"Snowplowman Decoded" 2009 Journal

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Saturday SUCCESS!!!

MAN last night was incredible and very eye opening, ever since my wing came back from bootcamp he's been making sure I stay focused...He says I should go take a bootcamp with RSD Ozzie as it would make me focus and sky rocket my game.

Tonight's mission was for me to stick in sets, but my wing also told me to try out the binary system that way I don't picky, so when the real HOTTIE comes I'd have more than enough experience with making the situation work out for me.

Overall Night
This night I was more focused than ever, only time I've been more focused was when I was doing the "Instant Makeout" challenge. I almost didn't have a great night as I'm always physically tired and sort of forced myself to not like it bother me. So as we chill I'm self-amusing, just moving back and forth, saying random BS to chicks.

The WHOLE night both guys and girls were opening me and reopening me...I'd be going crazy and guys would comment on my hair, they'd wonder who I am because I'm having a blast, they'd be impressed at how much fun me and my wing are having...My most common opener was facial expression and hands, it's BEAUTIFUL. Also would just say random self-amusing openers "Go tiger Go Tiger"...Overall I wasn't 100% focused but it was a good start and great reference experience to what's possible if I'm more focused.

Two sexy chicks open me and my wing, she's so happy to see us her BT is SO HIGH when she see's us that her BT fries...Meeting a chick at the door where it was going well but I ejected, an later found her making out with some guy...randomly opening a chick from the netherlands with facial expressions and talking about her soft clothing material...grabbing this asian chick and singing to her, also did it to a black chick, and then sung "I kissed a girl" into this english chicks ear...Me dancing with this chick who BT FRIED, she couldn't stop laughing and basically I could've taken it anywhere...Some tall cutie watching in trance at me, I wanted to meet her.

The main reason why I never wanted to test binary rating system and also wanted to bounce around so much was because when that 10 comes along I want to chat her...I'd ditch any girl and go approach my IDEAL. Well today it happened while chatting to these chicks this HOTTIE, she walks by and says hi to me. I went total ADD, my wing could see it an I was trying to look at what direction she went. 2-3mins later I had to eject because it was a MUST that I meet this chick and have sex with her...HOTTEST chick I seen this year, made me wish I wasn't trying to stay in the sets because I wanted to grab that chick.

Also this whole binary system caused me not to think whether she was hot enough for me to fuk, I'd just approach if it was a 1 I'd keep going if a 0 I'd just be social...BUT since it was my first time I was still battling in my mind saying "Damn she's not SUPER HOT I don't know if I should escalate...but I would fuk her...She's not a tall euro model-like chick...MAN you'd fuk her just makeout already".

Being FOCUSED...
This is a big blur as I did it 5 times one after the other an it was just so good that I was shocked at how things would turn out if I continued this way...So I'd go in self-amusing openers, CUT SPACE and ESCALATE 10secs in. Either offering value or instantly naturally screening her. At this point were inches away and I'd be flirting with them...Usually the friend's pulled them away and I'd just turn around and grab the next chick...This was impressive, I looked like how I did back when I was doing "Instant Makeout" challenge and just going in and making out instantly. After I had those 5 interactions at the end of the night I fully understood "You're going to lose the set regardless so might as well BLOW IT UP" because it's HARD to make an interaction awkward.

Some other moments when I was focused...
- I was winging lprince in a 2set an these chicks were cool, but both me and lprince had the problem of whether to give her a 0 or a 1...So we were sort of holding back, lprince's girl was trying to makeout with him but he was pulling away cause he was in sure...However these chicks were fun, and it was rather interesting since there sense of humor is racism. They were hilarious because I'm black, my girl was white, lprince is japanese, his girl was iraqi...So somehow me and my girl was saying we'd go back to my neighborhood, she'd have the swiss army knife, her iraqi friend will carry her bombs and my wing carry the sushi...This interaction continued like 3 different times it was a fun interaction, they were actually shocked that I was a black guy who is so HAPPY about life. Once they found out I doing acting they were joking that my whole personality was a front and really I was an angry thug trying to act all positive. I tell them how I used to be 2 years ago, there shocked.

- There was a chick in a 5set, don't know if I opened her or not but she was always happy to see me. So I went in and grabbed her, all her friends are in spectator mode and the hottest one of the group is a bit jealous...She is in trance looking at me, hoping I'd have talked to her. (I honestly would've if she wasn't all the way in the back) The whole group loved me as I continued chatting but I eventually lost focused and left...It was an interesting interaction and I should've stayed there.

- Open a 2set with there facial expressions an I'm all over the tall cute milf. I'm having fun with them but the friend eventually gets the hint and says "Ok I'm going to go"...I felt bad an me and my girl were saying "Don't go" and she replies "No it's ok I just don't want to feel like the 3rd wheel"...In a MOVING IT FORWARD sense this was dumb but the way it all happened I felt sort of fuked up. So eventually she wants to bounce me to the bar but I don't go...FOCUS

- While doing something, there are two chicks who keep watching me and point...FACIAL EXPRESSIONS is my way of talking back, I eventually walk over there, these chicks LOVE ME and I would later LOVE THEM...Were dancing a bit while chatting, one of the girls says I look like I'm part of the LA Scene and says I should really get into male modeling, not realizing it I should've fooled around with her but I spot a tall hottie in the group with some guy who took pics. She comes over an then BOOM we LOVE each other, we start dancing and she is putting on some moves, everyone is watching...One of my wings is baby sitting with one chick who he's going to pull (Long sets get you laid) he says go for that tall one so of course I pull her away and take her to "The Island"...Now I fuked up here because when we were isolated I wanted to find out who that guy was an I thought she said he was the brother of one of the girls there an how she's used to fuk him so it's awkward...TURNS OUT she was saying that's how she met one of the chicks, she didn't mention that dude, my dumbass thought it was a waste then so I went back to the group and then I asked the random guy how he knew the...THEY MET THAT NIGHT!!! It was over at this point though.

- I see this black chick, now I'm not really attracted to black chicks anymore but were doing 0 and 1 scale, she does have the SUPER BODY. So I'm on it but at the sametime my mind was saying "WTF are you doing?" An what starts is a battle in my mind whether to makeout or not. I could've instant makeout with her but to keep it going and not look chode we rub noses. The WHOLE time I'm thinking "Would I really?" but at the sametime I'm rubbing her ass which is INCREDIBLE. Eventually she loses her 3rd friend and I actually walked off for a moment saying I'm not pulling because where she lives...I'm not willing to go...Because back in the day my cousin had problems with guys in that area.

- End of night this 5set comes in, I'm on this one chick who actually was the HOTTEST one in my opinion but my dumb ADD got focused on the chick wearing this princess-like mini skirt that everybody was trying to talk to. I felt like a dumbass because THAT CHICK WASN'T HOT, but I focus on her forgetting about my girl. Then I try and reopen 3 times and I start flirting with one sitting down, but the positioning is now SH!T and I stop. I wanted to reopen again because this is one of those moments where I will do whatever to find out how to get it to work.

Interesting Observations
I realize I'm a HUGE ENERGY BALL, like everywhere I go people can feel my presence. People are always wondering who I am and I come off like I'm too cool. I notice this a lot. This weekend I seen many chicks with there BF drop there BF hands when I was in there presence and they would just look at me. On friday some chick with her BF was flirting with me through facial expressions and saturday while this girls BF had her back turned (I was going to AMOG him) she was all on me but pointed out that the guy is her BF so we joked about us not being able to fool around.

Also thinking about trying MODELING...since many women think I'm a male model and many chicks have told me to get into male modeling. One of these chicks was a 80s actress who lives in LA and used to model while acting.

When offering value now I realize there is a blend of everything...I'm always in the moment and LISTENING...I do the word association unconsciously and either talk authentically or self-amuse. My conversation is INFINITE because I don't filter anything because whatever I say is GOLD. Saturday I had so many interesting conversations and I'm able to spit non-stop.

The world is really my playground, I walk around so normally, an can basically do what I want socially. It's AMAZING...

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: 100% Phyiscal Game

This night was INSANE, I almost feel stupid for not going out on friday and wanting to take a LONG break from going out. THIS IS TOO MUCH FUN, it's impossible for me to stop this.

I approached maybe 50 sets today, I didn't focus for sh!t but at the sametime I was 100% physical, today there was very little VERBALS and a ton of escalating...I approached everyone from girl groups, mixed groups, couples, etc. There were a few who were holding each other, making out, cuddling, and ALL THE TIME the guys were totally cool with me and never got angry.

I first want to mention my openers...99% of my sets hooked, there were maybe 2-3 chicks who CLEARLY couldn't handle the energy that I was bringing.
- Point, Smile, CLAW...
- Make a face and CLAW...
- Pose and then claw
- Touch her hair
- Say "BOOM"
- Sing in there ear
- Mirror her Bodylanguage and laugh
- Say "Go Tiger Go Tiger"

I was SO PHYISCAL, I couldn't stop escalating...I was taking chicks hands and putting it on my body, especially putting it on my chest and gliding it towards my divk. Did a lot of hip bumping, a few ass slapping, kisses here and there...My range of PHYISCAL TOUCH has expanded DRASTICaLLY, I might have to do a post about it...

One thing I LOVE about my transformation is the SOCIAL FREEDOM...Being social is no longer a problems, neither is meeting people. There is an old guy that I've met a few times at the night venue and since I was out early he ordered some champagne and gave me some...Later on in the night some famous actor guy that I met, a girl he knows seen me and was all happy to see me and introduces me to this rapper dude...Just 3 years ago I didn't want to meet or talk to anyone.

A few interactions that I want to note...
- There was a mixed 7set of 6 guys and 1 girl, I just sit down next to the girl and all the guys are eyeing me, one indian guy starts trying to AMOG me but I control the frame and call them the BOSTON CREW. At the sametime I was saying how the girl was my facebook date and I was adam3063, how this is our first date. I used that frame and interacted through it, this chick was SO ATTRACTED. I'm pretty sure it's because I was able to go in and OWN the interaction and not flinch at all.

- Fake breast hotties from LA with 3 guys...I just go in and start chatting the girl and dancing a bit with her. The guys left us alone and I was escalating. Her gum falls in her breast and I try to help her get it out, it was all just fun and silly. She was totally cool with it. As a common habit of mines I just LEAVE and I never actually reopened.

- Mixed 4set of 3 girls and 1 guy...I open using facial expression and next thing I know I'm grinding, taking pictures, she's booty poppin and ass slapping and ALL OVER each other. Once again I eject for no reason, this chick loved me.

- End of night a 2set that I actually do VERBAL GAME...I stick in there for 10mins only to find out she's getting MARRIED, she has a HUGE ROCK, biggest I ever seen. This sucked because it was ON, but the friend pointed out the reason she was so protective is because of that. The friend pointed it out when I was ALL ON the soon to be married chick.

- There was a tall cute asian chick that was just standing around with her arms crossed so I stood right next to her and mirrored her...ALL OF A SUDDEN she gets sucked in and were dancing HARDCORE, I put her hand on my chest, I can litterally makeout. I LIKE HER...But she spots her friends so I dance towards there and start chatting to them, I should've isolated like my mind told me to or just makeout right then and there...I later reopened her and danced with her friend for a bit and then chatted with my girl for a bit. I don't understand why I didn't try to pull her, I was suprised that I was very attracted, she was tall too.

- I met these two chicks in the elevator going up, didn't realize it but summa was talking to them and I come in. ESCALATING HARD...this chick is basically saying "She's take me home", all I really have to do is baby sit...But DID I? NO!!! This chick was also really into me and demanding that I find her when she comes back from the bathroom. The whole time we were just joking around and exploring each other's bodies.

Highlights
I'm leaving out a ton of good stuff as everything is a BIG BLUR...all I can say is EVERYTHING WAS PHYISCAL and my next post on escalation will give you and idea of what I was doing...

First...There was the tough 2set of Russian chicks, the illusion of a STRONG REALITY, I swear if you can handle russian women then you can handle ANY women. Both are very aloof but the blond one starts going from aloof to qualifying herself, to uncomfortable, to bitvhy, to aloof again...When I first went in I was winging, I was all over the blond and everything was ok, but then she starts trying to blow me out. I stick in there and realize I actually like the friend more and all of a sudden the blond starts telling me I'm very touchy and takes my hand off her...I reopen FIVE TIMES!!! The 4th time she straight up looks at me say something and flat out blows me out, and then the 5th time she was cool with me and I was actually trying to bounce them to come eat, but my girl was too tired.

Second...There was a 3set where I winged pythag, even though the chick had seen me earlier and was real into me. So while winging I chat the friends who end up LOVING ME and pythag ejects so I start going for the girl and she's saying how much she loves me...I Screen her and it turns out she is a FOOD ADDICT which makes me very happy. Things are escalating alot but she needs to get another drink so she leaves with her group...I reopen her and she wants me to come with her to another place, definetly pullable but like MANY interactions I can never bounce to another place. (All this took was some babysitting)

LASTILY...The most fuked up thing in a long while...So I meet this chick from canada who is by herself waiting for her sister and friends, they show up and it's 3 guys and her sister. My girl is already attracted at this time, but the sister hates what she see's and the young mobster looking guys aren't happy...I reopen them, the guy points out that this is his girl and I say "Don't worry your SAFE!" and start dancing with the sister and slapping her ass, then I take my girl and dance with her. The BF takes his girl and dances, I eventaully eject...Finally I see her again an were doing dancefloor stuff, all of a sudden I just grab her and pull her to "The Island", I sit down in a chair...

COMMENCE, Lap Dance...My jeans are TOO ****ING TIGHT, I can't even open my legs up because they'll tear. Now here is where my NEW WAYS OF BEING comes in...As she is dancing I basically pull back her jeans and look at her ASS, I likes so I spin her around and make her straddle me, as we do this I start sucking on her breast and she's LOVING IT. Then I pull out her shirt to see her breast and notice a PIERCING...Now it almost goes bad because it's no longer FUN and FOOLING AROUND it is me wanting to see that nipple piercing as I've never seen one, she was about to resist but I caught myself. So I finally pull out her tit and suck on it for awhile...

Then I remember the BF and how I said "Don't worry your safe" and after us being SUPER COOL with each other, since we live in the same borough and we were cool with each other. So I tell her she better go before her BF comes and spots us, and she disappears into the night.

NOTE: I really need to post about how I escalate things now because it's even more bizare and fantastic...Just think I had an idea of making a chick see how fast she can undo by jeans, take out my divk and put my divk back in my jeans and fixing everything back to normal, THREE TIMES in a row.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Almost Forgot...

There was a very interesting interaction that happened on saturday when my wing lprince and I were in a 2set. This was by far the most...

ILLOGICAL, RANDOM, RETARDED, and BIZZARE interaction in a very long time.

So I go in to wing him and everything is cool, I escalate with my girl but I'm not too into her. I spin her, do some poses, claw her. Then Lprince moves his girl and my girl comes along so we move them to "The Island" and all of a sudden we bust out the most random things...
- Lprince says were virgins and starts screaming "In six more months if we continue like this we shall get LAID!!!!!" and I start cheering
- I tell my girl I'm waiting for marriage and how I can't wait to change my facebook status to married
- I tell her she's going to quit her life and travel the world with me
- Were all holding hands so I say "OMG this is like our spiritual ritual"
- Were all holding hands

The whole time Lprince is saying retard sh!t to them and the whole time they were standing there confused and couldn't process what was going on. They thought this was some joke and I'm like "Yup were on camera". No matter how retarded and illogical this was they couldn't leave they had to sit there and try to process it. We could've gone back to just regular conversation but we were too amused by how dumb this was.

The best part had to be the whole cheering because we said we were looking to lose our virginity to them and if we continue approaching in the next six months we'd get laid...hahaha.

 

[Snow Plowman]

To PULL or NOT to PULL?

This weekend is going to be COMEDY, this is the funny stuff I live for that makes things interesting. This will be another experience added to the many crazy experiences I've had.

The English chick is back...

Blast To The Past...
A few months back wing (Greek) approaches a 3set, wing (Jack) helps him out and I also go in to help. I'm escalating on the 3rd girl and she's saying NOT to go for her...It's weird because this was when I was first starting to test out my style of interacting and generally I always got attraction...She's telling me to go for Greek's girl and even WINGS me to get Greek's girl away from Greek.

Turns out this is Greek's IDEAL GIRL, as he she looks EXACTLY how he'd want his wife to look physically...So he refuses to switch girls so we can have a 3 for 3...win/win situation...As stated he approached them so he gets to choose who he wants and it stays that way, no one can go for her but him.

At this point I'm just trying to make sure JACK gets laid...End result JACK pulls, 3rd girl even says "Take care of my friend tonight", Greek makesout with his IDEAL GIRL and then she just leaves him (Validated) and leaves with 3rd girl.

Blast To December...
So I'm isolated with this EURO MILF who is married...Were fooling around and all of a sudden a woman walking by is saying "Wait WAIT...I know." The douce in my sarcastically says "O REALLY!? You know me..." At this point EURO MILF is going through so many emotions and is looking to see what is going down...

The woman continues "...You have a friend JACK who's real close with my FRIEND...and you were suppose to hook up with ENGLISH CHICK, BUT you wanted GREEK to talk to her". It's 3rd girl from that 3set, at this point I EURO MILF goes to bring her friend to meet me...At the sametime this girl realizes I was lying about having a gf of 8 years cause she says "So I see you were fooling around with that girl..."

I get introduced to her sister and all of a sudden she tells me ENGLISH girl will be coming back to NY and when she does she'll bring her back here so I can hook up with her...With happens after is her having her sister tell me how great this girl is.

Blast To The NOW...
I get the word that she's BACK, this WEEKEND...

Now there was many talks about this from when I first told them I seen the girl back in december and how she told me she's bringing to girl back so I could have sex with her.

BUT...I'm known for not caring about pulling a chick and truly being ABUNDANT, so now my wing GREEK talks about WING RULES and how since he approached I shouldn't go for her because it was his girl...BUT she basically wants me to fuk her. I also know my wing GREEK will be CRUSHED if it happens, I feel it could mess up our friendship if he knew I had sex with her.

So we shall see...As of right now I don't think I'll even be in her presence and let GREEK go for her again, because we've realized that by me just being in chicks PRESENCE there RAS focuses on me because of how I am.

So this will be another adventure added to the others...

Feedback would be appreicated, should I or shouldn't I? (My mother says I shouldn't, all my close wings says I should do it EXCEPT GREEK since he's going off wing rules which in that case he's right...)

 

[Sir Shinra]

This happened months ago. Is Greek still gaming her now? If no, then I don't think it matters. This isn't a wingman scenario anymore.

 

[Snow Plowman]

This happened months ago. Is Greek still gaming her now? If no, then I don't think it matters. This isn't a wingman scenario anymore.

No that was the only night we met her...she's from london, but she came back for this weekend and might be coming to the same venue were headed too...I already told him I won't go for her regardless and he's happy about it so everything is cool.

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Hi, I'm Mr Unattainable

I've fully realized the extent of unattainability that goes on in my interactions, it's incredible. Before we talk about this though let me point out the overall night...

As soon as I get into the venue, I'm walking and some chick just grabs me, she's all over me. I'm caught off guard cause I'm wondering if I know her or not, but then I'm like "Ok, cool lets go on an adventure" and I pull her to the island. I screen for maybe a minute and then we makeout...Then few mins later some guy walks by looking at her and is PISSED. She screams to him and runs after him in a sort of "It's not what it looks like" manner. I realize that just might be the BF.

OK...way to start off the night, but now it's expected. I meet this next chick which I'll come back too later.
- Met this HOT looking Russian chick, LOVE HER LOOK, turns out she's from Georgia...She sort of opened me, I guess she was asking some other community guy about me because somehow she knew I knew him. I'm instantly screening, asking her where she is from. She had me guess so I throw Russia out there. I speak some russian and escalate with her. After she tells me how she wants to hang with me, but my phone is broken so she wants to facebook me. It's funny because I had her guess what I do and she thought I model...Turns out she models...she wants to invite me to exclusive parties. (Not knowing I'm under 21) We kiss each other goodbye cause she's with her friends.

- Two chicks from NORWAY, it's ON!!! The opener was totally non-verbal, facial expressions. It hooks hard because some old creep comes in all lame and I look at them weird saying "I think we want to go to the bathroom" and I pull them away. Then two guys stop them and they look at me for help so I pull them along...THEN a COMMUNITY guy spits "Who lies more men or women" and she looks at me, I claw her saying "Do we need to do the bathroom trick again" and the guy just walked away. (Sorry community guy I just had to stay congruent to the frame I had set) Turns out my wing is out of state so I eject to go pump him up, I later seen them and it turns out one of them wanted me to pull her. She came up to me saying she was leaving but I was chatting to her and she basically was waiting for me to say "I'm coming with you".

- Grab this LA chick and pull her in as she is one of the few cuties left. Her body is nice and she has amazing energy. I'm real close to her and naturally screening. Eventually she introduces me to some gay guy but I sort of ignore him becuase this chick is a bit ADD. So I just block everyone out so we just focus on each other. It was a pretty good interaction but then she needed to find gay guy and I really didn't want to go help her so I let her go, gave her a little kiss and sent her on her way.

That was ALMOST all the interactions for that night...EXCEPT ONE MORE...

I'm Unattainable
I've looked at my style for the past few months and I started realizing that I come off as unattainable so chicks will just give up or blow themselves out. Time and time again I started realizing it from chicks remembering me and everything about me to chicks who basically says "Go find hotter girls cause you can get any girl you want"...This night was the first time I consciously saw what happened while interacting with the girl.

So it's early in the night, these two girls and a guy walk by so I make a face at the tall one and realize I might as well chat with her since there isn't much here right now, so I grab her...I introduce myself and find out she's from austria, my energy is there and I already know it's hooked because chicks can't resist my energy. She briefly introduces me to the guy and girl, I continue talking to her and find out logistics. It's BAD LOGISITICS but my mind was telling me to STAY IN SET because I'll learn something, plus there aren't many women anyway.

So I basically tell her I'll kidnap her and make her stay here in NY for another month, she cracks up and tells me how her parents will come and kill me. Were joking around about this and then I say "Come meet my friends". So I grab her hand and lead her towards "The Island", Lprince is there so I introduce them and she tells him about me kidnapping her. After Lprince leaves were the girl and I continue to talk but I use the loud music as an excuse to isolate her to "The Island" by saying "I can't hear well lets move". Now we are offically at "THE ISLAND"...

I start screening about Austria, she's qualifying about how beautiful it is, even jokes on me saying "I hope you don't think Austria and Australia are the same thing". She told me about a great dish there. We spoke about her hometown and the capital...I'm telling her will put a jet on her credit card and will fly to austria together. She's loving it because I'm telling her she'll do and pay for everything. I also tell her how I'll sleep on her bed and she'll get the couch...Keep in mind I'm always screening whether it's a surface (verbal) or subtle (frames) level. So at one point I just say "Fine forget it I'll roll by myself have adventures and if I get lost your ass better save me". She loves it saying she'll come speeding in her car and save me.

The whole time was just pure FUN, how I keep conversations going forever is I use FREE ASSOCIATION as a foundation and I either self-amuse or speak authentically on the topic, word, thought, or whatever...So certain things came up like us talking about automatic cars in U.S are boring and manual cars give you something to play with, but you can't smoke, drink and drive at the sametime.

Also the whole time I was escalating, such as clawing, holding her waist, pulling her by her jeans, taking her hands and putting it on me, touching her face, touching her hair, acting like we were driving in our car, checking out her accessories and stroking her arm, etc...

At one point I go in for the kiss and she pulls away, she is trying to set frames and for the first time I COULD FEEL HER FRAME and I quickly was able to determine whether to accept it or not...Of course I don't accept it and crack up, showing her that me kissing isn't that serious. The whole time she's saying "I think I should go", "I'm not that type of girl". I reload and reboot...

We start talking about music, I tell her how I like electro, house, techno, etc...She doesn't like that, I also bring up how I like retarded catchy songs like stuff you'd see on little kid theme songs. She was looking at me weird the whole time but I actually do like it so once she realized I was SERIOUS she accepted it. She tells me about clubs in austria, and her aunt who blasts that kind of music.

I go for the kiss again...NO GO, this was the 3rd or 4th time an again she talks about being shy, not being that type of girl, etc. I then just tell her up front "I'm just having fun, just because were making out or anything doesn't make me think...WOW I'M MAKING OUT WHICH MEANS WERE GOING TO HAVE SEX...OK COME LETS GO FUK OVER HERE, LETS GO!!! COME COME!!!" She starts dieing, I basically reframe it EXACTLY how I am, the sh!t ain't no big deal to me. I don't take it seriously at all...This OPENED THE FLOOD GATES...

I'm now feeling all over her ass, we keep touching each other, (Starts we me putting her hand on me) when I go for the kiss this time we put our heads together and start smelling...I kiss her and pull back.

The sexual tension is HIGH now cause she fully realizes I like just having fun, I was explaining to her how I screen women because she knows I can get many women. It just so turns out that while were chatting this VERY HOT Miami looking MILF is watching me for like a good 5mins. (If I was in ADD Mode I would've opened her right then and there) Also the austrian girl was pointing out some girl behind me, asking if I knew her because she was mirroring my bodylanguage. I turn around and it's some cute chick smiling at me, I wave and explain to the austrian chick that generally I'd go to her and start chatting her but SHE's FUN so I'm going to stay. She really LOVED that and gave me a hug...I started realizing any compliment I give makes her melt and it's almost like saying "Yes you have a chance with me".

Were now having a TON of fun, as she shows me this song from Austria, which at one point her friend shows up and they do the whole song together. I LOVED it so much...I said "**** yea!" once and she said "O you want to **** me"...I joke around about some of her sayings "This is DAMN ****ing BULL ****"

Before I actually did all that Building Utopia stuff...She had asked about myspace or trading e-mails that way when she comes back to NY she could hookup with me. I don't do no e-mail and never had so I wasn't with it at first, I rather lose the girl then have to use e-mail...She was sort of sad about this because it further showed that I was unattainable. So later in the interaction I said...

"You know what **** it your going to be the girl that causes me to use e-mail, I'll e-mail you."...When I say she was so HAPPY, she loved it. She's like "You promise to e-mail me? I'll send you pictures and tell you when I'm coming back". So adonis passes by and I tell him to put her e-mail in his phone, at the sametime "American Boy" is playing so she tells adonis how I'm her american boy and is all over me.

Eventually after some more FUN moments she starts to remind me that she can't stay with me tonight cause the guy wanted to go home a long time ago, and if she doesn't leave with them she will get lost going to NJ, and miss her flight in philly...So we have the most passionate goodbye I've had since the MACEDONIAN chick...We like throw ourselves on each other and makeout HARDCORE. Then as we pull away trying to say our goodbye's we start making out some more. Finally she leaves...

Lesson Learned - Being AWARE of whether or not I'm attainable or not in her eyes...

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: What Happened???

This night was looking like a regular night...
- While waiting at the elevator a 5set of MILFs from boston was there, so I chat this real cute one and tell her it sucks cause she's here for 1 more day and we could've had adventures together. It was ON once I opened her, she knew the deal and laughs about everything. She finally mentions her BF which is why me and her can't fool around, I laugh about it. When were at the coat check she takes off her jacket and she's like "O your looking at my tits" I laugh and claw her saying yea.

- A 2set from london, I talk about london and just self-amuse, the friend see's me and grabs my hair and talking about how she loves my hair...Turns out she's a makeup artist for a celeb, so when she finds out I go to acting school she goes crazy telling me about her makeup artist career that she does for film/tv...I'm naturally screening as always and she tells me how she's moving to NY, she demands I take her #, I tell her my phone is broken, so she wants to take my # to call me in 10 days...After this she tries to bounce me with them to another night venue, I tell her I'm staying here, then she gives me the address of where she's staying, which of course I forget.

- I spot this cute chick who looks russian, I tell her that and it turns out she's from germany. She didn't like the russian comment but it was a more flirtatious thing, and we were holding each other and of course I'm naturally screening. Hoping she can handle me, she's saying she could and I tell her how most girls can't handle me... (I surely made myself unattainable) Of course her comment later on is "wow your so crazy". Eventually she blows herself out and goes back to her friend's but wants me to find her later, I never reopened her.

The night was turning into a typical night, but I started noticing I was trying to be someone I'm not by CHILLING...My way of chilling is basically being a ZOMBIE which is never good for me because I don't like being like that. But for reason I try to do it...And I shouldn't realized the problem because I was supposed to wing adonis but I chat for a bit and then just introduce warlock and I chill on the wall...

Shattering Realities
So a wing of mines asked me to shatter his brother's reality, I'm all for motivating people...
- There is a 3set I start doing dance floor stuff, it's ON, each chick would go for the makeout. The problem is I don't know who I want, Lprince wings me but he has the chick who seems DRUNK. So I claw and keep the other two but I don't know who I want. I just flirt with both of them and escalate on both. Then I eject...

- My wing asks me to approach the 6set because he doesn't believe it can be opened...I go in and BAM it's on with me and the girl I opened but I see a tall one that I like so as I chat the first girl I'm looking at tall girl and communicating with my facial expressions. She wants to know what I'm saying about her. It's totally ON with me and the first girl, but I switch to the tall girl and it's also ON...But then I see this 3rd girl smile at me OMG, she is cute too...So I talk to her. Me and first girl kept joking with each other because we forgot each other's name and so after we both got our names right we started using a wrong name. I eject...

- 2set of lesbians, claw both of them, finding out there partners and I start speaking in there ear one at a time saying how I love her but I cheated on her with the other girl. Then I told her I disliked her sex but LOVED her cooking which is why I'd stay with her. She then tells me I should go for the other because she sucks good ****...I stop speaking and as if I'm thinking I shake my head like "YEA your right" we all start cracking up but I eventually eject...

- I see my type...2set HOT german chick who I thought was russian, I'm on it, it's ON but then I just STOP after a few mins and I just let her go with her friend...This is what started the...

DOWNFALL!!!
For some reason I didn't want to do anything. I'd just chill on the wall and enjoy the atmosphere or I will do something but just leave...
- I see a 2set one who is wearing this SEXY little skirt, I approach and it's ON there from texas and one of them will be living in NY in a month. I tell skirt girl she's coming too...Things are escalating, but they have to go get there friends so she asks me if I'll still be here because there bringing them back here...I never stayed even though they did come back, I didn't reopen until I seen my wing drunk amogging so I helpped him by grabbing one of the girl's and we kiss goodbye since she was leaving...

- There was this HUGE mixed 10-12 set, before I get into that group I met two of the asian girls at the bathroom line, again it was ON but for no reason I eject...Later in the night I see one of there friends and she points at me, I didn't meet this one so I mess with her, then grab the two girl's I met, and all the girl's are loving me...The GUYS on the other hand are wondering why all there girl's are receptive to me...I eject

At this point alot of tension inside of me was being built up because I really didn't care what happened, I actually wanted more BAD to happen than good. I didn't like how all of a sudden I was falling back into that FRAT BOY mode of just walking and grabbing chicks but having no sort of DEPTH...
- Warlock forces me to open this 2set, I don't even want to do it because I clearly don't want to do anything anymore. But I just go in for the hell of it and of course like any other interaction, it's ON but then I just say "**** this lets end this" I sit there quiet and pay no attention to her, she goes to sit with her friend. Before I did this I was bouncing them to the Diner which they wanted to go too, but I just went back to self-sabotage mode.

- After getting my coat I approach this 2set and I tell her I like her style. SHE MELTS...But I don't care about anything so I just say "Come to the diner with me right now", she's up for it but has to go to some music thing for her friend, but might pass by...Funny enough going down the elevator they didn't realize I was in there so they start talking about the diner and actually deciding about whether to go there after they go to there friend's gig.

- I'm still pissed and warlock tells me to open a 3set, I of course go because I want this to go horrible, and it actually does as the ignore me. I opened HORRIBLY and purposely but I plowed and one of the girl's is into it, I tell them to come to the diner, but she just flew into NY and needs to sleep.

- Warlock tells me to open this chick about to go to a cab...once again I want it to go bad so I go direct, it ****ING OPENS...then I just tell her come to the diner, hahaha...she says she's going home, I say Ok and leave as she hops into her taxi.

Overall besides being UNATTAINABLE there are other problems I have but I realized I'm going to accept all of it and embrace it...I'll make a post about it later...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Change Of Plans...SOCIAL CIRCLE!!!!

My reality has been shattered for the past 3 days...I FINALLY have a CELL PHONE!!! After THREE MONTHS, don't know how I survived but I'm glad I am how I am because I never *****ed about NOT SEEING THESE GIRLS AGAIN.

I've always had an idea how I want my lifestyle to be and where COLD APPROACHING fits into my lifestyle. I was living my lifestyle on a very low scale but nonetheless it was exactly what I wanted...BUT then I visually seen what my life could be like on a MASSIVE scale and then I was thinking deeper about the things possible and...

BOOM...first thing I thought was "**** COLD APPROACHING", next thing I knew I reverted back to only deserving the HOTTEST women (In my opinion) even though I've been trying the whole binary system but its still a struggle doing that because my Identity is built around getting the hottest women.

I realized social circle is where I'm headed, building my lifestyle on a massive scale, and consistently getting the HOTTEST WOMEN. I know I can do this because I already come off as unattainable to most women and all the 9s and 10s I've approached in the past 5 months all have been HIGHLY ATTRACTED to me...The Macedonian chick was probably the hottest woman I ever fooled around with an if it wasn't for logistics (Mainly me being underage) we would've had sex that night.

My identity is built around having the HOTTEST women so I decided if I live my lifestyle on a MASSIVE SCALE, I'll ALWAYS have access to the hottest women so there will be no need for me to go around constantly looking for the hottest women.

So what does my lifestyle look like? How do I want to enhance it? Where am I headed? This is it...


Socializing
I genuinely like to hangout with cool people that I can have fun shared experiences with. I VALUE this more than anything in the world. I'm like a little kid so I always wanted there to be a designated night where I can gather some friends and just play a board game, put together puzzles, or even play improv games. Maybe go take classes together based on a skill I want to learn, or just show up at a friend's "Event".

I've done this alot with my social circle...Me and my female friend even acted like we wanted a tour in a gym just for the hell of it. I've been lost with my social circle, I've sat in a room for 3 hours recording playful arguments on my phone JUST CAUSE. We ALMOST had a game night but we never got to it. Also they were the coolest people in the world so it made everything so much more fun. I've gone to there plays...

SHARED EXPERIENCES IS KEY!!!

Food
Meeting chefs and people who are fantastic cooks, also people who love eating food. Total food fanatics...I have this life goal where I want to continual travel the world just trying great restaurants and new foods. This is a lifetime journey as I want to go to restaurants, third world countries, food tasting events, cook outs, etc...All for the love of eating food.

This really shows that ANY PASSION you have sucks women in, because I've rarely met any women who didn't want to come along on this specific journey...In my CURRENT social circle I always get invited to go eat, they're always taking me to new restaurants, chicks who I'd meet would day2 me by taking me out to eat at some new restaurant.

I was LOVING IT...

Nightlife
I want entry to the high end clubs, exclusive parties, and VIP for FREE!!! I'm addicted to the nightlife scene and it's been that way since I knew what a club was. Being able to just hangout, chill, dance, and have a blast vibing with people is AMAZING to me.

When I was younger I was part of a dance group so we would always party...I've created ONE house party an it turned out to be a GREAT EXPERIENCE, I've also brought chicks out to hang with me while partying. I've also LORDED the club to the point where everyone wanted to know who I was and were dying to hookup.

Since I'm underage slight incongruence's come up because I'm not 21 so VERY LIMITED in the whole nightlife scene. I've had many chicks try to bounce me not knowing I'm underage...The two biggest ones was this HOT Fashion Designer who REALLY wanted me to come with her and when I met a 10set which had 7 women all in the fashion industry and they wanted me to come with them...

Traveling
I love meeting travelers, backpackers, etc...Even if it's not that scale just exploring the city or taking little roadtrips for a specific purpose. I live in NYC so I LOVE meeting people who walk around because it's about the EXPERIENCE not the end result. I like going to new places, especially if it is for specific purpose such as food, nightlife, etc. Also knowing people in other countries so if I go there I could be living life on a massive scale

I've explored the city with my social circle, one of my female friend's wants to take me to china with her so we could eat all the street food. Many of my friend's I met in the community want to do a road trip in EUROPE...Then you have the HOT russian chick who gave me her e-mail and insisted I contact her when I travel to moscow.

SOCIAL CIRCLE!!!

Film/Acting
This is going to be my career so it's a given that I'll be meeting people in this industry. I don't really like watching MOVIES but I do love doing acting and watching up close someone acting. Plays are cool and I do like screenings as it feels more personal cause I know the person and want to see his creativity.

In my social circle we always went to plays cause we always got free tickets due to school. I've passed many times when they went to movies but I did happen to go to screenings with them.

Extreme Sports (Outdoorsy Activities)
I'm VERY interested in anything outdoorsy like, ESPECIALLY EXTREME TOURISM...Later on in life I want to get into many different areas from deep sea scuba diving to base jumping into the deepest hole on earth. I enjoy meeting people who are into atleast one activity as a hobby.

I've been paintballing with social circle WAY BACK and it was fun, was suppose to do it again with my current social circle but never did. I'd also like to go fishing, as I love that. But I have my whole life ahead of me and as the years go by I shall do more and more of this.


I've realized how much value I offer without even noticing it, my mind was boggled 3 days ago and now everytime I think about SOCIAL CIRCLES, Lifestyle and the women in my life...I can't comprehend but it gets me SUPER HYPED. I haven't been this motivated since I first realized I had an identity crisis and began changing into the naturally attractive guy that I am NOW!

Will keep this posted every so often...

 

[Solomon]

I love it how your Journal is deeper then just women
It seems that you mapping out your whole life
remember though that women shouldn't be the main focus on your life but part of it. Having good people around you makes for a healthy social circle. I qualify my friends, and what not. I want nothing but High value people around me. This is why I'm surrounded by college educated people/psychologists/nurses/college kids/club promoters/military alpha types/models/spiritual minded people etc etc. I wanna be surrounded by motivated people who can do for self, people who are smart and ambitious. I don't have time for lazy people, people who are looking for hand out, or are in and out of jail/

Your social circle reflects who you are

One thing about me though is, that I don't need my social circle for everything. I have wings I can call up and its ON. Or I can go solo, it doesn't matter. I can call people to go out to eat, or have a drink with. I wanna converse with people intellectually on my level or above. Anyone who is in my circle I constantly learn from. Doesn't matter the age, or subject (life/women/sports/philosophy)


These Journals should be deeper then just women, because life is deeper then women

Keep it up SP

respectfully,

Solo

 

[Solomon]

my bad on this double post!!

 

[Snow Plowman]

Friday Night...

First night with a CELL PHONE, it's been THREE MONTHS!!!! Started the whole social circle building, met one chick and #closed...

I've learnt there is nothing stopping me besides EJECTING and UNATTAINABLITY...

The night was pretty dead but warlock points out a set for me, LA looking hottie, they've grown on me even though eastern european chicks is still the TOP Girlies. As she walks by some random girl says to her "Hey are you a model", I have a feeling this is the girl warlock is talking about. Turns out it is and she's being chat up by some guy who is trying REAL HARD. My face lights up because there is something for me to go for.

I'm chatting to warlock when she walks by and I point at her and say BOOM. It opens, hooks and I start escalating. As usually she's doing the LA-like Frames, I was taking notes for debriefing on adonis's set later and she saw it so she started saying "O your taking notes, well I'm blond from San Diego". Some guy shows up and she goes "Hey this is MY BOSS" stressing it so I know the situation. Everything was cool, at one point some chick walks by who I look at and do a PAW STRATCHING MOTION, she was slightly late but hooked and did it back. THEN the set ended because managers came telling them they couldn't speak there since it wasn't OUTSIDE. As she comes back in warlock tells me to reopen but I was typing something and told him I'll reopen her later, turns out she left before I even got to reopen.

I played this stupid because I should've reopened, also warlock was telling me the chick who I opened while talking to this girl was also VERY HOT, turned out they were part of the same group. I never fully saw her. But that goes to show you even the hottest chicks I have ADD and talk to other chicks as I'm talking to one already. Also I noticed something...

Difference between real HOT LA chicks and Eastern European chicks that I noticed is that LA-like chicks will give you that fake interest to set there frames on you, because if your enjoying the touch or the verbal content she's throwing, she'll subtly try to take the frame and throw up her own frames. So without you even noticing you've been TOOLED. With eastern european hotties they act aloof or very uninterested as if there reality is strong because there unreactive, so you sort of feel like you need to start doing something and all of a sudden your reaching to try and get there attention. But now you've become reactive.

My way of dealing with this...
- LA-Like Chicks...I'm totally unreactive to the interest she shows so when she's touching or subtly trying to setup her own frames it has no affect on me giving my power away. I still assert my reality and it stays that way, anything she does is cool but it doesn't cause any shift so it's as if she's reacting to me and she's the aggressor.

- Eastern European-like Chicks...I frame it as EVERYTHING she does as HER reacting to me, her aloofness, unreactiveness, and ANYTHING she does is her being reactive. This causes me not to try and just continue being myself because she's seeking my approval by acting how she does. As a result I never feel like I'm reaching, EVEN IF SHE IS NOT TALKING and just giving me a blank stare.

Other Mentions
- Warlock sent me to talk to these 2 chicks, I didn't want to do it but I go in cause there isn't really anything going on. So I sit down it's ON, were escalating, vibing, and having a good time. I try to move her but she won't come so I'm about to leave. The interesting thing is she says "No I can't go" and then motions for me to set back down almost begging. I really was about to EJECT once again but I stayed an she tells me she can't leave her friend and must keep an eye on her...But overall she wanted to meet me tomorrow because she's leaving monday and wants to hookup, she had to go to sleep early that night because 8am she had to get up for some tour around NYC. She insisted in us trading #s but I really wasn't down for it, I told her if anything meet me here tomorrow but I gave her a very late time which I know I'll be there earlier. She wants to go to a differnet place tomorrow and wants me to join her but I'm under 21...hahaha.

- Interesting interaction, I talk to this 3set and everything is COOL, until finally the friend asks "Do you know the game?" I continue talking, because I have my own style she wonders if I'm peacocking and then asks me "Do you know adonis?" I can't understand what adonis and game has to do together, unless he came off very gamey...She blew me out but I PLOWED and it was all good, I was surprised I turned this around and overall for the sake of asking for a # I tried but she brought up the whole "Game" stuff again.

- There was some chick that I approached and totally DOUCHED out...It was ON but I wasn't paying much attention to the point where I ended up walking off and the guy was trying to explain to her how she just got douched because here it was everything was cool but I subconsciously was not focused on her at all. Just talking and looking else where then randomly leaving. I felt like a total douche but that's just how I am at times.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Second Night Out...

It's about ****ing time I got a cell phone again, it hasn't sinked in yet that I have it. It's hilarious how I have going for the # on autopilot when I haven't had a cell phone for THREE MONTHS.

Overall the night was suppose to suck, I came out early an didn't want to do ****. Honestly I just wanted to get blown out and just chode around. I accepted that this would be a crappy night as I won't be opening anything. I was in that "Just blow me out" mode...Somehow I break out of that an I'm back to normal and insane ME!!! Lprince brought out a chick that I enjoy hanging out with. I also want to go to a SUPER LOUD danceclub and tear it up. That way I have ZERO TALKING.

The overall night was a BLAST, as usual the typical night...But two interactions worth mentioning...
- Theres was a mixed 7set of 3 guys and 4 girls, they weren't hot or anything but I knew the guys were alpha so I wanted to go in and get my reality shattered. I approach the girls and get BLOWN OUT HARDCORE, but that has ZERO affect on me, I plow and chat the guys...First time EVER I get PHYISCALLY AMOGGED but my reality is SOLID and inside I was cracking up because it was too funny. These albanian alpha dudes start squeezing my hand, pull me in to embrace me, and overall dominant me. At one point the guy is squeezing my hand and the other guy tries kissing me on the cheek. I'm shocked that I wasn't affected at all and was actually asserting my own frames...They realize it's not working and they chill out an all of a sudden were best of friends because I REFUSED to get put into the box they were putting me in.The whole situation was hilarious...

- There was this mixed 6set that had a table, I basically slipped into the group. The guy really had fun hanging with me and basically told me I can go for his girl because after doing dancefloor stuff it was obvious all the girls at there table loved me. At first I didn't want to pursue because the guy was cool BUT he said I should go for it. Turns out there leaving that same night to go back upstate, there all married with families...NO GO for me, even though one of the girls was making out with the guy's friend. My girl said this is the most fun she's ever had in her married life.

Highlights
These were the interactions worth talking about and worth remembering...
- End of the night, on the street going to the diner I noticed a 5set walking the same direction I'm walking so I open them. This was so NATURAL and probably the only interaction where I was following the structure that I've created for myself, in this case all I did was offer value. We walk ONLY two blocks but talk about French accents, my female friend who is french, and overall NY. Next thing you know I'm #closing at the subway station STEPS and as her friends go down the steps, I makeout with her HARDCORE for a bit and tell her to catch up to her friend's. (This wasn't solid #)

- Early in the night lprince approaches a 4set and two of the girls aren't being engaged cause there a few feet away looking. I notice there part of the group lprince approached so I open them. Typical fun stuff, I come off as high value picky dude. These chicks think I'm a male model...We start taking pictures an overall I facebook close one of the girls. They all live in boston but my girl is moving to NY in October, so will see what happens. This was a cool interaction and lasted about 20mins.

- This tall hottie, I open her with dancefloor stuff, everyone is watching because lprince and I were basically the only people dancing. Two dudes dancing and everyone spectating...Well we suck this chick in and next thing you know she loves me but also looking for her friends. I #close but at the sametime she's very ADD, which is a turn off. (The irony is I'm also ADD-like) She is like saying retarded stuff because she's looking for her friends but at the sametime trying to interact with me. She has a BF, but still gives me the # so we can hang but I forget to save it.

- Meet another tall hottie from a 2set that I winged lprince in, this was going great as I added some dancefloor stuff into it. Just like the last girl ADD, almost didn't get the # because she couldn't use my phone. I finally take back control and GET THE #. Were all still hanging out as everyone spectates this going down. I tell lprince we should bounce them for the hell of it and move towards the island. At this point we chat a bit more but they want to go buy cigarettes. Lprince #closes his girl, so I make sure my girl see's to make it a bit more solid. (This ain't solid # either)

- Adonis did a bit of "Building Utopia" on some chick who has a live in BF which caused her to fall in love with him and actually was thinking about leaving the BF to be with adonis. (This is why I don't talk about this alot) The black girl was trying to ****block but it's almost impossible to get ****blocked once you do what he did. So anyway at one point later on in the night adonis pulls his girl away and the black girl tries to ****block so I OPEN and do some dancefloor stuff, screen very little and get her #. (This isn't solid and I have no clue why I even #closed)

Overall I like how I come off to the world, but at the sametime I realized something...

"I JUST DON'T CARE"

I don't feel anything with chicks, it's just I'm having fun an that's it. I get a makeout it's nothing, I get a # it's nothing, I get sex which feels good but ultimately is nothing. It's like I'm SO INDIFFERENT. I could careless about anything because I'll be right back out next weekend meeting totally new people and having totally new adventures.

Up to now I still haven't e-mailed the Austrian chick...It ****ing sucks because she knew I would never e-mail her. Chicks can just sense that I really just don't care about anything.

The chicks I #closed tonight were attractive women, but there isn't even a slight feeling of validation or appriecation that I met them. I feel EXACTLY how I'd feel if I never even met them.

 

[Solomon]

awwww

Overall I like how I come off to the world, but at the sametime I realized something...

"I JUST DON'T CARE"

I don't feel anything with chicks, it's just I'm having fun an that's it. I get a makeout it's nothing, I get a # it's nothing, I get sex which feels good but ultimately is nothing. It's like I'm SO INDIFFERENT. I could careless about anything because I'll be right back out next weekend meeting totally new people and having totally new adventures.

Up to now I still haven't e-mailed the Austrian chick...It ****ing sucks because she knew I would never e-mail her. Chicks can just sense that I really just don't care about anything.

The chicks I #closed tonight were attractive women, but there isn't even a slight feeling of validation or appriecation that I met them. I feel EXACTLY how I'd feel if I never even met them.

The gift (being able to approach women, close, fcuk etc) The Curse (getting bored of the game, not giving a fcuk, treating them like objects)
The problem is once you get really good with women, you don't care, its not a bad thing. This is what helps some, however it leaves you jaded. Neil Strauss talked about this in the game, where he had a 3 some, and it didn't matter, whats good to gain the world and lose your soul? I think SP you gotta anaylyze your goals and see what you trying to do, are you in it to get laid? meet new people? or just have fun? once those things start to drop off you gotta switch up and do something else.

My problem was that I got bored, I was out on the field for 3 months hard, non stop. Sometimes its good to take a break and come back with a vengenace!!!

 

[Snow Plowman]

The gift (being able to approach women, close, fcuk etc) The Curse (getting bored of the game, not giving a fcuk, treating them like objects)
The problem is once you get really good with women, you don't care, its not a bad thing. This is what helps some, however it leaves you jaded. Neil Strauss talked about this in the game, where he had a 3 some, and it didn't matter, whats good to gain the world and lose your soul? I think SP you gotta anaylyze your goals and see what you trying to do, are you in it to get laid? meet new people? or just have fun? once those things start to drop off you gotta switch up and do something else.

My problem was that I got bored, I was out on the field for 3 months hard, non stop. Sometimes its good to take a break and come back with a vengenace!!!

The beliefs and mindsets I have go deep, didn't realize that until today...

Now it feels like I'm in this 100% for fun as it feels like a celebration of being THAT GUY. I knew the #s weren't going to be solid just based off how the interaction went and the thoughts running through my head...Ima Douche.

Overall I realized MANY things about me that I'll post later. As of right now I'm more focused on social circle building. Just got back on track with my social circle so will see what happens.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Observation Report

So it seems like what I call "Building Utopia" is VERY POWERFUL...Like I never really do it unless I REALLY want the girl because it can come off as very manipulative.

Well it turns out there is instructors who talk about this as my wing told me the term and what he did which sounded very similar to what I threw together. An do you want to know the result...

Some chick who has a Live-in BF MIGHT break up with her BF that way she can be with my friend. The night they met she fell in love with him, an was questioning her relationship. They madeout HARDCORE, she was all over him and the friend couldn't even ****blok...

As you might know I got my phone back maybe 2-3 days ago and some chick that I also did something similar too, she randomly texts me. I didn't know who she was until we texted back and forth. She wants to come out with me on saturday, I'm deciding whether I want to pull her or not. I met this girl FOUR MONTHS AGO...She still remembers me. The last time I had texted her I was telling her I'm coming over, it was like 11pm, she had texted me back at 1am wondering if I was still up. The night I met her I madeout with her...

I'm realizing that all I have to do this in all my interactions because the chick NEVER knows if I'm interested for a very long time. This is usually the only time she sort of gets the gist of why I like her.

QUALIFICATION IS VERY UNDERRATED

But by far the most important thing in my opinion its like 80% of my game on some form.

 

[Solomon]

Qualfying Is So Important!!

So it seems like what I call "Building Utopia" is VERY POWERFUL...Like I never really do it unless I REALLY want the girl because it can come off as very manipulative.

Well it turns out there is instructors who talk about this as my wing told me the term and what he did which sounded very similar to what I threw together. An do you want to know the result...

Some chick who has a Live-in BF MIGHT break up with her BF that way she can be with my friend. The night they met she fell in love with him, an was questioning her relationship. They madeout HARDCORE, she was all over him and the friend couldn't even ****blok...

As you might know I got my phone back maybe 2-3 days ago and some chick that I also did something similar too, she randomly texts me. I didn't know who she was until we texted back and forth. She wants to come out with me on saturday, I'm deciding whether I want to pull her or not. I met this girl FOUR MONTHS AGO...She still remembers me. The last time I had texted her I was telling her I'm coming over, it was like 11pm, she had texted me back at 1am wondering if I was still up. The night I met her I madeout with her...

I'm realizing that all I have to do this in all my interactions because the chick NEVER knows if I'm interested for a very long time. This is usually the only time she sort of gets the gist of why I like her.

QUALIFICATION IS VERY UNDERRATED
But by far the most important thing in my opinion its like 80% of my game on some form.

I'm gald you mentioned this, this is something that you personally have helped me with. I still haven't mastered the art of qualfying a 100% but it's helped my game in all levels not just how I approach(I'm less outcome dependent now) but also my body language and sub-communication(I'm more poised and relaxed). Lot of guys just qualify of looks alone, you qualify these women on a range of standards that they have to meet and that's the way it should be.

I can't wait until "qualifying" becomes a natural part of my congruency, until then i have to pratice, pratice, pratice

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Something Is Wrong!?

It seems like every night I go out I play my cards ALL WRONG. Today started off very interesting an ended interesting BUT through the night my whole mindset changed and I was no longer playing my game, I brought no passion to the interactions I was just SUPER INDIFFERENT, summa and adonis was wondering if I was pissed because I didn't bring the DISTANT LIGHT they know, instead I reverted to frat boy which gets nothing but gets me into many sets.

Hanging with OLD Friend
Instead of doing daygame I decided to hang with my old friend and his crew as we go to the city to eat...As I take the bus there is a guy who would be considered crazy sitting right next to me yelling/cursing, at the sametime I get opened by a girl to my right. It is hilarious because the guy's reality had no affect on me but you can see everyone felt the pressure. Meanwhile I talk to this chick the whole bus ride...Later on in the train with old friend and his crew there is two chicks talking about how one of them got approached waiting infront of a store, how the guy plowed and she eventually opened up. She gave him her business card, he called the next day and she realized he was cool. Her friend's were telling her go on the date so they have a day2 set up. The girl she was talking too LOVED the fact that she randomly met a cool guy on the street.

When I meet my OLD friend and his crew they get a kick out of my personality, I'm playing with people on the train, while waiting for a table I chat this 4set and whil eating I just self-amuse. BUT then there was a 2set who went in the bathroom both with nice bodies, when they leave the bathroom I approach, there all shocked that I'm in a resturant meeting chicks. I claw the hotter one and EVERYONE is watching, it went well but my girl is married. Later we head to virgin mega store and I turn SUPER SAIYAN by going in dancing and open this 2set who LOVE it but are blown away by my reality. The fat friend is trying to blow me out, but I eventually spin around and actually open a chick I like. Were going down the elevator chatting she's here for 2 days so I tell her we can't have an adventure she implies that WE CAN...

Observation 1: First set of the night I should've pushed and see where it leads because she basically implied "No we actually can have an adventure just stick around with me for tonight"

Later after this I spot a russian girl that I approach, PLOW, and Hooked...I speak in russian very briefly, talk about russia, talk about my food obession, and find out about logistics. The logistics are GREAT, she's doing NOTHING, just walking around at 11pm in virgin mega store and totally indecisive, my ass should've gone with it but I felt it would be ****ed up to leave a friend that I haven't seen in 2 years and his group of friends. So I ended up making her take my # and when I went in I was about to kiss her and she was down for it BUT I switched it up and went for the cheek and she switched too, it was pretty interesting to see.

Observation 2: Another set where I should've pushed and see where it leads because LOGISTICS were sweet and my friend didn't mind if I left him right then and there.

At the NIGHT VENUE...

It was ok, I was alone and just focused on staying in set no CHODING around...So my first two sets I stuck in there which was going good but I didn't take it nowhere. The first interaction lasted about 15mins I was unsure if they were actually lesbians or not because they were joking about how they were getting married and actually met on a double date. The second set was this huge mixed 10set at a table, I start dancing with the BOSS and then chatting this one girl who was sitting at the table.

After this I approach this girl talking about our facebook date she loves it so much that she starts saying "That's a good line" I then proceed to tell her I like things to be interesting, which she surely made it interesting by saying SHE IS MARRIED...That was hilarious because I believed it an later on when I knew it was over she told me she actually isn't married. That sucked on my part, I tried kissing her but no go, I also tried #closing but no go. She ends up leaving eventually...

I approach this 3set with this REAL CUTE chick from london, I was attracted...They were at the bathroom line Captain Cblock bumps me but I don't let it phase me, it's interesting how the girls were seeing how I'd react. I chat as if nothing happens an finally my girl uses the bathroom. I use this time to befriend the friend's and tell them that I like there friend, when she comes out the bathroom I go for the # because my phone is about to die. I #close...THEN all of a sudden my ass is about to eject, at first I tell myself stay in set because I'm attracted an it's rare for me to be this attracted. But then something happens and I get distracted and wander off.

Also at one point got a community guy that I know pissed off cause I winged him but was self-amusing TOO MUCH which caused there RAS to focus on me and it sort of alienated him...It wasn't on purpose but that's what ends up happening which is why I no longer wing anyone because when I winged adonis it ALWAYS happened and he pointed it out to me. I'm honestly having so much fun that I never really realized what was going on. But this further reminds me to NOT wing or be SUPER chode.

FRAT BOY!!!
At this point I got the whole "**** this just go frat boy/caveman" and that never works for me atleast...I opened EVERY chick in the venue, and reopened some again...Go up very chill, handshake DONT let go and continue talking, push her away, pull her in, go for makeout or she walks off already. One chick I don't even speak to I just point at her and stroke her scarf.

One chick I go up too and it's ON but she tells me she's looking for her friend how she just came back from ****ing some guy in her hotel room...OK, don't ask me why but the FRATNESS in me took this as a lie and just go to makeout, get a peck but she pulls away, I'm just OOZING masculine polarity, sitting back as she is on the phone and watching me, some guy approaches who she blows out because I'm 5ft away...Eventually she meets her friend's and then she's with some other guy who is all over her...OKIE DOKIE

Close to the end of the night some chick opens me saying I look like one of the "Cool" people, so I start chatting with them but I'm not attracted so I'm just social. She also assumes that lprince is my friend because we both look like the "Cool" people...which he was right because

I'm was a bit annoyed by all my poor decisions when out and about so I was determined not to leave...

"To the streets"
4am and determined I went FULL BLOWN UK DAYGAME..."Hey your ****ing gorgeous I had to meet you", I read about a few guys from UK running up and down the street doing that so I did it EIGHT TIMES, normally i wouldn't approach direct but I didn't care right now. In the end nothing but FUN.
- I remember going up to this one chick and it opened WELL, but then all of a sudden a fight breaks out and that messed up everything...Right after this I do the samething to another girl an I pull her forward so she doesn't get knocked over because these guys were fighting 2ft away from me. While everyone is watching the fight I'm there chatting up chicks.

- I go across the street to a girl who is watching the fight and I do the samething, she's from london, we talk about london, her brother shows up and we start chatting for a bit, no way I'm pulling the girl away from her brother, but I stick around as we joke about the fight.

- Mixed 3set...hot chick was drunk but she was hot so I had to atleast approach telling her if she wasn't drunk we would've had some fun. The guy is a older russian dude and is totally unreactive and starts pulling the girls away...Right after this went into another mixed set where the guy did the samething of pulling the girls away.

- While walking towards mix car I see a chick outside who I open. it's ON but the crew is leaving, cell phone is dead and logistics of her having friend's with her and an orbiter made me decide not to stick around, but it was a GREAT situation. Part of me wishes I had stayed just to see where it would go.

The Verdict
Overall it was pretty cool, I really need to just focus on one girl even if it's just practice because my biggest problems are...
1. Staying in set
2. Following the structure

There isn't any reason for me to eject from a set, it's just a habit of when to always go around self-amusing. It was so much fun that I wouldn't want to stay in set. Instead I would want to chat to everyone and create chaos. BUT at the end of the night I hadn't moved it foward with any of the chicks and usually there with some new guy who is now CLOSING. I know LONG SETS are the key to success but I have way more fun bouncing around. Also need to start following the flexibile structure so I can FOCUS and lead it towards sex because if I had it my way I'd just stand around self-amusing 24/7. That can work but if I follow the structure everything is MUCH MORE solid.

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: 0% Motivation...

It's always in our heads as newbies that if we could get good with women, we'd keep going out and just meet more and more women with ease and have sex all day. This isn't the case for me, instead I've realized more BS about myself...
1. I can no longer relate/connect to women, I don't keep eye contact with them, I don't look interested at all, and I'm not even listening/cutting them off WAY TO MUCH
2. Don't feel like approaching anymore...Basically in my mind I can't do anything and suck. But I'm also totally comfortable just chilling and doing nothing.
3. Lprince pointed out that my aloofness and not caring demeanor is EXTREME. There is no motivation for me to meet women, I approach it goes good or bad I don't care. I get the #, makeout or crazy experience and it's as if it didn't happen because I don't even seem happy about it. As adonis pointed out it's like I have no intention of bringing any of these people into my actual life.

Daygame, I honestly would've done NOTHING for the whole day if I hadn't been FORCED, PUSHED and PRESSURED to approach. I just wanted to roam around, chill and enjoy everything. As adonis points it out I'm like a "Unreactive Douche" or "Russian Hottie" with the total aloofness and disregarding everything. To put it into perspective, I was outside for 9 hours before I went to the night venue and I did 9 approaches...

First approach I was telling Lprince I'm a chode and I just approach the chick next to me saying "Hi I'm chode" it was going well but I eject because I don't want to do anything...While walking around this chick I met while I was on a day2 at a makeup shop spots me, I'm naturally escalating, take her number and leave. I continue my CHODING AROUND which I actually enjoyed. Adonis and O10 are in boner 21 tearing it up, I stand totally chill in the high traffic area but don't really chat to anyone. Only one chick I actually interact with for a bit but I'm being very STANDOFFISH. While outside boner 21 which still had TONS of women, I spot a SWEDISH CHICK my type Lprince and O10 demand I approach...

****!!! I didn't want to do anything but I walk over there, tap her, take her hand and hold it. I'm all in her personal space and touching her hair. She just arrived to NY today, we chat for about 5mins and then start trying to #close each other BUT turns out her swedish phone couldn't receive my text. She didn't have a pen so I told her forget it and was going to leave...BUT she then reminds me that I could give her my # and when she activates the mobile phone in her bag she'd call me...OK..I walk back which O10 and Lprince points out it was real good. I realize the "Unreactive Douche"/"Hot Russian" demeanor is VERY CONGRUENT to how I am. Which is interesting, because I'm a retard when self-amusing and unreactive douche when I'm my "Buddha Bless You" mode as Lprince calls it. There was no actual problem, just me not wanting to approach and do anything.

This was the basic THEME for the day, me not wanting to do anything but sort of FORCED to go...
- I approach a chick in B&N who looks stylish, everything is going well BUT it's clear I don't care. I just go for the # for the hell of it which she gives the "NOT YET, I want to know more about you", LOOK. I'm silent causing social pressure so she blurts out "I have a BF" and I say "That's Cool", which she responds "OK" and is waiting for me to take her number as she says tons of rapport seeking questions to find out more about me. The douche in me comes out and I smoothly make her forget about exchanging #s, cut the conversation off and leave.

- After eating O10 wants to go into the true religion store to approach two chicks who went inside. I don't want to do anything, but he forces me to go with him, and sure enough when we go in I HAPPEN TO APPROACH. I was laughing at the irony of me not wanting to go but yet I opened instantly as if I had the idea of going in...This interaction went well but they were leaving NY in 1 hour to go back to boston. They came in to shop real quick and go right back to school, the chick was cute and was really intrigued by me. We chat for maybe 5-10mins and then O10 signals for me to leave.

- I see this beautiful polish chick walk by me, I tell myself to just DO IT!! I tap her at the light and start talking. EASTERN EUROPEAN women are the hottest women. This is going well, there is a mixture of "Douche" and "Retard" and it goes well. I stop her and we continue talking, I'm escalating a bit and then I #close her. I frame it wrong at the end...

NIGHT TIME BABY!!!
Due to a private party we get into the venue at 1am, usually I'd tear it up on the streets because there were MANY hotties but I didn't want to do anything. I seen atleast two chicks who's RAS were on me, they were alone and looking for a cab...Those are the moments where crazy adventures are created.

First hour I don't really do much, as a friend comes out who I haven't seen in a LONG TIME. We always create the party together and we start talking about how being "RETARDED" is just who we are and how we shouldn't TRY to be CHODE. Then we start...
- A Euro Milf walks by who I grab and I'm escalating HARD on. I could've went for the makeout one minute in. I'm just speaking and escalating, putting her hands all over my body and I'm all in her personal space. While talking she points out her husband, who is actually looking RIGHT AT US...I'm so glad I didn't go for the makeout, this guy looked pissed.

- My friend (Modeler) was talking to a chick so I wing him by talking to the friend. This girl is a teacher, everything goes how it usually goes. I'm escalating, I know she is cool with me making out with her, but I've lately been building up the tension before I go for the kiss. We chat for about 10mins, she's qualifying herself. Then her friend shows up, we snap pictures and continue chatting. She goes off to use the bathroom she wants to know if I'll still be here and then leaves...I realize she's cuter than I thought but I don't care that I didn't get her #. When she comes back I #close.

- While teacher chick left, I spotted this chick from ohio that I was isolated with many months back but told Lprince he could go for her because I'm not that attracted...Well she opened me and she's dressed hot so I escalate. She keeps throwing hints that she's bored and wants to go home. But I was still waiting for the teacher chick, so I just fooled around with ohio chick for a bit. Escalating and having fun with her...

- There was this tall european chick with a flower in her hair. HOT!! I touched her flower the first time I met her but didn't speak to her. I only physically escalated with her first time we met...Second time she passes by were both smiling at each other. I grab her and pull her in were very close and chatting. She's here for 1 month, this is the one for tonight, she instantly forgets about her friend. BUT then the door guy tells us we can't stand there and it breaks her state or better yet I walked away...hahaha WTF.

- There was a 7set of chicks that I opened and reopened a few times...End of the night I'm about to leave and two chicks keep looking at me so I seductively dance with them and then start chatting for abit. Raven is winging, all I see is HEAVY ESCALATION and raven's girl was "Hand Pumping" my girl to signal a blowout. This was the funniest thing because my girl couldn't see because I had her facing me. Internally I'm cracking up because Raven's chick had big breast and it looked like he was trying to dig into them breasts. (I don't blame him I'd have isolated just to suck on them) Finally big breast chick grabs my girl and just POOFS. I didn't care again that I didn't #close or do anything with her. BUT before I leave she see's me and I #close.

Overall what I learned is that the mere fact that I seriously don't care, it causes me to no longer plow. Which I realized I used to plow only to learn or if it was a bad interaction I'd plow to try and turn it around and learn something. But when generally interacting if something requires a bit of plowing I just don't care and would let it go.

This also kills my decisiveness because I have this "Whatever your choice is I don't care". At the end of the night while eating, this chick called me because we were suppose to have a "Pillow Fight" well I think I hung up on her and didn't realize it, but I never even thought to call her back even though Lprince told me I should. Instead I texted her where I was at and basically had the thought "If she comes, she comes...doesn't matter to me". At the sametime Lprince was explaining to me that all they need is that little excuse of you TELLING them what to do, basically so I can take full responsibility for what will happen.

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: I Have a HUGE Problem...

This is insane because it's not about the results I'm getting it's more of how I am. Lprince been on me about this because I don't want to come out anymore, I basically force myself to come out and overall I'm not tearing it up at the intensity that I used too. Currently I've been doing as little as possible just to say I was actually doing something but generally I don't want to do anything. Adonis has pointed out that it's more of a FUN activity for me but I have ZERO INTENTION of bringing these chicks into my life.

This used to be FUN, I don't understand how I used to go out 7 days a week during that time. BUT right now it's no longer fun, it's quite possible that once I fully realized who I was, I no longer felt the need to do anything. Lprince wanted me to go out EVERYDAY again to get back that motivation and drive, but I've been resisting.

I wasn't being a total douche like before, but what I did learn is that the fact that I don't care what happens has caused me to not be as DECISIVE and LEAD as hard as I could because in my its "WHATEVER".

Let The Night Begin...
I was suppose to come out at 3pm for daygame, but I didn't even want to come out. I finally tell the crew at 8pm that I'll be out at 9:30pm...I come out 10:30pm. This is how you know I don't want to come out. Before people would call me KNOWING I was already out because whenever I had free time I wanted to go out and tear it up. Things have changed I don't want to come out...

I chode around catching up with O10 and Author. Lprince and Adonis head to the night venue which will meet them there. As we get to the night venue I notice the manager infront. In this moment my MOJO comes back because it's possible that I won't be able to get in, so I need to bring the MOJO...

I tell O10 and Author, we will meet girl's off the street and bring them into the night venue. Author opens his own set, I see two russian looking chicks so I approach and O10 wings. I go in and of course there UNREACTIVE "Hot Russians" which I'm so used to this attitude so I bypass it easily and were having fun as I escalate. After about 5mins I tell them I'm going to the night venue and telling them to come. Then were off, we get into the night venue. In the night venue we hit the bar where they buy me a drink. At this point O10 and Author are somewhere else. I bounce them to the balcony area where Adonis and Lprince are hanging. Then I sit down with the cuter russian and we vibe for another 5-10mins.

This is where the tide TURNS, when I first approached O10 had the cuter girl. When inside the night venue I started going for the cuter girl. I forgot O10 told me the girl I first approached has a BF and ADONIS liked the girl I was currently with...So the chicks go for a smoke, adonis ends up out there chatting them and when they comeback adonis basically starts chatting the chick I was talking too...

It sort of got to me because I LET HIM DO IT, but he actually did it because he knows I don't care and he REALLY LIKES HER. This ****ed up the whole interaction because I forgot O10 told me the other girl had a BF, and I start chatting to the one who has a BF again. The thing about me and her it was ON and she never mentioned a BF. So as there about to leave I try #closing the one who has a BF and she tells me she'll see me around...

I'm sitting there shocked because I would've actually #closed the cuter one BUT the mere fact of not caring and adonis knowing this he actually went for her causing me to switch it all up...Lose/Lose all around.

The Rest Of The Night...
The night continues...
- Approaching this swedish chick, lprince wings me it's going good and basically I can makeout right now but I'm looking at lprince telling him I don't think I want her cause she isn't hot enough. Eventually it gets to the point where I go to bounce her, she wants to come with me but has to wait for a friend to come up. I end up ejecting and she actually went to the balcony waiting for me. I seen her later on in the night and she reopened me but I had decided I actually wasn't SUPER ATTRACTED.

- I approach this chick who wants to get PULLED tonight. She is straight up grinding on me and we chat for a bit. All of a sudden she takes my hand and starts leading me, but I basically stop following her and tell her I'll see her later. We also were about to makeout when I first approached her.

- I spot this other chick who I madeout with before, first time I met her she asked if I was a PUA because she seen me before and during that time there was a bootcamp going on. I don't stay with her long because my mind is telling me not to settle.

- There is a chick who I see at the elevator, she's swedish. I chat with her for a good 10-15mins, I try bouncing her but she's actually leaving. I escalate and vibe for abit and then #close.

- I approach this 3set and realize that the girl I'm talking too is more Lprince's type. So I bring Lprince into the set and then she starts drinking and BT is going up, I introduce her to Lprince which she then says he's super cute. I switch over to the 3rd chick being very flirtatious...But again not hot enough and I don't know why I'm talking to her like this, she's waiting for me to makeout. The most ****ed up part is when she see's Mix with her friend about to makeout and Lprince with 1st girl grinding. She then walks off to her friend because I didn't makeout with her...hahahaha...

- Bachelorette Party...of about 10 chicks, I seen natural dancer with them, he brought me in and we start tearing it up. Some of these chicks are grinding hard on me and it's getting insane. I then find one who is pretty cute and start escalating, but she won't makeout infront of her crew. I just get a little peck and then she runs back off to her SISTER.

- There was a 2set of Danish chicks that Author was chatting too, there not hot but I had decided to wing him. Earlier in the night we were all seated and just chatting for a good 15-20mins. Then later on in the night I start chatting to the girl's again, it's ON but I don't want her. So what ends up happening is her buying me a drink and then I blew her out without realizing it...I was tired and started yawning and she's like "O my am I boring you" and eventually leaves. I'd later see her making out with some other guy and me and author are cracking up because we both didn't want her, she said she had a BF, and then finally found a guy who'd actually attempt to pull.

Overall I want to take a HUGE break because it's becoming less and less fun for me. Adonis is right when he mentioned that it's an activity for me but I don't plan on bringing any of the women into my life...Because I #closed around 8 chicks in the past two days and I actually forgot about them. I always forget names and faces once the interaction ends and overall it feels like I'm just washing my hands, it's NOTHING. The fact that I'm always content whether everything goes GREAT or TOTALLY BAD, I'm still feeling the same.