Slept with a hot one, feeling my age (51).

[englishman]

There were 2 Koreans. The first one was an attractive head case and the other not quite as attractive but far more stable and good for my mental and emotional health.

I was with the stable one for about 2 years. I met her here in Canada, she was a volunteer at an AIDS walk and she asked me if I'd help her lift a some stuff into a truck. I did and she asked me if I was going to the volunteer party later that evening. ( i wasn't a volunteer just happened to be walking past)

So I found the guy in charge and asked him if I could help them clear up the site, he said yes and I casually mentioned the after party? He got me in and that's where I picked it up with Hye Young the sexy young thing.

She was here to learn English, and I took her out a couple of times then back to my place and that was that!

She had almost no sexual experience and a tight little pvssy, I soon had her giving blow jobs and I pretty much had sex with her anyway I wanted and at anytime I wanted. She had a tight gorgeous model like body.

She moved into my place and we had a great time, she caused me no worry.

She went back to Korea after about 9 months? And I went to see her a couple of months later. I had a great time, I stayed for 5 weeks and it was a lot of fun and a great experience. In a way it's too bad I met up with the first one in Seoul, the attractive head case, because it fvcked my head up. But it was my choice and me that decided to do it.

I came back to Canada and she (stable one ) came again a while later. We had a laugh same as before.
A couple of things were different though.
1. I had the headcase one in my mind and couldn't stop comparing the 2 of them.
2. This was the last time she would be coming to Canada and she was hinting at getting married.
3. She developed a cough that didn't go away. Then she started to lose weight, at the time chicken flu was around and she was worried she might have it. I was like fvck go to the doctor! she didn't.
4. The kind of unspoken pressure on the both of us and the fact that we were from different parts of the world grew intense and would have to marry or me move there or??

It really became a very heavy situation. The she found some stuff on my computer I didn't know was there that Id written to headcase #1 about how we had fvcked in Seoul and I was busted.

I felt sorry for the good one, because she was way more the quality person than headcase. But it was to late and at the end of the day it was me that had fvcked it up.

So she went back to Pusan Korea, we had talked about meeting again, but it was not like the first time we parted.

She called me not long after to tell me she was in the hospital and the cough was Tuberculosis!!! and that I should go get tested.

I got round to it and I was/am clear.

She was really sick and spent almost a year in and out of hospital.

After a while it became obvious we werent going to be getting back together and we sort of officially parted.

To be honest I was fvcking gutted. That was tough tough tough!

I didnt hear from her for a long time, but strangely within a couple of months of headcase #1 contacting me, steady one contacted me to, saying she will get married in July and here is her phone number and new address in Korea, she said that a picture she had drawn for me 8 years previous was important to her and she would like it back!!!

I had to laugh to myself???? I mean WTF I called the number one time and she picked up, we only spoke a few words to each other but it was intense and still quite emotional and raw.

And that was that. Looking back it was a special thing.

 

[Zarky]

^^^^ Good lord man, stay away from chicks from the far east. They want one thing and that's to marry a westerner. Everything is geared toward that, and they're playing long-term. They're sort of long-period BPDs. At first everything will be f*cking awesome. And unlike normal BPDs it will be that way for a relatively long time. But once it becomes clear that you're not going to marry her, brace yourself for the drama because it will be a tsunami.

 

[bluenorther]

I was 54 when I was banging the ex-trophy wife. She was my age, maybe a year or two less... I could have gone all night with her, but she couldn't keep up. I never did it on booze, though! Once we were watching late night telly and a Cialis advert came on... she instructed me to "Pay no attention!" Make sure you're well rested before an all-nighter, and don't wank for the entire week before. You'll surprise yourself and her.

 

[englishman]

I was 54 when I was banging the ex-trophy wife. She was my age, maybe a year or two less... I could have gone all night with her, but she couldn't keep up. I never did it on booze, though! Once we were watching late night telly and a Cialis advert came on... she instructed me to "Pay no attention!" Make sure you're well rested before an all-nighter, and don't wank for the entire week before. You'll surprise yourself and her.

Yep I was exhausted from work, I went out thinking Ill stay for an hour or 2 and a couple of beers.
It didn't work out that way! I cant remember how many beers and up all night.
I pop cialis because it sucks to get a chick into bed and then have engine failure.
If I have a regular gal then I don't usually bother.

 

[Married Buried]

^^^^ Good lord man, stay away from chicks from the far east. They want one thing and that's to marry a westerner. Everything is geared toward that, and they're playing long-term. They're sort of long-period BPDs. At first everything will be f*cking awesome. And unlike normal BPDs it will be that way for a relatively long time. But once it becomes clear that you're not going to marry her, brace yourself for the drama because it will be a tsunami.

So they want to marry a westerner? Oh the horror! You will have a hot obedient wife who will do whatever you say.

 

[Stagger Lee]

So they want to marry a westerner? Oh the horror! You will have a hot obedient wife who will do whatever you say.

I don't normally take jabs at other posters but Zarky has this one coming from me for trolling my threads. Zarky would rather spend all his time and probably a large share of his money doing online dating to just occasionally drunk bang an online UG on viagra.

More power to him. But he calls this the winning strategy :cheer:.

 

[englishman]

So they want to marry a westerner? Oh the horror! You will have a hot obedient wife who will do whatever you say.

haha, yep... I like the young Asian babes, I think take it on a case by case basis. Not all are after you just to scam ya.
I mean Japan has a huge and modern economy, Korea not that far behind.
A lot of people think that everywhere in the east is dirt poor and and desperate.

Also having tasted the east and the west, personally I prefer those eastern girls, not all the time and not 100% but in general. I like there kind of coy submissiveness.

 

[Zarky]

You will have a hot obedient wife who will do whatever you say.

For 5 years. Then they get their green card and dump your ass for a hotter guy. Anyway, I'm not really the type of guy who needs women to "obey" me to make me feel ok about myself. That's just creepy.

I've had women who came close to that. I'd casually say that I dug blondes and, behold, three days later the girl would suddenly "decide" that she wanted to be a blonde. Or I'd mention that I really like home-made spaghetti sauce and the next night the chick would invite me over for.. guess what.. home-made spaghetti. I've had chicks who would glance over in my direction for my reaction when we were watching TV. Like we'd be watching some comedy and every time a funny line was delivered the girl would look over at me and if I was laughing she'd start laughing too. If I wasn't, she wouldn't.

That sh*t creeps me out. I don't want some woman who is all up in my sh*t like that. I like independent chicks.

And even if you really wanted some woman to "obey" you and cook and clean for you like a housekeeper.... are y'all really that pathetic that you need to pull in desperate, poor, third-world women to be your personal slaves?

People blame me for my lifestyle choices. At least I'm not sitting around fantasizing about some broke-ass foreigner washing my underwear.

 

[englishman]

People blame me for my lifestyle choices. At least I'm not sitting around fantasizing about some broke-ass foreigner washing my underwear.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_Japan

The economy of Japan is the third largest in the world by nominal GDP, the fourth largest by Purchasing Power Parity [10] and is the world's second largest developed economy.[11] According to the International Monetary Fund,

South Korea has a market economy which ranks 15th in the world by nominal GDP and 12th by purchasing power parity (PPP), identifying it as one of the G-20 major economies. It is a high-income developed country, with a developed market,

 

[englishman]

I like independent chicks.

Your choice Zarky, myself I don't dig the strong independent women.

 

[( . )( . )]

For 5 years. Then they get their green card and dump your ass for a hotter guy. Anyway, I'm not really the type of guy who needs women to "obey" me to make me feel ok about myself. That's just creepy.

That sh*t creeps me out. I don't want some woman who is all up in my sh*t like that. I like independent chicks.

And even if you really wanted some woman to "obey" you and cook and clean for you like a housekeeper.... are y'all really that pathetic that you need to pull in desperate, poor, third-world women to be your personal slaves?

People blame me for my lifestyle choices. At least I'm not sitting around fantasizing about some broke-ass foreigner washing my underwear.

Woah, she went all out this time. Not those "creepy" submissive women who wash a mans undies...GAHHHHH!!

Might be time to brush up again how you think a 38 year old dude talks snarky.

 

[Jitterbug]

Zarky: Korea is not a desperate poor third-world country, you moron. Quite the opposite in fact. And men like women who take care of them, get that fact straight if you want to pretend to be one.

englishman: yeah I'm only 30 and am fitter than most people, but doing an all nighter for 4-5am sex isn't for me anymore either. It really screws up my week, my training, studying and work all suffer. Which is why I prefer STR, getting laid before midnight is healthier!

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Englishman,
Love your Post....even in its death Throes it is still extremely interesting...Malice and others have met mercenary marrying kinds of North Asians,who are desperate for a Green Card....In the long term a relationship between such a Woman and a Don Juan has a short use by date...OK,that is very subjective,but then look at the Objective side..."
She had....... a tight little pvssy, I soon had her giving blow jobs and I pretty much had sex with her anyway I wanted and at anytime I wanted. She had a tight gorgeous model like body."...This is not debatable is it?and it is my experience also....The thing about these Ladies is that they are in a strange almost overwhelmingly new culture that they cannot and never will understand,they are anxious to please and will do almost anything you tell (not ask)them to do,most are not from countries with a Christian value system and they have no hang ups about Svex....As Plates and F.Buddies they are wonderful,but not to have under your feet all the time,but then that is what being a DJ is all about!

 

[Zarky]

Please, very few shmucky westerners who can't get laid in their own country bother with South Koreans and Japanese women. They go for Thai, Indonesian, Philippino, sometimes Chinese chicks. Poor chicks. The upper-middle class chicks are usually too good for middle-class western shmucks to obtain. At least the average shmuck who goes overseas to try to find one.

yeah, some rich doctor could fly in some semi-rich Japanese bride. But that's about it. They don't come over because they love or respect you. The come over because they want to leave their homelands. If they're already doing well, they have no incentive to leave.

 

[englishman]

Zarky not having a dig at you here but are you really a man?
There's something that doesn't add up about the way you write. You kind of remind me of some of the butch lesbian women I've worked for over the years.

 

[Zarky]

aaaaaaaaand the OP is just revealed for the troll he is.

Read these:

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/10/24/rule-4-you-must-lie-to-women/
http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/11/01/rule-4a-you-must-lie-to-women-the-remix/

If you still think I'm a "woman," then, as they say in your country, you're a nutter

Heck, you might even learn something.

 

[( . )( . )]

aaaaaaaaand the OP is just revealed for the troll he is.

Read these:

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/10/24/rule-4-you-must-lie-to-women/
http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/11/01/rule-4a-you-must-lie-to-women-the-remix/

If you still think I'm a "woman," then, as they say in your country, you're a nutter

Heck, you might even learn something.

These are her go-to "see I really am a man because I'm saying lie to women" when she realizes her hatred for men just got the better of her and accidentally stuck out like dogs nuts. Got to offset those 50 misandrist posts peppered with ultra fem-imperative blue pill twaddle by throwing in the odd "macho" or what she perceives as macho line in now and then.

This ones still my favourite though:

Personally, I’d love the feminist movement to become even more radicalized. I’d love it if women slaved away at jobs and my role was simply to look good and **** great

See what all you misogynists don't understand is when feminists become even more radicalized women will do even more "work" :crazy: Apparently women everywhere will tack on an extra hour of paper shuffling in their non productive make work cubicles so zarky here can (pretend) fvck even more POF 4's and 5's.

And a glimpse of the real comfortable shoes wearing zarky if you get my meaning.

I really like taller chicks

Big fan of short hair.

I like independent chicks.

 

[Married Buried]

For 5 years. Then they get their green card and dump your ass for a hotter guy. Anyway, I'm not really the type of guy who needs women to "obey" me to make me feel ok about myself. That's just creepy.

I've had women who came close to that. I'd casually say that I dug blondes and, behold, three days later the girl would suddenly "decide" that she wanted to be a blonde. Or I'd mention that I really like home-made spaghetti sauce and the next night the chick would invite me over for.. guess what.. home-made spaghetti. I've had chicks who would glance over in my direction for my reaction when we were watching TV. Like we'd be watching some comedy and every time a funny line was delivered the girl would look over at me and if I was laughing she'd start laughing too. If I wasn't, she wouldn't.

That sh*t creeps me out. I don't want some woman who is all up in my sh*t like that. I like independent chicks.

And even if you really wanted some woman to "obey" you and cook and clean for you like a housekeeper.... are y'all really that pathetic that you need to pull in desperate, poor, third-world women to be your personal slaves?

People blame me for my lifestyle choices. At least I'm not sitting around fantasizing about some broke-ass foreigner washing my underwear.

She will leave you after 5 years? Sorry dude, she is not your mother. She will never leave you if you are worth 2 sh!ts. Unless you are some loser who cannot get p/ssy except picking up foreign women. Is that you? It's not me. She ain't going anywhere.

 

[englishman]

Dear Miss Zarky, thank you for your input.
When I read your words I somehow think of a short haired small breasted women wearing a tight white vest and listening to Anni DeFranco.

Am I right?

 

[englishman]

One thing I want to add to this post is about submissive women.

When I talk about submissive women I don't mean women who are doormats, or some kind of slave or that I come home and beat them and their self esteem is so low that they don't leave.

Or that they run around like some domestic servant, though I certainly appreciate it if they look after me and the house.

Let me give 2 examples;

One Korean women I mentioned, when I pulled her pants down she went all shy, and coyly whispered in my ear. I controlled the interaction and she played her part of submissive and we had great sex. We both did! Not just me.

Another women I slept with a while back was a white N. American women and even though we fvcked a lot, for me it wasn't as good as the Korean.
The white women was kind of demanding and telling me where to put it, that kind of thing.

Yeah we had sex, but if it gets to much like 2 people being similar then its more like 2 friends agreeing to rub genitals than a play between two complementary forces.

I like to go latin dancing, latin daning is fun and it's also quite old fashioned in that the man leads and the women follows.
Some women don't like that, they think it should be 50/50

But if you dance like that the dance is boring, and there's the oh so familiar awkward tussle of who is in charge here, who will be 51% and who will be 49%

It's probably the same for you too Zarky in your lesbian relationships?

There's almost always a dom and a fem, otherwise it won't work right?