sleeping around, around 30 and lies

[Latinoman]

Still nobody has explained to me why asking a girl if she is seeing other guys or what not is a sign of insecurity. why would a girl see it that way?

Who cares what she thinks? I care about what I think.

 

[sosilky]

Still nobody has explained to me why asking a girl if she is seeing other guys or what not is a sign of insecurity. why would a girl see it that way?

Still haven't gotten an answer for this question....thats interesting...maybe I should ask the girls at love schack? i'd rather not

 

[Latinoman]

Still haven't gotten an answer for this question....thats interesting...maybe I should ask the girls at love schack? i'd rather not

How old are you and how old is she?

 

[sosilky]

How old are you and how old is she?

don't see how thats relevent as a few guys mentioned in this thread that in general that shows signs of insecurity. Yet not why. Plus I already said how old we were.

 

[Latinoman]

don't see how thats relevent as a few guys mentioned in this thread that in general that shows signs of insecurity. Yet not why. Plus I already said how old we were.

I am 40. It does not show a sign of insecurity in my case. I already said why I asked the question.

But, I need to know how old are you and her in order to understand the situation better and give you advice on how to better frame the question. I don't care if you are 18...or 28...or 58.

 

[MacAvoy]

don't see how thats relevent as a few guys mentioned in this thread that in general that shows signs of insecurity. Yet not why. Plus I already said how old we were.

Hmmm, old, wise mature men keep asking the same thing .... hmmm ... yet I'm this new guy trying to absorb as much as possible, even asking hypothetical questions .... but I don't see why its important.

They are asking for a reason. Because the answer will change dependent on age. Things are worlds apart for an 18 year old and a 40 year old, if you don't realize that, then maybe your not ready to become a DJ. There is also a difference between 25 and 29 and whether she's 29 and your 25 or vice versa.

 

[MacAvoy]

Still nobody has explained to me why asking a girl if she is seeing other guys or what not is a sign of insecurity. why would a girl see it that way?

Why is the sky blue? Do you question that? Why is 2+2 four? Does it really matter why she sees it that way? Ever think that maybe people are not answering your question for a reason?

 

[sosilky]

Why is the sky blue? Do you question that? Why is 2+2 four? Does it really matter why she sees it that way? Ever think that maybe people are not answering your question for a reason?

Yes because they don't know...I'm 29 she's 28

 

[Latinoman]

Yes because they don't know...I'm 29 she's 28

Are you in a relationship with her (committed)?

Tell me more about the type of relationship you two are...friend with benefits? Non-sexual? Just dating?

 

[Latinoman]

By the way...one of my former FWB was 28 and I had another 28 wanting to be involved with me. We simply talked about their situations and mine. I have no issues talking...as I do it in such a fashion that when combined with other aspects of my personallity (funny, outgoing, great listener) it allows them to open up.

 

[sosilky]

Are you in a relationship with her (committed)?

Tell me more about the type of relationship you two are...friend with benefits? Non-sexual? Just dating?

I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?

 

[MacAvoy]

Are you in a relationship with her (committed)?

Tell me more about the type of relationship you two are...friend with benefits? Non-sexual? Just dating?

Latinoman,

This isn't a real life situation your trying to help him with. Its an imaginary scenario. (I can't keep a straight face while I type this).

I wasn't realy asking about anybody in particular

He's said several times in the past that his posts aren't about his life but he's "trying to learn" by asking hypothetical questions.

 

[Latinoman]

I was asking about when we first started nailing. but you can touch more serious relationships if you want. did you read the original post and following ones?

If I am in a SERIOUS/COMMITTED relationship...the it is EXPECTED that we would ONLY be having sex with each other.

 

[sosilky]

If I am in a SERIOUS/COMMITTED relationship...the it is EXPECTED that we would ONLY be having sex with each other.

ok so you haven't read threw the posts in this thread. allright latino thanx i'm enlightened

 

[Latinoman]

ok so you haven't read threw the posts in this thread. allright latino thanx i'm enlightened

I don't have to read what others have to say. I don't compromise on my masculinity and I don't compromise in my values. Meaning that when it comes to comitted relationships, I have some expectations.

 

[sosilky]

I don't have to read what others have to say. I don't compromise on my masculinity and I don't compromise in my values. Meaning that when it comes to comitted relationships, I have some expectations.

what does your masculinity have to do with me asking why women find asking or suspecting if they are dating or sleeping with other men a sign of insecurity? who asked you about your opinion on commited relationships? either answer that or comment on the OP.

 

[Luthor Rex]

Anyone that believes it's possible to get accurate sexual history information from a woman is a fool. So tell me, did I just call you a fool?

Use protection and hope for the best, or just don't have sex. Sorry, but that's your two choices.

Doctors can give you tests for STD's as well as copies of the report.

Idiot.

 

[Luthor Rex]

here's some questions for thought based on previous threads. please expand on them. are you saying that she would think you are naive and foolish for assuming she might be telling the truth? why would she assume your insecure? and why lie? why wouldn't we want to hear the truth? and if you say its none of your business unless in a serious relationship, when it becomes serious do you assume she is telling the truth? do you have a right to know her history at that point? do you want to get serious with someone u assume was lieing to you?

Not everyone is so emotionally weak that they can't handle the truth. People who say "you don't to know the truth" are too weak for it themselves and GOD FORBID anyone else can deal with it and thus be stronger than they are.

You're asking the wrong questions to the wrong people. The kind of people you are talking about are emotionally bankrupt. They play games, cause drama, fvck up their lives and then blame as much of it on everyone else as possible. They are also the type to assume that everyone else is a p.o.s. like themselves.

The kind of people you are talking about who act ****y / self-confidant do so because they are too stupid to know how ignorant they are. Loud confidence is usually fake, while the quietly confident are usually decent people.

Just say no to hos.

 

[Luthor Rex]

Can you explain to me how this makes a difference? Are you saying that if your in a FB relationship with a women and she isn't sleeping with anybody, that you'll sleep with her WITHOUT a condom?

Personally I don't see how it makes a difference for health reasons.

Condoms don't stop all STD's.

 

[DonGorgon]

Information is power so lying is an essential part of the game if you are playing to win..... Why? - control! .. It's easier to control someone if they dont know the whole story and cant make decisions that are detrimental to your plan.....