Read @cola 's post.haven't tested but, will soon
me: you, itd be cool if you are free next weekened, if not, thats cool too.
what you guys think?
I like this method. But it also makes it easier for her to say no because she knows you're not directly asking her out on a date.If you wanna ask in a way that doesn't seem needy so it softens the rejection the best way to do it is to frame it like you are going to go weather she comes or not.
"I'm going to the movies tomorrow night, wanna come with?" ..
"Im going to this concert next week, wanna come?"