LiveFreeX
Banned
BULLSH!T.There is absolutely zero benefit to getting married. You can enjoy all the benefits of a healthy relationship and family without taking such a needless risk. Remember that gents.
My friend got married recently to a multi-millionaire. When they first started dating, she bought him an Ipad, clothes, gifts, took him to restaurants and paid his rent. After they were married she bought him a $50,000 car and a $700,000 house in Vancouver. He doesn't really know what he wants to do anymore so she gave him a huge amount of money to go back to school with to cure his boredom. He spends at least $1000 USD per month buying magic cards (an allowance) and managed to start his business with all the contacts she has in a certain political party (which shall not be named). When we get together for game nights, he stays in the most expensive hotel in this tier 1 city and we play in the 'club' areas where you have access to fine dining 'buffets', unlimited alcohol and wine on the patio overlooking the city. He went from making a couple thousand dollars to making nearly $15k/month with less than 40 hours a week. He lives rent free in her APARTMENT BUILDING in Shenzhen, their family holds an entire floor of the building for themselves and she gave him a room to build his classroom. He obtained a work visa through her father and thus never has to work again. She bought him the business license with help from her friends in some high up positions.
Do you know what my friend's prior job was before coming here? He worked in Burger King for $10/hr.
So you are saying there must be a catch right? My friend has NO game, he's often fat and not handsome by any stretch of the imagination... well yes there is. She is 2 years older than he is and wants a baby. He's 30, she's 32 (In China she is 'too old' to get married to a local). So please, tell me again how there is no possible benefit to marriage? My friend got married and went from pauper to millionaire in the span of 24 hours.
To top it off, her company sends her outbound 90% of the month to different countries, he might see her for a couple hours a week to fvk. He used to be addicted to prostitutes before he met her. So unlimited cash, flights all over the world, free rent and fvked weekly...
Have you considered that your location and attitude might be contributing heavily to your outlook on marriage?