Yes. I’ll concede and we can agree that correlation does not guarantee causation.
I was merely pointing out a personal observation, not necessarily making a statement of fact.
So let's look at some more details in relation to this discussion.......
#1.) The Notion You Can Make Life SIMPLE
I get it, but also take a look at this thread title........it's called, "SIMPLICITY".
The self development industry is an over $10 billion a year industry, you know why? Because people want to
"buy the notion that they have 100% control over their lives". It's the ULTIMATE motivational speech, the ULTIMATE inspiration of hope, the ULTIMATE foundation to positive thinking.
It makes life "SIMPLE". Basically, with this notion, success in life becomes just a SIMPLE (not easy, but simple) act of just controlling the way you think, controlling what you do, controlling the choices you make, controlling the majors you major in, controlling the people you hang around, etc. Do that and you are OFF to the races, all around success in finance, health, relationships, family, love, community, etc.
So people will buy books, buy webinars, go to church on Sunday and give donations........ALL for someone to give them this "notion" which now takes this life that we are all living and makes it SIMPLE.
However, unfortunately, the reality is that life will never be as SIMPLE. Life isn't black, life isn't white, life is very much gray. Life is not a stand-still. What you know works
today, will likely be
outdated tomorrow.
#2.) My Message: KEEP STRIVING
So what's Tenacity's uplifting and "motivational" message? Well, my message is simply to have TENACITY. Having "tenacity" is just an act of continuing to go through the ups, downs, changes, challenges, issues, pluses, minuses, awards, setbacks, victories, defeats, new births, new deaths, new jobs, job terminations, new deals, lost deals, new businesses, bankrupt businesses, etc., etc.....of life and not losing your internal "drive" to continue "striving" for something better.
That's all we can do is strive for something better. We cannot alone make our lives better. We cannot alone make our relationships with women better. We cannot alone make our job situations better.
We do not operate in a Vacuum and there's NEVER (absolutely never) any time in your life where you will be the only
common denominator in anything. For example, say you had 10 relationships and they all failed? Folks will say you were the only "common denominator" so thus, it's all your fault? Well, you were not the only common denominator, present in all 10 failed relationships were:
- The 10 individual women you were with, with their own individual flaws, potential mental disorders, insecurities, kids from thugs, bad finances, weight issues, family issues, etc., etc.
- A new age dating market where the 10 women you were with are/were/will be in the future, getting hit up in their Facebook inbox with 10 guys in there trying to fvck them....along with guys at their church, gym, school, etc., trying to fvck them....meaning the women know they can REPLACE you at any time