Signs of that a woman is a Playerette

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by Pook

As for the forum, What is occuring now seems to be people talking to each other instead of talking about the subject.

"OMG I hate Yggrasilx!!111"
"Punk! Moderators, ban him!"
"Non! Moderators, ban HIM!"

Instead of a focus on information, it has shifted into a focus on personality. You didn't come to this site to do verbal duels, you came to share and gain information!

1) Focus on the information, ignore the personalities.

2) Don't try to become the smartest person in the room. No one cares.

5) When you post, try actually saying something that gives information or requests information.

It seems that Wyldfire prefers to spend her time in verbal duels instead of helping the forum. If you're 20, 40 or 90 years old, NO ONE CARES!

This thread has gone completely useless with those stupid verbal fights that have nothing to do with the current subject matter.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
It seems that Wyldfire prefers to spend her time in verbal duels instead of helping the forum. If you're 20, 40 or 90 years old, NO ONE CARES!

This thread has gone completely useless with those stupid verbal fights that have nothing to do with the current subject matter.

Quick question...

Why aren't you pointing your little finger at Fatality and quest, too?

It takes more than one person to "duel", so why are you only biotching about my part in it? If you aren't going to make the same complaint about EVERYONE taking part in it then you have no business complaining at all.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You're wrong. I could easily play you like a fiddle if I wanted to. Even the most talented and experienced "Player" can be brought to their knees by someone. Being confident is good, being over confident to the point where you think you are invincible is foolish.

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Quick question...

Why aren't you pointing your little finger at Fatality and quest, too?

It takes more than one person to "duel", so why are you only biotching about my part in it? If you aren't going to make the same complaint about EVERYONE taking part in it then you have no business complaining at all.

you're older, you're a more senior member on the board. now these things don't mean anything. but generally, there should have been enough maturity to have not posted your first post. then i wouldn't have defended myself.

i'm a 21 year old male, hormones are raging, i'm not going to backdown when i'm right.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

there is acutally a site dedicatead to seducing men for women.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by quest
you're older, you're a more senior member on the board. now these things don't mean anything. but generally, there should have been enough maturity to have not posted your first post. then i wouldn't have defended myself.

i'm a 21 year old male, hormones are raging, i'm not going to backdown when i'm right.

There wasn't anything wrong with my first post. I was telling you that you were making a mistake in thinking that you are invincible. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and you mistook that for something other than it was. The other guy just came on intentionally starting crap. At least we were on topic, even if it turned into a silly p*ssing match. Fatality was just purposely trying to be a d*ck.

He didn't single me out because I'm a "senior member". I believe Fatality has been here for quite some time too. He singled me out because I am the "chick" and to him, that makes it automatically "all my fault". This same attitude is repeated over and over again on here. Most of the time I am not even sarcastic as I was with you.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
there is acutally a site dedicatead to seducing men for women.

I have no interest in seducing anyone. It's the man's job to pursue the woman anyway and I'm not interested in finding a man, thanks.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
There wasn't anything wrong with my first post. I was telling you that you were making a mistake in thinking that you are invincible. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and you mistook that for something other than it was. The other guy just came on intentionally starting crap. At least we were on topic, even if it turned into a silly p*ssing match. Fatality was just purposely trying to be a d*ck.

He didn't single me out because I'm a "senior member". I believe Fatality has been here for quite some time too. He singled me out because I am the "chick" and to him, that makes it automatically "all my fault". This same attitude is repeated over and over again on here. Most of the time I am not even sarcastic as I was with you.

ah. so you debate your point, which was originally sarcastic, multiple times. and then finish with "i was being sarcastic."

sorry, i can't tolerate you. you are the first person i'll be blocking. i won't come into this thread anymore.

enjoy life.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
I have no interest in seducing anyone. It's the man's job to pursue the woman anyway and I'm not interested in finding a man, thanks.

dumbass

 

[zerocelcius]

bump

 

[TopPlayerette]

You called?
Hey Don Juan,
Sorry but I gotta point out the following

2. I don't set the schedule for dates
6. I don't try to control the conversation
I actually let the men lead, or make him feel like he is leading, then the game makes much more fun. :crackup:

p.s. you can't change a playerette.

I just read an article about women who are playerettes and some of the warning signs:

1. When the conversation is going too smoothly.
2. When she is always setting the schedule for dates. (She always wants to be in the driver's seat).
3. When she doesn't show signs of affection in public with you.
4. If she is not returning your phone calls within a reasonable amount of time.
5. If she is attractive. (A must)
6. She always seems to direct the conversation and trys to control the conversation.
7. Is vague about how she spends her free time, and avoids talking about it.
8. Just when you think she is more trouble than she is worth, suddenly she does something that seems to make it worth it (like a favor), to lure you back in her web.


I haven't seen too much discussion about Playerettes here lately. I would like to know some of your personal experiences with these dangerous creatures both positive and negative; particularly from the more experienced DJ's, and how you dealt with it. Especially if you were able to turn the table or even convert her to change her Playerette ways.

 

[Christina]

I was highly intrigued by this topic (even joined this sight just so I can post here)....do you guys reckon that perhaps there are no playerettes? Just lots of guys who did not meet her particular needs (both emotionally and physically).

Why I say this is cos I was scared I was going down the playeretter path as I did not feel the emotional connection with quite a few guys and hence got away with a lot of the control in terms of setting the rules or agenda. I was able to keep around 3 guys on the go in that they would regularly call/msg to see how I was going, with a hope of something eventuating.........

It was not until I met these cousins in a club...both appeared really confident and both were HOT...so I did the first one...there was no problems as he had a need, I had a need, our needs were mutually fulfilled without problems....but then I made the mistake of doing the second cousin (please dont judge...they were really hot! lol)...but then fell hook line and sinker, without even knowing why....(well maybe I have clues...if anyone is interested I am happy to share - although I have suspiscion it will be used for evil! lol)...so now I reckon that perhaps there is no such thing as players/playerettes, it just depends whether a person has met someone that meets most of their needs.

 

[stove]

I have kind of dated a playerette

From an evolutionary point of view it is brilliant her goal to get as many men as she can to support her and her children.

They will probally have one that she will take as her main mate, probally the physically strongest, but then have several others that she uses to do things for her.

Best way to play a playerette, is to let her know exactly what your after. She will be very accomidating. If you want sex , go for it, but going for the relationship you will have to understand she is going to cheat on you with other guys.