Single mommy writes the mother-of-all Red Pill posts about step-daddies

[MatureDJ]

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Woman gives a brutal redpill about stepdads. This is another warning for men who are considering bailing out single moms.

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Step dads are the men that women wouldn't date if they didn't have kids.

 

[eli77]

Damn!!

 

[EyeBRollin]

Step dad is fvckery. You get to pay someone else’s bills and have neither respect nor authority in the household. Men, do not become step dads!!!

 

[soulforge]

Any man worth his salt, got his shyte together, in shape, finances in check.. Most importantly has an ounce of self respect, wouldn't dream of seriously dating a single mom.

I love single moms though, excellent cvm dumpsters lol

 

[Robert28]

Any man worth his salt, got his shyte together, in shape, finances in check.. Most importantly has an ounce of self respect, wouldn't dream of seriously dating a single mom.

I love single moms though, excellent cvm dumpsters lol

Single moms are the hardest for me to game for some reason. I usually strike out of get played with the times I’ve tried to mess with them. A childless woman? I have a 80% close rate. Everytime.

 

[MatureDJ]

Single moms are the hardest for me to game for some reason. I usually strike out of get played with the times I’ve tried to mess with them. A childless woman? I have a 80% close rate. Everytime.

Are you poor?

 

[Robert28]

Are you poor?

lol not at all. I’m actually pretty well off actually.

 

[Robert28]

Do you give off poor vibes?

Or really any vibes that say "IDGAF about your kids, I'm not here to support you financially or emotionally"?

I am cheap but I don’t give off poor vibes. I don’t flaunt my money at all either. I don’t have that attitude about kids either but I definitely don’t offer to support them or anything like that.

 

[SW15]

Step dads are the men that women wouldn't date if they didn't have kids.

This statement seems obvious to me. Women have kids with men among their top mating choices.

The men that women get commitments from after they have kids (either due to a divorce or never marrying the baby daddy) are lower tier men or cucks.

Higher value men won't commit to a single mom. Some might have shorter term sex with a single mom as one woman in a rotation, but that's as close to a higher value man as a single mom will typically get.

I am a childless man who knows my value. I don't commit to single moms and generally avoid interactions with them. There's no shortage of childless women close to my age.

Women born in the 1980s are experiencing childlessness at unprecedent rates in the USA.

1 in 4: Projecting Childlessness Among Today’s Young Women

By now, it’s not news to anyone that America’s fertility rate is falling. But there are different ways fertility can fall. One way is that the average family size can shrink as people shift from having 4 kids to 3, 2 kids to 1, etc. But the other way is by people not forming families at all...

ifstudies.org

Single moms are the hardest for me to game for some reason. I usually strike out of get played with the times I’ve tried to mess with them. A childless woman? I have a 80% close rate. Everytime.

You are a childless man. There's no reason for you to deal with single moms. Does 'close rate' mean sex for you? If so, that's a very good close rate.

Step dad is fvckery. You get to pay someone else’s bills and have neither respect nor authority in the household. Men, do not become step dads!!!

I agree. This is more relevant for childless men.

I have less of a problem with a single dad getting with a single mom, but it is still problematic on one major level. In this type of arrangement longer term, the man ends up spending more time with her bio children than his if they don't have their own kids together.

 

[RangerMIke]

Most women, if they are reasonably good looking, know they can get a man that is nice, reliable, stable, who wants a relationship anytime they need one.

Her baby daddy is what she really wants... want is an emotional decision, need is a rational decision. While when reality hits you in the face does make on more rational, it is not emotionally stimulating... women require emotional stimulation... it can be love, hate, anger confusion, drama... they don't care... stable is boring.

A person NEEDS a car: a person WANTS a BMW. It really doesn't matter if a women has kids or not... she is still a woman. The baby daddy is the BMW, the guy she settles for is the 10 year old used Ford F150. She will use the Ford, and be glad she has it, but she will always want the BMW.

I date single moms... but if you are an emotionally weak man you need to stay away from them... here are some things you should look for.

(1) The baby daddy has to still be around and involved with the kids... if the woman says she was abused and doesn't get along with the father of her children, then run don't walk. She is looking for someone to save her and you are replacing her bad emotional decision. Trust me on this one... sometimes relationships just end, and it really isn't anyone's fault.

(2) She has more than one father of her kids. This goes without saying why this is a problem.

(3) She has kids but was never married.

(4) Her minor kids have signs of emotional or physical problems.

(5) She is a fvcking mess, her car is a wreak, her apartment is a mess, her purse is a mess, her finances are a mess. (well this is true for all women).

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Post-divorce, none of my kittens get stepmom status, nor do I stepdad over other women's children. Your kids are your burden, I have mine.

 

[Plinco]

The only way I've seen that situation make sense is if both have had kids and share in the responsibilities. Otherwise I agree with @Money & Muscle

 

[Gamisch]

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Just as clear as when a woman wears tons of makeup and a hotpants in tbewinter that she "might be promiscuous ".

Even with all the mental gymnastics in the world you WILL NOT convince a experienced dude otherwise. Hence the word "experience ". Because if you get around you will encounter a single mother sooner or later. Especially when you are older than 25.

We gotta be grateful to be alive today. The internet is full of women who are yapping their mouths without having a filter. Ask the next 10 single mothers this and they'll all deny. Pooor ger two glasses of whiskey she'll yapp the same shyte.

It real easy: you shouldn't date a single mother UNLESS it fits your lifestyle aka you are a single dad.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's on for SingleDadCells.

 

[MatureDJ]

The only way I've seen that situation make sense is if both have had kids and share in the responsibilities. Otherwise I agree with @Money & Muscle

So you support the Brady Bunch meme?

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

The step dad is the male version of the pretty girl that spends her youth as a married man secret lover only for him to drop her and stick to his wife and family while leaving her no kids or money.

 

[TheGrindEqualsHappiness]

The only way I've seen that situation make sense is if both have had kids and share in the responsibilities.

I would not recommend this for weak frame / no game man even as blended families are pretty common.

Do you guys think that she would ever put same amount of effort and thought taking care of your biological kids as taking care of your own?

Her biological imperative says no.

You are expected to provide for her kids the same anyway.

Worst case is weak spineless beta who's own biological kids are the third class citizens of the blended family.

 

[Plinco]

I would not recommend this for weak frame / no game man even as blended families are pretty common.

Do you guys think that she would ever put same amount of effort and thought taking care of your biological kids as taking care of your own?

Her biological imperative says no.

You are expected to provide for her kids the same anyway.

Worst case is weak spineless beta who's own biological kids are the third class citizens of the blended family.

I agree. In fact if you are a weak minded man you should have no business with women at all.