telling me I'm AMOGing him...hahaha.

Model chick is really into me and her friend who is an actress loves me...Meanwhile adonis is getting a bit ****y as he tells me he #closed and LIED saying he did it way earlier in the night so I shouldn't go for her...BUT the plot thickens...Anywho it's late and were suppose to meet Lprince outside but I'm so caught up in the whole music that I'm just acting retarded and notice the model chick. So of course I fool around with her but she can't really handle my personality. I assure her that I am in control an will get her through whatever I do. Everyone is watching us, an when the place closes I tell adonis lets try to pull them. At first he doesn't want too but we get him too...

Model chick rants about him being creepy because it TURNS OUT...He tried #closing the actress friend and making out with the ugly chick for VALIDATION. At the sametime she's hugging me and telling how much she likes me and wants to hangout again. BUT at the sametime she's giving adonis **** which crosses a boundary an I tell her she has to be cool with my friend in order for us to hangout. Overall it doesn't work, I was going to box out adonis to get her # to hang with her again. BUT she already gave her # to adonis earlier. (Of course it was done with them by now)

Saturday...Wakeup Call
This night was a wakeup call, it started off cool with me self-amusing with this german model looking chick...Then with this russian chick who I was in with but didn't ****ING MAKEOUT so she left...After met a Romanian MILF who I #closed which was a great interaction in a 2set.

Things were going great, sealdan asks to do a DOUBLE CYCLONE into set...For all you that don't know THE CYCLONE by RSD TIM you basically put your hands above your head and spin into sit. It's hilarious!!! Well we get into the set an I'm pumping my girl up, self-amusing and escalating. Her guy friend comes by trying to cblock and I label him creepy until she tells me it's her brother's business partner. After this Hyxtery comes to me an starts chatting to her, BT transfers to him, I don't care and he's making out.

I feel like a dumbass for making others just come in and take the girl...I didn't care about the girl, but my nonchalant attitude really showed me that I'm losing girls that I could have fun with by giving them to my friends for no reason. SO I go back in the venue to make sh!t happen...
- I spot this mixed 3set at a table who turns out to be BRAZILIAN and has an amazing ass. I'm all over her, screening and finding out logistics. Everyone is shocked at how great her body is, but to me she's just a normal chick an I fool around with her for a bit.

- A chick walking by I grab and walk with then stop her and spin her around because she was trying to leave. I start pumping her up a bit an try for the makeout, I later find out she had a BF in the venue.

- There was a chick I was talking to who's friend was signaling to leave the venue. I went for the #close but she brought up BF an I reframe it saying were all seeing someone how it's like "Flavor Of Love" or "Rock of Love bus" and she was with it but eye code the friend and snaps out of the frame...

- A 2set I met earlier in the night, I see them at the end of the night so I approach them an start self-amusing, my wing and I get them to sit down on the rock as I was trying to bounce them to a diner with us. After awhile I didn't want to waste anymore time but if we had stuck it out, it's possible that we could've pulled them to the diner.

Overall I learned that the way that I am, I need to keep my escalation high like I used too. That means even going for the makeout 1min in, because this I always **** up sets by NOT going for the makeout. I used to just go very close an stop as if I'm judging if she deserves a kiss, because before this I was making out so much that my throat felt like I was getting a cold...BUT now I'm actually losing sets because they either give up thinking I dislike them or think I'm chode, scared to makeout with them.

P.S...Funny thing is my wing thought I was affected or pissed at hyxtery BUT I was actually pissed at myself for NOT making out with her due to me not wanting to makeout with all these different chicks. An just watching hyxtery who thought I didn't care because she was indian come in as I chill back letting my BOY take the girl and then seeing him just makeout after I PURPOSELY was pumping her up...hahaha. It was the best thing that could happen because it got me to bring it back an just do it instead of dragging it out since they already see me as unattainable.

 

[Snow Plowman]

For The Love Of Me

I've went through another internal shift an I realized how much better it is just living your lifestyle. Once you've made that shift of becoming that naturally attractive man who lives in his own reality the focus on your lifestyle makes it SO MUCH EASIER...

About a month ago I had watched those reality tv shows an realized that these guys have a specific selector frame that I have. It then hit me that this whole thing for me is like a casting call and chicks just trying to win and be apart of my AWESOME REALITY. This has made things so much easier for me as far as managing the women in my life and my overall game.

I barely go out but I have 5 chicks in rotation...

Two weeks ago I had rewrote a life plan based on how I want my life to be and it has helped me a lot. If I'm not living my life, then I get irritated which ends up getting me pissed. Lately I've been living my life again, I've contacted my social circle again and overall started doing things I loved to do.

Today it really hit me though, because I remember a month ago someone I know through a friend invitied me to an event. I buzz my friend who is part of that particular social tree to get info, then I speak to another person in the social tree and get full details. With ease, I text one of the 5 chicks telling her she's coming out as my sidekick...Less than a min she confirms that she wants to come. This causes me to flake on a different chick as I didn't realize she wanted to meetup this weekend...BUT I really don't care so the cycle continues.

What I realized is this whole reality makes everything fit right into my lifestyle because it's no longer each individual chick, it's now EVERY chick in the world is a candidate and has the opportunity to show me why she should be in my world...

I already know how AWESOME I am and the benefits chicks get when there in my reality. I know all chicks love me and I'm high demand because most chicks live boring lives and I bring excitement to there life. It's compelling for a chick to want to stay in my reality. Which is why my whole personality is very qualification based.

 

[daygameguy]

If you had 0 social circle, would you still be that attractive to women?

 

[Snow Plowman]

If you had 0 social circle, would you still be that attractive to women?

Yep everything stems from WHO I AM so with or without my social circle I'm still that attractive guy. What I ended up doing was dropping and disassociating with ANYTHING that gave me confidence, that way I could learn to just attract women based off my CORE.

I haven't used social circle building to its full potential YET...

Majority of the time I don't have my social circle with me even though in the future I want to be able to have options of hanging with different people in my social circle everyday. That way if I'm going on a day2 or just bored I always have an adventure that I can go on.

 

[daygameguy]

You rely on your inner state and what comes from within, but you still follow some level of structure, consciously, isn't it?

For instance, you tend to use more qualification, cuz you behave in a high value manner, so it's like an unspoken demonstration of high value, using just your sub-communication.

I think inner game builds the basic personality, and allows you to be congruent with any kick azz outer game technique that you want to use.

Anyway, I have the Blueprint now. I'm gonna listen to it. Let's see how I feel after it gets over.

And yeah, let's hang out sometime dude, day game only, on the streets.

 

[Snow Plowman]

You rely on your inner state and what comes from within, but you still follow some level of structure, consciously, isn't it?

For instance, you tend to use more qualification, cuz you behave in a high value manner, so it's like an unspoken demonstration of high value, using just your sub-communication.

I think inner game builds the basic personality, and allows you to be congruent with any kick azz outer game technique that you want to use.

Anyway, I have the Blueprint now. I'm gonna listen to it. Let's see how I feel after it gets over.

And yeah, let's hang out sometime dude, day game only, on the streets.

Yep that's the gist of it BUT I don't have an actual structure YET I'm working on that currently. But you pinpointed it well with inner game being the basic personality. As for all that qualification stuff it is actually WHO I AM now, I actually have alot of screeninng based qualities now which is why I naturally do it now and women are compelled to qualify me.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Final Post... Part 1

I deleted my orignal post when this first happened BUT I learned so much that I decided that it actually is the best way to end this.

I've always wondered "Did I actually change?" I'm the type of person that takes things to extreme levels when it's not even neccessary. But this time I manage to experience something EXTREME, now I'll have to be vague about it because it is an extreme situation within the context of "LIFE". In my mind it's just another experience in this reality we call life. So anyway I always wondered why it is I was having ****load of stuff coming at me from different angles for the past six months, it almost felt like it was the most unproductive months ever. But I usually frame it as me needing to find the lesson...Well I did...an the question now lies

WHY AM I STILL HERE!?!?!?!
A few days ago my reality was put to the test an getting straight to the point I was surrounded by 9 cops all doing frame control on my brother and I. To my surprise I was so comfortable, it was as if I was in set, it was totally normal. The situation is considered extreme BUT my "It is what it is" and "Let things unfold" came into and I not only handled the situation very well. (Stopped them from going in my house, diverting the frame control on me instead of my brother) The cops were actually pissed that I was so unreactive and that my brother also expressed his own unreactivity in his own manner. (I basically saved his life) If I ever doubted living in my own reality today was the day that I'd realize I DO LIVE IN MY OWN WORLD. These guys basically called me out on being unreactive, on top of that I made some comments that made there state break causing them to come out of the "Police" frame an actually fall into a "Who is this guy?" curiousity frame...I've learnt that this weird feeling I used to get was actually me resisting the fact that I can see frames plain as day, its obvious I can see frames SO EASILY as I talk through specific thoughts and images that come to mind, which is how I express myself. On top of that I'd later cause a lady who allegedly came to kill or get killed REACT...I'm 100% sure no one has heard such verbals on this forum but to my surprise it was like I was...IN SET, totally normal just being me. Inside I'm cracking up as I continue interacting with her, it's clear that she is unstable but the frame were in she can't really be mad at me and I'm not getting sucked into the frame she's setting because then I wouldn't even be here typing away. Overall it had put my reality to the test...

There is some PU related stuff though, because why else would I even mention that stuff? Throughout the whole situation I intereacted with 5 other women an it was the greatest insight I ever had. These chicks read my whole personality like a book. The thoughts I express to the world was being VERBALIZED by these women. One points out how unreactive I am, one points out how dominant I was, one points out that I don't give a **** what anyone thinks. While this whole EXTREME SITUATION is occuring I am still in my own reality an the women are interacting EXACTLY how they would if I was out meeting women...
- We stood there talking about how we walk around the house naked and our experiences being naked about our house
- When we actually laugh about meeting for the first time in this situation, I point out how awkward/formal it was introducing ourselves like that when US talking about being naked in our houses came out much more fluid
- Dancing around as if were in tribal times making ritual sounds
- Mistakenly catching people having sex
- Chick trying to frame things to get me to buy her an ice cream

One of the women stayed with me for FOUR HOURS an I basically could've pulled no doubt about that, one of the other chicks was telling her to #close me which of course she would never do because women are generally intimidated by me. But overall I learned so much about female psyche, backwards rationalization, frames, Authenticity, living in your own world, male/female dynamics, etc. The biggest thing of all though...

I'M 1000x MORE GROUNDED
This whole situation made me realized how ****ing retarded it is to act chode an not just express yourself. It is now a boundary for me to NEVER act chode and to always BE ME 24/7 because after this whole experience and lessons learned I actually get pissed when I think about ACTING CHODE. Why the hell would I want to do that? Also I'm ONLY moving towards my goals and will not settle for less. I said I'd probably cut down on screening so hard an fix certain habits that cause me to be unattainable...**** THAT, if a chick doesn't make the cut then like in "Rock Of Love" her time is up and she has to leave. I witnessed a chick who I'd NEVER in my life think about having sex with even if she physically looked like my ideal type. It almost pisses me off to even think that I'd **** a chick who's like that. I remember listening to an audio where a guy who's personality is also very qualification based an he said something about not knowing chicks and how they could possibly be a ****ing retard. Back then I thought he was being a bit too harsh/bitter but hell no, he knows what he deserves an he'll walk away from ANY chick that doesn't make the cut. I firmly have ingrained this...I''m finished being shallow, I witnessed a decent chick with the WORST ****ING PERSONALITY by a long shot an a ugly chick who I enjoyed speaking to and being around. It reminded me that I can still self-amuse an be retarded with everyone like I USED TOO...Doesn't mean I have to have sex with them.

I'm enough...I really looked at how much value I offer to a woman an I noticed no matter the chick the value exchange will always be me offering WAY MORE STUFF...Her being in my world is almost like winning the lottery because she has access to MY OWN REALITY and LIFESTYLE. I'm a pretty out there type of guy who doesn't take life seriously at all so the experiences are unique and my overall personality is just COMPELLING, INTERESTING, EXCITING. The lifestyle that I move towards and live is the best thing in the world becuase it was MY CHOICE so of course I think it's a valuable life to live. I'd have never realized how mony I am if it wasn't for this whole experience. I've always wondered why chicks would be so interested in meeting me, trying to #close me, hoping I liked them, and sometimes even telling me to **** them. It's like I didn't realize how cool I am.

I used to wonder if switching from "Getting more lays than your cousin" to "Being a naturally attractive guy" was the right decisions...I've never made a stronger YES than now

 

[Snow Plowman]

Final Post... Part 2

Everything I've ever done was worth it because here I am...
I had a feeling I'd rarely post or stop posting in general because of where I was headed. I stopped helpping out new guys as much because I had the "If you really wanted it you'd go do it" type of attitude. Then also raising my goals to extreme levels made me realize that hanging around in the community is now actually holding me back. While I'm still fascinated by social dynamics it is just a hobby in my overall lifestyle. I've been noticing it more and more that I needed to start building the lifestyle and building the social circle.

The guys I've met in the community I consider friends an it's been that way for awhile now...BUT there was many things that happened which was signs for me to "STOP focusing on PU and BUILD the lifestyle"
- Every night I would just be having a blast, I no longer even thought about PU I'd just go crazy and socialize. As a result I was always getting opened and reopened throughout the night, sometimes chicks would demand my # or find out where I'm going after, and in rare cases I'd have the friends or the girl actually tell me to **** them. This is all the result of having a strong sense of self. Usually I'll meet some cool natural guys who know nothing about the community so we could just have a blast without even uttering a thing about PU. Overall it never looks like I'm in the community because I just seem like a socialite who is just having the time of his life. Getting invited to people's table was a norm for me after awhile because for some reason people wanted to align with me.

- There was a group of guys who one of them was an executive in the music industry and his friend who supposedly had models working at his hair salon. They always invited me to come hangout and get free wine at there establishments as it seemed like they both owned more than one business because the executive surely did...A different guy I met who after a bit of talking gave me his life story an is actually celebrating his 5 year of hardwork to become successful in his business. Turns out he was in the process of becoming a millionarie, cool down to earth guy who had a passion. He had mentioned about me coming to las vegas with him once his deal was finished...There was some famous actor guy who I apparently hung out with and didn't even know, well ever since that this girl ALWAYS shows me love everytime she spots me and she introduced me to her cousin who is an up and coming rapper.

- The table situations were always a unique experience in itself, but some specific situations...There was an old guy and wife who I used to dance with, one day while chatting he just orders some champagne for the hell of it and offers me a drink....Another situation was a table I started dancing with the girls and high fiving the guys. It got to the point where the girls were on the couch as I playfully grind with them an the guy basically tells me I can take whatever girl I want in the group. He even ends up buying bottles just to keep the party going...Another similar situation was a guy who usually buys tables when he goes out, I chatted up one of his girls and this specific guy says "Hey you seem cool have a drink" and after that he allowed me to fool with any girl I wanted. I had seen him another time and the samething happened.

- The types of chicks I want to meet to get access to the types of chicks I want...There was a situation where I once went into a mixed 10set and I ended up being with ONE girl who was a fashion designer, then all of a sudden she introduces me to SIX other women who are in the fashion industry all very attractive. We were taking pictures and just hanging around, it really shocked me how IN I was. They tried to get me to come with them to another venue but of course I COULDN'T, the guys were very chill...Once again another fashion designer an her HOT female friends, she tried to get me to come with her too as we were both attracted but COULDN'T...Then it was a pornstar chick with her boss, of course there from LA, if you didn't know I enjoy hanging with pornstars due to there creative sense of humor...Randomly in a bookstore i ended up meeting a 10 year pro chef who started introducing me to books to help me get started in the world of cooking, she also showed me what she ended up cooking the day before...How could I forget the swedish chick that I met, who then introduced me to 2 cute NORWEGIAN women, an right beside us was 2 hot american looking chicks.

- Then there are just women who could've possibly introduce me to new places and experiences...I met a girl from denmark, it turned out she lived on a small island there an she wanted me to come, she bought me drinks all night...There was the older lady from maine who wanted to take me to eat all the fresh seafood, she also bought me drinks all night...There was these two MILFs who were from LA surely had rich husbands as will smith was in there social circle, but if I moved to LA like I told her I'd end up doing she was going to introduce me to certain people and she also was giving me advice on ways to make money. This was a very interesting interaction...There was a mixed set of HOT russian women that I had finally got to interact with and one of them demanded I take her e-mail so she can show me around when I visit russia.

- My overall social circle building, while it was lacking due to me neglecting my lifestyle...I recently had a guy hook me up with a little acting gig although I had to turn down due to being sick it was still kind of him...First house party I ever helped organized an basically had choice of laying 4 different girls that night, getting laid wasn't even a THOUGHT that night...This one party chick I knew who always had cute friends who also had cute friends, I got to pick and choose who I wanted...Recently meeting a model chick and a cool actress chick that had many female friends BUT that went downhill and also this other girl who was screaming that I was the coolest guy she's ever met in NY and wanted to hook me up with her roomy who is the "I party in hampton's" type....Hanging with COOL FEMALE FRIENDS, it's amazing how enjoyable it is, I've brought my female friends into interactions and sometimes they've tried putting me in awkward situations by telling guys I wanted to meet them hahaha...There was a well known ex pornstar chick who I was in contact with for awhile, she had recently contacted me again, VERY COOL CHICK who was well connected in LA.

This was just stuff I remember off the top of my head, the irony of it all is that I just turned 20!!! I take these things as huge sign posts that was telling me to STOP FOCUSING ON PU because I already had my identity sorted out, I've gone through the whole closing phase back when I first started this so now I could just BE an if I liked a girl I could close if I choose too. Many of the times I wouldn't though an I used to think that was bad but when I look at my goals NOW, and I realize the situations I was constantly being put in came up because THOSE WERE MY LONG TERM GOALS and a single lay was just short term gain at this point... I have a crystal clear vision of how I want the next 10 years to be for me and while it does include havining sexual relationships with the hottest women, (In my opinion) most of it was to have that LIFESTYLE that I always wanted. I'd love to go to a small island on denmark just to experience it, I'd love to be in some underground eurodance club with 5 hot russians ONE who I'm actually having sex with, I'd love to go to UK and eat at "Fat Duck".

Like it was said many times PU doesn't define you, it should be something that complements your life and what better way for me to be having the time of my life all the while I'm having sex with the BEST women. (In my opinion) Continuing to post about how I do things doesn't really enhance my life and if I explain how to do things NOW, it'd basically be me telling you to BE ME because now I just express my personality with my own rules and guidelines. So I decided I'd rarely post if ever, as I notice I'm WAY MORE PRODUCTIVE in other areas of my life, while social dynamics is still a passion of mines, I'll be keeping most of my observations and experiments to myself unless I find it has some sort of value.

I'm hyped to walk down this path...
We all have our own personal goals, it is different from person to person. The direction I'm headed is the right way not because there is right or wrong but because I choose to go down this path. All my life I've been burning my ship at the beach because there was no turning back. I forced myself to go into acting school to force me to change and now I've forced myself to realize the bigger reality of what my lifestyle could be like. Now there is no turning back...Recently I remember being in my ideal nightclub, in that moment it had the right music and lighting, I was in trance there was nothing better than that moment. I'm proud myself because never in a billion years would I have predicted that I'd be HERE on this journey.

Here goes nothing...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Update: Almost Two Weeks

This is interesting, I thought I'd have a hard time transitioning out of all this. But I never felt an urge to browse any forums or read anything on PU. I think I'll be posting every so often because I'm learning alot of things...
1. I'm more productive meeting women when ALONE
2. I really enjoy hanging with the crew, even better is having girls tag along
3. I try to use the least amount of energy needed
4. My way of being has CHANGED again an is more potent than ever

There are TWO big flaws I want to point out though about myself...
A. I am VERY flaky, because I don't PLAN I do things on the fly so I cancel on chicks last minute sometimes.
B. I play around with making out so much that I fall back into the whole "Unattainable" frame, Before I was making out TOO MUCH, an now I'm holding back and having fun with it a bit too much. Because I always tend to move an inch from her lips looking and smiling just to make her wonder if I'll do it. (This made a chick GIVE UP when were were isolated on the sofa)

Every interaction is surely feedback because I learned alot...

"For The Love Of Me"
Yes, this is a HUGE concept in my world now...

Danish Chick
I've flaked on her TOO MUCH but it's congruent haha...One day we were texting back an forth, I was suppose to go to another state to basically have sex. It was very interesting how I framed everything an ended up having her sell me the idea of going there. BUT 5mins before I left the house I flaked, an this pissed her off...Reframed that an now trying to find a day that I can actually meetup with her.

I learned alot about texting because of interacting with her...I usually just make statements of what I'm experiencing OR I'm building compliance through texting.

Verdict...I don't remember how cute she was, BUT I know I can have interesting experiences with her based on how she is. I'll eventually meetup with her FOR SURE.

British Looking Chick
I've flaked on her TOO, she invited me to grill an then switched it up to me meeting at 1am...She invited me to come hang with her at 11:30pm...She invited me to dinner at her place, THEN wanted to meetup since I was partying, THEN tried getting ditching her friends to meet me at 5am.

I had met her about a week ago in the daytime, it was a 5min interaction BUT I did all the groundwork, had her qualifying herself an then her friend unexpectedly showed up she had to run off while saying her #. She later was apologizing for the delayed texts an qualifying herself then.

Verdict...I like her, cute BUT not my ideal type. However she does have a very unique style an I like chicks who are like that. Plus she can cook.

NY Chick
Honestly I don't know why I still contact her...She isn't my type at all, I had met her on the street an bounced around with her. I text her every so often, at first I was a bit douchey although she expressed how she loved hearing from me. BUT yea, she's cool...As a friend...

Dominican Chick
Another chick that I don't know why I still contact, before it was to experiment to see how I would be if I was with a chick who had certain qualities that I DISLIKE. This is a chick who I know can't handle me...

Euro Milf
Now this chick...I LIKE!!!! I met her awhile back, there is something about european MILFs that make me want to sneak an have sex with them on the countryside. We talk every so often, but I never invite her anywhere because I haven't had time to bring her in my life YET. But she has an amazing personality an I like her being around me. To me it seems like I make her feel YOUNG again because she can cut loose an be retarded around me.

Verdict...Out of all the women mentioned so far I like her the MOST

Actionpack Chick
This is the MOST AMAZING chick I ever met...She is on the level of macedonian chick, not as hot BUT so cool that when she comes to live in NY it's possible that her and I will be around each other ALOT. I met her last saturday on the street around 2am, I bounced her to the night venue an she instantly bought me a drink. She is just roaming around as I talk to katalyst briefly. I show her around an introduce her to people I know then we sit down.

NOW at first she took NOTHING an turned it into SOMETHING as she blurts out "Ok don't do that, I'm not that type of girl". This HAD to be a test, because the whole time I've been all of her an the ONE time I'm NOT touching her she says that. Luckily I don't care how chicks react an I interact through frames because I looked at her like she was retarded an then started PURPOSELY going in for the makeout hahaha.

Overall amazing chick, she's traveled the world, grade A student but doesn't identify with it due to how she presents herself, has some AMAZING experiences, retarded just like me.

The weirdest thing was she too also thought I was "Unattainable", as I started telling her that she is the coolest chick I've met in a LONG TIME, she brushed it off at first. Then she kept commenting on me being with tons of women. Just implying that she doesn't stack up...Little did she know she is the SECOND girl I EVER thought about wanting to see if this had the potential to be a exclusive relationship.

Verdict...She is going to live in NY come JUNE so will be around each other alot an will see where this goes.

Other Mentions...
French Chick...I met this girl in the night venue an did all this amazing stuff, keep in mind she was with her GUY co-worker. I end up bouncing them to eat with me THANKS TO PYTHAG driving...Well turns out the girl was staying at the co-worker's house, but I manage to get back to the co-worker's house an drink. He then goes sleep...An I drop the ball at this moment because I HELD BACK TO MUCH an the window closed. (I kissed her neck, then was barely an inch from her lips but I wanted to fuk around a bit more...DUMBASS haha) After that I basically went "Do or Die" reactive style an the first time in a long time dropped my sense of self. This went HORRIBLY WRONG an I had to start reframing it. This was the dumbest mistake an BIGGEST lesson learned...

Russian Chick...I met this girl 4am on the street, again played it well got her to roll with me an I was escalating. I still don't know when is the best time for me to go for the # although I think I KNOW NOW!!! What ends up happening is I go for the # early an she gives me the wrong #. This hasn't happened in a long time. I crack up an then seed the bounce to go eat...I continue leading an we walk 4 long blocks to the diner. I kiss her in the middle of the street, then I stop her to kiss her a bit more I forgot why. When we get to the diner my friend's weren't there yet, this broke her state an ON TOP OF THAT I go for the # exchange but I give her my # to buzz me, she says she is going home an doesn't buzz me. I'm laughing as she leaves because I know she never will haha. What made it even funnier when I first met her she was actually searching for her sister.

Swedish Chick...She came back to NY, she had messaged me on facebook that she would be back, I spoke to her yesterday an it turns out she invited me to her Bday party but I never checked. I'm going to meet her saturday before she goes back to sweden so will probably have fun in her hotel.