Simplicity

[guru1000]

When approaching women, when managing women, and all other interactions with women ALONG WITH business associates, colleagues, clients, potential clients, bankers, potential financiers, etc........I do not display a negative, low energy, hard to work with, hard to get along, attitude. My attitude is professional, upbeat, energetic, class clownish, and welcoming.

This forum, as I've also told you before, has been used as my Personal Rant Blog. A Personal Diary. A Personal Therapist. I come here and let loose, rant, bytch, complain, moan, scream, yell, or whatever. I thought this was an outlet for GROWN MEN to be able to do that, apparently it's not.

Excuse me Sir, but I wasn't aware that coming on Sosuave and RANTING about various things.........defined my character and personal attitude when interacting with people in real life? You can't possibly be making this argument? You have to know deep down that argument makes no sense.

How can I have succeeded in life Guru, in my industry, with that type of attitude? Hell, how would I have even acquired the 200 plus women over the last 7 years with that attitude? Hell, how would I have lost the pounds and seen my 6 pack with that attitude?? Come on dude.......

Great, so we agree that attitude is very important in interacting with people, correct?

Consider this picture again:

https://www.google.com/search?biw=1.....0.0.0....0.ktKc9D0Kodc#imgrc=UOC9YJXvNfZMmM:

Despite her seemly poor facial expression or shall we say attitude, this woman will have:

1) Many men approaching her;
2) Many men trying to fvck her;
3) Some men trying to LTR her;
4) Some men trying to marry her.

So to this woman, she already has many options available to her, so awareness may never have been brought to her that she should correct the sour look on her face because in her everyday interactions with people, people are already showing her that she is a success as she is.

Similarly, you state that you have "succeeded in your industry," "acquired 200 women over 7 years, " and have a "six pack" (I'm not sure of the correlation between 6-pack and attitude). The women above probably thinks she's quite successful too.

Now ...

If you have everything that you desire and had a good attitude in the forum, then I would state that the probability of your having a good attitude IRL is likely...

However,

1) You don't have the type of woman you want (although you had admitted meeting such a handful of times) .... Whom is an attractive girl with good finances and no attitude among other criteria;

2) Yes, this forum is a reflection of your thoughts. However, your thoughts are quite extreme, in some cases deleterious, and in a few cases dangerous. Do you think there is any correlation between one's intermittent thoughts and the subconscious mind? Do you think that these intermittent thoughts could possibly impact your sub-communications with women every now and then, and although infrequent, could have an impact to drive these women you deem quality away (as you have admitted this had occurred in the past)?

Does any of this make sense to you or will you hold on to your steadfast conviction that Tenacity need not work on anything else relating to attitude and inner junk as he is perfect?

 

[BeExcellent]

A profound post @stringpuller

 

[guru1000]

Try this. Next time your standing somewhere not doing much. Try dropping all your mental commentary if you can. Observe your surroundings in as much detail as possible.

Just be there 100% and even try to feel your feet and the ground you stand on. Feel the weight of gravity, your inward breath, just be there and not somewhere in your mind. Tell me if your memory of that for days is not very strong.

YES but the majical part is not the linear time but the DEPTH. Theres no end to it because the now has no beginning and no end. Unless you can somehow explain that one. Lol

Not too many have experienced this, especially those who have never meditated or have had extreme clarity and stillness of thought.

I'm convinced that this "state" that you describe is pure consciousness, outside of corporeality, and thus operates entirely outside of the mind (which is linear) and ego. It's also in this state, where you can render the most profound choices which can be applied everywhere within the corporeality.

 

[Tenacity]

Great, so we agree that attitude is very important in interacting with people, correct?

It's a factor in how people can perceive you....YES. But everybody's perceptions are not the same. Some have been ripped off by shiny suit wearing, big smile having, snake oil salesmen.....but have been provided the best service by the guy in a company polo shirt, jeans, and with a "Al Gore" personality.

Despite her seemly poor facial expression or shall we say attitude, this woman will have:

1) Many men approaching her;
2) Many men trying to fvck her;
3) Some men trying to LTR her;
4) Some men trying to marry her.

So to this woman, she already has many options available to her, so awareness may never have been brought to her that she should correct the sour look on her face because in her everyday interactions with people, people are already showing her that she is a success as she is.

Yes. I can also give you countless examples of MEN who have a pissed off look on their face from Donald Trump, to James Bond, to Mel Gibson, to Simon Cowell, to Stone Cold Steve Austin, to Kanye West, to Jason Statham, to Van Diesel, to Chris Pratt, to countless of other men.......and who are MASSIVELY successful.

Similarly, you state that you have "succeeded in your industry," "acquired 200 women over 7 years, " and have a "six pack" (I'm not sure of the correlation between 6-pack and attitude). The women above probably thinks she's quite successful too.

Lol, see this is why I have a very hard time discussing stuff with you. Just because you have a personal issue with me, does NOT mean we start re-defining what a "success" or a "win" is. You know damn well if @BeTheChange (the black guy that kisses your a.ss) got up here and showed his 6 pack, you would be calling that a success. If he got up here and displayed his net worth from busting his a.ss, you would be calling that a success. But Tenacity (the black guy that doesn't kiss your a.ss and puts you in your place) can't do anything right.

And to address the correlation, you already know damn well working out and eating right is directly correlated with having a particular "mindset" in order to START a program and STAY on a program. Now you already know this. So I'm going to just pretend you didn't say this dumb shyt and we can go onto the next point..............

If you have everything that you desire and had a good attitude in the forum, then I would state that the probability of your having a good attitude IRL is likely...

I don't believe I have a BAD ATTITUDE on this forum. The bulk of my content is telling guys to:

- Workout and eat right
- Fix their finances, career, and credit
- Fix their social skills and personality
- Play the numbers game with women and take advantage of the BOOMING STR Market

1) You don't have the type of woman you want (although you had admitted meeting such a handful of times) .... Whom is an attractive girl with good finances and no attitude among other criteria;

I have never met a woman that fit everything I was looking for in relation to an LTR. I tell you this over and over, yet, you keep beating this dead horse.

Do you think there is any correlation between one's intermittent thoughts and the subconscious mind? Do you think that these intermittent thoughts could possibly impact your sub-communications with women every now and then, and although infrequent, could have an impact to drive these women you deem quality away (as you have admitted this had occurred in the past)?

No, that's the Law of Attraction, I don't believe in that. It's cartoonish crap sold by the billion dollar self help industry to gullible people who can't critically think their way into success.

Does any of this make sense to you or will you hold on to your steadfast conviction that Tenacity need not work on anything else relating to attitude and inner junk as he is perfect?

Tenacity isn't, will never be, and can never be perfect. I'm just a MAN like everybody else with strengths, flaws, weaknesses, challenges, victories, good days, bad days, good moods, bad moods, etc.

But hey.....Guru....come here. *Pulls up a chair*.....sit down for a minute.........

It's time to cut the crap. Okay?

Your intention isn't to "fix" Tenacity.....you can't stand Tenacity. Why? Well, because for one, you see Tenacity as BELOW YOU. You see, Tenacity as nothing more (to you) than a black, ghetto, monkey as you would call it, from a single black mother. And this black ghetto monkey has managed to (multiple times) cause the upper class, WHITE, trust-fund baby Guru:

- To lose his cool
- To go into racist rants
- To threaten lawsuits
- To threaten to leave the forum

You want to talk about positive attitudes, but who was it a year and a half ago who snapped in my PM? Who snapped, went into a variety of racist rants, declared they were going to sue me, and continued to SPAM PM me back to back with cartoonish bullshyt?

- That was YOU, Mr. Positivity.

- That was YOU, Mr. Subconscious Mind.

- That was YOU, Mr. Expand Your Paradigm.

Guru.....*Guru tries to leave the chair*......no, no, one more thing.....

Instead of trying to act like "TENACITY" is a wreck......let's admit that it's YOU THAT NEEDS THE MOST WORK. Why do I say that? Well:

- You sell $20,000 - $40,000 snake-oil consulting programs to Sosuave members in PM. How you sleep at night promoting that stuff is beyond me.

- You mentioned many times that you make your money through smooth-talking business owners into giving you a portion of their equity for doing pretty much nothing at all.

- You mentioned that you've been to prison for stock fraud.

- You have an issue with the black community as you see black men as MONKEYS.

Stop trying to "fix" me.......and fix yourself Sir.

 

[Tenacity]

Common Tenacity i can see the venting thing but to say somehow your words and beliefs you express on here dont manifesr in your non internet life?

Sir, once again, the BULK of my content on here is the following:

- Helping guys workout and eat right
- Helping guys fix their finances, career, and credit
- Helping guys fix their social skills and personality
- Helping guys play the numbers game with women and take advantage of the BOOMING STR Market

Just use the Search tool if you think I'm lying.

And to answer your question, NO, I don't think what a guy rants about in his personal blog, diary, or to a therapist VIBRATES into the universe and (as the Law of Attraction says) brings into his life. That's some cartoon network stuff.

It's like saying if you rant about the mailman always being late, that YOU are the reason he's late, because you ranting about him being late is vibrating in the universe and causing situations to happen that make him late.

Just saying but the whole reason i got on this thread was to defend the truth that @BeExcellent started that i thought was under attack. Now i dont think its wise to take much dating advice from women as a whole because of their wiring and biology however that doesnt mean their dont exist wise women out there.

Sir, the woman said nothing that was true. Everything she said was straight out of the Law Of Attraction/Cartoon Network/The Flintstones/Mickey Mouse/Boo Boo Bear playbook.

Seriously, what did she say that could be actually measured and tracked through scientific research? The Law Of Attraction is NOT scientific research. It's not primary market analysis nor secondary market analysis. It's not respected by any major Scientist, Professor, etc.

The people who support the Law Of Attraction are Prosperity Gospel Pulpit Pimping Pastors like Joel Osteen, celebrities and speakers like Oprah who want you to buy their books, and cartoon stars like Bambi, Mickey Mouse, and the almighty Scooby Dooby Doo.

Post any major Scientist, Researcher, or Professor that can back up the claims of the Law Of Attraction....and I'll shut up and listen.

 

[guru1000]

Stringpuller, this is what we call around here one of Tenacity’s intermittent episodes. At least there is no suggested murder this time.

Tenacity, you’re right. I don’t know where I could have gotten the idea that you have a bad attitude.

 

[Tenacity]

I mentioned the sience of it already. So did Guru. Your so consumed with thought your to busy thinking about what your next post sais rather then trying to listen. Or making an effort.
Go ahead an analyze the fck out of evetything and lets see where that gets you.
You are decieving yourself and im not going to debate this anymore. Youll eventually findout for yourself and that is true. Whether or not you want to recognize the present moment in your life doesnt matter to me because you SIR cannot escape it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/consciousness-affects-matter-and-thus-reality.244708/

There's no proof whatsoever in these videos that the Law of Attraction's theory is accurate with any Scientist, Researcher, or Professor detailing. All the videos are is more speculation.

Btw i didnt know you were black bud until i just read your reply to guru so as to see your ego pull this race stuff in here is not suprising. Seperation is a strong ego defense.

Guru puts the race shyt in here. He's been calling me racist shyt for years. YOU are just new to the conversation "bud".

 

[Tenacity]

Stringpuller, this is what we call around here one of Tenacity’s intermittent episodes. At least there is no suggested murder this time.

Tenacity, you’re right. I don’t know where I could have gotten the idea that you have a bad attitude.

Lol @ this disingenuous response. You are going back on Ignore. You go your way, I go my way. There is nothing else we need to further discuss.

 

[Cigar]

Since when has "simplicity" become such a long drawn out chore for those who talk about simplicity to describe? Guess it's not so simple for them after all.

 

[exhausted]

The present is more often than not consumed with feelings of longing or boredom.

You can overcome these feelings, but only during brief moments of pleasure, by making a conscious effort not to think about anything at all, or by focusing on some task at hand. The common factor in these things is we aren't thinking about life.

It's ironic.

Yep.

I'm bored to death.
Up early and cleaned house.
Hit the gym for 70 mins.
2 loads laundry done.
Made dinner.
Walked dog.
Second workout on bags.
Researched cars for my sister for 90 mins.
Watched the football game.
630 pm bored to death.

It is without a doubt humans are programmed to have families wives and kids by mid 30s.
I'm 39 and literally bored out of my mind.

What i would do to have a wife 3 kids, big family dinners and holidays.
Instead nothing.

 

[Urbanyst]

Since when has "simplicity" become such a long drawn out chore for those who talk about simplicity to describe? Guess it's not so simple for them after all.

@BeExcellent likes to write long complex essays to describe very simple concepts.

I really don't know why.

 

[devilkingx2]

Hmmm...weren't most men raised by a woman who taught them how to be a man before they became one?

your mother taught you how to fist fight, stand up for yourself, hunt, spear fish, play sports, etc.?