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Believe it or not, I feel empathy.

They will adapt to the **** hole environment but are after a high risk of falling prey to that **** circumstances.


I would rather fap then date single moms,plummeted SMV or cratered SMV.

The pursuit is top form or gtfo
The single mom I was having fun with became Tarzan and got with someone that accepted her and her child right from the start lol
 

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I say no to single moms for many reasons.

1)I've been that kid, its not nice when your mom takes an other men at home especially when he wants to be "the man" and spare me the bullsh1t about being lucky to have a second dad
there are no second dad for the simple fact that blood is not water and no matter how cool the guy is, he is still an alien to the kid.

2)They take stupid decisions and I dont need people who take stupid decisions be able to influence my life, wheter the guy was an abusive assh0le or she was a cvnt, its still her to be a cvnt for going with a man only cause her gina tingled at some point.

3)Playing family is not something I consider attractive in my life, playing family with a woman whos been knocked down from an other man and a kid that is not mine...even less.

4)I'm not a commodity nor an utility, single moms may consider otherwise even more than other women.

5)Unlike the wise guys we can read in this board who spins a couple of 9s a day, I know that I'm not the most intelligent man in the world so there is a good chance that a natural manipulator putting 100% effort could somehow bullsh1t me, all of this is a world that sides with women and even more with women and kids.

6)I hate noise and stupid questions, with a woman and a kid around you basically double the dose of both.
 

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The single mom I was having fun with became Tarzan and got with someone that accepted her and her child right from the start lol
Its scary times we live in. For starters, any such discussion that even questions the feminine imperative is met with screams of sexist or misogyny.

Not an argument.

The problem being, you get doxed, and have your life ruined thereafter. Why? Speaking your truth. Its why Peterson resonates for do many men (even if you don't always agree with him). The fact, he speaks his piece is admirable in the current culture war and victimhood epidemic.


I've pointed to the reality,that being, women have a shorter shelf life then men. SMV , aesthetics, and fertility craters at an alarming rate. Hollywood panders to victimhood and #metoo which usually occurs when the wall hits, SMV is shot, and now we need to a scapegoat. Demonize man for treating women like sex object's when she acts and dresses the part. Classic female logic.

Its acquire based upon your sex appeal and then cry wolf when its gone. Its diva behavior when on top form. Its bulking season, baby rabies, divorce, and **** carousel thereafter. The writing is on the wall.

Promo for Sloot gonna Sloot and proud single mom is social engineering the mitigation of declining SMV. Cucks buy it hook,line, and sinker. Imagine if the parade of free resources cratered? If the government and welfare state failed. If the hqnr outs stopped coming? Women would adapt or they would be weeded out if the gene pool with their bastard offsprings and incels.

I've grappled with the culture war and how might one proceed.

The reality is as it is. Acknowledge female nature as it is. Not how you wish it were. Act accordingly.

You can drive a mini van or soccer mom vehicle with her bastard children and a woman who is bulking, not hitting the gym, may divorce you,and is cutting youniff from sex.

Alternatively, you can evolve. You can seek self knowledge, explore consciousness. You can be about your purpose and lifestyle be st your edge. Pursue women. Go get baee but,know all paths end at the same point.

Female hypergamy and victimhood have no bounds.

I will choose driving a Zr1 vette over playing house and white picket fence with cratered SMV any day.

There is no end in sight to game. No common law living. No marriage. No single moms. Top form SMV. Or gtfo.

I would rather live a life of debauchery, red light district, sugar babies, etc then the delusion of white picket fence, white dresses despite cratered SMV.

Again, monogamy is not real life. Its fallback plan for when the milks gone bad.

If you are to pursue it, the mark being youth, top form SMV 18-23 or gtfo.

She checks out with you exchanging her best years not her worst.

You can always walk. Its my life. I am not a utility nor a ATM for the biological female strategy once chad stops falling.
 

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I wouldn't ever get involved with a single mom I've had lots of them flirt with me I know they are after a relationship, it doesn't matter how attractive they are they have baggage. A guy I know he ended up being a single dad the chick he was with was nuts and offed herself. He got himself involved with a woman that has two kids, 6 months in the relationship she convinces him they need to have a child of their own. Her ex husband is a fvcking idiot he's not paying child support he's pretty much just a ****, she's got family issue, she's packing baggage.

I look at the mess he's in and think fvck why in the hell would a guy ever get himself involved with that, he's stressed to the max now he's got 5 mouths to feed, in a house with a big mortgage. She knew what she was doing she latched onto him, knew he makes good money, she was struggling to make ends meet, her ex is a moron, he's quite a bit older than her. When I first met her I could tell she has issues, just sensed it, later on her past starts coming out, bingo I was right. She's latched onto my friend has him on the hook for the next 18 years. She's attractive but she would be a pump and dump, a woman with possible mental health issues as well her family life isn't great she doesn't have a good relationship with her mother, father is non existent and she doesn't speak to her siblings. The tell tale sign she's got issues is she was married to a guy that was clearly he's good enough because she's attractive, him...… not so much. She's a real control freak she loves control, when I first met her it was like she met her match I gave her direct eye contact she knew right then and there I'm no beta p*ssy.
 

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Imagine if the parade of free resources cratered? If the government and welfare state failed.
I believe that it will, and before too long. Once again the world envelopes itself in a socialistic model, unsustainable of course. Debt mounts, currency loses value (don't believe the official inflation stats from .gov), and we face an inevitable monetary crisis, and potentially a hyper inflation.

Women will lose a tremendous amount of power in the process. Power will flow to those that produce value
 

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And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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If she picked a loser, that's her poor lifestyle choice.

If he left, again, her children are without a father due to her poor lifestyle choices.
She made a bad choice, bad choices happen. Some people learn though, condemning them forever for a bad choice is too harsh.

I absolutely do not agree that men are without responsibility in such situations. You need both to make a baby. From the point of view of a child it doesn't give a fvck who's the gatekeeper of sex, both parents were idiots.

Calling me things like cuck is not constructive for the discussion. I ask that you refrain from such childish forms of arguments, next time I'll report you.
 

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I believe that it will, and before too long. Once again the world envelopes itself in a socialistic model, unsustainable of course. Debt mounts, currency loses value (don't believe the official inflation stats from .gov), and we face an inevitable monetary crisis, and potentially a hyper inflation.

Women will lose a tremendous amount of power in the process. Power will flow to those that produce value
If it did, if we hit great depression like scenario, single moms and their bastard children would starve. They would be weeded out of the gene pool with incels.

Women would then adapt.

On comes the good girl shtick to rope in cucks. The only problem being, seeing female nature. There's no going back.
 

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terrible situations for the guys that take in single moms and get married with them.

I was messing around with a single mom that was engaged and I asked why she chose to look after more adventure and her answer surprised me. Her reply was, "My future husband is a great guy, responsible, kind and gentle but he doesn't please me in bed, so I had to look for a guy that fills that aspect". Her answer just confirmed that women in these situations are looking for providers, but they are rarely happy because they don't make their ginas tickle. What do you guys think?
 
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I was a single mom, by that I mean there was a point in my life where I was both single and a mother.

As a single mom I had my own home, good job with a good income when I met my second husband who I took in actually because he moved in with me lol. He makes more money then me but I didn't come to table as an uneducated low career mom looking for a provider/ father for my child. Dad is still actively involved and everyone gets along. I pay for all of my child's expenses (clothes, summer camp etc), not my husband. Bills 50/50. Dates and other outings we take turns paying, separate bank accounts, even separate health benefits with our respective jobs.

I'm not stating this to imply that I'm some super person lol, lord knows I mess up, but I feel like a broken record everytime there's a thread on this. As someone who was a single mom, knows other single moms and has family members who have dated single moms, NOT ALL SINGLE MOMS ARE THE SAME. For sure some are looking for a provider but some are not.

That said, it's a different situation dating one so totally understand why some guys choose not to.

But the thrashing all of them is uncalled for. If you don't want to date single moms fine, but that doesn't mean that they are all garbage like Bigdave with the new hair plugs stated ;)
 

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I was a single mom, by that I mean there was a point in my life where I was both single and a mother.

As a single mom I had my own home, good job with a good income when I met my second husband who I took in actually because he moved in with me lol. He makes more money then me but I didn't come to table as an uneducated low career mom looking for a provider/ father for my child. Dad is still actively involved and everyone gets along. I pay for all of my child's expenses (clothes, summer camp etc), not my husband. Bills 50/50. Dates and other outings we take turns paying, separate bank accounts, even separate health benefits with our respective jobs.

I'm not stating this to imply that I'm some super person lol, lord knows I mess up, but I feel like a broken record everytime there's a thread on this. As someone who was a single mom, knows other single moms and has family members who have dated single moms, NOT ALL SINGLE MOMS ARE THE SAME. For sure some are looking for a provider but some are not.

That said, it's a different situation dating one so totally understand why some guys choose not to.

But the thrashing all of them is uncalled for. If you don't want to date single moms fine, but that doesn't mean that they are all garbage like Bigdave with the new hair plugs stated ;)
I don't fit thiscontrived single mom cut out either.

However, It's totally useless to post stuff like this, stuff that counters the "single moms are trash" rhetoric. I'm convinced that the spouted single mom ideology on this site has everything to do with the pool they have available to pull from. A selection pool containing low quality single mom women produces this rant over and over again.

That, or this rant serves as an ego excuse as to why even single moms don't pay attention to them.

Whichever it is, just let them have it. They're only hurting themselves by narrowing available females.
 

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I was a single mom, by that I mean there was a point in my life where I was both single and a mother.

As a single mom I had my own home, good job with a good income when I met my second husband who I took in actually because he moved in with me lol. He makes more money then me but I didn't come to table as an uneducated low career mom looking for a provider/ father for my child. Dad is still actively involved and everyone gets along. I pay for all of my child's expenses (clothes, summer camp etc), not my husband. Bills 50/50. Dates and other outings we take turns paying, separate bank accounts, even separate health benefits with our respective jobs.

I'm not stating this to imply that I'm some super person lol, lord knows I mess up, but I feel like a broken record everytime there's a thread on this. As someone who was a single mom, knows other single moms and has family members who have dated single moms, NOT ALL SINGLE MOMS ARE THE SAME. For sure some are looking for a provider but some are not.

That said, it's a different situation dating one so totally understand why some guys choose not to.

But the thrashing all of them is uncalled for. If you don't want to date single moms fine, but that doesn't mean that they are all garbage like Bigdave with the new hair plugs stated ;)

Its not an argument.

For all the screams of misogyny, sexist, demonization of man follower by the promo of girl power, anti slut and fat shame but,

Brb guys,beta male shaming

Brb guys, toxic masculinity

Its the same argument as, NAWALT. Its as though one person is what in said predicament doesn't play into the **** show so, it disputes the predicament. Nah.


Good for for not being a piece of ****. Surely, no ****in way you recommend your son date a single mom.
 

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I don't fit thiscontrived single mom cut out either.

However, It's totally useless to post stuff like this, stuff that counters the "single moms are trash" rhetoric. I'm convinced that the spouted single mom ideology on this site has everything to do with the pool they have available to pull from. A selection pool containing low quality single mom women produces this rant over and over again.

That, or this rant serves as an ego excuse as to why even single moms don't pay attention to them.

Whichever it is, just let them have it. They're only hurting themselves by narrowing available females.
Again, not an argument.

A widow is not the same as a single mom.


Children need resources.

I can allocate my resources to raise Chad's baby with a woman who on all likelihood was w space cadet during top form SMV.

That or I can go get baee. New girls turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

Why would a man with options pursue cratered SMV?


The promo of proud single mom is mitigation of plummeted SMV. Having another mans child doesn't increase market value regardless of the girl power nonsense.


If anything, girl power and a lack of responsible is what brought about single moms in the first place.

Big ups for not being a piece of **** but this is baseline.

For all the jargon about independence, 99% of the welfare state is single moms extracting resources.

Saying I take care of my biz or child is like saying I want an applause after wiping my ass for cleaning up my ****.

You wut mate?
 

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Again, not an argument.

A widow is not the same as a single mom.


Children need resources.

I can allocate my resources to raise Chad's baby with a woman who on all likelihood was w space cadet during top form SMV.

That or I can go get baee. New girls turning 18/19/20/21 everyday.

Why would a man with options pursue cratered SMV?


The promo of proud single mom is mitigation of plummeted SMV. Having another mans child doesn't increase market value regardless of the girl power nonsense.


If anything, girl power and a lack of responsible is what brought about single moms in the first place.

Big ups for not being a piece of **** but this is baseline.

For all the jargon about independence, 99% of the welfare state is single moms extracting resources.

Saying I take care of my biz or child is like saying I want an applause after wiping my ass for cleaning up my ****.

You wut mate?
Blah blah blah, you like to hear yourself talk, don't you?

The promo, the ego validation, "save my fragile little ego!" of the boo hoo guys who can't ever find a good woman is the claim that there exists ONLY a single mother cesspool and, therefore, the pickings are "even slimmer" That's the dudes excuse for cratered SMV.

Your single mother choices are low quality? You are choosing to hang in a leech field. It's as simple as changing your venue.
 
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Its not an argument.

For all the screams of misogyny, sexist, demonization of man follower by the promo of girl power, anti slut and fat shame but,

Brb guys,beta male shaming

Brb guys, toxic masculinity

Its the same argument as, NAWALT. Its as though one person is what in said predicament doesn't play into the **** show so, it disputes the predicament. Nah.


Good for for not being a piece of ****. Surely, no ****in way you recommend your son date a single mom.
I feel like I need to cut and paste your reply into Google Translate but I'm not sure what language I would be translating from so I'm not going to bother.

Cheers
 

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terrible situations for the guys that take in single moms and get married with them.
Its apparent that children cost resources. That a single mom is a liability to ones resources. Its obvious where this lies in the +/- dept contrary to "the proud single mom" jargon pedaled in society.

Married or not, common law living puts you on the hook pending your state. Despite DNA proof, there's a series of court ordered child support for Chad's children.

DNA proves man is not child's father, mother must pay back nearly $13k

https://www.news.com.au/national/ex...t/news-story/2e80b4c44880fb7a369c93b7b10ad442
Jakes on the man who chooses to be a cuck.

I was messing around with a single mom that was engaged and I asked why she chose to look after more adventure and her answer surprised me. Her reply was, "My future husband is a great guy, responsible, kind and gentle but he doesn't please me in bed, so I had to look for a guy that fills that aspect". Her answer just confirmed that women in these situations are looking for providers, but they are rarely happy because they don't make their ginas tickle. What do you guys think?
Its female nature.

Man due to girl power, society, beta male shaming, social engineering, etc are usually blue pill at puberty.

Years of DJing/pua/pickup/cold approach, men begins to see female nature as it is, not how they wish it was. Man is divorced, cucked, ruined in divorce and family court, child custody. He becomes mgtow or red pilled.

You got the Chad's, the 1%er, playboy, player who goes and gets baee. He won the genetic lottery. Its not because of game or being smooth. Its attraction. He mistakes the attraction for being pimp and is crushed years later when reality sets in. That being, he is a cog playing to the female biological strategy disguised by playboy lifestyle. He's a victim of circumstances. Its the pareto distribution, 80:20. That 20% that gets all the women.

Bets male provider acquires women Chad's booty call or single moms. Years of pickup and djing yield cratered SMV and or plummeted SMV. Women nearing the wall who are reformed sluts.

You got then the FAers (forever alone) , TFL (true forced lonelier), incels, monk mode mgtow who take the black pill. Are removed from the gene pool by default. Don't have any choice. Are mocked by society.

If only they would do something productive with that loneliness.
 

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Blah blah blah, you like to hear yourself talk, don't you?

The promo, the ego validation, "save my fragile little ego!" of the boo hoo guys who can't ever find a good woman is the claim that there exists ONLY a single mother cesspool and, therefore, the pickings are "even slimmer" That's the dudes excuse for cratered SMV.

Your single mother choices are low quality? You are choosing to hang in a leech field. It's as simple as changing your venue.
Your SMV cratered years ago.

The last throater I got was on the earlier not later side of twenty.

Your being offended is an accurate portrayal of your lack of srlf ownership.


How does it feel to have ruined your child's life?

You mad?
 

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the biggest thing for me is taking care of someone else's child. How can I call it my own, when my sperm didn't lay the egg? Its not normal.
 

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I feel like I need to cut and paste your reply into Google Translate but I'm not sure what language I would be translating from so I'm not going to bother.

Cheers
Again, a single mom with the inability to take ownership of her ****ty choices in men.

Don't need a man until,whoops now you do.


I am curious if and when single moms will ever acknowledge their having ruined their child's life?
 

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the biggest thing for me is taking care of someone else's child. How can I call it my own, when my sperm didn't lay the egg? Its not normal.
 
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