About 2 weeks ago I was with my gf at my boss's wedding. We had fun, everything was going good, and we ended up bar hopping after the reception.
At the end of the night me, her, my boss's wife's brother, his gf, and my boss's wife's uncle (a little creepy) were all in a hotel room.
Me and the brother were talking while our gf's were passed out on the bed behind us, around 3am. We had all been drinking a decent amount, though I don't know about the uncle. He was sitting in a corner chair by himself, not really talking. At one point it looked like he fell asleep.
The last thing I remember when passing out is the 4 of us in a bed together and the uncle on the chair.
My gf woke me up startled 4 hours later (I was still out of it), saying she woke up with his hands on her boobs, and her dress pulled up. I don't know if the dress being pulled up was him or me, because I do remember pulling it up earlier (before passing out). She had a tampon in which was still there, but still, not sure if that matters.
But still ... I remember waking up and the brother and his gf are now sleeping on the floor, and the uncle IS IN BED NEXT TO US, AT LEAST HALF NAKED (sheets were covering his lower half).
In retrospect I should have stayed and got the scoop, but she was adamant about leaving and I was still out of it so I conceded.
Boss's wife assured me that 'she's sure nothing bad happened', but that means jack sh!t in my book. They went off on their honeymoon and I tried to get a hold of them, no luck. Another employee at the company had the uncle's phone number, but as soon as I called the number it says 'this person is not currently accepting calls'. Maybe my number is blocked.
The wife was in the office today and I stopped her and called her out on it, saying that I need to talk with him. She said 'I'm not getting in the middle of this, I'm sure it was nothing bad, I'll let him know and if he wants to talk to you he will'. I told her 'I don't care if he wants to talk to me or not, and I'm not trying to get others involved, but if I can't do this the easy way I will get the authorities involved'.
I'm going to talk to my boss one more time today face to face as a last resort to explain how important it is that I talk with him.
Neither have been very keen on putting me in touch with him, which is a red flag to me.
I need to figure out what happened. This is not a minor issue.
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So, I need some advice on how to proceed if I'm not put in contact with him. I'm giving it until the end of the weekend for contact. If not, further action will be taken.
Who should I contact and which authorities to involve? This is at a bare minimum a sexual harassment case.
I will not let this go.
PS. I'm not worried about my job. It has nothing to do with the situation but if the heat comes, I have a backup plan for work - so this is of no concern to me.
At the end of the night me, her, my boss's wife's brother, his gf, and my boss's wife's uncle (a little creepy) were all in a hotel room.
Me and the brother were talking while our gf's were passed out on the bed behind us, around 3am. We had all been drinking a decent amount, though I don't know about the uncle. He was sitting in a corner chair by himself, not really talking. At one point it looked like he fell asleep.
The last thing I remember when passing out is the 4 of us in a bed together and the uncle on the chair.
My gf woke me up startled 4 hours later (I was still out of it), saying she woke up with his hands on her boobs, and her dress pulled up. I don't know if the dress being pulled up was him or me, because I do remember pulling it up earlier (before passing out). She had a tampon in which was still there, but still, not sure if that matters.
But still ... I remember waking up and the brother and his gf are now sleeping on the floor, and the uncle IS IN BED NEXT TO US, AT LEAST HALF NAKED (sheets were covering his lower half).
In retrospect I should have stayed and got the scoop, but she was adamant about leaving and I was still out of it so I conceded.
Boss's wife assured me that 'she's sure nothing bad happened', but that means jack sh!t in my book. They went off on their honeymoon and I tried to get a hold of them, no luck. Another employee at the company had the uncle's phone number, but as soon as I called the number it says 'this person is not currently accepting calls'. Maybe my number is blocked.
The wife was in the office today and I stopped her and called her out on it, saying that I need to talk with him. She said 'I'm not getting in the middle of this, I'm sure it was nothing bad, I'll let him know and if he wants to talk to you he will'. I told her 'I don't care if he wants to talk to me or not, and I'm not trying to get others involved, but if I can't do this the easy way I will get the authorities involved'.
I'm going to talk to my boss one more time today face to face as a last resort to explain how important it is that I talk with him.
Neither have been very keen on putting me in touch with him, which is a red flag to me.
I need to figure out what happened. This is not a minor issue.
----
So, I need some advice on how to proceed if I'm not put in contact with him. I'm giving it until the end of the weekend for contact. If not, further action will be taken.
Who should I contact and which authorities to involve? This is at a bare minimum a sexual harassment case.
I will not let this go.
PS. I'm not worried about my job. It has nothing to do with the situation but if the heat comes, I have a backup plan for work - so this is of no concern to me.
