Read @cola 's post.haven't tested but, will soon
me: you, itd be cool if you are free next weekened, if not, thats cool too.
what you guys think?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I like this method. But it also makes it easier for her to say no because she knows you're not directly asking her out on a date.If you wanna ask in a way that doesn't seem needy so it softens the rejection the best way to do it is to frame it like you are going to go weather she comes or not.
"I'm going to the movies tomorrow night, wanna come with?" ..
"Im going to this concert next week, wanna come?"